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"I'm thinking about asking for a place at this. As a single guy and a first time meet for myself would this be a good starting point?"
Perfect place to meet new people and also get verified from the people you chat to and if you get asked to join in some fun then that's a bonus.
Send cjs a message to book in.
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"We hadn't planned on going but it's a possibility. Beth  xxx
We're you guys at CJs last Saturday? I think you said hello to us.
We were at the schoolie one, that was our last time there. x"
Ahh it's was probably that night, we're there almost every weekend.  |
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"We hadn't planned on going but it's a possibility. Beth xxx
We're you guys at CJs last Saturday? I think you said hello to us.
We were at the schoolie one, that was our last time there. x
Ahh it's was probably that night, we're there almost every weekend. "
I think it was probably me then. x |
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"Tempted !!!
I can resist everything except temptation. 
Hmmmm....... waiting to see if you guys are going as we have unfinished business xxx"
If we don't go to this one we will go to at least one at the start/mid of August. xx  |
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By *uriojohnMan
over a year ago
Nr St Andrews |
"Looks like it might be busy
Ha! You gave me the idea!
Am straight mate  "
Er, me too. I just meant that I saw the thread you started and that got me thinking about CJ's
Sorry for the misunderstanding |
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"Looks like it might be busy
Ha! You gave me the idea!
Am straight mate
Er, me too. I just meant that I saw the thread you started and that got me thinking about CJ's
Sorry for the misunderstanding "
Hahaha he's having a laugh with you 
Does look like a great night though...lots of hotties
Lxx |
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By *uriojohnMan
over a year ago
Nr St Andrews |
"Looks like it might be busy
Ha! You gave me the idea!
Am straight mate
Er, me too. I just meant that I saw the thread you started and that got me thinking about CJ's
Sorry for the misunderstanding
Hahaha he's having a laugh with you
Does look like a great night though...lots of hotties
Lxx"
Ha, ha! Phew!
I bit hook, line and sinker
Was genuinely worried there |
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"Looks like it might be busy
Ha! You gave me the idea!
Am straight mate
Er, me too. I just meant that I saw the thread you started and that got me thinking about CJ's
Sorry for the misunderstanding
Hahaha he's having a laugh with you
Does look like a great night though...lots of hotties
Lxx
Ha, ha! Phew!
I bit hook, line and sinker
Was genuinely worried there"
Hahaha. It's me you should be worried about!!
Just kidding
Lx |
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By *iimonMan
over a year ago
glasgow |
"I'm thinking about asking for a place at this. As a single guy and a first time meet for myself would this be a good starting point?
Perfect place to meet new people and also get verified from the people you chat to and if you get asked to join in some fun then that's a bonus.
Send cjs a message to book in.
D"
Thanks for that  |
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"What facilities does it have website says very little"
It's on 2 levels.
When u go in you go to the clockroom then there is a large kitchen/dining area where there is a buffet and tea and coffee.
There is a little chill out room and just off that is the bar area and the other side of that is a large room with a dancefloor and some couches.
There is also another large room with seating and a pole.
Upstairs is where it happens.
1 open room a couples and single female only room and other private rooms.
It is a good nite and a good mixture of people attend.
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"What facilities does it have website says very little
It's on 2 levels.
When u go in you go to the clockroom then there is a large kitchen/dining area where there is a buffet and tea and coffee.
There is a little chill out room and just off that is the bar area and the other side of that is a large room with a dancefloor and some couches.
There is also another large room with seating and a pole.
Upstairs is where it happens.
1 open room a couples and single female only room and other private rooms.
It is a good nite and a good mixture of people attend.
D"
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"What facilities does it have website says very little
It's on 2 levels.
When u go in you go to the clockroom then there is a large kitchen/dining area where there is a buffet and tea and coffee.
There is a little chill out room and just off that is the bar area and the other side of that is a large room with a dancefloor and some couches.
There is also another large room with seating and a pole.
Upstairs is where it happens.
1 open room a couples and single female only room and other private rooms.
It is a good nite and a good mixture of people attend.
D
thank u"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It has been a While we have been there especially the two of us at the same time so we will try to make it this time and hoping we are still going to have a great time there.?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry can I ask a daft question having never been to a club before, and we're seriously considering going along to one soon, probably CJs, What is the dress code?  |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
"Sorry can I ask a daft question having never been to a club before, and we're seriously considering going along to one soon, probably CJs, What is the dress code? "
Smart casual. You can wear stockings, etc or change later once you feel more comfortable. There's no need to walk around in underwear you can stay fully clothed in social areas.
Message kinkycj for more details. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry can I ask a daft question having never been to a club before, and we're seriously considering going along to one soon, probably CJs, What is the dress code? "
Most folk dress like they would for a normal night out, I tend to just wear a dress and heels. But you can go sexier if you wish. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unexpectedly I’m coming along, just for the second time. Are you as friendly as you all seem on here and happy to chat to nervous near first timers? ??"
We were all 1st timers at some point and was always made to feel welcome xx |
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Thanks - I didn’t really mean to suggest that people are unfriendly, it’s just human nature a lot of the time to chat with people you know, or probably other couples if you’re a couple.
Plus I have terrible resting arse face so sometimes look far more serious and grumpy than I actually am. It’s a terrible curse! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Planning on giving it a go this weekend, need to message to book in or can I just turn up? Been before for the greedy girls thing and wasn't much worth perving over never mind anything else"
Need to book in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi guys in Glasgow and all very last minute. Cjs all full for single guys but any ladies, couples or groups looking for chat, dancing and some patter invites most welcome. If not thanks for your consideration and have a good night x |
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Thanks to a great night and making me feel so welcome,met some lovely people and hope to attend again soon, sorry if we had communicated on fab but didn't manage to chat on the night.
It's defiantly a different vibe from clubs I have been to in England, far more relaxed and social so a big well done to CJ and the crew that runs the place.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dissapoingint as a single guy. 2nd time i have been to a fun 4 all but if your not there as a couple or friends of those to start your not given a chance in my opinion.
Great venue though |
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"Dissapoingint as a single guy. 2nd time i have been to a fun 4 all but if your not there as a couple or friends of those to start your not given a chance in my opinion.
Great venue though "
I can see where you are coming from but you really need to socialise and chat to different folk in all the rooms - without coming across as a desperado. Cjs is a very social place and you need to be prepared for lots of small chats. Don't come with too high expectations otherwise you will inevitably get disappointed. Also there are a lot of regulars who know each other there but won't be averse to chatting with single guys - providing they are not pushy. I will definitely say hi if our paths cross! |
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"Dissapoingint as a single guy. 2nd time i have been to a fun 4 all but if your not there as a couple or friends of those to start your not given a chance in my opinion.
Great venue though "
Did you try and chat to anyone, or did you just creep about upstairs looking for "action" we spoke to a couple of single guys last night, a few new mf couples and a one or two single females.
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"Dissapoingint as a single guy. 2nd time i have been to a fun 4 all but if your not there as a couple or friends of those to start your not given a chance in my opinion.
Great venue though
I can see where you are coming from but you really need to socialise and chat to different folk in all the rooms - without coming across as a desperado. Cjs is a very social place and you need to be prepared for lots of small chats. Don't come with too high expectations otherwise you will inevitably get disappointed. Also there are a lot of regulars who know each other there but won't be averse to chatting with single guys - providing they are not pushy. I will definitely say hi if our paths cross!"
Night started off well but only so much u can do without coming across a pest either lol. Didnt expect to be laid bare all night haha but its a long night if you have little conversation.
Thanks tracey maybe catch up sometime x |
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"Dissapoingint as a single guy. 2nd time i have been to a fun 4 all but if your not there as a couple or friends of those to start your not given a chance in my opinion.
Great venue though
Did you try and chat to anyone, or did you just creep about upstairs looking for "action" we spoke to a couple of single guys last night, a few new mf couples and a one or two single females.
Jim"
Spoke to a few and only ventured upstairs when tired of standing about downstairs lol. |
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"Dissapoingint as a single guy. 2nd time i have been to a fun 4 all but if your not there as a couple or friends of those to start your not given a chance in my opinion.
Great venue though "
I went on my own (2nd visit) with only knowing 1 couple that would be going along later. I chatted with 2 guys that I'd briefly exchanged messages with before. There were a few faces I recognised but plenty I didn't know. I had a great night
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"Dissapoingint as a single guy. 2nd time i have been to a fun 4 all but if your not there as a couple or friends of those to start your not given a chance in my opinion.
Great venue though
Did you try and chat to anyone, or did you just creep about upstairs looking for "action" we spoke to a couple of single guys last night, a few new mf couples and a one or two single females.
Jim
Spoke to a few and only ventured upstairs when tired of standing about downstairs lol. "
Honestly, I didn't see many guys downstairs for most of the night. No more than 2-3 at a time, and even at that, they were mostly in the bar area. Whenever we went upstairs, there was a traffic jam of guys hanging about corridors and doors and not one of them spoke (upstairs)
Was there no one there that you have spoke to on here?
We were barely in the door and a woman I had exchanged about three messages with (on my own profile) came over, said hi introduced herself.
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We had a good night although we never got to play with anyone. We spoke to a few people we know from previous times and enjoyed watching in the open room. A lot of single people expect to goto CJs to get 'laid which it's not all about. We like the social side and enjoy watching and talking to people.
It must be frustrating as a single to go and not have any fun, but hang in there and keep going, you'll meet new friends and who knows what it leads too.
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
harrow |
But I will say sometimes you have to accept when going to clubs that there may not be people you click with on a play basis or that you just get to know socially
Sometimes the best plays I have had are ones that I have met in a club socially and ended up playing the next time I went to a club |
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We had an amazing night. We got a private room with a few other couples and we invited a single guy to join us.
The key thing here is that that gent was polite, courteous and respectful. Not one of the guys that kept trying to follow us into rooms and touch the girls.
The point I'm making is that single guys can do well at Cjs but it's up to them to decide how they want to behave! k x |
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"We had an amazing night. We got a private room with a few other couples and we invited a single guy to join us.
The key thing here is that that gent was polite, courteous and respectful. Not one of the guys that kept trying to follow us into rooms and touch the girls.
The point I'm making is that single guys can do well at Cjs but it's up to them to decide how they want to behave! k x"
I've never seen anyone that has made an effort to chat be ignored by anyone.
Was nice to speak to you both last night, hope you found your shoes
Jim x |
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"We had an amazing night. We got a private room with a few other couples and we invited a single guy to join us.
The key thing here is that that gent was polite, courteous and respectful. Not one of the guys that kept trying to follow us into rooms and touch the girls.
The point I'm making is that single guys can do well at Cjs but it's up to them to decide how they want to behave! k x
I've never seen anyone that has made an effort to chat be ignored by anyone.
Was nice to speak to you both last night, hope you found your shoes
Jim x"
I had a little bit too much to drink! Suffering today. I did find them in the end lol xx
Lovely speaking to you too. |
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"Dissapoingint as a single guy. 2nd time i have been to a fun 4 all but if your not there as a couple or friends of those to start your not given a chance in my opinion.
Great venue though "
Totally disagree |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
I spoke to a couple of single guys last night. One spoke to me first as we both chat on the forums. I subsequently verified them today and had a chat with one.
Regulars and newbies have to make the effort. Some guys can be pushy and spoil it for others and some get too d*unk.
We all have to make it friendly. Michelle and Caroline are great hostesses and do their best to make sure everyone has a great time. |
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By *igD262Man
over a year ago
glasgow |
"We had an amazing night. We got a private room with a few other couples and we invited a single guy to join us.
The key thing here is that that gent was polite, courteous and respectful. Not one of the guys that kept trying to follow us into rooms and touch the girls.
The point I'm making is that single guys can do well at Cjs but it's up to them to decide how they want to behave! k x"
spot on what you said |
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By *iimonMan
over a year ago
glasgow |
I had a good night! I'm not great at starting a convo but started talking to a dude who I could tell was in the same boat. We ended up talking to a few other people till the nerves went away and that was me.
Had a bit of fun with a smoking hot couple in 1 of the rooms (who's names I never did find out).
So if your out there say hi, I was the guy with the black shirt with white dots |
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That might have been me. At the end of the day it can be pretty daunting for single guys, but that’s not the fault of the club.
Also, I guess you have to manage expectations - chatted to quite a few people in the end, so it’s still a fun night in a completely random meeting new people kind of way.
AmberleyMoonlight came and said hi with her friend who had brought her along who both couldn’t have been more lovely and open about the whole thing. Was good chatting with them and joined in giving Amberley a spanking upstairs later.
I’m sure once you’ve been a few times and chatted to a few people each time it must get a bit easier to chat to people you have before - it’s just that first time when you have no clue about anyone.
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"Dissapoingint as a single guy. 2nd time i have been to a fun 4 all but if your not there as a couple or friends of those to start your not given a chance in my opinion.
Great venue though "
Next time mingle in the kitchen lol people can't eat without chatting and I met a couple single guys and chatted away for ages.
What were you expecting??? |
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"Dissapoingint as a single guy. 2nd time i have been to a fun 4 all but if your not there as a couple or friends of those to start your not given a chance in my opinion.
Great venue though
Its no diffrent from vinilla you got to make a connection with the girls or couples if you want to roll them about i always treat it as a social if you get lucky its a bonus as guys are surplus to requirement
Next time mingle in the kitchen lol people can't eat without chatting and I met a couple single guys and chatted away for ages.
What were you expecting??? "
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We are missing this for a variety of reasons. Hope everyone has a good time. We probably won't be going until Mid August now xxx
