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over a year ago
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What is people's views on BBW?
I have added this to my profile but I really dislike using this term but think fat Isnt any better. And I don't want people thinking im big headed by saying I'm beautiful as I don't nessarily think that way about me.
Before anyone starts I'm not saying people who use this are fat but should I just stick to the term "I'm a big girl" "I'm a fatty" or "I'm bbw" lol x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is people's views on BBW?
I have added this to my profile but I really dislike using this term but think fat Isnt any better. And I don't want people thinking im big headed by saying I'm beautiful as I don't nessarily think that way about me.
Before anyone starts I'm not saying people who use this are fat but should I just stick to the term "I'm a big girl" "I'm a fatty" or "I'm bbw" lol x
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Who cares about terminology ... just do your own thing xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly, it bothers me that ladies find it necessary to even mention this.
Sure, we all have our type and our preferences but surely we're past the stage of judging people on physical appearance alone?
When's the last time you saw 'BBM' on a guy's profile - but I bet there's a lot of beer bellies that'd qualify! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When i hear women describe themselves as, plus size, big....etc, it makes me sad, as usually they are just curvy, with big boobs, round bum, ....a lush figure, ive seen plenty of size 20 22.. ladies on here that are abso
Utley stunning, and any man, woman or couple would be very lucky to be with them  , |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is people's views on BBW?
I have added this to my profile but I really dislike using this term but think fat Isnt any better. And I don't want people thinking im big headed by saying I'm beautiful as I don't nessarily think that way about me.
Before anyone starts I'm not saying people who use this are fat but should I just stick to the term "I'm a big girl" "I'm a fatty" or "I'm bbw" lol x
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There is such a wide difference in opinion based on everyone's own preferences. For me, I love a curvy woman and the term bbw makes me think curvy in all the right places. Oh and based on your pictures I would say you are definitely a sexy lady with curves in all the right places.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is people's views on BBW?
I have added this to my profile but I really dislike using this term but think fat Isnt any better. And I don't want people thinking im big headed by saying I'm beautiful as I don't nessarily think that way about me.
Before anyone starts I'm not saying people who use this are fat but should I just stick to the term "I'm a big girl" "I'm a fatty" or "I'm bbw" lol x
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there are guys who love size 6 skinny ladies and there are guys who love actual women, with bumps and curves etc
bumps and curves are good imho. |
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"What is people's views on BBW?
I have added this to my profile but I really dislike using this term but think fat Isnt any better. And I don't want people thinking im big headed by saying I'm beautiful as I don't nessarily think that way about me.
Before anyone starts I'm not saying people who use this are fat but should I just stick to the term "I'm a big girl" "I'm a fatty" or "I'm bbw" lol x
there are guys who love size 6 skinny ladies and there are guys who love actual women, with bumps and curves etc
bumps and curves are good imho."
this is the type of view that gives fems a complex so unless you are clinically overweight your a "skinny lady" you know the type thats not an actual woman you know the type with bumps and curves.
I really detest the term in much the same way as I dislike barbie type or skinny burd |
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"What is people's views on BBW?
I have added this to my profile but I really dislike using this term but think fat Isnt any better. And I don't want people thinking im big headed by saying I'm beautiful as I don't nessarily think that way about me.
Before anyone starts I'm not saying people who use this are fat but should I just stick to the term "I'm a big girl" "I'm a fatty" or "I'm bbw" lol x
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I wouldn’t encourage the use of the word fat that’s not the nicest,using curvy is totally fine.As someone said above all women are beautiful and just because you have a few curves doesn’t make a woman any less attractive tbh.Sue is curvy and damn right sexy with it tbh,I’ve seen some beautiful looking curvy women on this site and equally women who aren’t.A just say be proud of who you are  my preference personally is a curvy lady but that’s exactly that a preference,doesn’t mean we rule out smaller sized ladies whatsoever xx |
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"What is people's views on BBW?
I have added this to my profile but I really dislike using this term but think fat Isnt any better. And I don't want people thinking im big headed by saying I'm beautiful as I don't nessarily think that way about me.
Before anyone starts I'm not saying people who use this are fat but should I just stick to the term "I'm a big girl" "I'm a fatty" or "I'm bbw" lol x
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use whatever term you feel comfortable using.
Some will see a beautiful bigger woman some wont
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Call yourself what you wish op, after all it's your body.
You have photos on your profile so people can see if you are their type or not.
To be 100% honest you could be a Size 50 (if that exists) and you would get offers on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personal opinions as a large lady...
I detest the word BBW, it's synonymous with a fetish and experimenting for me. Far too many guys have messaged saying they'd love to try sex with a BBW etc, I'd rather someone wanted sex with me because of an attraction.
Personally I don't label myself as fat either. I have fat, I have large amounts of it on my body but I am not fat. I have hair, again I have quite a lot of it (especially in winter when it's tights season lol) but I'm not hair.
I don't feel the need to bring attention to my size on my profile as my photos adequately show my body type, and that's what people should decide if they find physically attractive or not. I'm fully aware some will, some won't but I don't take offence if someone says they prefer slimmer women.
But at the end of the day do what works for you, what makes you comfortable!xx |
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Your right... we shouldnt have to mention our size .... in the blue sky thinking world ... it shouldnt matter ... but for me some guys are obsessed with size 12/14/16 gorgeous ladies who they portray to be fonder of
So id rather be honest .... im fat..... |
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Hi.
Just be yourself, size doesn’t matter it is the person and people who don’t know that are sad, I would much rather chat to some one who is happy in them self as someone who thinks look at me. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi.
Just be yourself, size doesn’t matter it is the person and people who don’t know that are sad, I would much rather chat to some one who is happy in them self as someone who thinks look at me. Xx"
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I’m honest from the outset and tell people I’m a big girl. I don’t want to meet someone and they feel like they have been catfished cos they have ended up with a big lass with a soft body and a mummy tummy.
Probably says more about myself and my self consciousness though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Size 20 here with curves and bumps and feel sexy, do I care what folk think ???? No, I am me xxx
Christine hi my lovely friend well said and bet you hot and sexy "
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"I’m honest from the outset and tell people I’m a big girl. I don’t want to meet someone and they feel like they have been catfished cos they have ended up with a big lass with a soft body and a mummy tummy.
Probably says more about myself and my self consciousness though. "
Such a lovely body it is too.
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"I’m honest from the outset and tell people I’m a big girl. I don’t want to meet someone and they feel like they have been catfished cos they have ended up with a big lass with a soft body and a mummy tummy.
Probably says more about myself and my self consciousness though.
Such a lovely body it is too.
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Ah you! Always the charmer  |
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It really is ur personal preference. I am very honest about the fact I am fat but I am also happy exactly as I am. I am averagely pretty but like to think I’m a good person and that’s enough for me. Everyone has their own ideas on it. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have used BBW before on my profile however took it away.
Im a bigger curvier girl at the moment and i do let guys know this when we message...ive had a couple just message me to say that saying curvy just means im fat and shouldnt bother with this...they got blocked. However the guys ive met seem to have liked my curves and especially my big boobs...but where are all the guys like this in the real world outside Fab...lol
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"I have used BBW before on my profile however took it away.
Im a bigger curvier girl at the moment and i do let guys know this when we message...ive had a couple just message me to say that saying curvy just means im fat and shouldnt bother with this...they got blocked. However the guys ive met seem to have liked my curves and especially my big boobs...but where are all the guys like this in the real world outside Fab...lol
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what makes you believe these are diffrent guys from outwith fab ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have used BBW before on my profile however took it away.
Im a bigger curvier girl at the moment and i do let guys know this when we message...ive had a couple just message me to say that saying curvy just means im fat and shouldnt bother with this...they got blocked. However the guys ive met seem to have liked my curves and especially my big boobs...but where are all the guys like this in the real world outside Fab...lol
what makes you believe these are diffrent guys from outwith fab ?"
I guess ive still to find a guy who finds me attractive outside of Fab...no one has ever told me i am and no one seems interested when i try and chat to them etc
One of my friends is now saying i need to slim down to find a man.
I guess just trying to find someone is just getting more challanging and confusing.
Im lucky though...the guys ive met here have been lovely x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have used BBW before on my profile however took it away.
Im a bigger curvier girl at the moment and i do let guys know this when we message...ive had a couple just message me to say that saying curvy just means im fat and shouldnt bother with this...they got blocked. However the guys ive met seem to have liked my curves and especially my big boobs...but where are all the guys like this in the real world outside Fab...lol
what makes you believe these are diffrent guys from outwith fab ?
I guess ive still to find a guy who finds me attractive outside of Fab...no one has ever told me i am and no one seems interested when i try and chat to them etc
One of my friends is now saying i need to slim down to find a man.
I guess just trying to find someone is just getting more challanging and confusing.
Im lucky though...the guys ive met here have been lovely x"
Another lady that looks fine , curves are beautiful , enjoy yourself on fabs mrs x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally think BBW is a fine word to use as it lets others know what they are getting when meeting someone
Curvy can be an hourglass to somewhere bigger and don't get me started on fabulous as if no idea what that Is?
Too many folk don't have public pics so can be a minefield for those who do have preference on who they want to meet? |
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"I have used BBW before on my profile however took it away.
Im a bigger curvier girl at the moment and i do let guys know this when we message...ive had a couple just message me to say that saying curvy just means im fat and shouldnt bother with this...they got blocked. However the guys ive met seem to have liked my curves and especially my big boobs...but where are all the guys like this in the real world outside Fab...lol
what makes you believe these are diffrent guys from outwith fab ?
I guess ive still to find a guy who finds me attractive outside of Fab...no one has ever told me i am and no one seems interested when i try and chat to them etc
One of my friends is now saying i need to slim down to find a man.
I guess just trying to find someone is just getting more challanging and confusing.
Im lucky though...the guys ive met here have been lovely x"
people are people there is no diffrence between guys here and outwith fab.
you friend imo is completly wrong when you show you are happy in your skin it makes you more approachable its very little to do with size. If it is would that person intrest you anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find all women beautiful. I don't like labels. You can have the same fun with any woman no matter what. I just love to please them in any way they want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Aww thanks all.
Yes the friend is alot slimmer...she met me when i was alot slimmer too...now struggling to lose the weight again but truth be told...i just want to be happy in any shell lol x |
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I have to say I’ve got a new found confidence in my body since joining Fab.
When I first saw some girls pics I about died of shame cos they were all slim, with pert boobs and perfect make up and it terrified me.
I’ve been lucky enough to play with some genuinely decent guys who have the ability to make me feel like an absolute goddess, and it’s very unexpected! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are many words used to describe this type of figure as long as they are not abusive and the person been addressed is happy with the term use them.
I adore the fuller, curvy, busty figure as do many others so if you are of that build then enjoy the adjulation as you are all gorgeous ladies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never get put off by seeing BBW in profile but feel that the oprion for descibing size can be a bit of a minefield for males as well as frmales ...do idescrube my self as slimmish with a slight middle age spread ...as seems im not the greek adonis evryone else is looking for |
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By *ind manMan
over a year ago
Inverness |
"What is people's views on BBW?
I have added this to my profile but I really dislike using this term but think fat Isnt any better. And I don't want people thinking im big headed by saying I'm beautiful as I don't nessarily think that way about me.
Before anyone starts I'm not saying people who use this are fat but should I just stick to the term "I'm a big girl" "I'm a fatty" or "I'm bbw" lol x
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BBW why anyone uses that is beyond me , women come in all shapes and sizes and I have been with bigger girls and skinny girls alike and preference to me is nether here no there attitude and personality is what matters and bubblyness,
Society has screwed up human nature, skinny dolly girls can be stuck up snobbish cows but so can bigger girls .
There should be no need to categorise your body shape by that stupid accronym . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve said in my profile that I’m a bigger girl as I hate BBW
I’ve had abuse for that and been called fat by ignorant assholes but I’ve learned to rise about it now. Used to let it get to me
We can’t all be attracted to the same types of people but I’ve also had guys compliment my curves.
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By *ottieBBWWoman
over a year ago
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I use BBW and never thought too much about it. Initially used it to highlight to those looking at profile that, yes i am a bigger busty fuller figured female, and to hopefully illicit mail from those who may find me attractive.
A lot of females use curvy regardless of acutal size. I also would use it but think that it indicates shape rather than size. So guess it's all about what you want to protray to others. Personally I like the term rubenesque x
I didn't consider that some may think I could be conceited by using it - far from it i feel beautiful refers to my body and the person i am not necessarily if i'm good looking or not.
Thanks OP for posting x |
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Slim, Athletic, curvy ( slightly fat) then proper fat. It's no good trying to Fanny about. But there is someone for everyone , so if your happy being slim or happy being fat then that's all cool. If your not happy being slim, eat more, if your not happy being fat eat less, it's not rocket science really! |
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"Slim, Athletic, curvy ( slightly fat) then proper fat. It's no good trying to Fanny about. But there is someone for everyone , so if your happy being slim or happy being fat then that's all cool. If your not happy being slim, eat more, if your not happy being fat eat less, it's not rocket science really!"
Anyone ask for dietary advice? Well here it is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each of the descriptive terms are fine - although I do dislike women (or anyone else) describing themselves as fat or fatty. It tends to be presented in a self critical manner or sometimes even apologetic, there is absolutely no need. Big buxom wenches come this way! |
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the descriptions are open to interpretation.... one persons big is anothers curvy..
too one person 'average' is more or less the right weight for your height, to another average is the same but maybe carrying a little bit extra padding...
it doesnt really matter at the end of the day 
the only one that makes me shake my head (or laugh) is when someone is clearly well overweight and describe themselves as "athletic".... athletic?... aye, only if you consider sumo a sport  |
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By *hav02Man
over a year ago
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BBW represents a huge spectrum in my opinion. So many self-professed BBWs on here.
On one end are the small bodied yet overly busty, and on the other end are multiple wobbly rolls of skin.
At the end of the day, it's the person that matters, not their curves |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
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To me BBW is for women who are confident and comfortable with their size.
I admire them for it.
I am neither of these things, so it will seem odd to most that I chose fabulous. It seemed odd to me too initially, however as someome else pointed out it can mean anything and that's exactly why I chose it. |
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"What is people's views on BBW?
I have added this to my profile but I really dislike using this term but think fat Isnt any better. And I don't want people thinking im big headed by saying I'm beautiful as I don't nessarily think that way about me.
Before anyone starts I'm not saying people who use this are fat but should I just stick to the term "I'm a big girl" "I'm a fatty" or "I'm bbw" lol x
there are guys who love size 6 skinny ladies and there are guys who love actual women, with bumps and curves etc
bumps and curves are good imho."
So my Mrs is a size 6/8 because she trains hard to be that way. Does that mean she's not an actual woman because she doesn't have bumps and curves?? I think she is all woman and stunning |
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By *nox.Woman
over a year ago
Glasgow |
I use bbw when I bother to write a profile. It's not the most important thing about me but I like to make it clear from the start so I don't get men looking for slimmer women messaging me cause that's just awkward. The term bigger girl seems apologetic to me and I have used it in the past.
End of the day everyone likes different things so being clear about it in any way you choose is what matters.
I'm sure even slimmer girls get horrible messages on here too and have to put up with reading "bones are for dogs meat is for men" etc shite constantly and I've yet to see a slim girl appreciation thread unlike the bbw thread that's gone mental.
To each their own I guess. |
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I'd rather meet a real woman with curves lumps n bumps who has personality over a lady who is body perfect with no personality every time.
So what woukd you class a big bloke as then if your being labled bbw that's something I've always wondered about |
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