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By *alcon43 OP Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
Make me laugh.
Black guy messages if I'd like a big black cock. I respond politely ' No thanks'
He then says I'm too fat anyway and blocks me.
Think I'll start blocking and give up being polite. |
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"I know. I usually block once I've said no as it stops the insults or the why am I not your type.
Now I'll block with no response. Hope there's no limit to the block list!
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there cant be as ive more on my block list than friends list lol |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
Pleasuretown |
"Make me laugh.
Black guy messages if I'd like a big black cock. I respond politely ' No thanks'
He then says I'm too fat anyway and blocks me.
Think I'll start blocking and give up being polite. "
Wonder if it was the same one that messaged me. He was equally polite  |
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"If asked...il send a polite no thanks
If just general chit chat with someone I'm not keen on its 1 word answers until they take the hint I'm afraid lol "
I do that all the time lol...engaging convo if Im interested one word replies if im not lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had a few from guys asking to suck my cock I delete. Not sure why I get asked as it's on my profile as straight "
Most guys have straight but then verifications that say different lol. Not that it bothers me if your gay straight or bi. Just meaning mostly with guys its not as said in stone lol. X (edited as half sleeping) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some people on this site just cant handle rejection .
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Im rejected more times than a bankrupt s credit card but im polite about it..take falcon asked her if she wanted to hunt the duck
Polite gfy off her was sufficient |
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By *haostimeMan
over a year ago
north Glasgow |
I don't mind getting a reply back saying "no Thanks", the end of the day, everyone has a preferred type, so what's for one ,may not be for another.
if I get a decent respectful message then I feel myself its only fair to reply to it. Though I do understand why some people don't reply, as its the idiots that have pissed them off. Though I'm learning more n more who the decent ones and who the idiots are .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I still have my single profile to chat to friends iv made over the years and i show scott what we get on a single female profile he was flabber gasted. Yes you get hounded but 90% if them are not worth reading or abuse or dekude. Iv been called a hippo/fat/ugly/ head up my arse/just wanted to spunk up ye! cause i said no thanks to a want a fuck message.lol. id rather get no messages. A guy sent me a ' why the fuck you here fat cow if you not meetin' yes that was a first message lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just shake my head sometime. 
We are all here for the same thing (well most are) but it seems respect and sometimes common decency go out the window on here.
I just don't reply or delete or revert to my fav tool on here........the block button  |
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These kinda threads make me laugh folk complain about idiots then on other threads these same idiots are told how to write their profile to appeal to people. For me its simple act like a d**k get treated like one |
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By *alcon43 OP Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
"I still have my single profile to chat to friends iv made over the years and i show scott what we get on a single female profile he was flabber gasted. Yes you get hounded but 90% if them are not worth reading or abuse or dekude. Iv been called a hippo/fat/ugly/ head up my arse/just wanted to spunk up ye! cause i said no thanks to a want a fuck message.lol. id rather get no messages. A guy sent me a ' why the fuck you here fat cow if you not meetin' yes that was a first message lol x "
It's awful the abuse we get. You're gorgeous looking and have a great personality. You make everyone welcome that you meet. No one deserves to be insulted.
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By *alcon43 OP Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
"These kinda threads make me laugh folk complain about idiots then on other threads these same idiots are told how to write their profile to appeal to people. For me its simple act like a d**k get treated like one "
Some people don't take on board the advice they are given. Some people just don't change. |
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We block if we're unlikely to want to meet. It's nothing other than a filter for us. No offence is ever intended, not taken when were blocked. It just means we see people online who are more likely to match our preference.
It cuts out all the nonsense one liners, and the need to reply to those were unlikely to meet. Simple.
We rarely or never get stupid initial messages |
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I take no reply as no thanks, but if someone does reply saying no thanks.I do reply saying thanks for taking time to effort then make a note on their profile to not message them again.
Really don't understand people who reply with insults when you say no thanks, or those who question your decision.
But that's people nobody ever said they had to make sense |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really don't mind a no thanks as although we are mostly all here for nsa fun,some people seem to want to go out of there way to spoil the experience for others which does make people wary.
I have had plenty no thanks I respect there decision and usually reply with a polite no problem and wish them well.
I think it's more odd when someone accepts you as a friend then never replies if you message them strange.
But I always believe in being polite and never expect a meet out of it as let's face it everyone is entitled to take there time and I also find it shows they have some self respect for themselves and want to chat at least first good on them. |
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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago
Blantyre |
"We block if we're unlikely to want to meet. It's nothing other than a filter for us. No offence is ever intended, not taken when were blocked. It just means we see people online who are more likely to match our preference.
It cuts out all the nonsense one liners, and the need to reply to those were unlikely to meet. Simple.
We rarely or never get stupid initial messages "
Likewise here. Always reply with polite no thanks message , then we block so as not to repeat the excersise every 2 weeks or less. If we attempt to look at a profile and it says we cant we know we have already had some sort of interaction in the past and it wasnt for us. Its a simple filter no need to take offence if blocked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Filter buttons cut out majority of shite.
I set my filters to what I'm looking for, and whether or not I match what others are looking for and block the rest.
Has worked for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know. I usually block once I've said no as it stops the insults or the why am I not your type.
Now I'll block with no response. Hope there's no limit to the block list!
there cant be as ive more on my block list than friends list lol"
hahahaha think most on here are in the same boat. I block I get block . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some people on this site just cant handle rejection .
this is true in all genders"
Well said, I spoke to a couple politely and found myself blocked, when I couldn't make a meet, after they had cancelled twice!
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I'm quite new to the site and slowly but surely are learning the protocol. lol
I much prefer it when i get a polite no thank you. (not as much as a hello how are you of course). At least then i know they have at least read my message.
have started blocking these people to, not out of rudeness but as a way of filtering them so i don't dother them again.
No need to be rude at the end of the day we are all adults!! Just my opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm quite new to the site and slowly but surely are learning the protocol. lol
I much prefer it when i get a polite no thank you. (not as much as a hello how are you of course). At least then i know they have at least read my message.
have started blocking these people to, not out of rudeness but as a way of filtering them so i don't dother them again.
No need to be rude at the end of the day we are all adults!! Just my opinion. "
Well done, you'll go far young man lol ... not everyone realises that's one use for the block button. I've had the same cut and paste message from a few folk on a regular basis before finally saying to them "it's appreciated but I'm going to block as doing this repeatedly is a waste of both our time" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people always think that blocking someone is being rude ?
If someone speaks to you in the street, do you just put your hand up to their face and tell them to f×%ck off?"
No ..i would consider that rude.
A block maybe should be considered as a "No Thanks"
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