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I had a very disappointing meet this morning. He arrived at mine at 9am and after some trouble performing I discovered he was at a meet last night til 4am. No wonder I wasn’t able to get any!!!
Is there a swingers etiquette on how long you should leave til the next meet? |
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"I had a very disappointing meet this morning. He arrived at mine at 9am and after some trouble performing I discovered he was at a meet last night til 4am. No wonder I wasn’t able to get any!!!
Is there a swingers etiquette on how long you should leave til the next meet?"
No idea for guys but ladies need to wait till I’ve showered changed outfit and redone makeup .  |
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over a year ago
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"I had a very disappointing meet this morning. He arrived at mine at 9am and after some trouble performing I discovered he was at a meet last night til 4am. No wonder I wasn’t able to get any!!!
Is there a swingers etiquette on how long you should leave til the next meet?
No idea for guys but ladies need to wait till I’ve showered changed outfit and redone makeup . "
If I was a TV, that would still take three to four years. Five, if I had to shave my legs. |
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"I had a very disappointing meet this morning. He arrived at mine at 9am and after some trouble performing I discovered he was at a meet last night til 4am. No wonder I wasn’t able to get any!!!
Is there a swingers etiquette on how long you should leave til the next meet?"
Never mind etiquette hes an idiot your hot as hell. His loss x |
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"I had a very disappointing meet this morning. He arrived at mine at 9am and after some trouble performing I discovered he was at a meet last night til 4am. No wonder I wasn’t able to get any!!!
Is there a swingers etiquette on how long you should leave til the next meet?"
Maybe his commonsense should have warned him that he wouldn't be performing at his best. The same commonsense that you will now use when he asks for another chance.
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
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"I had a very disappointing meet this morning. He arrived at mine at 9am and after some trouble performing I discovered he was at a meet last night til 4am. No wonder I wasn’t able to get any!!!
Is there a swingers etiquette on how long you should leave til the next meet?"
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Sounds like it was an anticlimax  |
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"Is there a swingers etiquette on how long you should leave til the next meet?"
You mean there could have been a chance of a second meet with this guy to disappoint you again?
Think it’s not the etiquette of meeting you need lessons in it is in choosing better people to share yourself with. 
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over a year ago
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"Long enough for the precum to crust over and the moist gusset to dry 
And his cold to clear up?"
They were dry bogies...I wouldn't meet a sniveller ya know  |
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"Long enough for the precum to crust over and the moist gusset to dry
And his cold to clear up?
They were dry bogies...I wouldn't meet a sniveller ya know "
I'll make a mental note of that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is there a swingers etiquette on how long you should leave til the next meet?
You mean there could have been a chance of a second meet with this guy to disappoint you again?
Think it’s not the etiquette of meeting you need lessons in it is in choosing better people to share yourself with.
Mr S "
I think you have missed the point. It read to me how long the guy should have waited between meets, i.e. longer than 5 hours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cant fault the guys feast or famine approach
Well, he’ll no be getting a piece at my door again!!!"
Lol I'm with you here, canny perform there's the door! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What a dick! I wouldn’t sleep with someone had they had someone else less than 6 hours before me. I think it’s just nice to focus on one person at a time
I think at least a week between meets is etiquette in my book.
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"I had a very disappointing meet this morning. He arrived at mine at 9am and after some trouble performing I discovered he was at a meet last night til 4am. No wonder I wasn’t able to get any!!!
Is there a swingers etiquette on how long you should leave til the next meet?"
Arsehole springs to mind |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol he is a greedy man
Oh well there is no etiquette o that sense.
May be we should have a Fab prison for that kind of offence lol.
X"
I’m quite shocked he was even honest enough to tell you he had a meet earlier in the day
Perhaps he was arranging meets keeping his option open in case someone cancelled last minute then it happened and he didn’t want to let you down
Either way depends more on how you feel, do you just want random or someone to be exclusively your play toy ?
The fact he’s turned up is the only etiquette I’d be worried about at least he’s not all talk |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How on earth did this guy get one meet, never mind two within a few hours of each other. He probably didn't realise he wouldn't be able to perform, usually guys can recover within an hour, but if he hadn't slept...
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"Lol he is a greedy man
Oh well there is no etiquette o that sense.
May be we should have a Fab prison for that kind of offence lol.
X
I’m quite shocked he was even honest enough to tell you he had a meet earlier in the day
Perhaps he was arranging meets keeping his option open in case someone cancelled last minute then it happened and he didn’t want to let you down
Either way depends more on how you feel, do you just want random or someone to be exclusively your play toy ?
The fact he’s turned up is the only etiquette I’d be worried about at least he’s not all talk"
We knew each other intimately for quite some time. Then we took a break from one another, he messaged me out the blue.
It was a for old times sake thing, he used to be really dependable! |
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over a year ago
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"Was he trying to take maximum advantage of his wife being away for a weekend?
I don’t play with married men."
To be fair, it doesn't say that on your profile.
And he might have lied. |
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"Was he trying to take maximum advantage of his wife being away for a weekend?
I don’t play with married men.
To be fair, it doesn't say that on your profile.
And he might have lied."
Men lying!!! No!!!! |
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"Was he trying to take maximum advantage of his wife being away for a weekend?
I don’t play with married men.
To be fair, it doesn't say that on your profile.
And he might have lied.
Men lying!!! No!!!! "
Come on now lieing isn't gender specific ...unless asked does my arse look big in this then 109 per cent of men will lie... |
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"Was he trying to take maximum advantage of his wife being away for a weekend?
I don’t play with married men.
To be fair, it doesn't say that on your profile.
And he might have lied.
Men lying!!! No!!!! "
It has happened on rare occasions.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was he trying to take maximum advantage of his wife being away for a weekend?
I don’t play with married men.
To be fair, it doesn't say that on your profile.
And he might have lied.
Men lying!!! No!!!!
Come on now lieing isn't gender specific ...unless asked does my arse look big in this then 109 per cent of men will lie..."
I can't see your arse from that photo, you'll need to turn round so I can lie to you.  |
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By *atsnTitsCouple
over a year ago
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That’s shit!!. Imagine getting up at 9am on a Sunday and having that. Lollll I wouldn’t have been happy and demanded he went to Tesco and got me a Reece’s egg at least then I would have got some sort of satisfaction |
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Perhaps, like most guys he didn't want to waste the opportunity of a meet.
He may have thought that the next meet might not be for another few months or more and so didn't want to let you pass him by.  |
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"That’s shit!!. Imagine getting up at 9am on a Sunday and having that. Lollll I wouldn’t have been happy and demanded he went to Tesco and got me a Reece’s egg at least then I would have got some sort of satisfaction "
Dont encourage Janet with Reeces, it will only end badly |
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By *atsnTitsCouple
over a year ago
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"That’s shit!!. Imagine getting up at 9am on a Sunday and having that. Lollll I wouldn’t have been happy and demanded he went to Tesco and got me a Reece’s egg at least then I would have got some sort of satisfaction
Dont encourage Janet with Reeces, it will only end badly "
Hahahaha never. Can’t beat some Reece in ur life  . I’m going to go on and on and onnnnnnn until I get one of those eggs. I am so desperate for one I’m thinking of doing an online shop just to get one delivered pmsl  |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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There’s lots of reasons why a guy might not be able to perform. I’ve been disappointed at times too and there were no excuses! Happens to us all. You know what the guy is like OP on a good day so only you know if he’s worth another chance. |
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If you've met before and not had problems then its upto you whether you give him another chance.
As for how long between meets well how long is a piece of string as everyones idea of what is right might not be someone elses.
Perhaps it was a case of striking while the iron was hot for him in that he got two meets a day apart and took the opertunity while it was there |
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"I had a very disappointing meet this morning. He arrived at mine at 9am and after some trouble performing I discovered he was at a meet last night til 4am. No wonder I wasn’t able to get any!!!
Is there a swingers etiquette on how long you should leave til the next meet?"
hope his previous meet was clean  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you've met before and not had problems then its upto you whether you give him another chance.
As for how long between meets well how long is a piece of string as everyones idea of what is right might not be someone elses.
Perhaps it was a case of striking while the iron was hot for him in that he got two meets a day apart and took the opertunity while it was there "
Two meets in one day. Some of us would settle for two in one decade. I'd still be knackered though. |
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"I had a very disappointing meet this morning. He arrived at mine at 9am and after some trouble performing I discovered he was at a meet last night til 4am. No wonder I wasn’t able to get any!!!
Is there a swingers etiquette on how long you should leave til the next meet?"
You should have messaged me I would have helped |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow, most struggle to get one meet a month never mind two meets within a few hours. What was his secret?"
Haha if we knew we would all have a thread bout us |
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