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Hey folks.
We Spent two days chatting to what seemed a nice genuine sexy Cpl. They had a good few verifications from what looked to be attractive couples. Face pictures were exchanged and even a chat on the phone to see everyone was happy.
The time arrives and were both excited with the butterfly's going ten to the dozen. Bottle of bubbly under arm and off we head in the taxi. £16.80 later we arrive at the address. A quick call and we're told the house number.
In we go and proceed up the stairs to be greeted by the man.
Firstly the picture he sent must have been a good ten years ago!! once over the threshold the door was locked behind us!! Fellow fabbers don't do this!! It's an unnerving experience.
Anyway we're escorted to the living room where we expect to see his partner. Nope no signs!!!
I politely ask where she is and we're told she is into dark rooms and doesn't like her face to be seen.
So we're getting a little pissed off by this stage but remain calm. The chap then ushers us through the corridor to the bedroom where we can vaguely make out a body laying on the bed that begins to talk. It's at this point I'm thinking right what's the best way to exit this situation. The guy has the keys in his pocket. His lady is clearly d*unk or drugged up. Nightmare!!!!
Cut a long story short we managed to escape!!!
Fellow fabbers please be aware that no matter what lengths we all go to to try and satisfy ourself it's genuine and safe it's not always the case.
Sick to the stomach is how we feel 
It will be public area initial meets for us from now on until we're totally sure.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh my goodness that sounds horrible! Guess the saving grace is that you two were together, imagine turning up to that situation alone! So disappointing also. Hope it doesn’t put you guys off too much but unfortunately some people on here can make you feel wary forever more.
Sorry it wasn’t the meet it was meant to be, Glad you found an escape route too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey folks.
We Spent two days chatting to what seemed a nice genuine sexy Cpl. They had a good few verifications from what looked to be attractive couples. Face pictures were exchanged and even a chat on the phone to see everyone was happy.
The time arrives and were both excited with the butterfly's going ten to the dozen. Bottle of bubbly under arm and off we head in the taxi. £16.80 later we arrive at the address. A quick call and we're told the house number.
In we go and proceed up the stairs to be greeted by the man.
Firstly the picture he sent must have been a good ten years ago!! once over the threshold the door was locked behind us!! Fellow fabbers don't do this!! It's an unnerving experience.
Anyway we're escorted to the living room where we expect to see his partner. Nope no signs!!!
I politely ask where she is and we're told she is into dark rooms and doesn't like her face to be seen.
So we're getting a little pissed off by this stage but remain calm. The chap then ushers us through the corridor to the bedroom where we can vaguely make out a body laying on the bed that begins to talk. It's at this point I'm thinking right what's the best way to exit this situation. The guy has the keys in his pocket. His lady is clearly d*unk or drugged up. Nightmare!!!!
Cut a long story short we managed to escape!!!
Fellow fabbers please be aware that no matter what lengths we all go to to try and satisfy ourself it's genuine and safe it's not always the case.
Sick to the stomach is how we feel
It will be public area initial meets for us from now on until we're totally sure.
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so when you say you escaped OP you mean you asked him to let you out. Or the door was likely never locked in the first place. And I've yet to ever see a taxi charge to a specific penny!  |
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"Hey folks.
We Spent two days chatting to what seemed a nice genuine sexy Cpl. They had a good few verifications from what looked to be attractive couples. Face pictures were exchanged and even a chat on the phone to see everyone was happy.
The time arrives and were both excited with the butterfly's going ten to the dozen. Bottle of bubbly under arm and off we head in the taxi. £16.80 later we arrive at the address. A quick call and we're told the house number.
In we go and proceed up the stairs to be greeted by the man.
Firstly the picture he sent must have been a good ten years ago!! once over the threshold the door was locked behind us!! Fellow fabbers don't do this!! It's an unnerving experience.
Anyway we're escorted to the living room where we expect to see his partner. Nope no signs!!!
I politely ask where she is and we're told she is into dark rooms and doesn't like her face to be seen.
So we're getting a little pissed off by this stage but remain calm. The chap then ushers us through the corridor to the bedroom where we can vaguely make out a body laying on the bed that begins to talk. It's at this point I'm thinking right what's the best way to exit this situation. The guy has the keys in his pocket. His lady is clearly d*unk or drugged up. Nightmare!!!!
Cut a long story short we managed to escape!!!
Fellow fabbers please be aware that no matter what lengths we all go to to try and satisfy ourself it's genuine and safe it's not always the case.
Sick to the stomach is how we feel
It will be public area initial meets for us from now on until we're totally sure.
so when you say you escaped OP you mean you asked him to let you out. Or the door was likely never locked in the first place. And I've yet to ever see a taxi charge to a specific penny! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is anyone else curious as to what happened next? Did you bash him over the head with the bubbly and shimmy down the drain pipe? Am i the only one hearing the great escape music in their head??
In all seriousness it sounds like a disturbing experience. Let it serve as a warning to all those who moan when socials are insisted upon that this isn't a dating site etc. Safety and security is paramount!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey folks.
We Spent two days chatting to what seemed a nice genuine sexy Cpl. They had a good few verifications from what looked to be attractive couples. Face pictures were exchanged and even a chat on the phone to see everyone was happy.
The time arrives and were both excited with the butterfly's going ten to the dozen. Bottle of bubbly under arm and off we head in the taxi. £16.80 later we arrive at the address. A quick call and we're told the house number.
In we go and proceed up the stairs to be greeted by the man.
Firstly the picture he sent must have been a good ten years ago!! once over the threshold the door was locked behind us!! Fellow fabbers don't do this!! It's an unnerving experience.
Anyway we're escorted to the living room where we expect to see his partner. Nope no signs!!!
I politely ask where she is and we're told she is into dark rooms and doesn't like her face to be seen.
So we're getting a little pissed off by this stage but remain calm. The chap then ushers us through the corridor to the bedroom where we can vaguely make out a body laying on the bed that begins to talk. It's at this point I'm thinking right what's the best way to exit this situation. The guy has the keys in his pocket. His lady is clearly d*unk or drugged up. Nightmare!!!!
Cut a long story short we managed to escape!!!
Fellow fabbers please be aware that no matter what lengths we all go to to try and satisfy ourself it's genuine and safe it's not always the case.
Sick to the stomach is how we feel
It will be public area initial meets for us from now on until we're totally sure.
so when you say you escaped OP you mean you asked him to let you out. Or the door was likely never locked in the first place. And I've yet to ever see a taxi charge to a specific penny! "
Taxi meters in Glasgow tend to go up in 20p increments so there's actually nothing remotely unbelievable about £16.80. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds a bad situation op, but you got out of it so all good,
But we do have one question, in the two days of chatting was her dark room preference not mentioned, and if she doesn't like her face to be seen why did they exchange pics? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds Very Creepy, suspect there may also have been hidden camera's, good move getting out quick,
Im a guy and even as a guy, I would never have a first meet in the home of someone I do not know
you do not know who is in there, what is in there and how many are in there
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Freaky story!
Glad you're both fine.
Experience like this, brings you back to reality and... You can now change your approach to meet.
That's why some guys get exasperated with me!
But I need to get a feel for the person and I can't achieve that in a couple days on/off chat on Fab.
I meet for a social to see if chemistry.
If I get given an address, I require the full address, am not farfing about waiting for a number, I hate treasure hunts.
Use your gut feelings OP and stay safe
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Thank you everyone for your comments. It is a very true story and we will be looking closely at how we approach things in future.
Luckily no violence was needed for the great escape nor was the good bottle of Moët wasted or opened.
Thanks again x
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"Hey folks.
We Spent two days chatting to what seemed a nice genuine sexy Cpl. They had a good few verifications from what looked to be attractive couples. Face pictures were exchanged and even a chat on the phone to see everyone was happy.
The time arrives and were both excited with the butterfly's going ten to the dozen. Bottle of bubbly under arm and off we head in the taxi. £16.80 later we arrive at the address. A quick call and we're told the house number.
In we go and proceed up the stairs to be greeted by the man.
Firstly the picture he sent must have been a good ten years ago!! once over the threshold the door was locked behind us!! Fellow fabbers don't do this!! It's an unnerving experience.
Anyway we're escorted to the living room where we expect to see his partner. Nope no signs!!!
I politely ask where she is and we're told she is into dark rooms and doesn't like her face to be seen.
So we're getting a little pissed off by this stage but remain calm. The chap then ushers us through the corridor to the bedroom where we can vaguely make out a body laying on the bed that begins to talk. It's at this point I'm thinking right what's the best way to exit this situation. The guy has the keys in his pocket. His lady is clearly d*unk or drugged up. Nightmare!!!!
Cut a long story short we managed to escape!!!
Fellow fabbers please be aware that no matter what lengths we all go to to try and satisfy ourself it's genuine and safe it's not always the case.
Sick to the stomach is how we feel
It will be public area initial meets for us from now on until we're totally sure.
so when you say you escaped OP you mean you asked him to let you out. Or the door was likely never locked in the first place. And I've yet to ever see a taxi charge to a specific penny! "
Uv obviously never been in many taxis if a fare can’t amount to £16.80.Some regions it goes up by 20p a time and others like mines goes up by 10p a time,now this will blow your mind but at Christmas and New year it goes up in 15p increments!! How you will get your head round that al never know  |
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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago
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"so when you say you escaped OP you mean you asked him to let you out. Or the door was likely never locked in the first place. And I've yet to ever see a taxi charge to a specific penny! "
Not familiar with taxi’s up here?
Don’t get out much?
Or
You were there?
Glad the OP is safe & hope this is taken as lesson that we all need to be safety conscious. |
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"Hey folks.
We Spent two days chatting to what seemed a nice genuine sexy Cpl. They had a good few verifications from what looked to be attractive couples. Face pictures were exchanged and even a chat on the phone to see everyone was happy.
The time arrives and were both excited with the butterfly's going ten to the dozen. Bottle of bubbly under arm and off we head in the taxi. £16.80 later we arrive at the address. A quick call and we're told the house number.
In we go and proceed up the stairs to be greeted by the man.
Firstly the picture he sent must have been a good ten years ago!! once over the threshold the door was locked behind us!! Fellow fabbers don't do this!! It's an unnerving experience.
Anyway we're escorted to the living room where we expect to see his partner. Nope no signs!!!
I politely ask where she is and we're told she is into dark rooms and doesn't like her face to be seen.
So we're getting a little pissed off by this stage but remain calm. The chap then ushers us through the corridor to the bedroom where we can vaguely make out a body laying on the bed that begins to talk. It's at this point I'm thinking right what's the best way to exit this situation. The guy has the keys in his pocket. His lady is clearly d*unk or drugged up. Nightmare!!!!
Cut a long story short we managed to escape!!!
Fellow fabbers please be aware that no matter what lengths we all go to to try and satisfy ourself it's genuine and safe it's not always the case.
Sick to the stomach is how we feel
It will be public area initial meets for us from now on until we're totally sure.
so when you say you escaped OP you mean you asked him to let you out. Or the door was likely never locked in the first place. And I've yet to ever see a taxi charge to a specific penny! "
There is always one!!! |
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"I suggest you report the profile to fab.
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Fab do nothing about it they will block profile from you but will still be on site! We have reported people in past yep still on site! the grief we got for reporting the last one was unreal! Profile text removed 3 times obviously friendly with one of the admins.. oops we can see a Ban coming up lol lol that's fab for you though.................... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is why my partner and I have agreed to meet couples at cjs only or together. 
It's not each other we don't trust. It's other people.
I do agree that it's not all couples, but you can never be too careful. |
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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago
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Mary doll said when you walked through the door tae her bedroom even in the dark you were not exactly brad and angelina types yersells .Thank god when ma big rab threw those door keys at ya , you caught them while wearing those four inch thick specs and took yersells oot our wee lovers den. Ya mighta left us the bottle a buckie though ya pair a wallappers !!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had a few forgettable meets with sad tossers and social misfits but it's a learning curve and it's a case of chalking it down to experience, not dwelling on it and moving on. There are plenty other couples on fab thankfully not in that category.
Nothing ever surprises me on fab! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would also say that unless you have met the other party previously it's always best to go to a meet with no expectations. With the fickle nature of a great many of the folk on fab I have learned it's the best way to be. |
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By *entonMan
over a year ago
Ayrshire |
"Thank you everyone for your comments. It is a very true story and we will be looking closely at how we approach things in future.
Luckily no violence was needed for the great escape nor was the good bottle of Moët wasted or opened.
Thanks again x
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"I have had a few forgettable meets with sad tossers and social misfits but it's a learning curve and it's a case of chalking it down to experience, not dwelling on it and moving on. There are plenty other couples on fab thankfully not in that category.
Nothing ever surprises me on fab!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Social meet first always
And if you are taking it further after that meet maybe try a hotel rather than going back to a house just incase. They turn out to be head cases |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"social first? Skype? never would arrive at a strangers door!"
To be honest yiu can Skype, kik video, whatsapp video before a meet so I wished that would have been considered before meet at least the 4 of yiu would have seen each other before the meet. Might not have helped but it's one more precaution to think about
So sorry you had to go through that.
Keep the faith, not all us guys are loontangs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Glad you escaped unscathed.
Am I the only one worrying about the poor intoxicated/drugged up woman on the bed? Wonder if she even knew what her other half had planned that night. |
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
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"Glad you escaped unscathed.
Am I the only one worrying about the poor intoxicated/drugged up woman on the bed? Wonder if she even knew what her other half had planned that night."
Thinking the same thing  |
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By *andACouple
over a year ago
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That sounds pretty grim.
A cam session or social (or both) beforehand always helps.
Also, is this a new thing where people only get an address after arriving in the vicinity of the location? I find this bizarre.  |
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"That sounds pretty grim.
A cam session or social (or both) beforehand always helps.
Also, is this a new thing where people only get an address after arriving in the vicinity of the location? I find this bizarre. "
Hiya. Thanks for your message.
We're not sure regarding general visinity. This was the first time like this for us. Usually get an exact address or it's with people we have met before.
Very bizarre. Not to worry got out safely which is the main thing xx |
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A terrible experience. It sounds like you did a lot right to make yourselves feel comfortable. For me though, I wouldn't have left the house without a full address as that's a red flag for me. I hope you're alright, as is the lady who was in the room
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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago
Blantyre |
We have had meets at home before and only give directions at last minute . We would direct them to local asda then watch them drive close to house and talk them in to door without giving exact location until last seconds to make sure they are actually genuine . Would never give address to anyone. |
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OP - that is bloody scary stuff. Glad you got out.
I've a concern for your comments about someone hidden d*unk or on drugs - did anything give rise for you to think that person was there under duress/not by choice?
Reminds me why it is a public meet always first... |
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I have so very lucky meeting as a single fem so far. I never accom and always prefer to travel to the other persons house as like you mentioned, the journey there adds excitement and butterflies. But your experience has made me think more carefully now id imagine if the guy looked diff and hes randomly talking about dark rooms, that the lady was most probably diff too. Are they still on fab? I know you cant really name people but would be handy as a heads up eek xx |
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Evening all.
No we never called the police. She seamed comfortable enough in the company of the guy plus telling the police that we rocked up to there's for wild NSA kinky fuckery after seeing there profile on the internet wasn't something we fancied doing haha.
Not an easy situation for anyone to be fair. |
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"Evening all.
No we never called the police. She seamed comfortable enough in the company of the guy plus telling the police that we rocked up to there's for wild NSA kinky fuckery after seeing there profile on the internet wasn't something we fancied doing haha.
Not an easy situation for anyone to be fair. "
Ah right just wasn’t sure if she was able to consent to being in that situation as i interpreted that she wasn’t fully aware due to being under influence
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Not doubting your story at all but don’t think you can call someone locking the door “unnerving”. I don’t leave my door open to the world when I have people over! Really don’t see how you took such exception to this part! |
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"Not doubting your story at all but don’t think you can call someone locking the door “unnerving”. I don’t leave my door open to the world when I have people over! Really don’t see how you took such exception to this part! "
Are you for real? Ofcourse thats unnerving your in a strangers house and they have locked the door and taken away the key. I would have asked to leave there and then and had my phone out ready to phone the police. Always txt the address to a friend too so someone knows where you are |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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"Hey folks.
We Spent two days chatting to what seemed a nice genuine sexy Cpl. They had a good few verifications from what looked to be attractive couples. Face pictures were exchanged and even a chat on the phone to see everyone was happy.
The time arrives and were both excited with the butterfly's going ten to the dozen. Bottle of bubbly under arm and off we head in the taxi. £16.80 later we arrive at the address. A quick call and we're told the house number.
In we go and proceed up the stairs to be greeted by the man.
Firstly the picture he sent must have been a good ten years ago!! once over the threshold the door was locked behind us!! Fellow fabbers don't do this!! It's an unnerving experience.
Anyway we're escorted to the living room where we expect to see his partner. Nope no signs!!!
I politely ask where she is and we're told she is into dark rooms and doesn't like her face to be seen.
So we're getting a little pissed off by this stage but remain calm. The chap then ushers us through the corridor to the bedroom where we can vaguely make out a body laying on the bed that begins to talk. It's at this point I'm thinking right what's the best way to exit this situation. The guy has the keys in his pocket. His lady is clearly d*unk or drugged up. Nightmare!!!!
Cut a long story short we managed to escape!!!
Fellow fabbers please be aware that no matter what lengths we all go to to try and satisfy ourself it's genuine and safe it's not always the case.
Sick to the stomach is how we feel
It will be public area initial meets for us from now on until we're totally sure.
so when you say you escaped OP you mean you asked him to let you out. Or the door was likely never locked in the first place. And I've yet to ever see a taxi charge to a specific penny! "
Plenty taxis charges go up in 10p or 20p as they drive when on a meter. Even my local private taxis don’t round up their fares.
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Thats a horrible scenario, meets should be open and transparent about what to expect on a meet.
Some people use drink and drugs
Some people like darkroom fun
However when inviting others to join in the rules should be established, im sorry for your experience. |
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