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By *issT45 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Social then a hotel
I never accommodate, this is my children's home and I refuse to being strangers into it"
I should have put if u lived alone but respect to u ... I was the same when mine still lived with me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm single so can accom or travel to theirs.
So either at mine or theirs, not fussed but not really into hotel meets I just go with the flow as it's really how we all feel.
If I felt I had to do a social first in a public place then i feel there's some doubt so I wouldn't bother arranging a meet.
Anyways if you do have a meet, just hope you all have a fantastic time
XxX peter |
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"I'm single so can accom or travel to theirs.
So either at mine or theirs, not fussed but not really into hotel meets I just go with the flow as it's really how we all feel.
If I felt I had to do a social first in a public place then i feel there's some doubt so I wouldn't bother arranging a meet.
Anyways if you do have a meet, just hope you all have a fantastic time
XxX peter"
i disagree. Meeting in a public place is a sensible and safe option for single females. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm single so can accom or travel to theirs.
So either at mine or theirs, not fussed but not really into hotel meets I just go with the flow as it's really how we all feel.
If I felt I had to do a social first in a public place then i feel there's some doubt so I wouldn't bother arranging a meet.
Anyways if you do have a meet, just hope you all have a fantastic time
XxX peter
i disagree. Meeting in a public place is a sensible and safe option for single females."
Yes I agree but what I have said is my view for me and me only. As I hardly meet due to keeping my spare time for my kids my time is limited as my kids come first.
But is a social secure, yes it is more secure against meet at theirs or yours but.....
I had a social in Glasgow at a cafe with a female, she was lovely and I arranged it as I had a business meeting to go to an hour later. I said my goodbyes, went great and said we would arrange something later. I went to the meeting and then when out, I went and did some shopping and then drove back to my sisters as I was living at her and her mans place which is 40 miles from Glasgow and the private driveway is a quarter of a mile to get to the house  .
Later that night I got a call to go to London and the next evening, my sister phoned, upset that some woman I met yesterday was peering in her window watching her and her man eat dinner.
the borther-in-law pulled her up and she said she was looking for peter, (she followed me the whole day after the social)
ffs, now what is safe ehhhh
Needless to say, I haven't seen her again in the past 7 years.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Since losing my home and moving in with my son and his family I don’t accom especially with young kids too disrespectful
Therefore after a social I tend to go with the flow whatever the meet is more comfortable with be it their home or a hotel. As I’m not a serial rapist or axe murderer it usually is their home |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Social then meet at mine or theirs. I can accommodate as I don't have kids and if I'm not comfortable with them then they be asked to leave. It's my home so my rules  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Social 1st then meet at mine seen as I picked a 3 month driving ban in November, bit hard to bike 20 miles for a meet and then perform"
Perform ffs, don't tell me you do tricks on yer bike as well.
See you, I feel so inadequate now
I'm gonna start bringing bananas, cucumbers and lurpak with me to a meet so at least we will have a conversation piece if I'm too shy to perform
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"Social 1st then meet at mine seen as I picked a 3 month driving ban in November, bit hard to bike 20 miles for a meet and then perform
Perform ffs, don't tell me you do tricks on yer bike as well.
See you, I feel so inadequate now
I'm gonna start bringing bananas, cucumbers and lurpak with me to a meet so at least we will have a conversation piece if I'm too shy to perform
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is a social the same as meeting for a coffee?"
Yes usually people mean by a social is in a public place for a drink and chat.
Also a social is known as a meet at yours or theirs for just a chat and a giggle.
But its mainly known as a social at a pubic place.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks
You're like the fab oracle...id be stuck without you "
Don't ask me how to kiss properly as I don't know how to explain it, I can only show how to do it.
ffs, was that smooth or wit
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks
You're like the fab oracle...id be stuck without you
Don't ask me how to kiss properly as I don't know how to explain it, I can only show how to do it.
ffs, was that smooth or wit
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It's okay...I got that one covered |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks
You're like the fab oracle...id be stuck without you
Don't ask me how to kiss properly as I don't know how to explain it, I can only show how to do it.
ffs, was that smooth or wit
It's okay...I got that one covered "
Good, good, well the video of me kissing will be on 'Songs of Praise' on Sunday morning at 9am
lollllllllll |
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Brief public/ social meet preferred first (unless Skyped) - mainly to see if there’s a spark ... but there are always exceptions (and not just the fantasy of slipping into her/ their house/ hotel with her naked and blindfolded in bed )) But it’s really what both parties feel comfortable with ... to relax and flirt ...
Although I can accommodate - i prefer & am happy with a local hotel ... but that’s mainly because of the hassle of washing & drying the laundry of the soaked bed linen!!! |
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