Hi folks.
Haven't really posted here, and as anyone will see from my profile, have zero verifications, due to zero meets,
Anyway, how many of you, particularly guys, receive random messages from guys looking to 'drain your cock dry' because it's no different to being with a woman.
And yes, my profile says Bi, this should probably be rephrased to... Bi in the right situation. Ie... with a couple or in a group scenario where everyone is happy and comfortable, without any real pressure.
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"Any minute now, someone else will tell you to go to a social or a club."
And you know, that would be awesome.
Probably more than anything I'm looking for people who I can get along with, and not be afraid of who i am around them.
Obviously i need to do more to try and get to meets or clubs, which is fine. But I'm not gonna meet with someone just because there is a better than good chance that i can get rid of some sexual frustration. I'd much rather have social interaction with people too. |
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"Now see that's honesty i can deal with. And at the end of the day, thats the most attractive thing in any person alive.
From deepest darkest Irvine/ moving soon hopefully."
No point lying, you always get found out in the end.
Irvine's not so bad, is it? X
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"Any minute now, someone else will tell you to go to a social or a club.
And you know, that would be awesome.
Probably more than anything I'm looking for people who I can get along with, and not be afraid of who i am around them.
Obviously i need to do more to try and get to meets or clubs, which is fine. But I'm not gonna meet with someone just because there is a better than good chance that i can get rid of some sexual frustration. I'd much rather have social interaction with people too."
Youve just increased your chances in having mutual pleasure with like-minded people without going to socials or clubs with that comment youve just written.
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Honestly thank you for your comment.
Realistically though, anyone can go have sex with someone and detach themselves from the situation. I just can't. I'd much rather have people who i can laugh with, speak with, drink with, than someone who i just use to satisfy my own human urge for orgasm. Sounds pish, but it's true. |
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"Honestly thank you for your comment.
Realistically though, anyone can go have sex with someone and detach themselves from the situation. I just can't. I'd much rather have people who i can laugh with, speak with, drink with, than someone who i just use to satisfy my own human urge for orgasm. Sounds pish, but it's true."
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"Honestly thank you for your comment.
Realistically though, anyone can go have sex with someone and detach themselves from the situation. I just can't. I'd much rather have people who i can laugh with, speak with, drink with, than someone who i just use to satisfy my own human urge for orgasm. Sounds pish, but it's true."
Hallelujah someone who gets it, you'll be fine op im sure of it |
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"Honestly thank you for your comment.
Realistically though, anyone can go have sex with someone and detach themselves from the situation. I just can't. I'd much rather have people who i can laugh with, speak with, drink with, than someone who i just use to satisfy my own human urge for orgasm. Sounds pish, but it's true."
Well said that man & there are 1 or 2 who have the same outlook thankfully  |
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"Honestly thank you for your comment.
Realistically though, anyone can go have sex with someone and detach themselves from the situation. I just can't. I'd much rather have people who i can laugh with, speak with, drink with, than someone who i just use to satisfy my own human urge for orgasm. Sounds pish, but it's true."
Thankfully there are many other guys just like you who never lower their standards no matter how tempting it is |
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Thanks again for the comments/input folks.
Obviously some folk are different with their approaches, and I'm only going on what messages I've recieved, so I'd be curious to.sre how weird or even borderline abusive people can be, have seen plenty updates/profiles where abusive messages are mentioned specifically
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"Thanks again for the comments/input folks.
Obviously some folk are different with their approaches, and I'm only going on what messages I've recieved, so I'd be curious to.sre how weird or even borderline abusive people can be, have seen plenty updates/profiles where abusive messages are mentioned specifically
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yeah and some women give out abuse too |
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Probably do. I certainly wouldn't get offended, or chuck the toys out of the pram if someone who i had never met or chatted with deleted a message i had sent though. But hey, we're all different and thats what makes us unique, right? |
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"Probably do. I certainly wouldn't get offended, or chuck the toys out of the pram if someone who i had never met or chatted with deleted a message i had sent though. But hey, we're all different and thats what makes us unique, right?"
correct |
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"Honestly thank you for your comment.
Realistically though, anyone can go have sex with someone and detach themselves from the situation. I just can't. I'd much rather have people who i can laugh with, speak with, drink with, than someone who i just use to satisfy my own human urge for orgasm. Sounds pish, but it's true."
You're welcome..
I use the same logic |
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Common bloody decency surely.
Plus the same one who started this original rant sending random friend requests, and i suspect just trying to see my pic.
It's a pic of my face... nowt exciting, but hidden because i work in an extremely public environment... |
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Even thow it's a swinger's site ,everyone I have had previous meets ,I always have and will treat a woman with respect,don't see her as a peice of meet,if it happens or if not .
It's no the end of the world,at least you make a good friend. |
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Yeah it's a swingers site, so people will automatically come here looking for sex...
But then again, do you always go shopping and come home with exactly what you went for?
Social interaction is the biggest part of sex in my eyes. If i have 20 social meets with women/couples on here and none of those result in sex, then there's a better than good chance that I've made that many friendships. |
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