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over a year ago
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I think this site needs to have a NOT INTERESTED button installed.
It would save a lot of time and people who don’t want to reply to messages could just hit the button - the recipient would get the message and life would be a lot happier. It would also mean that the person sending the first message would not be a lengthy to contact the person again.
What’s everyone’s thoughts? |
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I hate when someone doesn’t take the hint, sometimes you don’t want to block them as you sometimes seem them at clubs etc but you are fed up with them messaging all the time trying it on
One guy in particular we block on sight, he’s always got a new profile every other day, he goes to a club that we goto hence why he’d message but he was told from the start it’s never happening but he wouldn’t take the hint, 3 messages in and boom cock pics! So now we just block him on sight and ignore him at the club due to it, it’s a shame it’s came to that but needs must
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"Or people could just take a deleted/unreplied message as a “no thank you”"
Some guys never do, they think that if you didn’t reply that maybe your mailbox was too full and you didn’t see it (which sometimes can happen)
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over a year ago
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"Or people could just take a deleted/unreplied message as a “no thank you”"
The button would save any nasty replies and would cancel out them contacting you again.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think this site needs to have a NOT INTERESTED button installed.
It would save a lot of time and people who don’t want to reply to messages could just hit the button - the recipient would get the message and life would be a lot happier. It would also mean that the person sending the first message would not be a lengthy to contact the person again.
What’s everyone’s thoughts?"
Stick this in the site suggestions forum, so admin might read it. |
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over a year ago
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"Or you can just block?"
Again....
It’s about the person sending the message getting some sort of reply. Even to say we are not interested!
The button would mean that the person has been replied to, they can’t message the person again.
Often people who get ignored or deleted straight away feel shitty and come on here and show their anger on posts!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Message read no reply = not interested
Message read/deleted = not interested
Message read/ your now blocked = not interested
You wouldn’t go up someone in a bar and say please don’t tell me to fuck off  |
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"Message read no reply = not interested
Message read/deleted = not interested
Message read/ your now blocked = not interested
You wouldn’t go up someone in a bar and say please don’t tell me to fuck off "
Message read, reply received and they are currently sucking your cock equals they are interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Message read no reply = not interested
Message read/deleted = not interested
Message read/ your now blocked = not interested
You wouldn’t go up someone in a bar and say please don’t tell me to fuck off
Message read, reply received and they are currently sucking your cock equals they are interested. "
Check yir inbox |
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"I think this site needs to have a NOT INTERESTED button installed.
It would save a lot of time and people who don’t want to reply to messages could just hit the button - the recipient would get the message and life would be a lot happier. It would also mean that the person sending the first message would not be a lengthy to contact the person again.
What’s everyone’s thoughts?"
Why not just have a little common sense?!
Take the hint?!
Plus, Sometimes the 'not interested' comes after a few messages when you realise you are on different waves! |
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"Or you can just block?
Again....
It’s about the person sending the message getting some sort of reply. Even to say we are not interested!
The button would mean that the person has been replied to, they can’t message the person again.
Often people who get ignored or deleted straight away feel shitty and come on here and show their anger on posts!
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I am going to try to put this correctly lol
The site does not say that you are entitled to a reply if you message someone or that if you post of the forum someone will pick up your comment.
It is 'nice' to get a reply either positive or negative to get some kind of 'closure' but one is not entitled to one.
If a no reply drags you down or you feel the need to express anger on posts cos of no reply to your messages.... maybe review the way you approach the site.
Hope this makes sense
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"I think this site needs to have a NOT INTERESTED button installed.
It would save a lot of time and people who don’t want to reply to messages could just hit the button - the recipient would get the message and life would be a lot happier. It would also mean that the person sending the first message would not be a lengthy to contact the person again.
What’s everyone’s thoughts?"
its already availible its called the block button |
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over a year ago
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Rightly or wrongly I choose to block someone whom says no, reads and deletes or has been read and not replied in a week or so. Not out of malice but it save ME from read messaging someone hence annoying them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Rightly or wrongly I choose to block someone whom says no, reads and deletes or has been read and not replied in a week or so. Not out of malice but it save ME from read messaging someone hence annoying them. "
That's a good idea. You can't remember every profile you message. Saves all parties the hassle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't think it will get put in place to be honest I myself very often say I'm not interested yet they still keep chatting hoping they can change my mind I'm sure all women an couples experience this so I just tend to block to save time I use my block as a filter  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single guy I understand it's hard because you've got so many variables against you but if you don't get a reply you've got to take it on the chin and move on |
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