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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago
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We had a dodgy meet like that. Part of Fab life. Turn it into a positive though. Use it as a funny story next time your chatting to people , the great escape type story. Unless of course it went really really bad then you could use it as a warning to other females. Hopefully it was only the fomer. Dont lose faith in Fab though, lots of genuine nice guys on here , just need to adjust your criteria a little . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh dear. 
I’ve had my fair share of bad meets from guy not looking like their pics or the ones that are rude and cocky and even the ones that are all over you like a rash!
The good thing is I ALWAYS meet socially first so I can say ‘no thanks’ and walk away.
My safety is paramount.
Don’t let it put you off.   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yip true really thinking of going to cj,s as to meet people who can become friends ect just I really shy person you cant be that shy if you chose to join a sex site."
iam shy but with couple drinks relax more but always keep my wits about me
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"Has anyone ever made massive mistake in meeting wrong person all was fine phone contact meeting then all changed kind of makes me sick "
Think you need to explain more here.
Always do a social meet that way you know exactly what the persob is like before meeting |
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"Yip true really thinking of going to cj,s as to meet people who can become friends ect just I really shy person you cant be that shy if you chose to join a sex site. iam shy but with couple drinks relax more but always keep my wits about me"
Well we might see each other around xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Talked on fone for meeting at 10pm all was fine met up in hotel and the guy was full of drink and I said sorry no due to the amount he had drank then he started shouting swareing at me calling me f,,,kin time waster making a complete idiot's of him self and really embarising my self the whole hotel corador must of herd will only make sure I know people I can trust and feel safe with my fault for picking non verified males |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Talked on fone for meeting at 10pm all was fine met up in hotel and the guy was full of drink and I said sorry no due to the amount he had drank then he started shouting swareing at me calling me f,,,kin time waster making a complete idiot's of him self and really embarising my self the whole hotel corador must of herd will only make sure I know people I can trust and feel safe with my fault for picking non verified males "
That sounds awful, sorry that happened.
I think meeting well verified people is the safest way to go. I was put off for a while from a bad meet and since then I mainly stick to meeting folk i've already met and going to cjs now and again. It's a shame but just makes life easier. |
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"Talked on fone for meeting at 10pm all was fine met up in hotel and the guy was full of drink and I said sorry no due to the amount he had drank then he started shouting swareing at me calling me f,,,kin time waster making a complete idiot's of him self and really embarising my self the whole hotel corador must of herd will only make sure I know people I can trust and feel safe with my fault for picking non verified males "
Always do a social meet first but this type of thing can happen with anyone not just non verified |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Went to a guys house that i had met previously at mine...big mistake...it was horrible dirty dishes in the sink and rubish laying everywhere...said i wasnt feeling well and left.the thought of it still makes me sick!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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just use your common sense and stay safe. i had a bad meet earlier this year with somebody i had met many times previously and was well verified.
knocked me for six and i have only just starting to chat on here again after 8 months. i let my guard down |
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And I agree with Nawty. Not much to go on.
There are mistakes and... mistakes if you get my drift.
Hope you're ok OP
