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Timewasters and fantasists
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Adjust your filters make sure you get a phone conversation at minimum from the person any meet is arranged.
You can spot the trends in conversation pretty early. If they are more interested in what you are wearing and what you are going to do when you meet then normally they are after just wanking material.
Don't be discouraged. Looking good anyway x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my humble opinion the majority of users of this site like the idea of playing but (and if you'll excuse the pun!) don't have the balls.
'Keyboard swingers' is a phrase I saw in main forum and it sums it up beautifully.
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"In my humble opinion the majority of users of this site like the idea of playing but (and if you'll excuse the pun!) don't have the balls.
'Keyboard swingers' is a phrase I saw in main forum and it sums it up beautifully.
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the problem is the folk who use this phrase do so because the other party wont meet them.
if your time is being wasted its your own fault after all you picked the muppet/s.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been fairly lucky I think,only twice after organising meets have I been let down but both times I was given notice and got them rescheduled for another time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree to a pointbkola but...
The guys that stood me up were verified and always made the 1st move
1 reason for not turning up was...he didn't think I was going to turn up...so he didn't?  |
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I’m finding it hard to get away from picture collectors.
I want meets from this and would never no show but to some people it’s just a picture site. Go to a porn site it will be better haha.
Anyone reading this fancies a meet with me be assured if it’s agreed I’ll be there. ?????? |
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"I agree to a pointbkola but...
The guys that stood me up were verified and always made the 1st move
1 reason for not turning up was...he didn't think I was going to turn up...so he didn't? "
and im sure you learned from it and made changes. I believe most on fab dont as its always sombody elses fault (timewaster).
once you accept that you were duped you need to implement ways to atop it happening again. I think alot on fab now want the quick thrill so accept anything said without question.
it also comes down ro how you meet ive never had my time wasted but I take along time to meet many msgs exchanging of phone no etc. |
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By *aelawMan
over a year ago
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Such a frustrating experience when it happens in any circumstances. You can't help but get a little excited about it. Then they don't turn up and it's kind of hurtful. Alas, I tend to give the benefit of the doubt and assume they lost confidence.
It may be, as someone says above, that they are just after the chase and find satisfaction in it.
I know it's hard but try to brush it off and move on. Plenty of folk out there who will meet  |
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Their generally pretty easy to spot early on, saying that I got stung fairly recently with one, but as the chat developed nearer the agreed day I saw it coming and never let it get to the no-show stage....
I will usually accept a call off with a genuine reason and enough notice, but a no show or clearly being collaborated its the block button  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Such a frustrating experience when it happens in any circumstances. You can't help but get a little excited about it. Then they don't turn up and it's kind of hurtful. Alas, I tend to give the benefit of the doubt and assume they lost confidence.
It may be, as someone says above, that they are just after the chase and find satisfaction in it.
I know it's hard but try to brush it off and move on. Plenty of folk out there who will meet "
yip agreed
If I'm having a meet I will make sure I have summit else planned if they fall through as its more and more common now, and I don't mean another meet arranged, mean go and watch the football or summit.
No point getting upset, they may have a genuine reason or they have just bottled it cause I'm so fecking sexy n hot and they feel they can't match my expectations, (common, I'm trying to think o a reason here)  |
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It is just not on this site that is plagued with timewasters. I am on POF and my last 2 meets have not turned up.
First said she forgot and the second said she had double booked and when the first guy turned up she went off with him leaving me hanging around for her. |
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I will usually accept a call off with a genuine reason and enough notice, but a no show or clearly being collaborated its the block button "
collaborated??... wtf.... bullshitted that was.... fecking predictive text 
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