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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Getting to know people is hard work. Don't help when they don't even care to look at your profile.
Sometimes it takes a few seconds to get to know another person yeah
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Getting to know people is hard work. Don't help when they don't even care to look at your profile.
Sometimes it takes a few seconds to get to know another person yeah
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How do you know they not looked at your profile?
They can turn of "show who I looked at" in privacy settings.
I just looked at your profile but won't show in that list  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Getting to know people is hard work. Don't help when they don't even care to look at your profile.
Sometimes it takes a few seconds to get to know another person yeah
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I will delete emails straight away now if they have no pic on their profile. Reason being I recently had my fab profile shown around my work by a sad excuse of a bloke. Had to lock my account down |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Getting to know people is hard work. Don't help when they don't even care to look at your profile.
Sometimes it takes a few seconds to get to know another person yeah
I will delete emails straight away now if they have no pic on their profile. Reason being I recently had my fab profile shown around my work by a sad excuse of a bloke. Had to lock my account down"
Wow, that's low. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sorry to hear about some problems with users and wasters who are the real problem.
Believe in freedom of expression!!!
Sexual expression is a good thing and frankly I'm not afraid to say that to anyone.....
I stand by my word.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry to hear about some problems with users and wasters who are the real problem.
Believe in freedom of expression!!!
Sexual expression is a good thing and frankly I'm not afraid to say that to anyone.....
I stand by my word.
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You stand by your word... as we all do to an extent... can I ask... do you make your choice of lifestyle, i.e. swinging known to everyone? By that I mean family, friends and workmates????
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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago
Blantyre |
"People who really know me yeah they know. And I'm happy "
By that i guess the people you tell really know you. But question was, does your FAMILY know your on here.? And if they found out by someone spreading it all around then would you still say . Im happy . ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Getting to know people is hard work. Don't help when they don't even care to look at your profile.
Sometimes it takes a few seconds to get to know another person yeah
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I delete without reading. States in my profile if people ever take the time to read it that I will contact men if wanting. Not that we need to explain ourselves but hopefully you will see that the ratio on this mean that women and couples and maybe tv get a fair few more mails than guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Getting to know people is hard work. Don't help when they don't even care to look at your profile.
Sometimes it takes a few seconds to get to know another person yeah
I will delete emails straight away now if they have no pic on their profile. Reason being I recently had my fab profile shown around my work by a sad excuse of a bloke. Had to lock my account down"
That’s awful part of the reason why I don’t give a face pic till I know someone, I don’t want my private life spread across town |
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"Getting to know people is hard work. Don't help when they don't even care to look at your profile.
Sometimes it takes a few seconds to get to know another person yeah
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All those seconds quickly add up, especially when you know straight off that they aren’t what you are looking for but they message anyway. But yes your profile would literally take a second to read... there is nothing to it 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I delete without reading if:
*there's no profile picture/empty profile- I've no interest in lucky dips, there's no excuse not to make an effort with your profile (and I'm hidden from "who looks at me" lists)
*you're not local-whats the point, I'm looking to meet not swap pics or chat endlessly
*message title is abusive-self explanatory surely
*their profile says they are married/attached- again I'm not interested so what's the point in replying
A deleted message without reply can be avoided by simply reading my profile and being respectful of my wishes/preferences.
It's very simple really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I delete without reading if:
*there's no profile picture/empty profile- I've no interest in lucky dips, there's no excuse not to make an effort with your profile (and I'm hidden from "who looks at me" lists)
*you're not local-whats the point, I'm looking to meet not swap pics or chat endlessly
*message title is abusive-self explanatory surely
*their profile says they are married/attached- again I'm not interested so what's the point in replying
A deleted message without reply can be avoided by simply reading my profile and being respectful of my wishes/preferences.
It's very simple really "
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Yes. Your picture, verification tick, user name, age, gender, title of your message and the first 12 words of your message come up. If any of that looks shit.... why bother it will only lead to wasting time we don’t have. I can asses that and delete it in under 2 seconds. It’s very convenient. If more women did that they might stick around on here and we wouldn’t have a ratio of 10 to one.
I would not let a man message on here unless he had a verification from a woman, social or club visit. Most of them probably put burning bags of dog shit on door steps as kids. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. Your picture, verification tick, user name, age, gender, title of your message and the first 12 words of your message come up. If any of that looks shit.... why bother it will only lead to wasting time we don’t have. I can asses that and delete it in under 2 seconds. It’s very convenient. If more women did that they might stick around on here and we wouldn’t have a ratio of 10 to one.
I would not let a man message on here unless he had a verification from a woman, social or club visit. Most of them probably put burning bags of dog shit on door steps as kids. "
LOL; I did that (chappy door run)
oh well my luck is out on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Getting to know people is hard work. Don't help when they don't even care to look at your profile.
Sometimes it takes a few seconds to get to know another person yeah
I will delete emails straight away now if they have no pic on their profile. Reason being I recently had my fab profile shown around my work by a sad excuse of a bloke. Had to lock my account down"
Can't believe someone would do that, WTF! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any messages with cock avatars and silhouette pics it's instant delete without looking at profile. If no green tick boxes display it's another instant delete |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any messages with cock avatars and silhouette pics it's instant delete without looking at profile. If no green tick boxes display it's another instant delete"
Oh forgot to add message content and username too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t bother reading if it’s a cock pic or horrible username
A profile is a first impression... it counts "
Definitely this.. some names totally put me off.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Getting to know people is hard work. Don't help when they don't even care to look at your profile.
Sometimes it takes a few seconds to get to know another person yeah
I will delete emails straight away now if they have no pic on their profile. Reason being I recently had my fab profile shown around my work by a sad excuse of a bloke. Had to lock my account down
Can't believe someone would do that, WTF!
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Yeah luckily for me it so happened to be a good mate he showed cos he knew the fella would be embarrassed. Lmao just as well I had hidden the other public pics on my profile when this person had started emailing me. Pure creep wouldn't say who he was at the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unless its a "let's fuck now" message we reply with at least a no thanks, if someone has made an effort with a message we will make an effort to at least answer it |
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By *omo65Man
over a year ago
edinburgh |
I dont have a cock pic on profile and use a simple user name,not offensive in any way. I try to message politely but still messages get deleted un read or read and ignored.if pic asked for I send. Yeah there dick heads wasters and fake guys on here. But think some women are to. |
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By *ubbly2012Woman
over a year ago
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"Getting to know people is hard work. Don't help when they don't even care to look at your profile.
Sometimes it takes a few seconds to get to know another person yeah
How do you know they not looked at your profile?
They can turn of "show who I looked at" in privacy settings.
I just looked at your profile but won't show in that list "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Getting to know people is hard work. Don't help when they don't even care to look at your profile.
Sometimes it takes a few seconds to get to know another person yeah
I will delete emails straight away now if they have no pic on their profile. Reason being I recently had my fab profile shown around my work by a sad excuse of a bloke. Had to lock my account down
Can't believe someone would do that, WTF!
Yeah luckily for me it so happened to be a good mate he showed cos he knew the fella would be embarrassed. Lmao just as well I had hidden the other public pics on my profile when this person had started emailing me. Pure creep wouldn't say who he was at the time"
Jesus! Idiot. Hopefully all good now |
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"Lmao welcome to fab , even folk that “ know “ u will do it or simply dingy u for no reason the clique in here is unbelievable at times "
Never experienced this so called "clique" in the 6 years being on here.
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"Lmao welcome to fab , even folk that “ know “ u will do it or simply dingy u for no reason the clique in here is unbelievable at times
Never experienced this so called "clique" in the 6 years being on here.
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Apparently people who've been here a long time and chat regularly in the forums are a clique  |
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"Lmao welcome to fab , even folk that “ know “ u will do it or simply dingy u for no reason the clique in here is unbelievable at times
Never experienced this so called "clique" in the 6 years being on here.
Apparently people who've been here a long time and chat regularly in the forums are a clique "
Ah that "clique"lol.
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