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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi Folks,
I’m just finding my feet here and wondering if you could share your top tips that a single guy keep in mind.
I have exchanged messages with a few amazing women but would like to take it further, I have also come across a few of time wasters as well.
I wonder if people think I am pushy/desperate/??? Instead of keen and serious about being an active member of the site
So what are your top 3 tips?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll be honest this will be my third try at saying something usefull,keep it simple if messaging,nobody, wants life-storys, storys of un-luck,they want to know bit bout you and feel assured yer fine and a potential meet.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1. dont be disheartened if u dont get replys.
2. be nice and polite.
3. take knock backs with dignity.
4. read profiles
5. say what u can offer likes dislikes etc.
6 HAVE FUN!!!!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks guys and girls, what I find a bit disheartening is that after spending some time writing a few lines the reply is “Yes, hmmmm lovely tell me more” or something similar.
Never mind I’m new here so will persevere.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hi and welcome to fab, my advice to u would be:-
a) dont cut and paste messages...each should be individually addressed to the couple/lady in question
b) dont expect to get a meet straight away. build up a rapour with ppl u would like to meet first
c) never msg ppl that state no single guys in their profile on the of-chance u will be the one they want....it aint gonna happen
and d) relax, enjoy yourself, show urself in your true colours from day 1 and the rest will happen
good luck and happy swinging...ps. declan and aimee already suggested u read the forum posting a guide to single males which i would also advise u do . T & S xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pre socials, you simply with time and patience got recognised as "genuine",my first meet over 6 years ago came out the blue.
Someone was on here not so long ago,giving an account of having been timewaster'd,dafty here felt for him, dafty offered to have him join next gang bang, "i might" was the reply i got,yup,be genuine and maybe not complain too soon in the fun process of finding fun,else you look daft instead of apparently available.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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welcome and hope you have a lot of fun...
my 3 pieces of advice...
1... be yourself, genuine folks shine above the rest..
2... don't take it all too serious.. it's fun and a laugh with occasional and great sex.... but many expect sex when THEY fancy it rather than when the others want it and scream meet now , meet now, meet now !!!
3... humility.... there are enough ego's ...
enjoy dude and wishing you well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Did after 8 few years ago, went 4 or 5 times, had the whole spectrum, some ok nites, good nites and one brilliant one, that is how it goes generally, but nice way again to initially meet folks with swinging in common.
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