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". This isnt a dating site pretty sure everyone is it it for the same reason ? "No everyone isn't here for the same reason. From your profile it looks as though you are here for vanilla 1-1 hookups, something a woman could get pretty much anywhere. It's a swinging site, and although the definition of swinging is pretty loose these days there are still a signnificant number of people who are looking for more than that. | |||
"Ave been on and off this site a few times and ave met 2 people . What annoys me is the woman that delete your message and probs dont even read it or read it and dont reply. Manners cost nothing these days man . Use arnt any better than anyone else in my opinion . I always replied on plenty of fish even if i never was intrested . This isnt a dating site pretty sure everyone is it it for the same reason ? Am not dessrite i know it takes time to meet as ave met people in the past . Sorry about the rant ha "I've got 740 unread messages, no chance they're all getting a reply. You can give it a bash if ye want | |||
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"I have my single profile as well as my couples one and I always made the effort to reply to all messages. Even if it was just a no thanks. But then I found more and more it just meant even when saying no thanks the person would continue to message or I would get rude messages about being stuck up or why was I even on here if I wasn't meeting. So you really can't win " This | |||
"I have my single profile as well as my couples one and I always made the effort to reply to all messages. Even if it was just a no thanks. But then I found more and more it just meant even when saying no thanks the person would continue to message or I would get rude messages about being stuck up or why was I even on here if I wasn't meeting. So you really can't win " Take some comfort from this Mr Mixer....its a bit of a lottery and whereas you and I receive the odd message here and there some women receive dozens and dozens every day. Try not to let it get you down. | |||
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"Lol @ show us yer flaps... Classic "Flash the gash Wm. Shakespeare | |||
"Single women get a ridiculous amount of messages. We would need PAs to reply to them all, and we all have lives outwith Fab! I tend to delete ones that say "show us your flaps", "fancy a fuck" or such like, and will also most often not reply to people who are geographically no where near. Like a precious poster I agree that you are damned if you do and damned if you don't. I've had abuse for doing both (including being called a fat ugly charmless cunt), so I tend to jut delete now. " PM sent  | |||
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"Single women get a ridiculous amount of messages. We would need PAs to reply to them all, and we all have lives outwith Fab! I tend to delete ones that say "show us your flaps", "fancy a fuck" or such like, and will also most often not reply to people who are geographically no where near. Like a precious poster I agree that you are damned if you do and damned if you don't. I've had abuse for doing both (including being called a fat ugly charmless cunt), so I tend to jut delete now. PM sent "Ha you are ok, you didn't ask to see my flaps til message 4  | |||
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"The messages I received or here are either so many boring 'Hi how are you?' from crap 1 liner profiles who have obviously not bothered to read my profile, or just plain and simple crude 'if you like my cock message back' I don't owe anyone a reply, read the site FAQs OP they may help with your angst. If men can't be arsed with making an effort with either their profile, pics or messages, I just wish to hell, they would stop bloody whinging about it. So either make an effort and you may get a positive reply, or asthe saying goes, 'Suck it up Buttercup' The choice is yours "Any time a guy posts showing his frustration about non replies or deletion of messages before reading, these tired old clichés surface. How do you know what he writes in his messages? I and I suspect, most guys wouldn't dream of writing the sort of nonsense that a lot of ladies have to put up with. I try and be respectful, witty and a touch sincere when I message members, even knowing that it will most likely be binned before reading, but I'll still try, hope springs eternal. When the messages dry up and people are ignoring and blocking you just for having the audacity for finding them attractive, then maybe you'll understand where some of the posters are coming from. | |||
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"Ave been on and off this site a few times and ave met 2 people . What annoys me is the woman that delete your message and probs dont even read it or read it and dont reply. Manners cost nothing these days man . Use arnt any better than anyone else in my opinion . I always replied on plenty of fish even if i never was intrested . This isnt a dating site pretty sure everyone is it it for the same reason ? Am not dessrite i know it takes time to meet as ave met people in the past . Sorry about the rant ha
I've got 740 unread messages, no chance they're all getting a reply. You can give it a bash if ye want "740 you sure about that figure as the site deletes unread older messages  | |||
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"The messages I received or here are either so many boring 'Hi how are you?' from crap 1 liner profiles who have obviously not bothered to read my profile, or just plain and simple crude 'if you like my cock message back' I don't owe anyone a reply, read the site FAQs OP they may help with your angst. If men can't be arsed with making an effort with either their profile, pics or messages, I just wish to hell, they would stop bloody whinging about it. So either make an effort and you may get a positive reply, or as the saying goes, 'Suck it up Buttercup' The choice is yours "I do love a foxyism ha | |||
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"The messages I received or here are either so many boring 'Hi how are you?' from crap 1 liner profiles who have obviously not bothered to read my profile, or just plain and simple crude 'if you like my cock message back' I don't owe anyone a reply, read the site FAQs OP they may help with your angst. If men can't be arsed with making an effort with either their profile, pics or messages, I just wish to hell, they would stop bloody whinging about it. So either make an effort and you may get a positive reply, or asthe saying goes, 'Suck it up Buttercup' The choice is yours
Any time a guy posts showing his frustration about non replies or deletion of messages before reading, these tired old clichés surface.
How do you know what he writes in his messages?
I and I suspect, most guys wouldn't dream of writing the sort of nonsense that a lot of ladies have to put up with.
I try and be respectful, witty and a touch sincere when I message members, even knowing that it will most likely be binned before reading, but I'll still try, hope springs eternal. When the messages dry up and people are ignoring and blocking you just for having the audacity for finding them attractive, then maybe you'll understand where some of the posters are coming from."1) I only ever block if they send abuse, therefore they do have a chance to mend their ways. 2) Unless they state why they can't accommodate, I will presume they are attached and therefore will not reply, if coupled with no public pictures at all? Then they are definitely attached. 3) Women always read the profile first, so as I said before, no effort made, then I can't be arsed either. 4) This is not blind date, asking for a meet when we have no idea what each other looks like? Why not just go and pay someone to dip your wick? At least make it a business transaction, then both people are happy....... So the point I am making is, to increase your chance on here, you do actually need to have some social skills, which a lot of people clearly just do not have any at all, because if they read their message back and still choose to hit the send button? Well, what more can they really expect? | |||
"The messages I received or here are either so many boring 'Hi how are you?' from crap 1 liner profiles who have obviously not bothered to read my profile, or just plain and simple crude 'if you like my cock message back' I don't owe anyone a reply, read the site FAQs OP they may help with your angst. If men can't be arsed with making an effort with either their profile, pics or messages, I just wish to hell, they would stop bloody whinging about it. So either make an effort and you may get a positive reply, or asthe saying goes, 'Suck it up Buttercup' The choice is yours
Any time a guy posts showing his frustration about non replies or deletion of messages before reading, these tired old clichés surface.
How do you know what he writes in his messages?
I and I suspect, most guys wouldn't dream of writing the sort of nonsense that a lot of ladies have to put up with.
I try and be respectful, witty and a touch sincere when I message members, even knowing that it will most likely be binned before reading, but I'll still try, hope springs eternal. When the messages dry up and people are ignoring and blocking you just for having the audacity for finding them attractive, then maybe you'll understand where some of the posters are coming from.
1) I only ever block if they send abuse, therefore they do have a chance to mend their ways.
2) Unless they state why they can't accommodate, I will presume they are attached and therefore will not reply, if coupled with no public pictures at all? Then they are definitely attached.
3) Women always read the profile first, so as I said before, no effort made, then I can't be arsed either.
4) This is not blind date, asking for a meet when we have no idea what each other looks like? Why not just go and pay someone to dip your wick? At least make it a business transaction, then both people are happy.......
So the point I am making is, to increase your chance on here, you do actually need to have some social skills, which a lot of people clearly just do not have any at all, because if they read their message back and still choose to hit the send button? Well, what more can they really expect? "I only block if I find myself blocked for no apparent reason. I've stated why I can't accommodate and I'm not putting pics of my face on my profile, they're in my friends list and I usually exchange face pics after messaging. I always read the profile, like all women? I'm not looking to pay anyone for sex, mutual attraction is the key. As for social skills, surely I must have some, otherwise I'd be some lonely guy on a swinging site trying to get my leg over. (Trying to lighten the mood) | |||
"The messages I received or here are either so many boring 'Hi how are you?' from crap 1 liner profiles who have obviously not bothered to read my profile, or just plain and simple crude 'if you like my cock message back' I don't owe anyone a reply, read the site FAQs OP they may help with your angst. If men can't be arsed with making an effort with either their profile, pics or messages, I just wish to hell, they would stop bloody whinging about it. So either make an effort and you may get a positive reply, or asthe saying goes, 'Suck it up Buttercup' The choice is yours
Any time a guy posts showing his frustration about non replies or deletion of messages before reading, these tired old clichés surface.
How do you know what he writes in his messages?
I and I suspect, most guys wouldn't dream of writing the sort of nonsense that a lot of ladies have to put up with.
I try and be respectful, witty and a touch sincere when I message members, even knowing that it will most likely be binned before reading, but I'll still try, hope springs eternal. When the messages dry up and people are ignoring and blocking you just for having the audacity for finding them attractive, then maybe you'll understand where some of the posters are coming from.
1) I only ever block if they send abuse, therefore they do have a chance to mend their ways.
2) Unless they state why they can't accommodate, I will presume they are attached and therefore will not reply, if coupled with no public pictures at all? Then they are definitely attached.
3) Women always read the profile first, so as I said before, no effort made, then I can't be arsed either.
4) This is not blind date, asking for a meet when we have no idea what each other looks like? Why not just go and pay someone to dip your wick? At least make it a business transaction, then both people are happy.......
So the point I am making is, to increase your chance on here, you do actually need to have some social skills, which a lot of people clearly just do not have any at all, because if they read their message back and still choose to hit the send button? Well, what more can they really expect?
I only block if I find myself blocked for no apparent reason.
I've stated why I can't accommodate and I'm not putting pics of my face on my profile, they're in my friends list and I usually exchange face pics after messaging.
I always read the profile, like all women?
I'm not looking to pay anyone for sex, mutual attraction is the key.
As for social skills, surely I must have some, otherwise I'd be some lonely guy on a swinging site trying to get my leg over.
(Trying to lighten the mood)"I have read your profile, so therefore none of my comments were aimed at you. My comments were aimed at the men who constantly whinge about 'why no one replies, or why no one want to meets them.' I think I have covered most bases in both my previous posts, so again they weren't aimed at you, they were a reply to your direct response and to expand on my reasons as we both know, men and women do think COMPLETELY differently | |||
"Ave been on and off this site a few times and ave met 2 people . What annoys me is the woman that delete your message and probs dont even read it or read it and dont reply. Manners cost nothing these days man . Use arnt any better than anyone else in my opinion . I always replied on plenty of fish even if i never was intrested . This isnt a dating site pretty sure everyone is it it for the same reason ? Am not dessrite i know it takes time to meet as ave met people in the past . Sorry about the rant ha
I've got 740 unread messages, no chance they're all getting a reply. You can give it a bash if ye want 740 you sure about that figure as the site deletes unread older messages "Absolutely positive. 748 now. I'd happily send you a screen shot. | |||
"Ave been on and off this site a few times and ave met 2 people . What annoys me is the woman that delete your message and probs dont even read it or read it and dont reply. Manners cost nothing these days man . Use arnt any better than anyone else in my opinion . I always replied on plenty of fish even if i never was intrested . This isnt a dating site pretty sure everyone is it it for the same reason ? Am not dessrite i know it takes time to meet as ave met people in the past . Sorry about the rant ha
I've got 740 unread messages, no chance they're all getting a reply. You can give it a bash if ye want 740 you sure about that figure as the site deletes unread older messages
Absolutely positive. 748 now. I'd happily send you a screen shot."no its fine I just know when ive had loads the oldest ones get deleted automaticly after time ..ie I had over 200 last night which dropped to 190 odds this morning . | |||
"...What annoys me is the woman that delete your message and probs dont even read it or read it and dont reply. Manners cost nothing these days man . Use arnt any better than anyone else in my opinion.. "I def agree manners cost nothing and I always do my best to respond however it has led me to getting a hard time off some males... Simply put some guys seem to think because you reply hiya and tell them what your up to that you are therefore interested in meeting... Sometimes I get why some fems and couples just delete messages! As others have put though no point in ranting because if someone is really interested in you they will respond regardless. | |||
"Ave been on and off this site a few times and ave met 2 people . What annoys me is the woman that delete your message and probs dont even read it or read it and dont reply. Manners cost nothing these days man . Use arnt any better than anyone else in my opinion . I always replied on plenty of fish even if i never was intrested . This isnt a dating site pretty sure everyone is it it for the same reason ? Am not dessrite i know it takes time to meet as ave met people in the past . Sorry about the rant ha
I've got 740 unread messages, no chance they're all getting a reply. You can give it a bash if ye want 740 you sure about that figure as the site deletes unread older messages
Absolutely positive. 748 now. I'd happily send you a screen shot.no its fine I just know when ive had loads the oldest ones get deleted automaticly after time ..ie I had over 200 last night which dropped to 190 odds this morning ."I dunno about that then but mine haven't deleted themselves. I used to mass delete all the time but now I don't bother, plus I don't have any message filters on so that's how I get all sorts of messages probs. Majority of them aren't even worth opening. That's my point. | |||
"Ave been on and off this site a few times and ave met 2 people . What annoys me is the woman that delete your message and probs dont even read it or read it and dont reply. Manners cost nothing these days man . Use arnt any better than anyone else in my opinion . I always replied on plenty of fish even if i never was intrested . This isnt a dating site pretty sure everyone is it it for the same reason ? Am not dessrite i know it takes time to meet as ave met people in the past . Sorry about the rant ha "I don't think it hard at all, maybe you're doing something wrong??? | |||
"Ave been on and off this site a few times and ave met 2 people . What annoys me is the woman that delete your message and probs dont even read it or read it and dont reply. Manners cost nothing these days man . Use arnt any better than anyone else in my opinion . I always replied on plenty of fish even if i never was intrested . This isnt a dating site pretty sure everyone is it it for the same reason ? Am not dessrite i know it takes time to meet as ave met people in the past . Sorry about the rant ha
I don't think it hard at all, maybe you're doing something wrong??? "That's cos you are a proper charmer Mr C | |||
"Ave been on and off this site a few times and ave met 2 people . What annoys me is the woman that delete your message and probs dont even read it or read it and dont reply. Manners cost nothing these days man . Use arnt any better than anyone else in my opinion . I always replied on plenty of fish even if i never was intrested . This isnt a dating site pretty sure everyone is it it for the same reason ? Am not dessrite i know it takes time to meet as ave met people in the past . Sorry about the rant ha
I've got 740 unread messages, no chance they're all getting a reply. You can give it a bash if ye want 740 you sure about that figure as the site deletes unread older messages
Absolutely positive. 748 now. I'd happily send you a screen shot.no its fine I just know when ive had loads the oldest ones get deleted automaticly after time ..ie I had over 200 last night which dropped to 190 odds this morning .
I dunno about that then but mine haven't deleted themselves. I used to mass delete all the time but now I don't bother, plus I don't have any message filters on so that's how I get all sorts of messages probs. Majority of them aren't even worth opening. That's my point."the discrepance is probably users that leave the site their mail goes as long as a user is still registered the mail will keep counting up | |||
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"I've seen girls with 2000 unread messages. I try to reply to all of them. OP you should come to the pub quiz and meet some people from fab. " Thats the best way to get known socials ,drinks nights and the good ladies quiz nights then ppl will know you are genuine and a great way to meet likeminded ppl | |||
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"This is a solo profile of a couple and I get a heap of messages daily. Frankly, I've taken time to make sure my profile states my rules and what messages I will not reply to (far too time consuming to message back every single person as well). So I expect that people will take time to read that before messaging "hey here's my cock" lol. And if they don't then fair enough, but they can't be mad when I just delete. We're all on here for fun, friends, etc. so if someone doesn't reply, I'd just say "ah well" and move on x" 100% percent agree. Too much time wallowing over someone not replying. I've had loads of messages deleted but have the same approach. Be strong sensitive chaps, not everyone is ready for that jelly.....wait.. | |||
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"Ave been on and off this site a few times and ave met 2 people . What annoys me is the woman that delete your message and probs dont even read it or read it and dont reply. Manners cost nothing these days man . Use arnt any better than anyone else in my opinion . I always replied on plenty of fish even if i never was intrested . This isnt a dating site pretty sure everyone is it it for the same reason ? Am not dessrite i know it takes time to meet as ave met people in the past . Sorry about the rant ha
I don't think it hard at all, maybe you're doing something wrong???
That's cos you are a proper charmer Mr C "Now comments like that will get you everywhere | |||
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"I've seen girls with 2000 unread messages. I try to reply to all of them. OP you should come to the pub quiz and meet some people from fab. Thats the best way to get known socials ,drinks nights and the good ladies quiz nights then ppl will know you are genuine and a great way to meet likeminded ppl " I'd go to a quiz night if it was local  | |||
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"The messages I received or here are either so many boring 'Hi how are you?' from crap 1 liner profiles who have obviously not bothered to read my profile, or just plain and simple crude 'if you like my cock message back' I don't owe anyone a reply, read the site FAQs OP they may help with your angst. If men can't be arsed with making an effort with either their profile, pics or messages, I just wish to hell, they would stop bloody whinging about it. So either make an effort and you may get a positive reply, or as the saying goes, 'Suck it up Buttercup' The choice is yours "So. Much. This. | |||
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