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First verifications are a headache
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know women will basically get 100 messages a day etc and can afford to be a bit picky and have certain requests and demands but when it comes to women saying they won't meet anyone unless they've been verified...you canny win here haha . People think you're a fake profile the lot lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone has the right to be picky just some aren't and for the has to be verified, its not more "oh he's fake" it's more the "oh he could be a masked murderer and do I want to be the first to meet him" |
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"Everyone has the right to be picky just some aren't and for the has to be verified, its not more "oh he's fake" it's more the "oh he could be a masked murderer and do I want to be the first to meet him" "
My concerns are more about wasting time with hair make up and lingerie for an unverified user ![](/icons/s/redface.gif) |
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"Everyone has the right to be picky just some aren't and for the has to be verified, its not more "oh he's fake" it's more the "oh he could be a masked murderer and do I want to be the first to meet him" " exactly...my issue with not meeting unverified guys is purely safety |
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"I know women will basically get 100 messages a day etc and can afford to be a bit picky and have certain requests and demands but when it comes to women saying they won't meet anyone unless they've been verified...you canny win here haha . People think you're a fake profile the lot lol "
Just go to a social or CJs and someone will verify you. Simple! |
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"Everyone has the right to be picky just some aren't and for the has to be verified, its not more "oh he's fake" it's more the "oh he could be a masked murderer and do I want to be the first to meet him" "
Fair enough there lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Everyone has the right to be picky just some aren't and for the has to be verified, its not more "oh he's fake" it's more the "oh he could be a masked murderer and do I want to be the first to meet him" exactly...my issue with not meeting unverified guys is purely safety "
That's helpful, thanks. |
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"Nobody will meet you because your not verified, but you cant get verified because nobody will meet you... a vicious circle."
No its not! That's what socials are for! Go along and say hi and some nice person will verify you as genuine! |
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By *onniemMan
over a year ago
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Personally think the verification thing is now used for personal gratification . It's a "look how good I am " thing to many and then there's the verification collectors akin to facebook "friend" collectors . Started as a good idea but not being used properly imho rant over ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Took me a wee while to get Verified if any consolation. Mind you my pictures were crapthats no excuse "
Ok...My rhetoric was crap too...As exciting as burnt toast |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally think the verification thing is now used for personal gratification . It's a "look how good I am " thing to many and then there's the verification collectors akin to facebook "friend" collectors . Started as a good idea but not being used properly imho rant over "
This is true. Many people like to display their sexual prowess and like their Verifications to be graphic. But I don't necessarily think it's.boasting sorry. Verifications are essential for me and I expect to be able to read a fair few before I would meet. I don't.mind if they are explicit. All my explicit ones are not.displayed however. |
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By *onniemMan
over a year ago
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"Personally think the verification thing is now used for personal gratification . It's a "look how good I am " thing to many and then there's the verification collectors akin to facebook "friend" collectors . Started as a good idea but not being used properly imho rant over
This is true. Many people like to display their sexual prowess and like their Verifications to be graphic. But I don't necessarily think it's.boasting sorry. Verifications are essential for me and I expect to be able to read a fair few before I would meet. I don't.mind if they are explicit. All my explicit ones are not.displayed however."
True of the more discerning/responsible , however there are way more who use it as an ego trip sadly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally think the verification thing is now used for personal gratification . It's a "look how good I am " thing to many and then there's the verification collectors akin to facebook "friend" collectors . Started as a good idea but not being used properly imho rant over
This is true. Many people like to display their sexual prowess and like their Verifications to be graphic. But I don't necessarily think it's.boasting sorry. Verifications are essential for me and I expect to be able to read a fair few before I would meet. I don't.mind if they are explicit. All my explicit ones are not.displayed however.
True of the more discerning/responsible , however there are way more who use it as an ego trip sadly "
Possibly.true. I certainly.dont. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally think the verification thing is now used for personal gratification . It's a "look how good I am " thing to many and then there's the verification collectors akin to facebook "friend" collectors . Started as a good idea but not being used properly imho rant over " as I said I will not meet anyone that's unverified..some do tho and yes socials are a great way to get verified
Myself...I do not show my veris as it's really no one's buisness who Iv met...if Iv met and the guy verifys me I leave it up for a day as to show I'm greateful for that veri but then I hide it
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"Personally think the verification thing is now used for personal gratification . It's a "look how good I am " thing to many and then there's the verification collectors akin to facebook "friend" collectors . Started as a good idea but not being used properly imho rant over as I said I will not meet anyone that's unverified..some do tho and yes socials are a great way to get verified
Myself...I do not show my veris as it's really no one's buisness who Iv met...if Iv met and the guy verifys me I leave it up for a day as to show I'm greateful for that veri but then I hide it
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