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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mmmmmmmmm....dunno.....
As I like ladies it would be terrible double standards if I said yes it does put me off.
So my arse if firmly on the fence for this one.... |
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Some people are biphobic and some people aren't. You'll get a split view, to be honest anyone of any sex that judges based on information completely irrelevant to the situation isn't worth meeting x |
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over a year ago
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It depends..if they are honest about being bisexual or curious it doesn't put me off. However if a man is claiming to be straight but has verifications from Tv/Ts it reeks of desperation, of someone for whom any hole is a goal. And that's off putting |
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"Some people are biphobic and some people aren't. You'll get a split view, to be honest anyone of any sex that judges based on information completely irrelevant to the situation isn't worth meeting x "
why do they have to be phobic most who use these terms do so to try and make others feel as if they are doing wrong.
I myself dont mind anyones sexuality but I prefer not to be involved in sex with bisexual fems (they can get that kick without me) have had partners ask me for ffm meets which I would do for their pleasure but would rather not.
it is possible that some forms of sex just dont float boats without it being a phobia |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"Some people are biphobic and some people aren't. You'll get a split view, to be honest anyone of any sex that judges based on information completely irrelevant to the situation isn't worth meeting x "
Because someone doesn't want to go with someone who is bi they biphobic  really maybe just maybe it's just as simple as a bi person doesn't do it for them
What's next ..smokephobic or accomphobic |
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"Some people are biphobic and some people aren't. You'll get a split view, to be honest anyone of any sex that judges based on information completely irrelevant to the situation isn't worth meeting x
Because someone doesn't want to go with someone who is bi they biphobic really maybe just maybe it's just as simple as a bi person doesn't do it for them
What's next ..smokephobic or accomphobic "
Well it's actually pretty simple. in a MF meet, the bisexuality of either party is an irrelevance. But you know, roll your eyes, and resist learning something. You have a lovely day x |
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"I don’t want to meet bi guys... turn off for me, certainly not bi phobic as I’m bi myself
K x"
The question is, why does it turn you off? It's not a tangible thing. So my question is, what turns you off? |
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"I don’t want to meet bi guys... turn off for me, certainly not bi phobic as I’m bi myself
K x
The question is, why does it turn you off? It's not a tangible thing. So my question is, what turns you off?"
The question was does it turn you off... in answer to your question, anal is associated with bi/gay men... anal turns me off
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"I don’t want to meet bi guys... turn off for me, certainly not bi phobic as I’m bi myself
K x
The question is, why does it turn you off? It's not a tangible thing. So my question is, what turns you off?"
Why does anything turn us off or on? Why does it turn on one person and not another. It's human nature, we often can't explain why certain things don't turn us on. |
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"I don’t want to meet bi guys... turn off for me, certainly not bi phobic as I’m bi myself
K x
The question is, why does it turn you off? It's not a tangible thing. So my question is, what turns you off?
The question was does it turn you off... in answer to your question, anal is associated with bi/gay men... anal turns me off
K x"
So you would be as equally repulsed by any Males or Females who enjoyed anal sex? |
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"I don’t want to meet bi guys... turn off for me, certainly not bi phobic as I’m bi myself
K x
The question is, why does it turn you off? It's not a tangible thing. So my question is, what turns you off?
Why does anything turn us off or on? Why does it turn on one person and not another. It's human nature, we often can't explain why certain things don't turn us on. "
Certainly things like looks, attitude, height, body hair, weight are all tangible things you can see and point too. In a one on one situations saying no bi partners suggests you have a problem with people being with the same sex. |
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"I don’t want to meet bi guys... turn off for me, certainly not bi phobic as I’m bi myself
K x
The question is, why does it turn you off? It's not a tangible thing. So my question is, what turns you off?
The question was does it turn you off... in answer to your question, anal is associated with bi/gay men... anal turns me off
K x
So you would be as equally repulsed by any Males or Females who enjoyed anal sex?"
Don’t think I used the word repulsed... anal turn me off... what’s so hard to understand? The question was about males
K x
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"I don’t want to meet bi guys... turn off for me, certainly not bi phobic as I’m bi myself
K x
The question is, why does it turn you off? It's not a tangible thing. So my question is, what turns you off?
The question was does it turn you off... in answer to your question, anal is associated with bi/gay men... anal turns me off
K x
So you would be as equally repulsed by any Males or Females who enjoyed anal sex?
Don’t think I used the word repulsed... anal turn me off... what’s so hard to understand? The question was about males
K x
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So males who have anal sex with females turn you off? Or just males who have anal sex with males? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t want to meet bi guys... turn off for me, certainly not bi phobic as I’m bi myself
K x
The question is, why does it turn you off? It's not a tangible thing. So my question is, what turns you off?
Why does anything turn us off or on? Why does it turn on one person and not another. It's human nature, we often can't explain why certain things don't turn us on.
Certainly things like looks, attitude, height, body hair, weight are all tangible things you can see and point too. In a one on one situations saying no bi partners suggests you have a problem with people being with the same sex."
What about certain sexual acts or behaviours then. Watersports for example, turns some on and some off, or bukkake etc. To some the sexual act of two people of the same sex doesn't turn them on, where's the difference? You're looking to be offended and try and turn sexual preferences into homophobia |
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"I don’t want to meet bi guys... turn off for me, certainly not bi phobic as I’m bi myself
K x
The question is, why does it turn you off? It's not a tangible thing. So my question is, what turns you off?
The question was does it turn you off... in answer to your question, anal is associated with bi/gay men... anal turns me off
K x
So you would be as equally repulsed by any Males or Females who enjoyed anal sex?
Don’t think I used the word repulsed... anal turn me off... what’s so hard to understand? The question was about males
K x
So males who have anal sex with females turn you off? Or just males who have anal sex with males?"
Is there a reason you picked my comment out of everyone’s to quote/attack? I chose to comment and answer the question put forward by the op n I’m choosing not to answer yours 
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"I don’t want to meet bi guys... turn off for me, certainly not bi phobic as I’m bi myself
K x
The question is, why does it turn you off? It's not a tangible thing. So my question is, what turns you off?
Why does anything turn us off or on? Why does it turn on one person and not another. It's human nature, we often can't explain why certain things don't turn us on.
Certainly things like looks, attitude, height, body hair, weight are all tangible things you can see and point too. In a one on one situations saying no bi partners suggests you have a problem with people being with the same sex."
that dosnt make it a phobia thats an informed decision some fems just dont like being with men who like the boaby |
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"I don’t want to meet bi guys... turn off for me, certainly not bi phobic as I’m bi myself
K x
The question is, why does it turn you off? It's not a tangible thing. So my question is, what turns you off?
Why does anything turn us off or on? Why does it turn on one person and not another. It's human nature, we often can't explain why certain things don't turn us on.
Certainly things like looks, attitude, height, body hair, weight are all tangible things you can see and point too. In a one on one situations saying no bi partners suggests you have a problem with people being with the same sex.
What about certain sexual acts or behaviours then. Watersports for example, turns some on and some off, or bukkake etc. To some the sexual act of two people of the same sex doesn't turn them on, where's the difference? You're looking to be offended and try and turn sexual preferences into homophobia "
Totally... I don’t have a problem with bi guys I just choose not to have sex with them
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"I don’t want to meet bi guys... turn off for me, certainly not bi phobic as I’m bi myself
K x
The question is, why does it turn you off? It's not a tangible thing. So my question is, what turns you off?
Why does anything turn us off or on? Why does it turn on one person and not another. It's human nature, we often can't explain why certain things don't turn us on.
Certainly things like looks, attitude, height, body hair, weight are all tangible things you can see and point too. In a one on one situations saying no bi partners suggests you have a problem with people being with the same sex.that dosnt make it a phobia thats an informed decision some fems just dont like being with men who like the That boaby"
This is interesting, maybe I'm missing out on that information. I'd love to know what it was. Incidentally the amount of interest coming this way that list as straight means that it's a lot more likely you've been with a straight liar than a comfortable bi partner.
People who refuse to meet bi partners of the oppisite sex for one on one play. When all other criteria match is because you are biphobic. Which is within your rights, just recognise your prejudice and be honest with yourself. |
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"I don’t want to meet bi guys... turn off for me, certainly not bi phobic as I’m bi myself
K x
The question is, why does it turn you off? It's not a tangible thing. So my question is, what turns you off?
Why does anything turn us off or on? Why does it turn on one person and not another. It's human nature, we often can't explain why certain things don't turn us on.
Certainly things like looks, attitude, height, body hair, weight are all tangible things you can see and point too. In a one on one situations saying no bi partners suggests you have a problem with people being with the same sex.that dosnt make it a phobia thats an informed decision some fems just dont like being with men who like the That boaby
This is interesting, maybe I'm missing out on that information. I'd love to know what it was. Incidentally the amount of interest coming this way that list as straight means that it's a lot more likely you've been with a straight liar than a comfortable bi partner.
People who refuse to meet bi partners of the oppisite sex for one on one play. When all other criteria match is because you are biphobic. Which is within your rights, just recognise your prejudice and be honest with yourself. "
so ive had bi partners whom I have informed I would rather not be part of your bi kink so I have a phobia.......wrong its a choice am I phobic about some things yup I have no qualms with saying anal sex repulses me thats a phobia the fear of anal sex. Again you accuse of predjudice where there is none you accuse of phobia where there is none.
Also you might "play" a term I dont like I have sex or fuck or shag I dont play |
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"I don’t want to meet bi guys... turn off for me, certainly not bi phobic as I’m bi myself
K x
The question is, why does it turn you off? It's not a tangible thing. So my question is, what turns you off?
Why does anything turn us off or on? Why does it turn on one person and not another. It's human nature, we often can't explain why certain things don't turn us on.
Certainly things like looks, attitude, height, body hair, weight are all tangible things you can see and point too. In a one on one situations saying no bi partners suggests you have a problem with people being with the same sex.that dosnt make it a phobia thats an informed decision some fems just dont like being with men who like the That boaby
This is interesting, maybe I'm missing out on that information. I'd love to know what it was. Incidentally the amount of interest coming this way that list as straight means that it's a lot more likely you've been with a straight liar than a comfortable bi partner.
People who refuse to meet bi partners of the oppisite sex for one on one play. When all other criteria match is because you are biphobic. Which is within your rights, just recognise your prejudice and be honest with yourself. "
Sorry I am not getting where you are trying to go here.
People are on here to please themselves. It is their body, their preference, their call!
Why is it so difficult for some people to understand that people are on here for their own pleasure?!
Some people don't want to meet black women and men? So what? I am not labeling them as racist?! I just say no probs.. your body, your preference, your call. I just focus on people that will meet me!
Some people will meet bi-guys, some will not!
Why the need to put a label or the need to put down people that will or people that won't.
I don't understand that.
Thursday rant over
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By (user no longer on site)
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Who actually cares????
We all have different preferences, don't make us phobics.
I need to lose weight, I won't be everyone's cup of tea, but I will be someone's. I'm not going to be offended or upset because certain people don't like me because I'm the fat bird.
It's a choice, whether others agree with it or not. Doesn't make it wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Who actually cares????
We all have different preferences, don't make us phobics.
I need to lose weight, I won't be everyone's cup of tea, but I will be someone's. I'm not going to be offended or upset because certain people don't like me because I'm the fat bird.
It's a choice, whether others agree with it or not. Doesn't make it wrong. "
*It doesn't make us phobics* |
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"Who actually cares????
We all have different preferences, don't make us phobics.
I need to lose weight, I won't be everyone's cup of tea, but I will be someone's. I'm not going to be offended or upset because certain people don't like me because I'm the fat bird.
It's a choice, whether others agree with it or not. Doesn't make it wrong. "
Let's run with analogy, what if an overweight person worked out and slimmed down. Tonned and fit and size whatever is small. But being discriminated against because they were formally overweight. An insignificant and irrelevant detail.
Not meeting bi partners in MF for no other reason than they are bi is biphobic. Just is. Can't change that. |
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"I don’t want to meet bi guys... turn off for me, certainly not bi phobic as I’m bi myself
K x
The question is, why does it turn you off? It's not a tangible thing. So my question is, what turns you off?
The question was does it turn you off... in answer to your question, anal is associated with bi/gay men... anal turns me off
K x
So you would be as equally repulsed by any Males or Females who enjoyed anal sex?
Don’t think I used the word repulsed... anal turn me off... what’s so hard to understand? The question was about males
K x
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There are, of course, lots of gay and bisexual men who are equally turned off by anal sex. My issue is that you, and many others, equate bisexuality or homosexuality with men having anal sex with each other.
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"I don’t want to meet bi guys... turn off for me, certainly not bi phobic as I’m bi myself
K x
The question is, why does it turn you off? It's not a tangible thing. So my question is, what turns you off?
The question was does it turn you off... in answer to your question, anal is associated with bi/gay men... anal turns me off
K x
So you would be as equally repulsed by any Males or Females who enjoyed anal sex?
Don’t think I used the word repulsed... anal turn me off... what’s so hard to understand? The question was about males
K x
There are, of course, lots of gay and bisexual men who are equally turned off by anal sex. My issue is that you, and many others, equate bisexuality or homosexuality with men having anal sex with each other.
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Why is it an issue for you?
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"I don’t want to meet bi guys... turn off for me, certainly not bi phobic as I’m bi myself
K x
The question is, why does it turn you off? It's not a tangible thing. So my question is, what turns you off?
The question was does it turn you off... in answer to your question, anal is associated with bi/gay men... anal turns me off
K x
So you would be as equally repulsed by any Males or Females who enjoyed anal sex?
Don’t think I used the word repulsed... anal turn me off... what’s so hard to understand? The question was about males
K x
There are, of course, lots of gay and bisexual men who are equally turned off by anal sex. My issue is that you, and many others, equate bisexuality or homosexuality with men having anal sex with each other.
Why is it an issue for you?
K"
It’s an issue because it’s an association based entirely on stereotype. As a bisexual man who isn’t particularly interested in anal sex, I don’t want to be subject to such broad stereotypes.
I’m not trying to have a go. Most people these days have moved on from the “as long as they don’t shove it in my face” attitude towards gay men, recognising that, actually, shoving “it” in ones face features low on most people’s agenda.
However, there remains a latent mistrust of bisexuals (from gay and straight people) I wonder if it is a vestige of the older attitudes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It makes me wonder if they fancy me coz I look like a TV. 
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Ha ha... I get asked this all the time on cam! But there are some bloody gorgeous TVs out there so try to look on the bright side. |
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I met a lovely guy who is also on fab guys as he swings both ways, he has sexual activity with any gender lol I found out during a MMF and listened to the conversation lol between the guys but all great fun and I wasn’t left out. This was one of the best sessions Iv ever had but on the other hand I met a chap regular who made me think it was me who was into guys in stockings lol turns out it was him he was very devious and I didn’t like it as it was for his pleasure but I had great fun with a TV in Cjs.
So I suppose it depends on the person but I must admit I stay clear cause of my experience with the guy who liked guys in stockings only cause I found it very selfish and devious and I felt used X |
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"Does it put you off a guy who meets TVs and other fellas ?
Just wondering.
I think you ment ‘Just stirring’. "
I dont think hes stirring.
His profile states hes Bi and meets Tgirls. I suspect hes had knockbacks due to it and is looking for the ladies of fabs viewpoint... |
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"Does it put you off a guy who meets TVs and other fellas ?
Just wondering.
I think you ment ‘Just stirring’.
I dont think hes stirring.
His profile states hes Bi and meets Tgirls. I suspect hes had knockbacks due to it and is looking for the ladies of fabs viewpoint..."
Fair enough, you are probs right.
It’s just that this subject is on the forums pretty regularly and it always ends up causing an argument.
But it’s an interesting topic and one which is useful to see who to avoid and who to keep an eye out for.
Viva la bi guys |
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"Does it put you off a guy who meets TVs and other fellas ?
Just wondering.
I think you ment ‘Just stirring’.
I dont think hes stirring.
His profile states hes Bi and meets Tgirls. I suspect hes had knockbacks due to it and is looking for the ladies of fabs viewpoint..."
100 % correct Joanne |
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"Does it put you off a guy who meets TVs and other fellas ?
Just wondering.
I think you ment ‘Just stirring’.
I dont think hes stirring.
His profile states hes Bi and meets Tgirls. I suspect hes had knockbacks due to it and is looking for the ladies of fabs viewpoint...
Fair enough, you are probs right.
It’s just that this subject is on the forums pretty regularly and it always ends up causing an argument.
But it’s an interesting topic and one which is useful to see who to avoid and who to keep an eye out for.
Viva la bi guys "
She is right btw.
And I wouldn’t say I’ve seen it much on the forums....better to have a discussion than “kiss, fuck avoid” yawn fest  |
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"It depends..if they are honest about being bisexual or curious it doesn't put me off. However if a man is claiming to be straight but has verifications from Tv/Ts it reeks of desperation, of someone for whom any hole is a goal. And that's off
In agreement on this point x
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"I don’t want to meet bi guys... turn off for me, certainly not bi phobic as I’m bi myself
K x
The question is, why does it turn you off? It's not a tangible thing. So my question is, what turns you off?
Why does anything turn us off or on? Why does it turn on one person and not another. It's human nature, we often can't explain why certain things don't turn us on.
Certainly things like looks, attitude, height, body hair, weight are all tangible things you can see and point too. In a one on one situations saying no bi partners suggests you have a problem with people being with the same sex.that dosnt make it a phobia thats an informed decision some fems just dont like being with men who like the That boaby
This is interesting, maybe I'm missing out on that information. I'd love to know what it was. Incidentally the amount of interest coming this way that list as straight means that it's a lot more likely you've been with a straight liar than a comfortable bi partner.
People who refuse to meet bi partners of the oppisite sex for one on one play. When all other criteria match is because you are biphobic. Which is within your rights, just recognise your prejudice and be honest with yourself.
Sorry I am not getting where you are trying to go here.
People are on here to please themselves. It is their body, their preference, their call!
Why is it so difficult for some people to understand that people are on here for their own pleasure?!
Some people don't want to meet black women and men? So what? I am not labeling them as racist?! I just say no probs.. your body, your preference, your call. I just focus on people that will meet me!
Some people will meet bi-guys, some will not!
Why the need to put a label or the need to put down people that will or people that won't.
I don't understand that.
Thursday rant over
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