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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If you could give advise what is the one do and the one don't you would tell someone starting their fab journey xx
Mine would be
Do always be as clear ,honest and make an effort when creating you profile first impressions count 
Don't ever lie to someone liars always get caught out , be yourself and have fun xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with op. Don't be economical with the truth about expectations, age, body shape, etc. I personally hate liars. And also, if you're married - do us a favour and be honest from the outset |
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over a year ago
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Mine would be:
Don't bother trying to meet. It's a waste of fucking time, as men are outnumbered 1,000,000/1.
Don't bother posting any fantasies, kinks, or sexual preferences, you'll just be pounced on by the judgemental brigade, who can't help sticking their noses in where it isn't needed.
I know it's Sunday, but wasn't going to bottle this up for a Thursday rant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine would be:
Don't bother trying to meet. It's a waste of fucking time, as men are outnumbered 1,000,000/1.
Don't bother posting any fantasies, kinks, or sexual preferences, you'll just be pounced on by the judgemental brigade, who can't help sticking their noses in where it isn't needed.
I know it's Sunday, but wasn't going to bottle this up for a Thursday rant."
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Dont listen to gossips when they try to badmouth other members.
Always go with your gut instinct .
Dont rush into meets always take time to get to know the person first.
Always do a social meet.
Take everything on here with a large dose of salt especially relationship statuses and age . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do tell the truth, why lie.
Do be respectful of others opinions. Just cos they're not the same as yours doesn't make them any less valid.
Do be polite, manners cost nothing.
Don't be pushy, no reply, however rude it may feel, is a no.
Don't be judgemental. We're all different and like different things.
Most of all, just have fun and see where this takes you.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine would be:
Don't bother trying to meet. It's a waste of fucking time, as men are outnumbered 1,000,000/1.
Don't bother posting any fantasies, kinks, or sexual preferences, you'll just be pounced on by the judgemental brigade, who can't help sticking their noses in where it isn't needed.
I know it's Sunday, but wasn't going to bottle this up for a Thursday rant.
ej667 for Fab El Presidente "
No thanks. We have self appointed ones already. |
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Don't form an opinion on people you've never met from someone else's words (it's usually had arms n legs added to it)
Do have fun wether it's sexually or social because otherwise there's no point
K x |
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"Mine would be:
Don't bother trying to meet. It's a waste of fucking time, as men are outnumbered 1,000,000/1.
Don't bother posting any fantasies, kinks, or sexual preferences, you'll just be pounced on by the judgemental brigade, who can't help sticking their noses in where it isn't needed.
I know it's Sunday, but wasn't going to bottle this up for a Thursday rant."
K x |
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Some good advice in here...
Mine, just be respectful and treat others how you wish to be treated.
You get out of it what you put in and the benefits are worth some patience
Enjoy yourself but remember it's one part of people's existence not their whole being
R x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't form an opinion on people you've never met from someone else's words (it's usually had arms n legs added to it)
Do have fun wether it's sexually or social because otherwise there's no point
K x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Patience is the key
Your profile is your shop window
Get along to a social if you can
Try forums and chat but try and keep negativity to a minimum"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lol all fab advice and yes don't judge others there circumstances or what they do ni one business , I always find that those who poke their nose in where it's not wanted need to go get laid and put a smile on it xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you could give advise what is the one do and the one don't you would tell someone starting their fab journey xx
Mine would be
Do always be as clear ,honest and make an effort when creating you profile first impressions count
Don't ever lie to someone liars always get caught out , be yourself and have fun xx "
Yes all of the above |
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Be nice even if it's a no.
When it is a no take the hint and stop messaging again and again till people get pissed off at you.
Have fun don't tell lies you always get caught out anyway. And unfortunately remember people talk.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" Be nice even if it's a no.
When it is a no take the hint and stop messaging again and again till people get pissed off at you.
Have fun don't tell lies you always get caught out anyway. And unfortunately remember people talk. "
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" Be nice even if it's a no.
When it is a no take the hint and stop messaging again and again till people get pissed off at you.
Have fun don't tell lies you always get caught out anyway. And unfortunately remember people talk.
This sexy ass "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do... have a sense of humour, you'll need it
Don't... disrespect people, no need for it, we all have our reasons to be on here
Do... have fun "
And if you are going to fuck me you will definitely need a sense of humour  |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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Do's - be true to yourself. Some people aren't ready to meet.
Be respectful
Grow a thick skin
Some pics should be kept private
Don'ts
If you arrange a meet don't cancel at the last minute and don't stand them up.
Be rude, crude or insulting
Lie
Think that's most of my likes and dislikes.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do take pride in you appearance, personal hygiene,and sexual health standards in this scene should be even higher
Don't give out personal details be discreet it's best all round xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dont listen to gossips when they try to badmouth other members.
Always go with your gut instinct .
Dont rush into meets always take time to get to know the person first.
Always do a social meet.
Take everything on here with a large dose of salt especially relationship statuses and age ."
Well said. Especially first point. I have had a few guys name dropping to me and trying to stir it up. Even on a meet. Immediate turn off. |
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Don't whine on the forum about being blocked or messages not responded to. Just accept them as a no thanks.
Do read the profile, think about what you are going to say and then reread the profile to ensure that it is appropriate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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do always read a profile-----
do reply to as mean as possible its just polite only one exseption to this rule (if they are rude)---
dont lie----
dont be a ass if they so no or delete convo its over deal with it your not their type---- |
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Do check the back ground of any pictures you post. Clutter, toilet bowls and dirty laundry are not the best adverts.
Don't forget to take care of your nails. Short and clean for the gents. Not a month old, chipped nail varnish for the ladies. |
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Do put in effort in that first message. Show an interest in the person and not just their genitals.
Don't use cock, pussy, cunt, licking, etc in your username. Or a username where it's obvious you're quite full of yourself is a turn off as well.
One I've come to realise over time, if in doubt about someone, it's a "don't go there". Your doubts were there for a reason x |
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"Mine would be:
Don't bother trying to meet. It's a waste of fucking time, as men are outnumbered 1,000,000/1.
Don't bother posting any fantasies, kinks, or sexual preferences, you'll just be pounced on by the judgemental brigade, who can't help sticking their noses in where it isn't needed.
I know it's Sunday, but wasn't going to bottle this up for a Thursday rant."
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Do's
Read the profile
Be nice....respectfull
Never judge....we all have our own reasons for being here
Have fun
And always wash b4 sex.....even if u have showered b4 u left home...when u take the drawers off * wash it *
Don't
Listen to the gossip
Get involved in the bitching
Get involved with any thing or any one that doesnt feel right
Trust ur gut
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"If you shit someone's bed be nice and clean it up ,if your a squirter use a wet sheets
That gives me the boak! Imagine shitting in a bed at a club 
I'd be mortified. "
The young lady that it happened to is mortified and very embarrassed about it and people still keep talking about it in the clubs and on forums which the person in question sees and she is also known in cjs, people need to think about other peoples mishaps and move on and think about the person in question feelings xx |
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"Do's
Read the profile
Be nice....respectfull
Never judge....we all have our own reasons for being here
Have fun
And always wash b4 sex.....even if u have showered b4 u left home...when u take the drawers off * wash it *
Don't
Listen to the gossip
Get involved in the bitching
Get involved with any thing or any one that doesnt feel right
Trust ur gut
Ally "
i actually lold at this ,miss ally clean freak |
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"If you shit someone's bed be nice and clean it up ,if your a squirter use a wet sheets
That gives me the boak! Imagine shitting in a bed at a club
I'd be mortified.
The young lady that it happened to is mortified and very embarrassed about it and people still keep talking about it in the clubs and on forums which the person in question sees and she is also known in cjs, people need to think about other peoples mishaps and move on and think about the person in question feelings xx"
You've gave a hell of a lot of detail about a person.
You're narrowing the search for people who want to know who it is.
Not the best idea giving that level of detail out especially as you are warning others to consider her feelings. Maybe you should take your own advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you shit someone's bed be nice and clean it up ,if your a squirter use a wet sheets
That gives me the boak! Imagine shitting in a bed at a club
I'd be mortified.
The young lady that it happened to is mortified and very embarrassed about it and people still keep talking about it in the clubs and on forums which the person in question sees and she is also known in cjs, people need to think about other peoples mishaps and move on and think about the person in question feelings xx"
Quite right. I have no problem posting about MY embarassing moments, but I'd be rightly pissed off if someone else did it "for me". |
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"If you shit someone's bed be nice and clean it up ,if your a squirter use a wet sheets
That gives me the boak! Imagine shitting in a bed at a club
I'd be mortified.
The young lady that it happened to is mortified and very embarrassed about it and people still keep talking about it in the clubs and on forums which the person in question sees and she is also known in cjs, people need to think about other peoples mishaps and move on and think about the person in question feelings xx
You've gave a hell of a lot of detail about a person.
You're narrowing the search for people who want to know who it is.
Not the best idea giving that level of detail out especially as you are warning others to consider her feelings. Maybe you should take your own advice"
Ooooooh the mystery of the phantom shitter!!!
Or could this be a double bluff to through us off the scent (pardon the pun) of the real culprit |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you could give advise what is the one do and the one don't you would tell someone starting their fab journey xx
Mine would be
Do always be as clear ,honest and make an effort when creating you profile first impressions count
Don't ever lie to someone liars always get caught out , be yourself and have fun xx "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know i should have tried harder at School. It all comes down to Maths, Chemistry and English and probably Biology and Gynnastics. Maths- probably way too many single blokes, myself included looking to meet women, couples, etc.
Chemistry - its all about how we interact. This is where good English comes in. A well written, thought out profile if honest will be more appealing than a one line sleazy chat up line.
Other than that just being nice, respectful, patient and have a sense of humour.
If at first you dont succeed. Dont pester... move on lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think it's important to be respectful and have manners. Ok, if someone doesn't show same then you can block. Also be welcoming to new members when it comes to socials etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some good advice in here...
Mine, just be respectful and treat others how you wish to be treated.
You get out of it what you put in and the benefits are worth some patience
Enjoy yourself but remember it's one part of people's existence not their whole being
R x"
I love this!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't expect a reply "
Ha ha.....so true!
You could pen an opening message worthy of Shakespeare with all the tact of a Venetian diplomat and watch it become deleted unread within seconds of delivery. Oh well, that's life on fabswingers. Cruel and brutal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Alas poor Swinger
I tried to know her well
I writeth my prose if it was my job
And avoideth the predictable picture of knob
So with a sense of humour and respect.
Still no replyeth i get
So this me does not upset
Moveth on and tryeth again
One day my luck change and i will be buried deep within
Knowing my luck not within tje maiden but in the ground
"Don't expect a reply
Ha ha.....so true!
You could pen an opening message worthy of Shakespeare with all the tact of a Venetian diplomat and watch it become deleted unread within seconds of delivery. Oh well, that's life on fabswingers. Cruel and brutal. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Message not replied to? Ah well, move on. Message deleted? Ah well move on. Replied "no thanks" or similar? Ah well move on. Women don't owe you anything no matter how witty you think your message was, or how awesome you think your dick looks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Alas poor Swinger
I tried to know her well
I writeth my prose if it was my job
And avoideth the predictable picture of knob
So with a sense of humour and respect.
Still no replyeth i get
So this me does not upset
Moveth on and tryeth again
One day my luck change and i will be buried deep within
Knowing my luck not within tje maiden but in the ground
Don't expect a reply
Ha ha.....so true!
You could pen an opening message worthy of Shakespeare with all the tact of a Venetian diplomat and watch it become deleted unread within seconds of delivery. Oh well, that's life on fabswingers. Cruel and brutal. "
That has to be the best post ever on Fab!
BRILLIANT! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't be taken in by the clique...
They'll only drop you like a hot tottie when they are done with you
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They have to use me before they're done with me! |
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"Alas poor Swinger
I tried to know her well
I writeth my prose if it was my job
And avoideth the predictable picture of knob
So with a sense of humour and respect.
Still no replyeth i get
So this me does not upset
Moveth on and tryeth again
One day my luck change and i will be buried deep within
Knowing my luck not within tje maiden but in the ground
Don't expect a reply
Ha ha.....so true!
You could pen an opening message worthy of Shakespeare with all the tact of a Venetian diplomat and watch it become deleted unread within seconds of delivery. Oh well, that's life on fabswingers. Cruel and brutal.
That has to be the best post ever on Fab!
BRILLIANT!"
I am sticking with "Nice Tits" and a emoji. Also attaching a photo of somebody else's cock. Things are going well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Alas poor Swinger
I tried to know her well
I writeth my prose if it was my job
And avoideth the predictable picture of knob
So with a sense of humour and respect.
Still no replyeth i get
So this me does not upset
Moveth on and tryeth again
One day my luck change and i will be buried deep within
Knowing my luck not within tje maiden but in the ground
Don't expect a reply
Ha ha.....so true!
You could pen an opening message worthy of Shakespeare with all the tact of a Venetian diplomat and watch it become deleted unread within seconds of delivery. Oh well, that's life on fabswingers. Cruel and brutal.
That has to be the best post ever on Fab!
BRILLIANT!
I am sticking with "Nice Tits" and a emoji. Also attaching a photo of somebody else's cock. Things are going well. "
It works on here, but not in the pub. I have two teeth in a jar to prove it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Alas poor Swinger
I tried to know her well
I writeth my prose if it was my job
And avoideth the predictable picture of knob
So with a sense of humour and respect.
Still no replyeth i get
So this me does not upset
Moveth on and tryeth again
One day my luck change and i will be buried deep within
Knowing my luck not within tje maiden but in the ground
Don't expect a reply
Ha ha.....so true!
You could pen an opening message worthy of Shakespeare with all the tact of a Venetian diplomat and watch it become deleted unread within seconds of delivery. Oh well, that's life on fabswingers. Cruel and brutal.
That has to be the best post ever on Fab!
BRILLIANT!
I am sticking with "Nice Tits" and a emoji. Also attaching a photo of somebody else's cock. Things are going well.
It works on here, but not in the pub. I have two teeth in a jar to prove it. "
Awww poor you! Battle scars honourably won. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Alas poor Swinger
I tried to know her well
I writeth my prose if it was my job
And avoideth the predictable picture of knob
So with a sense of humour and respect.
Still no replyeth i get
So this me does not upset
Moveth on and tryeth again
One day my luck change and i will be buried deep within
Knowing my luck not within tje maiden but in the ground
Don't expect a reply
Ha ha.....so true!
You could pen an opening message worthy of Shakespeare with all the tact of a Venetian diplomat and watch it become deleted unread within seconds of delivery. Oh well, that's life on fabswingers. Cruel and brutal.
That has to be the best post ever on Fab!
BRILLIANT!
I am sticking with "Nice Tits" and a emoji. Also attaching a photo of somebody else's cock. Things are going well.
It works on here, but not in the pub. I have two teeth in a jar to prove it.
Awww poor you! Battle scars honourably won. "
Aye, and the tooth fairy never left any money for them either
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