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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What Frustrates You With Fab, if anything does ?
Is it timewasters ?
Is it Cock Pics ?
Is it the forums ?
Is it Peoples age range, not being able to contact them ?
Is it cause people being bitchy to others on forum cause they dislike them ?
Admin not taking action against directing, cammers in the wrong room or are they in the wrong room ?
Theres a lot of things I don't like on fab but there is actually more I do like.
I've experienced a lot on here and learn to let a lot just slip by.
Personally, timewasters used to be my pet hate but as I became more experienced I don't usually get that kind of hassle anymore!! 
So as asked above, What Frustrates You With Fab, if anything does ?
Hopefully this will just be a post of what people find frustrating on fab as everyones views are different
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"... the focus on negative aspects 
Awww. Ffs nasty, I never thought of that one. 
It's nawty... not nasty... seee negative again lol  "
pmslllllllllllllllllll
 I'm never typing from my phone again nawty, love ya loads
gonna be negative and toss this fecking phone out the car |
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"... the focus on negative aspects
Awww. Ffs nasty, I never thought of that one.
It's nawty... not nasty... seee negative again lol
pmslllllllllllllllllll
I'm never typing from my phone again nawty, love ya loads
gonna be negative and toss this fecking phone out the car "
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The focus on negative annoys me... not as much as the nastiness that seems to be a prerequisite for some people. I can put my hands up and say I’ve bitten a fair few times but I’m gettimg better at ignoring the trolls
K x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have only been here a couple of weeks but a couple of Fab specific things that annoy me (trolls and timewasters are everywhere...)
Fab has alcohol and smoking, but not drugs on its profile. While I am aware that drugs are illegal and therefore Fab isn't going to make this an option, I wish there was a more subtle way to express this explicitly on the profile itself, rather than have to ask.
Also, I wish there was a way to mark profiles that I'm not interested in. Most users use initials for names, usernames are often not very unique or easy to remember and profile pictures change. I don't want to block these people, I just don't want to keep clicking on their profile to realise "ah, that's that person that is hot but smokes" or whatever else makes them not for me!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The nastiness and bitchiness on the forum. There's really no need for it. Live and let live people!! I also hate getting dirty and obscene first messages. No need for that either lol. I just block them  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mines is when people don't read your profile. Mine clearly states not meeting but then they ask to meet and spit the dummy out when you reply that your not meeting. No big hassle it just gets them blocked but can be a pain. If they read the profile to begin with they could save themselves the hurt of rejection that makes them so hurt they need to be abusive but suppose it helps filter out those I wouldn't want to meet anyway |
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"We have only been here a couple of weeks but a couple of Fab specific things that annoy me (trolls and timewasters are everywhere...)
Fab has alcohol and smoking, but not drugs on its profile. While I am aware that drugs are illegal and therefore Fab isn't going to make this an option, I wish there was a more subtle way to express this explicitly on the profile itself, rather than have to ask.
Also, I wish there was a way to mark profiles that I'm not interested in. Most users use initials for names, usernames are often not very unique or easy to remember and profile pictures change. I don't want to block these people, I just don't want to keep clicking on their profile to realise "ah, that's that person that is hot but smokes" or whatever else makes them not for me!
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Use your notes for things like you’ve mentioned
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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repetitive statuses, whether they are asking about cjs (same people going no need to update)
the im leaving ones (ten meets later faith restored)
the follow on statuses (girl wants 420 numerous guys then looking for chilled out 420 meets)
plus the attitude towards single guys, mainly from other guys, has got pretty boring.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it's the negativity and the need to point out the mistakes of others.
None of us are perfect, and you can't always tell if comments are being left in jest or if the person leaving them is actually that nasty.
For example, spelling. I look at things sometimes and it annoys the hell out of me, but I say nothing because not everyone can spell and some might have conditions that cause them to make mistakes. Christ even I get things wrong sometimes.
As long as you know what that person is trying to say, does it really matter?
You wouldn't poke fun at a child for not being able to spell properly, so why do it to an adult?
That's just one example but there are lots more.
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People not reading or choosing to ignore your profile then messaging asking for something you dont do
The "im in your area in an hour, fancy a fuck?" Messages... seriously, has it ever worked? 
People who spit the dummy when you make it quite clear no pics does really mean no meet....
Thats just for starters |
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"Being told what to wear on a meet
Unwanted cock pics on first messages
Men almost begging when u say no
and getting called babe or sweetheart by guys i dont know
All of the above "
Yep. That about sums it up. Add to that last one toots, hun, sweet cheeks, etc |
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"Being told what to wear on a meet
Unwanted cock pics on first messages
Men almost begging when u say no
and getting called babe or sweetheart by guys i dont know
All of the above
Yep. That about sums it up. Add to that last one toots, hun, sweet cheeks, etc "
We hate this as well, we can call each other these or similar but when a guy trys it in with V with this nonsense it a big no no.
Other than that just people in general lol G |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The focus on negative annoys me... not as much as the nastiness that seems to be a prerequisite for some people. I can put my hands up and say I’ve bitten a fair few times but I’m gettimg better at ignoring the trolls
K x"
k is right same here |
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"Th constant use of the “their loss” phrase  "
I had that the other day when i said no thanks to someone expecting me to drop everything and drive an hour to them right away.... was seemingly "your loss"... "you could have been shagged tonight"...
He still couldnt understand it when i pointed out it would only be someones loss if it was something they wanted..
The clownshoe sent another 3 messages before i ended up blocking |
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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago
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Have to go along with the negativity in the forums . People asking about thier fantasies etc and getting tore appart by the trolls . Yet the same people would not tell thier own families they are on a swinging site . Live and let live for us . |
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"Have to go along with the negativity in the forums . People asking about thier fantasies etc and getting tore appart by the trolls . Yet the same people would not tell thier own families they are on a swinging site . Live and let live for us ."
Agreed, the raincloud of doom irritates me too. Never a positive comment to be had regardless of subject. Very tiresome. |
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By *atsnTitsCouple
over a year ago
Land Of Naughtiness |
"Dirty finger nails wrapped around a c@ck or holding open the burst kebab ! Yuck !!"
Pmsl exactly this for me. Dirty finger nails are just clarty puts me right off that and long nails on a man. Hahhaha Mr likes a kebab no sure bout a burst kebab. Hahhaha what a phrase lolll x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Goal oriented couples who chat for quite a few message, get to exchanging pics then they block or don’t reply. Plain rude or don’t have the bottle to say no thanks. Manners cost nothing.
Glad we got that off our chests! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Arse kissers.
Guys who will say anything to try and improve their chances with women.
Pandering on the forums.
People who fish for compliments. It screams insecurity.
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In this order-
Timewasters/ Non Genuine folk, messages that contain 1 or 2 words (eg- Messaged by a guy who sent me 2 messages, 1st said 'Suck?' The 2nd 'Wank?' Don't know if he was calling me one?) And Gritty pics, People with dirty fingernails, Brown fingers from smoking and recently saw a picture on a profile of a woman with a jar of Pataks curry sauce jammed in her kooch- very unappealing |
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1 thing that while maybe not annoying as such but always makes me think so fuck are the updates from folk telling us what they're up to with hubby. "In bed waiting for hubby coming upstairs". "Just had amazing sex with hubby". So fuck!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People clearly not reading profiles and blindly sending out clearly random messages assuming you are desperate for sex.
Bitchy, touchy and bitter jealous people who have clearly had bad past experiences and take all of this to fab. The forums also reflect this.
Not forgetting sheer negativity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Deleting messages without reading, that's a whole new level of arrogance. "
Hate it
Understand it sometimes though the ladies prob delete around 100 a day
A get it but it's sore |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When i get messages from people moaning bout how many messages i get a day....its like 5 if im lucky not 100s ect lol dont use that as an excuse to guilt me into replying! Or guys that message asking for other chat platforms to show their pic as they need to be discreet ect. Im not discreet or hiding or ashamed so clearly we have nothing in common from the get go, also guys cock pics no amount of angling ect will make a 4inch cock look like an 8 n if it is convincing your just disappointing the lady expect that to get stilletoed |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When i get messages from people moaning bout how many messages i get a day....its like 5 if im lucky not 100s ect lol dont use that as an excuse to guilt me into replying! Or guys that message asking for other chat platforms to show their pic as they need to be discreet ect. Im not discreet or hiding or ashamed so clearly we have nothing in common from the get go, also guys cock pics no amount of angling ect will make a 4inch cock look like an 8 n if it is convincing your just disappointing the lady expect that to get stilletoed"
ffs, nothing wrong with a 4incher |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When i get messages from people moaning bout how many messages i get a day....its like 5 if im lucky not 100s ect lol dont use that as an excuse to guilt me into replying! Or guys that message asking for other chat platforms to show their pic as they need to be discreet ect. Im not discreet or hiding or ashamed so clearly we have nothing in common from the get go, also guys cock pics no amount of angling ect will make a 4inch cock look like an 8 n if it is convincing your just disappointing the lady expect that to get stilletoed
ffs, nothing wrong with a 4incher "
Know from experience do you? Need to upgrade that pegging dildo peter! Nothing wrong with 4 inches but lying about it is wrong! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"When i get messages from people moaning bout how many messages i get a day....its like 5 if im lucky not 100s ect lol dont use that as an excuse to guilt me into replying! Or guys that message asking for other chat platforms to show their pic as they need to be discreet ect. Im not discreet or hiding or ashamed so clearly we have nothing in common from the get go, also guys cock pics no amount of angling ect will make a 4inch cock look like an 8 n if it is convincing your just disappointing the lady expect that to get stilletoed
ffs, nothing wrong with a 4incher
Know from experience do you? Need to upgrade that pegging dildo peter! Nothing wrong with 4 inches but lying about it is wrong! Lol"
lol, agree with the lying bit, its just not British |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing really springs to mind
I have all my filters set to what I’m looking for and yes I have ticked off the I’m in your age range and I have no problems with the site at all
Yes there is bitching and squabbling etc in the Forums but hey such is life.
So no I’m happy with Fab, it still fills the niche I like although unfortunately I am now 10 years or so older than I was when I first came on and that is approx 5 years or so older than most folks upper age parameter but again such is life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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These "cockist" individuals who after a Dirk Diggler trunk endowed monster! Really frustate me.
Some of us mere mortal slightly averaged wee willie winkied ppl. Have feelings and personalities making up for it with stonking good talent in diving with with the Beefius Curtainous for extended periods! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I keep coming back to it and still the same.....wont meet unless your verified!!! Well how the feckity feckity feck am a gonna get verified if no one will meet me. No matter how you try people alway think the worst is it so hard to believe that some guys are genuine nice fellas how just like sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I keep coming back to it and still the same.....wont meet unless your verified!!! Well how the feckity feckity feck am a gonna get verified if no one will meet me. No matter how you try people alway think the worst is it so hard to believe that some guys are genuine nice fellas how just like sex. "
oh and one more but this will annoy some folk i think , wont meet married men! Well its a swinging site is that no the point lol everyone has their reasons for being here we aren't all looking for love. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think today, it is the threads started by individuals who seem set on insulting and antagonising just about everyone else on the forum.
Only two threads to his name, and the forum hackles are up. |
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"I keep coming back to it and still the same.....wont meet unless your verified!!! Well how the feckity feckity feck am a gonna get verified if no one will meet me. No matter how you try people alway think the worst is it so hard to believe that some guys are genuine nice fellas how just like sex. oh and one more but this will annoy some folk i think , wont meet married men! Well its a swinging site is that no the point lol everyone has their reasons for being here we aren't all looking for love. "
Married men are never quite as available as single men. Plus they clock watch which means they don’t stay long enough to satisfy.
I’m not looking for love, but I want someone that’s free when I am and can fuck for hours!
Better with singles, just my opinion! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I keep coming back to it and still the same.....wont meet unless your verified!!! Well how the feckity feckity feck am a gonna get verified if no one will meet me. No matter how you try people alway think the worst is it so hard to believe that some guys are genuine nice fellas how just like sex. oh and one more but this will annoy some folk i think , wont meet married men! Well its a swinging site is that no the point lol everyone has their reasons for being here we aren't all looking for love.
Married men are never quite as available as single men. Plus they clock watch which means they don’t stay long enough to satisfy.
I’m not looking for love, but I want someone that’s free when I am and can fuck for hours!
Better with singles, just my opinion!"
yeah i get what your saying but some married men can fuck for hours and dont clock watch. Oh its hard being a horny man lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I keep coming back to it and still the same.....wont meet unless your verified!!! Well how the feckity feckity feck am a gonna get verified if no one will meet me. No matter how you try people alway think the worst is it so hard to believe that some guys are genuine nice fellas how just like sex. oh and one more but this will annoy some folk i think , wont meet married men! Well its a swinging site is that no the point lol everyone has their reasons for being here we aren't all looking for love.
Married men are never quite as available as single men. Plus they clock watch which means they don’t stay long enough to satisfy.
I’m not looking for love, but I want someone that’s free when I am and can fuck for hours!
Better with singles, just my opinion!
yeah i get what your saying but some married men can fuck for hours and dont clock watch. Oh its hard being a horny man lol x"
It's always a little bit awkward when the wife phones when you have hi cock in you're mouth too - at least single guys have the decency not to answer when their other booty calls ring |
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"I keep coming back to it and still the same.....wont meet unless your verified!!! Well how the feckity feckity feck am a gonna get verified if no one will meet me. No matter how you try people alway think the worst is it so hard to believe that some guys are genuine nice fellas how just like sex. oh and one more but this will annoy some folk i think , wont meet married men! Well its a swinging site is that no the point lol everyone has their reasons for being here we aren't all looking for love.
Married men are never quite as available as single men. Plus they clock watch which means they don’t stay long enough to satisfy.
I’m not looking for love, but I want someone that’s free when I am and can fuck for hours!
Better with singles, just my opinion!
yeah i get what your saying but some married men can fuck for hours and dont clock watch. Oh its hard being a horny man lol x
It's always a little bit awkward when the wife phones when you have hi cock in you're mouth too - at least single guys have the decency not to answer when their other booty calls ring "
pmsllllllllllllll
brilliant
such is the life of a vanilla
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"I keep coming back to it and still the same.....wont meet unless your verified!!! Well how the feckity feckity feck am a gonna get verified if no one will meet me. No matter how you try people alway think the worst is it so hard to believe that some guys are genuine nice fellas how just like sex. oh and one more but this will annoy some folk i think , wont meet married men! Well its a swinging site is that no the point lol everyone has their reasons for being here we aren't all looking for love.
Married men are never quite as available as single men. Plus they clock watch which means they don’t stay long enough to satisfy.
I’m not looking for love, but I want someone that’s free when I am and can fuck for hours!
Better with singles, just my opinion!
yeah i get what your saying but some married men can fuck for hours and dont clock watch. Oh its hard being a horny man lol x
It's always a little bit awkward when the wife phones when you have hi cock in you're mouth too - at least single guys have the decency not to answer when their other booty calls ring "
Hahahahaha
Did you spit it out? |
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"I keep coming back to it and still the same.....wont meet unless your verified!!! Well how the feckity feckity feck am a gonna get verified if no one will meet me. No matter how you try people alway think the worst is it so hard to believe that some guys are genuine nice fellas how just like sex. oh and one more but this will annoy some folk i think , wont meet married men! Well its a swinging site is that no the point lol everyone has their reasons for being here we aren't all looking for love.
Married men are never quite as available as single men. Plus they clock watch which means they don’t stay long enough to satisfy.
I’m not looking for love, but I want someone that’s free when I am and can fuck for hours!
Better with singles, just my opinion!
yeah i get what your saying but some married men can fuck for hours and dont clock watch. Oh its hard being a horny man lol x
It's always a little bit awkward when the wife phones when you have hi cock in you're mouth too - at least single guys have the decency not to answer when their other booty calls ring "
Haha yeah but keep the phone on silent and its all good or on vibrate and use it for something else when it rings. ?????? |
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"I keep coming back to it and still the same.....wont meet unless your verified!!! Well how the feckity feckity feck am a gonna get verified if no one will meet me. No matter how you try people alway think the worst is it so hard to believe that some guys are genuine nice fellas how just like sex. oh and one more but this will annoy some folk i think , wont meet married men! Well its a swinging site is that no the point lol everyone has their reasons for being here we aren't all looking for love.
Married men are never quite as available as single men. Plus they clock watch which means they don’t stay long enough to satisfy.
I’m not looking for love, but I want someone that’s free when I am and can fuck for hours!
Better with singles, just my opinion!
yeah i get what your saying but some married men can fuck for hours and dont clock watch. Oh its hard being a horny man lol x
It's always a little bit awkward when the wife phones when you have hi cock in you're mouth too - at least single guys have the decency not to answer when their other booty calls ring
Hahahahaha
Did you spit it out?"
Maybe this just happened in my head! Haha I dunno!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very little, if anything frustrates me
Lots of the goings on entertain me muchly though "
Agreed.. Most people are scared of me anyway so never any bother in my in box |
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"Mines is when people don't read your profile. Mine clearly states not meeting but then they ask to meet and spit the dummy out when you reply that your not meeting. No big hassle it just gets them blocked but can be a pain. If they read the profile to begin with they could save themselves the hurt of rejection that makes them so hurt they need to be abusive but suppose it helps filter out those I wouldn't want to meet anyway "
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So frustrating 
