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over a year ago
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"Some women put "I won't go with anyone who has lots of veri's" which might be off-putting for some who do have lots. "
Seriously why would you give a flying fuck? If someone is going to make a judgement on you as a person based soleley upon the number of people who have acknowledges they have met you in person.....why give a rats arse if they find it "off-putting"? |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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"Some women put "I won't go with anyone who has lots of veri's" which might be off-putting for some who do have lots.
Seriously why would you give a flying fuck? If someone is going to make a judgement on you as a person based soleley upon the number of people who have acknowledges they have met you in person.....why give a rats arse if they find it "off-putting"?"
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"Does having a lot put folk off?  "
did you set yourself a target of how many you would meet when you joined?
Honestly its upto each individual who and how often they want to meet its why were all here after all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It can be a bit intimadating for a couple new to the scene to see other couples with lots of experience. However experience has it own benefits.
In terms of single guys it can put us off. We declined to meet a guy who had met someone with a high number of verifications for bareback sex in the back of a van.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Verifications mean hee haw to me.
I mean cmon on ....... some are just hilarious and cringeworthy. 
I make my own mind up about ppl if/when I meet them and won't be swayed by others opinions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Verifications mean hee haw to me.
I mean cmon on ....... some are just hilarious and cringeworthy.
I make my own mind up about ppl if/when I meet them and won't be swayed by others opinions. "
Bang on the money |
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A lot of verifications from socials, fine..
A lot with some from socials, some repeat veri's, fine..
A lot of play veri's but over a lengthy period onsite, fine. A couple in a relationship probably have sex more..
A lot of graphic veri's in a short period of time, puts me off...
Verifications mentioning bareback, from barebackers, no chance..
Veri's from minging, known cumbuckets I wouldn't touch with a bargepole, no danger.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A lot of verifications from socials, fine..
A lot with some from socials, some repeat veri's, fine..
A lot of play veri's but over a lengthy period onsite, fine. A couple in a relationship probably have sex more..
A lot of graphic veri's in a short period of time, puts me off...
Verifications mentioning bareback, from barebackers, no chance..
Veri's from minging, known cumbuckets I wouldn't touch with a bargepole, no danger.."
Jesus H that is scathing lol |
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"A lot of verifications from socials, fine..
A lot with some from socials, some repeat veri's, fine..
A lot of play veri's but over a lengthy period onsite, fine. A couple in a relationship probably have sex more..
A lot of graphic veri's in a short period of time, puts me off...
Verifications mentioning bareback, from barebackers, no chance..
Veri's from minging, known cumbuckets I wouldn't touch with a bargepole, no danger..
Jesus H that is scathing lol"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A lot of verifications from socials, fine..
A lot with some from socials, some repeat veri's, fine..
A lot of play veri's but over a lengthy period onsite, fine. A couple in a relationship probably have sex more..
A lot of graphic veri's in a short period of time, puts me off...
Verifications mentioning bareback, from barebackers, no chance..
Veri's from minging, known cumbuckets I wouldn't touch with a bargepole, no danger..
Jesus H that is scathing lol
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Well said though |
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Have quite a few verifications but as my profile is just over a year old, most verifications are from a few years back so they verified my new profile at the time.
Most are socials anyways but if people don't want to know because they think it's a lot of verifications then its cool, I don't judge people that way and if they do then I'm sure they will find someone else |
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"Have quite a few verifications but as my profile is just over a year old, most verifications are from a few years back so they verified my new profile at the time.
Most are socials anyways but if people don't want to know because they think it's a lot of verifications then its cool, I don't judge people that way and if they do then I'm sure they will find someone else "
Same here. I have many but most are socials |
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A fair few of mine are from socials. It does bother me how many people have although unfortunately I was told be a woman who I was chatting to for a couple of weeks that I was too active (I only wish, lol) for her which is fine as it's her choice. |
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"Some are just social verifications do you can't judge solely on number. "
My thoughts exactly. Quite a few of ours are social meets. But lots doesn't necessarily put us off. TBF don't really notice the number. |
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"A fair few of mine are from socials. It does bother me how many people have although unfortunately I was told be a woman who I was chatting to for a couple of weeks that I was too active (I only wish, lol) for her which is fine as it's her choice. "
well said Ollief and take it as her loss.
If you have a lot of verification it could be that your a kl guy and people want your company even in a social capacity.
I'm usually asked to small parties to stand in the corner and get the parted started and when the fun is about to start, they throw me out onto the flowerbeds  |
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"A fair few of mine are from socials. It does bother me how many people have although unfortunately I was told be a woman who I was chatting to for a couple of weeks that I was too active (I only wish, lol) for her which is fine as it's her choice.
well said Ollief and take it as her loss.
If you have a lot of verification it could be that your a kl guy and people want your company even in a social capacity.
I'm usually asked to small parties to stand in the corner and get the parted started and when the fun is about to start, they throw me out onto the flowerbeds "
Sheesh horsey talking sense I'm off to buy a lotto ticket seen as I thought more chance of winning that then me agreeing horsey sane ha |
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"A fair few of mine are from socials. It does bother me how many people have although unfortunately I was told be a woman who I was chatting to for a couple of weeks that I was too active (I only wish, lol) for her which is fine as it's her choice.
well said Ollief and take it as her loss.
If you have a lot of verification it could be that your a kl guy and people want your company even in a social capacity.
I'm usually asked to small parties to stand in the corner and get the parted started and when the fun is about to start, they throw me out onto the flowerbeds
Sheesh horsey talking sense I'm off to buy a lotto ticket seen as I thought more chance of winning that then me agreeing horsey sane ha "
I always take sane, some people like my opinion and some don't. Suppose its the same for everyone's opinion right enough, some agree, some don't.
Anyways I have verifications displayed and some hidden, Don't want there being too many lollllllllllll |
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By (user no longer on site)
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To be honest i really can't see what use they are ( i know people use to gauge others ) as these days you can hide them and the site gives you a tick and lets you know how many they have meet ie fem , male , cpl's tv/cd .
An on the other hand there will be people saying its upto them to decide if they wish to show or not ( fully understand this and i agree with them there , A bit like the pics scenario )
So to save all the opinions best just get rid off them full stop cause then you can find out for yourself what the person is like face to face. |
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