"Do people meet up before CJS? I'm a bit nervous about turning up myself  "
Some do. Have a wee look on the cjs post. I'm sure you will be fine though. A few first timers going sat in the same boat.
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By *iimonMan
over a year ago
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I should be going for the first time on Saturday and I'm nervous to say the least haha. No idea what to expect. So just not going to expect anything and see what it's all about really is my plan! |
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I agree with sweetest deviants...defo hardest part when it's your first time. Once your in you will wonder why you were so nervous! Just relax and chat and you will be fine. It's more like a social with added play if you get lucky! Good luck guys
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"Also looking for advice on what to expect at CJ's
Is it true you have to strip down to a towel x"
You only get given a towel if you beco m e visibly erect, if you can stay soft you're allowed to continue walking about naked  |
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"Also looking for advice on what to expect at CJ's
Is it true you have to strip down to a towel x
You only get given a towel if you beco m e visibly erect, if you can stay soft you're allowed to continue walking about naked "
One of the staff got in my face over the whole towel thing saying I didn't have an option, I left a negative review and got more abuse by PM but going to give it another go since I've seen more good reviews left since even if it seems the good reviews are regulars/clique trying to make my honest review disappear ?? |
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"Also looking for advice on what to expect at CJ's
Is it true you have to strip down to a towel x
You only get given a towel if you beco m e visibly erect, if you can stay soft you're allowed to continue walking about naked
One of the staff got in my face over the whole towel thing saying I didn't have an option, I left a negative review and got more abuse by PM but going to give it another go since I've seen more good reviews left since even if it seems the good reviews are regulars/clique trying to make my honest review disappear ??"
I dunno. I totally made my comment up just for the crack  |
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"What would happen if you turn up at CJs and people figure out their profile here is all fake images? Do they get removed or does word get round quick?
Always wondered this "
I cant see them getting removed CJ has no control over what people put on their fab profile, the two businesses arent connected....
But word would get round on here that mister or missus X is a fake? |
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"You would need to be very naive to use someone else's images then turn up at an event"
Wouldn't surprise me on here lol seen a few profiles mention going to cjs yet when you view it its majority fake pics.
I'd imagine once that person gets found out in the club news would travel fast around everyone. |
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"You only need to wear a towel at greedy girls, is this not correct?
So unless it's a greedy girls event you walk around naked?
Is there enough lockers and stuff to store my valuables? x"
Nooooo, you wear you clothes otherwise.
Are your valuables not in your pants? |
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"You only need to wear a towel at greedy girls, is this not correct?
So unless it's a greedy girls event you walk around naked?
Is there enough lockers and stuff to store my valuables? x"
You wear clothes in the downstairs areas. |
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"Also looking for advice on what to expect at CJ's
Is it true you have to strip down to a towel x
You only get given a towel if you beco m e visibly erect, if you can stay soft you're allowed to continue walking about naked
One of the staff got in my face over the whole towel thing saying I didn't have an option, I left a negative review and got more abuse by PM but going to give it another go since I've seen more good reviews left since even if it seems the good reviews are regulars/clique trying to make my honest review disappear ??
I dunno. I totally made my comment up just for the crack "
Made me laugh  |
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"Also looking for advice on what to expect at CJ's
Is it true you have to strip down to a towel x
You only get given a towel if you beco m e visibly erect, if you can stay soft you're allowed to continue walking about naked
One of the staff got in my face over the whole towel thing saying I didn't have an option, I left a negative review and got more abuse by PM but going to give it another go since I've seen more good reviews left since even if it seems the good reviews are regulars/clique trying to make my honest review disappear ??
I dunno. I totally made my comment up just for the crack
Made me laugh "
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"Also looking for advice on what to expect at CJ's
Is it true you have to strip down to a towel x
You only get given a towel if you beco m e visibly erect, if you can stay soft you're allowed to continue walking about naked
One of the staff got in my face over the whole towel thing saying I didn't have an option, I left a negative review and got more abuse by PM but going to give it another go since I've seen more good reviews left since even if it seems the good reviews are regulars/clique trying to make my honest review disappear ??"
You have to wear a towel upstairs at a greedy girls night otherwise it's a smart/casual dress code for guys |
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People's preconceptions about cjs make me laugh. It's not all naked people writhing about on top of each other lol
Greedy girls nights men need to be in just a towel when upstairs. Fun for all nights you come dressed smart casual and even when upstairs you would stay clothed unless you were playing.
It's really not that scary. Just go and chat to people and see where it leads
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Going to CJs Saturday ,my first night at a club as a single male, been to Cupids, Partners,Infusions and one in Birmingham that I can't remember the name of as part of a couple with my ex.
Looking forward to meeting some new friends at CJs.
For you newbie single guys the best advise I can give is be respectful and you will have a great time I'm sure.
Say hi if you see me there,
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Have to smile at some of the comments-before I ever went to a swingers club, visions of a group of bodies writhing naked on the floor when I walked in the door came to mind. How wrong I was! My first night was a simple social evening exchanging anecdotes with fully clothed ladies and gents! Nobody wandering about in towels etc..However in Infusions you are all expected to change and wear a towel on any visit. In cjs it is towels for greedy girls only and us ladies to strip to undies if we are participating! |
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