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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can I digress slightly, and ask someone to explain the various threesome combinations to an old newbie? It might make things easier when thinking of approaching people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There only are 4 combinations in total , mmf , fmf , fff and mmm , don’t fancy that kinda mmm tho but each to their own  lol"
What about ffm & mfm? Don't they all have different meanings? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I might be wrong but the order of the letters matters. MMF implies bi males, MFM implies straight males. Similarly FFM implies bi females and FMF implies straight females..... The being the placement of the single letter to imply a barrier or not between the other two....? |
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"I might be wrong but the order of the letters matters. MMF implies bi males, MFM implies straight males. Similarly FFM implies bi females and FMF implies straight females..... The being the placement of the single letter to imply a barrier or not between the other two....? "
Ooooo I didn’t know that!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I might be wrong but the order of the letters matters. MMF implies bi males, MFM implies straight males. Similarly FFM implies bi females and FMF implies straight females..... The being the placement of the single letter to imply a barrier or not between the other two....? "
That sounds logical.
Ok, who doesn't want to have an FFM or FMF with me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I might be wrong but the order of the letters matters. MMF implies bi males, MFM implies straight males. Similarly FFM implies bi females and FMF implies straight females..... The being the placement of the single letter to imply a barrier or not between the other two....?
Ooooo I didn’t know that! "
Neither did I. Mr said to me stop putting mmf and start putting mfm. Didn't give it a thought x |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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"I might be wrong but the order of the letters matters. MMF implies bi males, MFM implies straight males. Similarly FFM implies bi females and FMF implies straight females..... The being the placement of the single letter to imply a barrier or not between the other two....? "
Never knew that, thanks x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would lovd to have one but its do hard to find another female. Do any other couples have this problem? Most woman just delete the messages. Mrs.t"
Sorry for hijacking your thread! I suppose your predicament shows that it's not just single males who have problems getting meets.
Good luck with your search. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I might be wrong but the order of the letters matters. MMF implies bi males, MFM implies straight males. Similarly FFM implies bi females and FMF implies straight females..... The being the placement of the single letter to imply a barrier or not between the other two....? "
Nope sorry, I don't see it this way and I've been swinging a long time.
To many people join and new to the scene and of threesomes and if they put the wrong sequence means they might get the wrong meet or if they are looking for a mmf and they say straight on their profile, total confusing.
I'm gonna look out for that now   |
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"I might be wrong but the order of the letters matters. MMF implies bi males, MFM implies straight males. Similarly FFM implies bi females and FMF implies straight females..... The being the placement of the single letter to imply a barrier or not between the other two....? "
This has always been my understanding in all the years I have been swinging.  |
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"I might be wrong but the order of the letters matters. MMF implies bi males, MFM implies straight males. Similarly FFM implies bi females and FMF implies straight females..... The being the placement of the single letter to imply a barrier or not between the other two....? "
That was my understanding too.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Only place we have had luck with a threesome with a female is in clubs. Not even the slightest sniff of a chance on here. "
I think its because it can be intimidating for a solo female to turn up to a private meet with a couple .., to me there is always a power imbalance which woupd make me nervous beforehand
Whereas at a club you are both already there and that first hurdle of going to meet them is already overcome and if you are all attracted is that bit easier to just get straight to the fun part
There is also the chance when its online that you dont know the couples dynamic and i have personally had the male pretend to be the female and be doing most of the chatting then when i have met them i have worked out that she has kind of been pressured into it to keep him happy rather than it be for her as i was led to believe ... meeting in person at a club you can get a much better vibe of who is up for what
Just some reasons why i think the club thing maybe works better for this kind of meet  |
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"Only place we have had luck with a threesome with a female is in clubs. Not even the slightest sniff of a chance on here.
I think its because it can be intimidating for a solo female to turn up to a private meet with a couple .., to me there is always a power imbalance which woupd make me nervous beforehand
Whereas at a club you are both already there and that first hurdle of going to meet them is already overcome and if you are all attracted is that bit easier to just get straight to the fun part
There is also the chance when its online that you dont know the couples dynamic and i have personally had the male pretend to be the female and be doing most of the chatting then when i have met them i have worked out that she has kind of been pressured into it to keep him happy rather than it be for her as i was led to believe ... meeting in person at a club you can get a much better vibe of who is up for what
Just some reasons why i think the club thing maybe works better for this kind of meet "
I know what you mean, we've been contacted by couple profiles and turns out it's only a guy making excuses as to why it's only one person mailing. We've had some bi and threesomes and would love to have a ffm threesome.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was having this same chat with a friend on here yesterday. I would love to enjoy a ffm but dont have the confidence to be a third person. I’ve enjoyed mffm’s but then I had the confidence of also being with my partner.
Maybe one day I will venture to a club ...... shaking like a leaf |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have had a few threesomes. One was mmf with my male partner of 11 years and he is 100% straight. I had another mmf and those two guys were totally straight as well. I had one with a female friend and a male friend early last year as she's bi curious. So it might have different variations but two males with a female doesn't necessarily mean the two men are bi or gay unless you the woman would want a threesome with two bi or gay men x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've actually been put off meeting couples over the past few years. It's almost like we're treated like performing monkeys for fantasies between the couple or it's just the male who wants to see his wife with an other woman.
Don't get me wrong, I've met some lovely couples but it's just an instant turn off for me when I read "our fantasy" in a message or on a profile.
Bringing another female into the bedroom is an experience, not an experiment  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was having this same chat with a friend on here yesterday. I would love to enjoy a ffm but dont have the confidence to be a third person. I’ve enjoyed mffm’s but then I had the confidence of also being with my partner.
Maybe one day I will venture to a club ...... shaking like a leaf "
My dream 3some was always 3 singles but its too hard to organise |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ll happily volunteer as a single "
Funnily enough there was always enpugh male volunteers finding a girl that then liked us both and all 3 people gelling and then lining up 3 diaries is where it falls down  |
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Being polite, open and honest, asking if it's ok to chat, sending face pics in first message assuring people we are willing have a social meet in a safe public location does nothing to help get a reply.
Maybe we're f**king ugly...
We don't know because we get very little response
Even a wee "No, you look like you both look like you were dropped on your face as a baby" would suffice 
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"I might be wrong but the order of the letters matters. MMF implies bi males, MFM implies straight males. Similarly FFM implies bi females and FMF implies straight females..... The being the placement of the single letter to imply a barrier or not between the other two....?
That was my understanding too.
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And mine |
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