 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
I for one have never fully enjoyed a blow job and I find it very hard to relax and cum through oral.
I also find that not many people can give oral properly and it results in me swapping place or leading straight to sex.
Is there anyone who has this problem too?
Is there anything I can do to relax and enjoy it better? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Define...giving oral properly?
He probably means that in the same way guys can be crap with their tongues women can be crap with their mouths"
Yeah I imagine so. We are all fickle creatures what feel good to one won't to the next. Such is life lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Aye as above....actually saying what you like n what u don't is a lot more helpful than just lying back n giving no pointers whatsoever.
You can only really blame yourself for not telling your lover how you like it.
N if you find it hard to talk about then show them how you like it by demonstrating on their finger.
You can't just lie back hoping that one day they might do it how you like it!
Aye it's good to talk right enough....if a bit rude with a mouthful  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I'm guessing by you're eloquent answer you don't agree to the suggestions given?
Or was the OP hoping that some competitive blow job queen would rise to the challenge and offer to help you out lol  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Or if you're giving direction but it falls on deaf ears time n time again ......grab her by those ears n start skull fucking her mouth forcefully....n see how long you can hold on for!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I always thought guys made this stuff up to make us ladies try harder! Haha!
Must try harder Janet
My teacher used to say that all the time, but she not for this lol "
I’ve never had any complaints!
You teacher may be a fab regular! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I always thought guys made this stuff up to make us ladies try harder! Haha!
Must try harder Janet
My teacher used to say that all the time, but she not for this lol
I’ve never had any complaints!
You teacher may be a fab regular! "
If she is I hope she looks me up, here miss |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Iv rarely had any complaints about bj's, they are the best thing ever when done right, on a few occasions iv failed to climax through oral due to being a bit "toothy" or only sucking on the very tip. My only advice would be to just relax and communication. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Or if you're giving direction but it falls on deaf ears time n time again ......grab her by those ears n start skull fucking her mouth forcefully....n see how long you can hold on for! "
You sound like a keeper....
Love giving them....Mr has to pull me up sometimes to remind me that he has a mouth that may want kissed too... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Usually when guys can't cum from oral have given themselves death grip. You've trained yourself to cum using a tightly closed fist, probably going at lightening speed. Try replicating what a bj feels like when you masturbate, use loads of lube and a more relaxed grip. If you can teach yourself to cum that way then us ladies will have an easier job  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Usually when guys can't cum from oral have given themselves death grip. You've trained yourself to cum using a tightly closed fist, probably going at lightening speed. Try replicating what a bj feels like when you masturbate, use loads of lube and a more relaxed grip. If you can teach yourself to cum that way then us ladies will have an easier job "
This actually makes a lot of sense. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Usually when guys can't cum from oral have given themselves death grip. You've trained yourself to cum using a tightly closed fist, probably going at lightening speed. Try replicating what a bj feels like when you masturbate, use loads of lube and a more relaxed grip. If you can teach yourself to cum that way then us ladies will have an easier job
This actually makes a lot of sense. "
Not to me, you may have to cum show me |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I always thought guys made this stuff up to make us ladies try harder! Haha!"
Pmsl. As a guy who can cum when I want, I used to think it's what woman wanted, lololl I was so wrong  .
Sometimes I'll just say I can't cum through oral or can't cum through anal or can't cum through durty talk as she plays with herself. Never failed lolol
But it pisses girls off if I say I bet you can't make me cum and they try like fuck through the night and they don't.
Anyways to the OP's post, I'm the same I can't cum through oral
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I always thought guys made this stuff up to make us ladies try harder! Haha!
Pmsl. As a guy who can cum when I want, I used to think it's what woman wanted, lololl I was so wrong .
Sometimes I'll just say I can't cum through oral or can't cum through anal or can't cum through durty talk as she plays with herself. Never failed lolol
But it pisses girls off if I say I bet you can't make me cum and they try like fuck through the night and they don't.
Anyways to the OP's post, I'm the same I can't cum through oral
"
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I myself have never came through oral. I have only nearly once but apart from that nothing as of yet !
I'm always sat there when watching porn going surley this is just made up that doesn't actually happen right ???? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Or if you're giving direction but it falls on deaf ears time n time again ......grab her by those ears n start skull fucking her mouth forcefully....n see how long you can hold on for!
You sound like a keeper....
Love giving them....Mr has to pull me up sometimes to remind me that he has a mouth that may want kissed too..."
Why thank you 
I envy your hubbies predicament |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
As with all things sexual everyone is different. Communication is key. Both cliches but true, it's why sex gets better as you get older as its a skill it takes practice, learning what works for you but also learning different techniques to try with different partners and also learning communication skills. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"As with all things sexual everyone is different. Communication is key. Both cliches but true, it's why sex gets better as you get older as its a skill it takes practice, learning what works for you but also learning different techniques to try with different partners and also learning communication skills. "
Definitely pro communication, I love giving... Especially if he tells me what to do while pulling my hair....
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"This reminds me of an old joke...
“Describe your worst blow job experience”
....”Fabulous!” if verifications on fab are anything to go by this is true and all women are very talented.
"
This made me chuckle but in fairness you don't see many verifications along those lines |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I for one have never fully enjoyed a blow job and I find it very hard to relax and cum through oral.
I also find that not many people can give oral properly and it results in me swapping place or leading straight to sex.
Is there anyone who has this problem too?
Is there anything I can do to relax and enjoy it better? "
I’ve never had that problem - quite the opposite for me. Though I have no idea how to impart any words of wisdom as to how to relax and enjoy it - I just love it.
Something scare you about it? What is going through your mind and stopping you from relaxing into it and enjoying the moment? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"As with all things sexual everyone is different. Communication is key. Both cliches but true, it's why sex gets better as you get older as its a skill it takes practice, learning what works for you but also learning different techniques to try with different partners and also learning communication skills.
Definitely pro communication, I love giving... Especially if he tells me what to do while pulling my hair....
"
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I for one have never fully enjoyed a blow job and I find it very hard to relax and cum through oral.
I also find that not many people can give oral properly and it results in me swapping place or leading straight to sex.
Is there anyone who has this problem too?
Is there anything I can do to relax and enjoy it better? "
You might relax if you talk to them first and say you dont cum from oral, make sure they understand and havent taken it as a challenge. Then just let them do their thing if they really like doing it, knowing its just part of play. If you are feeling bad cos you cant cum and they are trying harder to make you cum so you try harder to cum so they dont feel bad well... that's a lot of pressure to be putting on yourself. No wonder you dont enjoy it x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I for one have never fully enjoyed a blow job and I find it very hard to relax and cum through oral.
I also find that not many people can give oral properly and it results in me swapping place or leading straight to sex.
Is there anyone who has this problem too?
Is there anything I can do to relax and enjoy it better?
You might relax if you talk to them first and say you dont cum from oral, make sure they understand and havent taken it as a challenge. Then just let them do their thing if they really like doing it, knowing its just part of play. If you are feeling bad cos you cant cum and they are trying harder to make you cum so you try harder to cum so they dont feel bad well... that's a lot of pressure to be putting on yourself. No wonder you dont enjoy it x"
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I’m not a huge fan of them only ever came once getting a bj, I put that down to a) the riskyness of where it was and b) she was a married woman (not my proudest moment not my thing).
I’d rather give oral than receive. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
blowjobs are my favourite thing to get done to me...if i could get away with getting woken up with a blowjob then have it continue for the rest of the say i would happily sit and do nothing but....i must have a chocolate flavoured cock cause my wife sucks on me at least once a day and i dont even ask.. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
