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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you have someone on your hotlist can they find out they are on it? I have never looked at hotlist no I dont think so Tracy  "
There are some desirable guys I do fancy but my instinct is that as they haven't ever messaged me I would think it pointless to put them on a hotlist. Does this make sense? Lol! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Theres a few hot profiles on my hotlist i wouldnt message but not for that reason ...more because i am not what they are looking for going by their profile  "
Same here
nice profile and pics but we're not looking for the same thing, had this a few times when chatting to people as I have only meet at organised socials and clubs/parties (unless I've previously met them) and lots of couples want you to go to there house for a first meet. |
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"If you have someone on your hotlist can they find out they are on it? I have never looked at hotlist no I dont think so Tracy
There are some desirable guys I do fancy but my instinct is that as they haven't ever messaged me I would think it pointless to put them on a hotlist. Does this make sense? Lol! "
no because they might be like you and holding back lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Did actually have someone on my hotlist who I hadn't message yet send me a message out of the blue last month. First time for everything I guess including pleasant surprises  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you someone on your hotlist who you fancy the pants off but would never contact as you think they would never meet you?"
Nope but recently had a message from someone who said "btw I know you've hidden your profile but you're on my hotlist and I just thought I'd let you know I can still see you. You're not invisible"   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have one couple on my hotlist, the fem half is absolutely stunning. I'm certain we have spoken very briefly on other social media platforms, you know that feeling when you think you might have spotted someone?
Single guy filters are on so that's the end of that really, even though it's easy to say hi elsewhere I think that would be shit to try, see it as the filter is on here for a reason and that deserves to be respected.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you honestly believe they would never meet you why have them on your Hotlist in the first instance? It should (in our opinion) never be a case of the "tail wagging the dog". |
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"If you honestly believe they would never meet you why have them on your Hotlist in the first instance? It should (in our opinion) never be a case of the "tail wagging the dog"."
why not ?....perhaps they have some really hot pics that we like to admire lol
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By *argaidMan
over a year ago
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A couple I've never messaged because they're too far away. Our, like the honourable gent mentioned earlier, I'm not what they're looking for.
One who was on my friends list on the previous incarnation of this profile but whose filters block me from contacting her.  |
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"Have you someone on your hotlist who you fancy the pants off but would never contact as you think they would never meet you?"
Yes, guilty, for having a couple of women on my hotlist I would like to ask out, but the chances are, they are out of my league (sigh).
Or maybe I'm just to innocent to ask   |
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"If you honestly believe they would never meet you why have them on your Hotlist in the first instance? It should (in our opinion) never be a case of the "tail wagging the dog".why not ?....perhaps they have some really hot pics that we like to admire lol"
Exactly lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you honestly believe they would never meet you why have them on your Hotlist in the first instance? It should (in our opinion) never be a case of the "tail wagging the dog".why not ?....perhaps they have some really hot pics that we like to admire lol"
So it's about wank bank material? Sorry but the only people we have on our hotlist are people we have a realistic chance of meeting with otherwise what is the point? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" There are some desirable guys I do fancy but my instinct is that as they haven't ever messaged me I would think it pointless to put them on a hotlist. Does this make sense? Lol! "
Maybe they're sitting thinking the same thing. The desirable lady hasn't contacted me even though I've looked at her profile so she must not be interested type scenario. The thing is that with the ability to hide whether you've looked at a profile people will never know that someone on their hotlist has actually looked at them.
Personally, I've mailed a few on my list but a lot of the time the mail just gets deleted because they are inundated with emails from other guys. Then there's also the ones you can't because you're outside the age range they're looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I set my filters and have a couple of different searches saved. If I see someone that matches what Im looking for and they look good I put them on my hotlist
Then I send a message, if no reply or chat etc they come off.
I have one or two old friends on here who will always be on my hotlist |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do use the hotlist for people that I would like to meet but aren't ready to message just yet, or people that I don't think they'd meet me but I can hope, or finally for some people that I just genuinely think are hot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a few on my hot list for similar reasons.
I do also have a few on my hotlist who I've never contacted. Few new ones after checking out some of the profiles on this thread |
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"I have a few on my hot list for similar reasons.
I do also have a few on my hotlist who I've never contacted. Few new ones after checking out some of the profiles on this thread"
Me too well, one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have dozens of women on my hotlist I have never contacted and never will. They are on the list because they are attractive. The day I stop looking will be the day they screw the lid on the coffin. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Acht I believe if you don't ask you don't get. I don't think anyone is out of my league or that I am out of anyone's. In saying that, I don't have anyone on my hotlist..is that cheating the thread? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Theres a few hot profiles on my hotlist i wouldnt message but not for that reason ...more because i am not what they are looking for going by their profile "
yip totally agree
I have a few like that, I have a few that interest me for different reasons but I know I wouldn't be for them.
I'm not worried about messaging anyone, if I'm not for them then I'm not for them and sure their life will still go on normal as it would.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't bother with the hotlist. In the past, the few people I had put on it did something to piss me off. When you block them, they come off your hotlist, surprisingly enough...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use my hotlist for who to avoid. But their statuses are to intriguing to block. Haa
If i want to meet someone they know i do.
Lifes to short for regrets. Mail them and take a chance if they dont wanna meet you. Their loss  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you someone on your hotlist who you fancy the pants off but would never contact as you think they would never meet you?"
Naw ..
I use the Hotlist function for a different reason.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely if there on the hotlist you should just message them and worst that happens you get no reply. Always wonder how many hotlists were on would love to be able to know. |
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By *loobookMan
over a year ago
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have a gorgeous ginger haired lady on mine - only one on my hotlist actually - unfortunatly (for me ,not her) im outwith her parameters so thats that - paramaters are there for a reason and as much as one could think we would get on so well etc etc its all about choice and thats theirs so unless i see her age pref drop (no that i check much:P ) wouldnt dream of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think Tracey from Perth I'd a very hot woman and as you say ypu don't message as no chance lol but they ate a lot of sexy woman in here but I am just an old man at 55 lollovely lady "
Well that's mighty kind of you to say so! Thanks x |
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