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By *issT45 OP Woman over a year ago

Edinburgh

As far as the forums go anyway .

. Can anyone else see the hypocrisy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Being or not being physically attracted to someone isn’t judging them. We simply cannot all be attracted to eachother. Life does not work like that!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As far as the forums go anyway .

. Can anyone else see the hypocrisy

No one said that? You are just presuming here. If you would meet sone one without a face picture then good luck to you cos you will need it lol

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By *unshineShowers08Couple over a year ago

Glasgow

We arnt judgemental we think yours is the best looking silhouette on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not finding someone attractive is NOT the same as judging them!

It isn't even close!

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By *andsCouple over a year ago

Edin

I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm glad to say that anyone I have ever met have said I am way better looking in the flesh than the pics I sent.

ffs I need Edinburgh Zoo to send me better orangutan pics for my profile

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"As far as the forums go anyway .

. Can anyone else see the hypocrisy

I couldn't have sex with someone I'm not physically attracted to. Do you fuck everyone who messages you? If not how do you "judge" which ones to meet?

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By *issT45 OP Woman over a year ago

Edinburgh

Ok so.how many people have u met and thought instantly nah im not attracted to u but then after a chat u think yeah I actually am ... or ... how.many pics have u seen and then met someone in the flesh and thought wow ur pic doesn't do u any justice ... seeing my point yet all u be urself and who cares what u look like people but please attach a face pic or ur blocked peeps

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By *issT45 OP Woman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"As far as the forums go anyway .

. Can anyone else see the hypocrisy

I couldn't have sex with someone I'm not physically attracted to. Do you fuck everyone who messages you? If not how do you "judge" which ones to meet? "

I meet them because i don't know of I'm attracted to them or not until I do ... I can't tell thro a pic if chemistry is there or not

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"As far as the forums go anyway .

. Can anyone else see the hypocrisy

I couldn't have sex with someone I'm not physically attracted to. Do you fuck everyone who messages you? If not how do you "judge" which ones to meet?

I meet them because i don't know of I'm attracted to them or not until I do ... I can't tell thro a pic if chemistry is there or not "
so do you meet without seeing a face pic?

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By *issT45 OP Woman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"As far as the forums go anyway .

. Can anyone else see the hypocrisy

I couldn't have sex with someone I'm not physically attracted to. Do you fuck everyone who messages you? If not how do you "judge" which ones to meet?

I meet them because i don't know of I'm attracted to them or not until I do ... I can't tell thro a pic if chemistry is there or not so do you meet without seeing a face pic?"

Yeah I have a few times but then I'm meeting for a social to see how things go not a guaranteed fuck so whats to lose ... so far so good

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By *andACouple over a year ago

glasgow

"Ok so.how many people have u met and thought instantly nah im not attracted to u but then after a chat u think yeah I actually am ... or ... how.many pics have u seen and then met someone in the flesh and thought wow ur pic doesn't do u any justice ... seeing my point yet all u be urself and who cares what u look like people but please attach a face pic or ur blocked peeps

To answer both your questions, none. Anyone we've met has always looked good in their pictures, or to word it better we've been attracted to their pictures, and thankfully they've looked just as good in the flesh (although we've usually had a quick cam chat as well so everyone knows what they're getting).

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"As far as the forums go anyway .

. Can anyone else see the hypocrisy

I couldn't have sex with someone I'm not physically attracted to. Do you fuck everyone who messages you? If not how do you "judge" which ones to meet?

I meet them because i don't know of I'm attracted to them or not until I do ... I can't tell thro a pic if chemistry is there or not so do you meet without seeing a face pic?

Yeah I have a few times but then I'm meeting for a social to see how things go not a guaranteed fuck so whats to lose ... so far so good

"
Thats your choice to do so just the same as its others choices to ask for a face pic before meeting

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By *issT45 OP Woman over a year ago

Edinburgh

Tbf cam gives u a much clearer idea of the person ur thinking of meeting

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By *aughty_Jack_ABZMan over a year ago

Aberdeen

I think everyone else has made it pretty clear. No we can't see the hypocrisy, because it's not there.

No-one is going to have sex with someone they don't find attractive. Would you? No.

I certainly wouldn't ...well there was that time in The Grill last year when I had 8 pints of Stella and 4 whiskies, but hey... the 1st rule of The Grill ...etc.

We are physical creatures. Governed sexually primarily by physical attraction. Not by judgement.

Everyone on here will have been rejected by someone after sending the first face pic. You're not their type. Laugh and move on.

Never be afraid to send a face pic, but certainly don't take any form of rejection on here as a judgement or a value of your self worth and allow it to even dent your self confidence.

Hey ... wait a minute ... that silhouette is over a year old ... how do we even know your shadow looks like that anymore!

Happy swinging Jack x

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"As far as the forums go anyway .

. Can anyone else see the hypocrisy

I couldn't have sex with someone I'm not physically attracted to. Do you fuck everyone who messages you? If not how do you "judge" which ones to meet?

I meet them because i don't know of I'm attracted to them or not until I do ... I can't tell thro a pic if chemistry is there or not "

Yes but you don't meet them all, right? So you are judging them somehow?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As far as the forums go anyway .

. Can anyone else see the hypocrisy

I couldn't have sex with someone I'm not physically attracted to. Do you fuck everyone who messages you? If not how do you "judge" which ones to meet?

I meet them because i don't know of I'm attracted to them or not until I do ... I can't tell thro a pic if chemistry is there or not so do you meet without seeing a face pic?

Yeah I have a few times but then I'm meeting for a social to see how things go not a guaranteed fuck so whats to lose ... so far so good

That's great, however just because others don't follow suit doesn't mean they are judging people.

If I don't find a person attractive then no amount of banter is going to change that - I'm not judging them as a person.

Now there are some pictures on here that mean I won't meet a person - THAT is judgmental because I'm taking a view and making a judgement on the activity

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. "
what this chick said

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By *issT45 OP Woman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"As far as the forums go anyway .

. Can anyone else see the hypocrisy

I couldn't have sex with someone I'm not physically attracted to. Do you fuck everyone who messages you? If not how do you "judge" which ones to meet?

I meet them because i don't know of I'm attracted to them or not until I do ... I can't tell thro a pic if chemistry is there or not

Yes but you don't meet them all, right? So you are judging them somehow?"

I never ask for face pics ... I make my mind up on the chat

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By *issT45 OP Woman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I think everyone else has made it pretty clear. No we can't see the hypocrisy, because it's not there.

No-one is going to have sex with someone they don't find attractive. Would you? No.

I certainly wouldn't ...well there was that time in The Grill last year when I had 8 pints of Stella and 4 whiskies, but hey... the 1st rule of The Grill ...etc.

We are physical creatures. Governed sexually primarily by physical attraction. Not by judgement.

Everyone on here will have been rejected by someone after sending the first face pic. You're not their type. Laugh and move on.

Never be afraid to send a face pic, but certainly don't take any form of rejection on here as a judgement or a value of your self worth and allow it to even dent your self confidence.

Hey ... wait a minute ... that silhouette is over a year old ... how do we even know your shadow looks like that anymore!

Happy swinging Jack x

Think u completely missed my point Jack ... never mind

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By *issT45 OP Woman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said

U can look amazing in a face pic but u could still be a psycho;)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said

U can look amazing in a face pic but u could still be a psycho;)"

Nobody is disputing that - however plenty of people have made very valid points that undermine your assertion that not meeting someone because you don't find them attractive is judging them.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said

U can look amazing in a face pic but u could still be a psycho;)

Nobody is disputing that - however plenty of people have made very valid points that undermine your assertion that not meeting someone because you don't find them attractive is judging them. "

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By *issT45 OP Woman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said

U can look amazing in a face pic but u could still be a psycho;)

Nobody is disputing that - however plenty of people have made very valid points that undermine your assertion that not meeting someone because you don't find them attractive is judging them. "

I don't feel undermined at all but maybe a little judged for sharing a different opinion haha

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By *vbride1963TV/TS over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

In reverse if the other person was drop dead gorgeous with the personality of a plank of wood I wouldn’t f**k them . I may just be to fussy though .

I look nothing like my profile pics which is why I don’t mind my face in them . The few that have met me didn’t run away screaming so my normal face can’t be that bad I hope .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If wanting to know what someone looks like before meeting them is being judgmental

Then too I am

I'm not going to sleep with someone because they have a nice personality?

I need physical attraction

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By *issT45 OP Woman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"In reverse if the other person was drop dead gorgeous with the personality of a plank of wood I wouldn’t f**k them . I may just be to fussy though .

I look nothing like my profile pics which is why I don’t mind my face in them . The few that have met me didn’t run away screaming so my normal face can’t be that bad I hope .

Sense at last xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said

U can look amazing in a face pic but u could still be a psycho;)

Nobody is disputing that - however plenty of people have made very valid points that undermine your assertion that not meeting someone because you don't find them attractive is judging them.

I don't feel undermined at all but maybe a little judged for sharing a different opinion haha

The irony is killing me lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"If wanting to know what someone looks like before meeting them is being judgmental

Then too I am

I'm not going to sleep with someone because they have a nice personality?

I need physical attraction "
This^^^^

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said

U can look amazing in a face pic but u could still be a psycho;)

Nobody is disputing that - however plenty of people have made very valid points that undermine your assertion that not meeting someone because you don't find them attractive is judging them.

I don't feel undermined at all but maybe a little judged for sharing a different opinion haha

The irony is killing me lol"

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By *issT45 OP Woman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said

U can look amazing in a face pic but u could still be a psycho;)

Nobody is disputing that - however plenty of people have made very valid points that undermine your assertion that not meeting someone because you don't find them attractive is judging them.

I don't feel undermined at all but maybe a little judged for sharing a different opinion haha

The irony is killing me lol"

Aww bless

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By *estless nativeMan over a year ago

near Glasgow

Everyone judges everyone, its human nature.

Doesnt meen theres any malicious intentions though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said

U can look amazing in a face pic but u could still be a psycho;)

Nobody is disputing that - however plenty of people have made very valid points that undermine your assertion that not meeting someone because you don't find them attractive is judging them.

I don't feel undermined at all but maybe a little judged for sharing a different opinion haha

The irony is killing me lol

never mind them all wifey

you can have me anytime you want and Ill sit and listed to you as you tell me that they all hate you cause you had a different opinion but your so glad that i love you.

Anyways, I dont need yer pic, your face is etched on my heart

(now common, was that smooth or was that smooth)

XxX peter

somehow, I feel I'm ready to wait fur a slagging

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said

U can look amazing in a face pic but u could still be a psycho;)

Nobody is disputing that - however plenty of people have made very valid points that undermine your assertion that not meeting someone because you don't find them attractive is judging them.

I don't feel undermined at all but maybe a little judged for sharing a different opinion haha

The irony is killing me lol

never mind them all wifey

you can have me anytime you want and Ill sit and listed to you as you tell me that they all hate you cause you had a different opinion but your so glad that i love you.

Anyways, I dont need yer pic, your face is etched on my heart

(now common, was that smooth or was that smooth)

XxX peter

somehow, I feel I'm ready to wait fur a slagging

It’s etched on your wall. I drew a selfie!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said

U can look amazing in a face pic but u could still be a psycho;)

Nobody is disputing that - however plenty of people have made very valid points that undermine your assertion that not meeting someone because you don't find them attractive is judging them.

I don't feel undermined at all but maybe a little judged for sharing a different opinion haha

The irony is killing me lol

never mind them all wifey

you can have me anytime you want and Ill sit and listed to you as you tell me that they all hate you cause you had a different opinion but your so glad that i love you.

Anyways, I dont need yer pic, your face is etched on my heart

(now common, was that smooth or was that smooth)

XxX peter

somehow, I feel I'm ready to wait fur a slagging

It’s etched on your wall. I drew a selfie! "

ffs, was it in blood or chalk

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said

U can look amazing in a face pic but u could still be a psycho;)

Nobody is disputing that - however plenty of people have made very valid points that undermine your assertion that not meeting someone because you don't find them attractive is judging them.

I don't feel undermined at all but maybe a little judged for sharing a different opinion haha

The irony is killing me lol

never mind them all wifey

you can have me anytime you want and Ill sit and listed to you as you tell me that they all hate you cause you had a different opinion but your so glad that i love you.

Anyways, I dont need yer pic, your face is etched on my heart

(now common, was that smooth or was that smooth)

XxX peter

somehow, I feel I'm ready to wait fur a slagging

It’s etched on your wall. I drew a selfie!

ffs, was it in blood or chalk

Sharpie marker! That shit is forever!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said

U can look amazing in a face pic but u could still be a psycho;)

Nobody is disputing that - however plenty of people have made very valid points that undermine your assertion that not meeting someone because you don't find them attractive is judging them.

I don't feel undermined at all but maybe a little judged for sharing a different opinion haha

The irony is killing me lol

never mind them all wifey

you can have me anytime you want and Ill sit and listed to you as you tell me that they all hate you cause you had a different opinion but your so glad that i love you.

Anyways, I dont need yer pic, your face is etched on my heart

(now common, was that smooth or was that smooth)

XxX peter

somehow, I feel I'm ready to wait fur a slagging

It’s etched on your wall. I drew a selfie!

ffs, was it in blood or chalk

Sharpie marker! That shit is forever!"

pmslllllllllllllllll

I seriously burst out laughing loud there lollllllll

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By *issT45 OP Woman over a year ago

Edinburgh

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By *issT45 OP Woman over a year ago

Edinburgh

Fab is a funny place

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By *ringles0510Woman over a year ago

Central Borders

"As far as the forums go anyway .

. Can anyone else see the hypocrisy

I couldn't have sex with someone I'm not physically attracted to. Do you fuck everyone who messages you? If not how do you "judge" which ones to meet?

I meet them because i don't know of I'm attracted to them or not until I do ... I can't tell thro a pic if chemistry is there or not

Yes but you don't meet them all, right? So you are judging them somehow?

I never ask for face pics ... I make my mind up on the chat "

That's totally up to you. Doesn't make people who'd like to know who's at the other end before they meet hypocrites x

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By *issT45 OP Woman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"As far as the forums go anyway .

. Can anyone else see the hypocrisy

I couldn't have sex with someone I'm not physically attracted to. Do you fuck everyone who messages you? If not how do you "judge" which ones to meet?

I meet them because i don't know of I'm attracted to them or not until I do ... I can't tell thro a pic if chemistry is there or not

Yes but you don't meet them all, right? So you are judging them somehow?

I never ask for face pics ... I make my mind up on the chat

That's totally up to you. Doesn't make people who'd like to know who's at the other end before they meet hypocrites x"

No ur right it doesnt but it does for people who say 'I don't judge on physical appearance' but then want face pics to confirm attraction before they meet one ... my op wasn't directed at anyone in particular just an observation of fab in general but had a chuckle at the replies

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By *ringles0510Woman over a year ago

Central Borders

"As far as the forums go anyway .

. Can anyone else see the hypocrisy

I couldn't have sex with someone I'm not physically attracted to. Do you fuck everyone who messages you? If not how do you "judge" which ones to meet?

I meet them because i don't know of I'm attracted to them or not until I do ... I can't tell thro a pic if chemistry is there or not

Yes but you don't meet them all, right? So you are judging them somehow?

I never ask for face pics ... I make my mind up on the chat

That's totally up to you. Doesn't make people who'd like to know who's at the other end before they meet hypocrites x

Ah I see. These non judging on appearance folk probably want reassurance it's a real person maybe?

That's what it must be...

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By *issT45 OP Woman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"As far as the forums go anyway .

. Can anyone else see the hypocrisy

I couldn't have sex with someone I'm not physically attracted to. Do you fuck everyone who messages you? If not how do you "judge" which ones to meet?

I meet them because i don't know of I'm attracted to them or not until I do ... I can't tell thro a pic if chemistry is there or not

Yes but you don't meet them all, right? So you are judging them somehow?

I never ask for face pics ... I make my mind up on the chat

That's totally up to you. Doesn't make people who'd like to know who's at the other end before they meet hypocrites x

Ah I see. These non judging on appearance folk probably want reassurance it's a real person maybe?

That's what it must be... "

Suppose that would work if a face pic guaranteed they where a real person ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone is different. If someone isn't bother to see someone before they meet then that's there choice.

We would want to see a pic and have a short video call before meeting up. If people aren't ok with that then no worries.

Would suck if everyone was the same

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Clean hair is all I ask

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By *ola cubesMan over a year ago

coatbridge

I judge and care little about what folk think about it.

the forum warcry used to be "I dont judge" though recently its changed to everybody judges it seems what folk think is more akin to what is believed to be the in the popular thought.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I did meet one guy whose face pic was great and definitely felt an immediate attraction. However on meeting I found him to be excruciatingly boring and narcissistic and no amount of great looks was enough to entice me to his hotel room!

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By *ind manMan over a year ago

Inverness

What if the reason why you dont do face pics is due to not wanting to meet anyone

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By *yldstyleWoman over a year ago

A world of my own

I recently changed my avatar to a face pic.. I've still had nasty emails.

I wouldn't meet anyone without seeing a face or them seeing mine first. However you do what works best for you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do admit I like to see a face pic eventually before I meet but I'm truly into the personality to see if there is possible connection that may end in a meet. Personally if I find them attractive doesn't mean we are going to fuck, I need a connection as well and I feel the same way if we meet

I don't judge by pics though but it does give you an idea of their looks but I'm always open minded as pepeple can look way different to their pics, good or bed.

But hey that's just me, Connection and not just a face pic

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not attracted to conventionally handsome chappies tbh. Guys who are generally know it. I like guys with perhaps unusual features but who know their own worth with no insecurities.

Personality is the key

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By *andom2chatMan over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Maybe wandering slightly off topic but I decided to keep face pics private after I was recognised by a work colleague. Since then I don’t have face pics in public on any Social Media platforms. I only send them in PM’s & use the delete function after they’ve been read.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe wandering slightly off topic but I decided to keep face pics private after I was recognised by a work colleague. Since then I don’t have face pics in public on any Social Media platforms. I only send them in PM’s & use the delete function after they’ve been read.

Ffs are we agreeing lolooollol

Exact Same reason.

You never know who is on the other end so I delete pics after they read

But contradicting myself here I always send a fave pic even if they haven't asked, just being polite so they know who is chatting to them

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By *andom2chatMan over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

"Ffs are we agreeing lolooollol

Exact Same reason.

You never know who is on the other end so I delete pics after they read

But contradicting myself here I always send a fave pic even if they haven't asked, just being polite so they know who is chatting to them

I didn’t know we disagreed on stuff (other than our sexual preference) lol.

However, yes I like to send a face pic to some folk I message that I’m reasonably sure I’ve not worked with or know from outside Fab. That way they can (hopefully) get an idea that I don’t look like a psychopath LOL

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Pmslllll. We haven't yet disagreed unless you say my cock is big when I think it's tiny

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"As far as the forums go anyway .

. Can anyone else see the hypocrisy

I couldn't have sex with someone I'm not physically attracted to. Do you fuck everyone who messages you? If not how do you "judge" which ones to meet?

I meet them because i don't know of I'm attracted to them or not until I do ... I can't tell thro a pic if chemistry is there or not so do you meet without seeing a face pic?

Yeah I have a few times but then I'm meeting for a social to see how things go not a guaranteed fuck so whats to lose ... so far so good

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"As far as the forums go anyway .

. Can anyone else see the hypocrisy

I couldn't have sex with someone I'm not physically attracted to. Do you fuck everyone who messages you? If not how do you "judge" which ones to meet?

I meet them because i don't know of I'm attracted to them or not until I do ... I can't tell thro a pic if chemistry is there or not so do you meet without seeing a face pic?

Yeah I have a few times but then I'm meeting for a social to see how things go not a guaranteed fuck so whats to lose ... so far so good

You are very lucky you have so much available time to go to all these social meets. Perhaps if I had more time I could adopt this strategy. But I don’t, so I will want to see a picture in the meantime!"
Thats my thoughts too ...Id rather be doing social meets with people im attracted to than wasting time on a social with some I may or may not be attracted too

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By *andom2chatMan over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

"Pmslllll. We haven't yet disagreed unless you say my cock is big when I think it's tiny

I’ve NEVER seen it!!!

Though I will admit you’re more handsome in the flesh than when you’re on cam in Chat. (Not that I thought you were a munter in Chat LMAO!)

So take note ladies, he’s not fugly.

Now I’m wandering to “Verification” territory. Haha!

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By *p4funduoCouple over a year ago

Edinburgh

Sadly my time is too short to not do some sort of filtering. Maybe it is judging but I don't think so.face pics a bit of banter in messages and a call is a good decider for me. I do however go to socials too so usually chat to folks I have had none of above from.

Good luck with your chosen methods OP x

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By *andom2chatMan over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

"Thats my thoughts too ...Id rather be doing social meets with people im attracted to than wasting time on a social with some I may or may not be attracted too

But your Socials are EPIC! (Now I really am wandering). I always met folk I’d maybe never known were even on Fab, & most of them I can honestly say we’re lovely people. Even the odd hottie I could (ahem) get to know better.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Pmslllllllllllllll

Ya maddie

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By *rscotsdudeMan over a year ago

angus

It's an interesting post. I have always known Im not everyone's cup of tea and often sending a face pic does me no favours!

However over the years and long before fab I know my chat has always been the factor that has helped. Know plenty women who I know I'm not there type but with good chat and laughs that can change. Everyone is different but the one bastard with fab is often don't get past sending a pic but I understand as plenty of good looking guys to choose from. Never get the chance to give my diamond chat!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone has characteristics which will appeal to someone. Banter,chat, looks, face, body even confidence or Insecurities, strength in character etc... But there are many people who decide after seeing a face pic they will delete and not bother.

I was at two socials in the space of a couple o months and was chatted up by two couples and a female, at different times, who had deleted my mail and even blocked and they hadn't realised lololll

I can't remember why they blocked as I don't send rude mail, or Cock pics or even ask for a meet, it's always general chat and a face pic included. Needless to say both couples and females wanted to arrange private meet with me

If we delete nail because we do t think we are attracted to someone we that's the chance we take and we are all usually right but there are some that we may all delete that if paths crossed then we might see them in a different t way/ light.

Ffs sometimes I sound intelligent n caring, then again

Right, anyway I'm away to see if there's a post where a girl asks do guys like holding a girl down while fucking get ass as she screams fir more

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Thats my thoughts too ...Id rather be doing social meets with people im attracted to than wasting time on a social with some I may or may not be attracted too

"
I was meaning 121 socials but thanks

We have good taste when it comes to hotties

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By *andom2chatMan over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

"Everyone has characteristics which will appeal to someone.... If we delete nail because we do t think we are attracted to someone we that's the chance we take and we are all usually right but there are some that we may all delete that if paths crossed then we might see them in a different t way/ light.

Agree. (Twice in one day???)

That’s why I always advise Newbies to go to the Group Socials or even a 121 where you can get a better idea of mutual compatibility much better than from photos or mails.

I’m not aware of folk who have Blocked me then met at a Group Social but I’m reasonably sure it’s happened & also vice versa where I’ve blocked folk not looking for folk like me (so that I don’t bother them).

Perhaps that is me pre-judging them if I’ve sensed hostility in Chat Rooms, or by their Profile blurb, or even comments on the Forums, but it is just me saving myself the bother in life. I have had many ocassions where folk I’ve initially felt wouldn’t get on with me that later became good friends on Fab. In contrast I’ve also had folk I was initially attracted to (mentally or physically) later became “ugly” in my eyes. So perhaps pictures don’t always tell you everything you need to know about a person.

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By *andom2chatMan over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

"I was meaning 121 socials but thanks

We have good taste when it comes to hotties

I’d like to think so.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Agree. (Twice in one day???)

That’s why I always advise Newbies to go to the Group Socials or even a 121 where you can get a better idea of mutual compatibility much better than from photos or mails.

Fab. In contrast I’ve also had folk I was initially attracted to (mentally or physically) later became “ugly” in my eyes. So perhaps pictures don’t always tell you everything you need to know about a person. "
.

Agreed, this is murder ain't it lololo.

The only reason why I knew I was blocked because I noticed they were going to the socials as well so I suspected they didn't like what they saw in my pics as said above I didn't ask for anything nor show Cock pic. Etc.....

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By *andACouple over a year ago

glasgow

I think some people see the word 'judge' and assume the worst.

When we judge someone on here it's about judging how suitable they are as a meet. We aren't judging their character or worth as a human being.

*Correction - occasionally we do make a judgement on someone's character based on posts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

*Correction - occasionally we do make a judgement on someone's character based on posts

Ffs looks like that's me out then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said

Yep couldnt have said it better myself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said

Yep couldnt have said it better myself

Ok so what happens if you are at a party (as I was) and it descended into a one room orgy of 8 couples? Do you bar a few of the guys from touching you because you don't find them attractive? Knock them back in front of their partners? Don't think these rules apply here somehow. Precisely the reason I left the room after 5 minutes as I was expected to undress and play with any of the guys/females who happened to fancy me. Let's face it, 8 couples aren't going to fancy every other couple - are they?

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By *andsCouple over a year ago

Edin

"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said

Yep couldnt have said it better myself

Why don’t these rules apply?? If I don’t find someone attractive I don’t have sex with them what’s difficult to understand about that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said

Yep couldnt have said it better myself

Why don’t these rules apply?? If I don’t find someone attractive I don’t have sex with them what’s difficult to understand about that

Agreed and I would feel the same way if at a swinging club.

Heard stories from couples who have had a meet and one of them doesn't like the person they are meeting but they have had sex just to make their partner happy.

I will never get over this one.

So you all know, the person they met that one of them didn't find attractive, wasn't me.

Just Saying Like

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By *ola cubesMan over a year ago

coatbridge

"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said

Yep couldnt have said it better myself

Why don’t these rules apply?? If I don’t find someone attractive I don’t have sex with them what’s difficult to understand about that

"
I wiuld also have no problem saying no

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said

Yep couldnt have said it better myself

Why don’t these rules apply?? If I don’t find someone attractive I don’t have sex with them what’s difficult to understand about that

Think on that occasion it would have been awkward.. everyone seemed to join in and I left to go into the other room as I didn't fancy a few of the guys or ladies. I think with a same room orgy everyone is expected to play with everyone. Or perhaps my party was the exception?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said

Yep couldnt have said it better myself

Why don’t these rules apply?? If I don’t find someone attractive I don’t have sex with them what’s difficult to understand about that

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By *exicolaMan over a year ago

West Lothian

Sent a face pic after a few messages back and forth to someone and was instantly blocked.

Cheers,

A polite you're not for me would have sufficed

Lucky I've thick skin! Or maybe they know me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said

Yep couldnt have said it better myself

Why don’t these rules apply?? If I don’t find someone attractive I don’t have sex with them what’s difficult to understand about that

True. Which I don't think was the case with this one, hence the reason for my hasty exit to the room next door!

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By *alcon43Woman over a year ago

Paisley

"I make a decision primarily on pics, you can be the nicest of of people but if I don’t find you attractive I’m not going to F**k you end of. what this chick said

Yep couldnt have said it better myself

Why don’t these rules apply?? If I don’t find someone attractive I don’t have sex with them what’s difficult to understand about that

There should always be the option not to play. I left a party as I didn’t fancy anyone and the behaviour of one of the guys (he spanked a girl so hard it left a handprint while she was giving another guy a bj.) Could have had severe consequences if she’d bitten down! My problem was she didn’t have a clue it was going to happen. No one spanks me without permission.

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