Private parties are best. Invite some guys around to your place. Or maybe someone else is willing to host. Hotel bit tricky to sneak everyone in. Friends of mine have rented a flat for the night next week, but it's not free. Everybody chips in to cover the costs x |
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We have rented private Apartments hotels Travel lodges and even our own place. Then I think are we being to fussy. Understand a lot of people wanting folks to chip in to pay for what ever after all why end up out off pocket. then you see regular venues and guys go regular as clockwork and pay I don't get it. Its about swinging not selling your self or being Pimped out lol  |
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"So you want other people to pay for your hotel? Or maybe play outside somewhere!! No one will be out of pocket or selling themselves. However way you work this out, enjoy  "
Never said that! if people want people to chip in towards expenses fantastic. Point we made was we never asked for a penny yet we still get pissed about. perhaps we should charge ex amount like the Glasgow venues  |
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Very hard to set up privately as most single guys bottle it and don't turn up but blow wind and piss they are the big i am. Then ones that do come have no exepeirance and then get stage fright. All can get a bit of a pain in the ass and wastes everyone's time . Hiring a club private is best as they know and have lists of genuine guys who don't waste your time and will actually turn up and give you a good night respectfully within your limits. Hope that helps. |
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"So you want other people to pay for your hotel? Or maybe play outside somewhere!! No one will be out of pocket or selling themselves. However way you work this out, enjoy Never said that! if people want people to chip in towards expenses fantastic. Point we made was we never asked for a penny yet we still get pissed about. perhaps we should charge ex amount like the Glasgow venues "
No shows!! Is that what you meant? Seems to come with fab unfortunately. Don't get these people, because especially for single guys it seems to be hard work on here, if they have any success at all, to then not show up or bail out  |
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If someone were to hire an apartment or hotel room, I personally would expect to contribute to the cost. Seems perfectly fair to me.
On the other point, like you I am also bewildered by no shows. Things happen to us all that mean a change of plan but just to not turn up is not ok. It's happened to me on socials I've organised but I know I'm not alone with that story.
Good luck OP. I'll keep my eyes peeled for your next event. |
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"If someone were to hire an apartment or hotel room, I personally would expect to contribute to the cost. Seems perfectly fair to me.
On the other point, like you I am also bewildered by no shows. Things happen to us all that mean a change of plan but just to not turn up is not ok. It's happened to me on socials I've organised but I know I'm not alone with that story.
Good luck OP. I'll keep my eyes peeled for your next event. "
We have never asked for a contribution but certainly don't knock people that do. We are starting to think our profile is the problem but we are no going to drop our standards just to keep the guys happy! If anything we are now going to be even more fussy making it harder for guys to get a meet at all with us. Right now we would say you are lucky if 25% of the guys on here are Genuine. The private Notes is a wonderful thing we use it all time. |
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I go to parties organised by one of the members on here. It is always good fun and a relaxed atmosphere as well as new people turning up at each event.
There is a contribution required for single blokes but I am happy to pay it as everything is organised from condoms to drinks. |
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"If someone were to hire an apartment or hotel room, I personally would expect to contribute to the cost. Seems perfectly fair to me.
On the other point, like you I am also bewildered by no shows. Things happen to us all that mean a change of plan but just to not turn up is not ok. It's happened to me on socials I've organised but I know I'm not alone with that story.
Good luck OP. I'll keep my eyes peeled for your next event. We have never asked for a contribution but certainly don't knock people that do. We are starting to think our profile is the problem but we are no going to drop our standards just to keep the guys happy! If anything we are now going to be even more fussy making it harder for guys to get a meet at all with us. Right now we would say you are lucky if 25% of the guys on here are Genuine. The private Notes is a wonderful thing we use it all time. "
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"I go to parties organised by one of the members on here. It is always good fun and a relaxed atmosphere as well as new people turning up at each event.
There is a contribution required for single blokes but I am happy to pay it as everything is organised from condoms to drinks."
lol lol thats the point we are making guys would rather pay for sex lol weird!!! |
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I recently organised a Halloween party and charged £5 per person contribution there was buffet, cocktails, mixers prizes etc as well as condoms, lube, cock rings etc so don’t see any harm in asking for a contribution ( if you were going to a vanilla party you’d offer to bring something would you not or flowers/wine for the host?). I was saddened that out of the 23 single guys who asked to attend only 1 came along ( and he traveled from the USA !!), so clubs seem to be an easier option for gang bangs x |
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"I recently organised a Halloween party and charged £5 per person contribution there was buffet, cocktails, mixers prizes etc as well as condoms, lube, cock rings etc so don’t see any harm in asking for a contribution ( if you were going to a vanilla party you’d offer to bring something would you not or flowers/wine for the host?). I was saddened that out of the 23 single guys who asked to attend only 1 came along ( and he traveled from the USA !!), so clubs seem to be an easier option for gang bangs x"
And that's totally right. Why should someone come along for nothing! Especially as you are doing all the prep and food. If I decided to book a hotel and meet a guy there is no way I would not ask him to share at least half of the room cost. |
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"I go to parties organised by one of the members on here. It is always good fun and a relaxed atmosphere as well as new people turning up at each event.
There is a contribution required for single blokes but I am happy to pay it as everything is organised from condoms to drinks. lol lol thats the point we are making guys would rather pay for sex lol weird!!! "
no only some guys would and 9 times out of 10 thats not the guys that would intrest folk not out to make a buck.....same goes for clubs as much as folk say its for social purposes piffle most attend clubs because sex is a distinct possibility a buisness may have guys that will attend thats not to say its the guys you want.
things like this take at a guess months to set up sometimes folk rush and end up sat alone and fruatrated take more time meet prospective folk beforehand they dont show up they dont get an inv |
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"I recently organised a Halloween party and charged £5 per person contribution there was buffet, cocktails, mixers prizes etc as well as condoms, lube, cock rings etc so don’t see any harm in asking for a contribution ( if you were going to a vanilla party you’d offer to bring something would you not or flowers/wine for the host?). I was saddened that out of the 23 single guys who asked to attend only 1 came along ( and he traveled from the USA !!), so clubs seem to be an easier option for gang bangs x"
Try a £60 booking fee, £55 refundable when they turn up - that might work. |
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I agree that no shows are a problem, and it’s ridiculous. Loads of guys in here complain that they can never meet and then when they have the perfect opportunity they bottle it, it’s outrageous.
A lady friend of mine organised a gang bang for herself few weeks ago. Eight guys confirmed attendance.... one showed up, and another came really late (as I was leaving).
It’s pathetic that guys moan and groan and then treat some great couples and ladies this way.
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"I agree that no shows are a problem, and it’s ridiculous. Loads of guys in here complain that they can never meet and then when they have the perfect opportunity they bottle it, it’s outrageous.
A lady friend of mine organised a gang bang for herself few weeks ago. Eight guys confirmed attendance.... one showed up, and another came really late (as I was leaving).
It’s pathetic that guys moan and groan and then treat some great couples and ladies this way.
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Exactly the point we are trying to get over these Jokes make it harder for Genuine guys. Why should we go to a club and be Exploited pay a membership etc not for us would rather do without. |
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We have done this several times with varying degrees of success. Our advice to you is to let somebody else arrange it because if you try and do it yourself it's a total nightmare. You have to verify all the guys, they all want to ask questions and chat before hand and then in the end only half of them turn up. Most are married and get scared at last minute.
We have been successful though.
We once hired a van and stuck a mattress in the back. We asked twice as many guys as we wanted and we got 6 which was perfect. We met in Asda carpark and then drove out to the country for fun.
We tried to arrange a hotel once but all the guys turned up at different times. We also said to pat a tenner towards the room but it felt weird taking money.
We've had other people set it up for us and that always works better. Study the verifications as it's not an easy thing to organise. Make sure yet guy who is organising has done it before.
We've had gangbang outside at the local dogging spots, that is pretty easy to do and always a bit more risky that you offered d somebody.
By far the easiest thing though is to go to a club. Go on a greedy girls night if you can. CJs host them we think although never been.
There is a great club in Birmingham called The Private Club if you can travel. Not to everyone's taste but we loved it. Also thing about Maspalomas in Gran Canaria, the greatest outdoor dogging arena in the world. Mrs K had several gangbangs there last year.
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"We have done this several times with varying degrees of success. Our advice to you is to let somebody else arrange it because if you try and do it yourself it's a total nightmare. You have to verify all the guys, they all want to ask questions and chat before hand and then in the end only half of them turn up. Most are married and get scared at last minute.
We have been successful though.
We once hired a van and stuck a mattress in the back. We asked twice as many guys as we wanted and we got 6 which was perfect. We met in Asda carpark and then drove out to the country for fun.
We tried to arrange a hotel once but all the guys turned up at different times. We also said to pat a tenner towards the room but it felt weird taking money.
We've had other people set it up for us and that always works better. Study the verifications as it's not an easy thing to organise. Make sure yet guy who is organising has done it before.
We've had gangbang outside at the local dogging spots, that is pretty easy to do and always a bit more risky that you offered d somebody.
By far the easiest thing though is to go to a club. Go on a greedy girls night if you can. CJs host them we think although never been.
There is a great club in Birmingham called The Private Club if you can travel. Not to everyone's taste but we loved it. Also thing about Maspalomas in Gran Canaria, the greatest outdoor dogging arena in the world. Mrs K had several gangbangs there last year.
Good luck "
Thanks for that |
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The last gb I attended was a last minute "invite everyone showing onling" thing. I don't know how many they invited but they ended up with 4 guys and a fuckbuddy couple. Out of the 6 other guys in the room I was literally the only one who could maintain an errection.
The few times I've arranged one I've always put up meets and status updates and messaged people that were more to the girl's liking but none ever actually turn up that way. The "message and invite everyone" approach has been the only way I've been able to get more than 1 person to attend on here. |
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