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so is it just me....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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ok cards on table, im new here. not to swinging, but new to this site.
i dont go to cj's as a single guy, if im honest its too pricey. and i dont attend the random 'greedy girls gang bangs' in a shady flat, cos i like to leave with my wallet and phone. and be disease free.
but how many profiles of single women or couples are fake?? i mean some you just have to look at to tell, never mind image search the pics!
so my question is, does anyone have any tips to root out the time wasters?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pop along to a Social event...usually a fiver so not gonna break the bank...get yourself verified as in my book...everyone can be fake on here but being verified is that wee bit easier to get someone to meet you
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"greedy girls gang bangs' in a shady flat, cos i like to leave with my wallet and phone. and be disease free.
This quite a harsh statement surley this doesnt happen ?  "
apols... dont mean to offend anyone, but there are a couple of profiles that (to me) seem to be the same group of folk that have the same 3 or 4 ladies for gangbang fun. to me, it appears to be hookers, if im wrong i apologise...(its not cj's or any legit clubs btw)
no offence meant, just wary of shady meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My only tip would be is to chat to pple get to know them a bit its not race to jump in and meet or expect a meet after few messages the ppl who chat for a while in my view are the ones worth hanging in for till both feel ready to meet and at times it can pay off and you make good friends  |
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"greedy girls gang bangs' in a shady flat, cos i like to leave with my wallet and phone. and be disease free.
This quite a harsh statement surley this doesnt happen ?
apols... dont mean to offend anyone, but there are a couple of profiles that (to me) seem to be the same group of folk that have the same 3 or 4 ladies for gangbang fun. to me, it appears to be hookers, if im wrong i apologise...(its not cj's or any legit clubs btw)
no offence meant, just wary of shady meets "
And the clue is in the 'it appears' if it works for the ladies and the guys, so be it!
Unless you have attended it is a harsh comment indeed to make from an assumption.
Anyway... back to the original question, just go with your gut feelings and take time to chat to the person and get a feel for them. Organise a social when you are happy with the info you have. |
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I know a few woman on the scene who attend GG events and they're not hookers. The vast majority of swingers are sexual health conscious and I've never heard of anyone being robbed at an event...
You attend CJs as a fake couple to save money... |
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"I know a few woman on the scene who attend GG events and they're not hookers. The vast majority of swingers are sexual health conscious and I've never heard of anyone being robbed at an event...
You attend CJs as a fake couple to save money... "
No you don't attend CJs as a fake couple as it's frowned upon and is what most GENUINE couples don't like |
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"I know a few woman on the scene who attend GG events and they're not hookers. The vast majority of swingers are sexual health conscious and I've never heard of anyone being robbed at an event...
You attend CJs as a fake couple to save money...
No you don't attend CJs as a fake couple as it's frowned upon and is what most GENUINE couples don't like"
Genuine question. How does a fake couple attend, won't they be found out when one half doesn't attend?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not likely you'll ever meet up with anyone if you assume people you don't know and never met are fake, thieves and give you diseases. "
fair point, although i wouldnt go to a gangbang meet anyway. and im not assuming all are fake/thieves/whatever, but when the same person has 2 or 3 gangbang meets a week in a flat with the same ladies attending, and 400 odd verifications, it doesnt bode well (for me anyway) |
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"Not likely you'll ever meet up with anyone if you assume people you don't know and never met are fake, thieves and give you diseases.
fair point, although i wouldnt go to a gangbang meet anyway. and im not assuming all are fake/thieves/whatever, but when the same person has 2 or 3 gangbang meets a week in a flat with the same ladies attending, and 400 odd verifications, it doesnt bode well (for me anyway) "
Phew! Am good! I have 200 verifications 
Wee trip to confessional this Sunday lol
OP I don't know if this is your first profile on this site but you have been here 2 weeks. I have been here 5 years and my verifs play meets and social meets reflects that!
If this is your first profile, maybe have a feel for the various people that are using the site |
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"Not likely you'll ever meet up with anyone if you assume people you don't know and never met are fake, thieves and give you diseases.
fair point, although i wouldnt go to a gangbang meet anyway. and im not assuming all are fake/thieves/whatever, but when the same person has 2 or 3 gangbang meets a week in a flat with the same ladies attending, and 400 odd verifications, it doesnt bode well (for me anyway) "
If I was a man that would put me off too |
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"I know a few woman on the scene who attend GG events and they're not hookers. The vast majority of swingers are sexual health conscious and I've never heard of anyone being robbed at an event...
You attend CJs as a fake couple to save money...
No you don't attend CJs as a fake couple as it's frowned upon and is what most GENUINE couples don't like
Genuine question. How does a fake couple attend, won't they be found out when one half doesn't attend? "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not likely you'll ever meet up with anyone if you assume people you don't know and never met are fake, thieves and give you diseases.
fair point, although i wouldnt go to a gangbang meet anyway. and im not assuming all are fake/thieves/whatever, but when the same person has 2 or 3 gangbang meets a week in a flat with the same ladies attending, and 400 odd verifications, it doesnt bode well (for me anyway)
Phew! Am good! I have 200 verifications
Wee trip to confessional this Sunday lol
OP I don't know if this is your first profile on this site but you have been here 2 weeks. I have been here 5 years and my verifs play meets and social meets reflects that!
If this is your first profile, maybe have a feel for the various people that are using the site"
its ok i get it, and im not being disrespectful to anyone with lots of verifications etc.
just saying that (in my opinion) thrice weekly gangbangs with the same ladies and no end of random guys attending smacks to me of shadiness. thats all. |
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By *hav02Man
over a year ago
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browse the profiles, interact in forum and chat room.
Socials are one way of meeting people, but that's your choice.
If after few weeks, you're not comfortable with the crowd, then this site isnt' for you. ...it's no instashag, bare in mind. |
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"I know a few woman on the scene who attend GG events and they're not hookers. The vast majority of swingers are sexual health conscious and I've never heard of anyone being robbed at an event...
You attend CJs as a fake couple to save money...
No you don't attend CJs as a fake couple as it's frowned upon and is what most GENUINE couples don't like"
That's what I meant - not that only the single guy shows. With a genuine couple (and some fwb fall into this too) there's a level of mutual respect. If a single guy just shows up with a single woman to save money then that's often not the case - on couples only nights it bothers me more than fun for all nights. |
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"greedy girls gang bangs' in a shady flat, cos i like to leave with my wallet and phone. and be disease free.
This quite a harsh statement surley this doesnt happen ?
apols... dont mean to offend anyone, but there are a couple of profiles that (to me) seem to be the same group of folk that have the same 3 or 4 ladies for gangbang fun. to me, it appears to be hookers, if im wrong i apologise...(its not cj's or any legit clubs btw)
no offence meant, just wary of shady meets "
you didnt offend me just thought you we're talking from experience |
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By *mberbCouple
over a year ago
Lothians |
"greedy girls gang bangs' in a shady flat, cos i like to leave with my wallet and phone. and be disease free.
This quite a harsh statement surley this doesnt happen ?
apols... dont mean to offend anyone, but there are a couple of profiles that (to me) seem to be the same group of folk that have the same 3 or 4 ladies for gangbang fun. to me, it appears to be hookers, if im wrong i apologise...(its not cj's or any legit clubs btw)
no offence meant, just wary of shady meets "
Brilliant thought this for a while regarding the shady flats |
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Depends what you deem a timewaster ive been here yrs and never had my timewasted thats down to my filtering system though.
as for cjs its not just the price that means I wouldnt go its the blatent discrimination.
as for fems having a "paid gangbang" why not whether I think guys are stupid or not paying is immaterial. These fems see the cash cow and milk it dry (pardon the pun). |
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"Not likely you'll ever meet up with anyone if you assume people you don't know and never met are fake, thieves and give you diseases.
fair point, although i wouldnt go to a gangbang meet anyway. and im not assuming all are fake/thieves/whatever, but when the same person has 2 or 3 gangbang meets a week in a flat with the same ladies attending, and 400 odd verifications, it doesnt bode well (for me anyway) "
Ah ok. Yeah that's not my thing either, but each to their own. Quite a few people on here seem to really get off on having sex with as many people as possible. Doesn't mean they do it for money though x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not likely you'll ever meet up with anyone if you assume people you don't know and never met are fake, thieves and give you diseases.
fair point, although i wouldnt go to a gangbang meet anyway. and im not assuming all are fake/thieves/whatever, but when the same person has 2 or 3 gangbang meets a week in a flat with the same ladies attending, and 400 odd verifications, it doesnt bode well (for me anyway)
Ah ok. Yeah that's not my thing either, but each to their own. Quite a few people on here seem to really get off on having sex with as many people as possible. Doesn't mean they do it for money though x"
Possibly not directly ... but charging disproportionate "contribution fees" for 3 times a week ganbangs in a dingy flat (so its not like they have large outgoings to be contributing towards) with god knows how many attendees most likely equates to the same thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know a few woman on the scene who attend GG events and they're not hookers. The vast majority of swingers are sexual health conscious and I've never heard of anyone being robbed at an event...
You attend CJs as a fake couple to save money...
No you don't attend CJs as a fake couple as it's frowned upon and is what most GENUINE couples don't like"
Havent been for a long time as I hear nothing but bad stories now ... but if and when I go back , just like before, if I want to bring a male friend with me then I will, unless CJ says otherwise ... if the "genuine" couples don't like it they can feel free not to talk to me ... im sure i will survive  |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
"I know a few woman on the scene who attend GG events and they're not hookers. The vast majority of swingers are sexual health conscious and I've never heard of anyone being robbed at an event...
You attend CJs as a fake couple to save money...
No you don't attend CJs as a fake couple as it's frowned upon and is what most GENUINE couples don't like
Havent been for a long time as I hear nothing but bad stories now ... but if and when I go back , just like before, if I want to bring a male friend with me then I will, unless CJ says otherwise ... if the "genuine" couples don't like it they can feel free not to talk to me ... im sure i will survive "
My last three visits to cjs have been with the same guy. We stay as a couple on couples and single girls nights but free to do as we please together or separately on fun for all nights.
Would it suddenly be more acceptable if we had a couple profile? |
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"Not likely you'll ever meet up with anyone if you assume people you don't know and never met are fake, thieves and give you diseases.
fair point, although i wouldnt go to a gangbang meet anyway. and im not assuming all are fake/thieves/whatever, but when the same person has 2 or 3 gangbang meets a week in a flat with the same ladies attending, and 400 odd verifications, it doesnt bode well (for me anyway)
Ah ok. Yeah that's not my thing either, but each to their own. Quite a few people on here seem to really get off on having sex with as many people as possible. Doesn't mean they do it for money though x
Possibly not directly ... but charging disproportionate "contribution fees" for 3 times a week ganbangs in a dingy flat (so its not like they have large outgoings to be contributing towards) with god knows how many attendees most likely equates to the same thing "
Haven't come across them. Is it the one that makes themselves sound like a club, but really is a dark seedy flat? Heard about that one and doesn't sound like a place I would over come near x |
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"I know a few woman on the scene who attend GG events and they're not hookers. The vast majority of swingers are sexual health conscious and I've never heard of anyone being robbed at an event...
You attend CJs as a fake couple to save money...
No you don't attend CJs as a fake couple as it's frowned upon and is what most GENUINE couples don't like
Havent been for a long time as I hear nothing but bad stories now ... but if and when I go back , just like before, if I want to bring a male friend with me then I will, unless CJ says otherwise ... if the "genuine" couples don't like it they can feel free not to talk to me ... im sure i will survive
My last three visits to cjs have been with the same guy. We stay as a couple on couples and single girls nights but free to do as we please together or separately on fun for all nights.
Would it suddenly be more acceptable if we had a couple profile? "
Don't see the problem with not officially being a couple. And how we would ruin it for the couples on here is an absolute mystery to me. I wouldn't go by myself, so always go with a friend as well even though he's not my boyfriend/partner x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not likely you'll ever meet up with anyone if you assume people you don't know and never met are fake, thieves and give you diseases.
fair point, although i wouldnt go to a gangbang meet anyway. and im not assuming all are fake/thieves/whatever, but when the same person has 2 or 3 gangbang meets a week in a flat with the same ladies attending, and 400 odd verifications, it doesnt bode well (for me anyway)
Ah ok. Yeah that's not my thing either, but each to their own. Quite a few people on here seem to really get off on having sex with as many people as possible. Doesn't mean they do it for money though x
Possibly not directly ... but charging disproportionate "contribution fees" for 3 times a week ganbangs in a dingy flat (so its not like they have large outgoings to be contributing towards) with god knows how many attendees most likely equates to the same thing
Haven't come across them. Is it the one that makes themselves sound like a club, but really is a dark seedy flat? Heard about that one and doesn't sound like a place I would over come near x"
What 1? Theres 2 that spring to mind |
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"Not likely you'll ever meet up with anyone if you assume people you don't know and never met are fake, thieves and give you diseases.
fair point, although i wouldnt go to a gangbang meet anyway. and im not assuming all are fake/thieves/whatever, but when the same person has 2 or 3 gangbang meets a week in a flat with the same ladies attending, and 400 odd verifications, it doesnt bode well (for me anyway)
Ah ok. Yeah that's not my thing either, but each to their own. Quite a few people on here seem to really get off on having sex with as many people as possible. Doesn't mean they do it for money though x
Possibly not directly ... but charging disproportionate "contribution fees" for 3 times a week ganbangs in a dingy flat (so its not like they have large outgoings to be contributing towards) with god knows how many attendees most likely equates to the same thing
Haven't come across them. Is it the one that makes themselves sound like a club, but really is a dark seedy flat? Heard about that one and doesn't sound like a place I would over come near x
What 1? Theres 2 that spring to mind "
There are 2 of them in Glasgow?? Doesn't matter anyway. I'll never make an appearance there |
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