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Reason why some women wont play with bi guys ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don't think I'd classify myself as bi. Had a couple of experiences with guys in the past, good and bad, but it was mainly to satisfy a curiosity and it kind of just assured me that I'm happiest with women. I still see the appeal though, and I'm usually open to bi fun when it comes to threesomes, but that's kind of as far as it goes.
But more and more I've noticed, both in real life and online, that a lot of women have major hesitations about dating or fucking bisexual men. I've heard plenty of rationalizations for these feelings, some of them fairly baffling, but I wanted to hear the fab women's side of the story since "no bi guys" tends to pop up on a fair few profiles. What's the issue? Why does it matter?
This thread will probably end up containing a few prejudices and generalisations and other hurtful things but I realise that romantic and sexual attraction are often not rational. Let's try not to take anything too personally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get bemused when a bi female won't meet bi males, as if it's ok for her, but bi males should wear a bell about their neck and cry "unclean, unclean"! When it is a couple, I wonder which partner has said no,
him, for obvious reasons, or her, in case he likes it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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surely its up to a person to have the freedom of choice whether or not to play with a bi or be bi whatever, I have never knowingly played with a bi guy only cos dont like the thought of sucking a cock which has been up a mans bum where the waste comes out my choice but same as everyone else's but i thought most fab fems love a bi guy lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"surely its up to a person to have the freedom of choice whether or not to play with a bi or be bi whatever, I have never knowingly played with a bi guy only cos dont like the thought of sucking a cock which has been up a mans bum where the waste comes out my choice but same as everyone else's but i thought most fab fems love a bi guy lol"
Not every bi guy sticks his cock up bums, some prefer it stuck in theirs, and, do you not consider that they practice safe sex, the same as straight males and females, and any one else with a thought for their own safety? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"surely its up to a person to have the freedom of choice whether or not to play with a bi or be bi whatever, I have never knowingly played with a bi guy only cos dont like the thought of sucking a cock which has been up a mans bum where the waste comes out my choice but same as everyone else's but i thought most fab fems love a bi guy lol
Not every bi guy sticks his cock up bums, some prefer it stuck in theirs, and, do you not consider that they practice safe sex, the same as straight males and females, and any one else with a thought for their own safety?"
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"surely its up to a person to have the freedom of choice whether or not to play with a bi or be bi whatever, I have never knowingly played with a bi guy only cos dont like the thought of sucking a cock which has been up a mans bum where the waste comes out my choice but same as everyone else's but i thought most fab fems love a bi guy lol"
so is it okay if its been in a womans bum?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm 1 of those chicks that won't play with bi guys
Why?
Because I don't want to.
It's that's simple
I'm really tired of bi guys bleating on about why some chicks won't meet them.
Concentrate on who does want to meet you...and don't give a toss who dosnt? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"surely its up to a person to have the freedom of choice whether or not to play with a bi or be bi whatever, I have never knowingly played with a bi guy only cos dont like the thought of sucking a cock which has been up a mans bum where the waste comes out my choice but same as everyone else's but i thought most fab fems love a bi guy lolso is it okay if its been in a womans bum? "
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"I'm 1 of those chicks that won't play with bi guys
Why?
Because I don't want to.
It's that's simple
I'm really tired of bi guys bleating on about why some chicks won't meet them.
Concentrate on who does want to meet you...and don't give a toss who dosnt?"
This. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm 1 of those chicks that won't play with bi guys
Why?
Because I don't want to.
It's that's simple
I'm really tired of bi guys bleating on about why some chicks won't meet them.
Concentrate on who does want to meet you...and don't give a toss who dosnt?
This."
My philosophy too. If I see it on a profile, I quietly move on. It's the ones with the strange logic that occupy my mind for a few minutes, though, before I hit "next"! |
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"I'm 1 of those chicks that won't play with bi guys
Why?
Because I don't want to.
It's that's simple
I'm really tired of bi guys bleating on about why some chicks won't meet them.
Concentrate on who does want to meet you...and don't give a toss who dosnt?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh I love bi guys!
Would love a bi mmf but hubby is extremely straight! It remains one of my fantasies though 
Mrs x"
Just fabbed a pic of your hubby to see if he'll change his mind haha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh I love bi guys!
Would love a bi mmf but hubby is extremely straight! It remains one of my fantasies though
Mrs x
Just fabbed a pic of your hubby to see if he'll change his mind haha "
Me too  |
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"Oh I love bi guys!
Would love a bi mmf but hubby is extremely straight! It remains one of my fantasies though
Mrs x
Ease your hubby in with a tv "
Hehe! Sorry folks he is very straight!
Even for a lovely lady like yourself Hayley xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each to their own.
Weirdely I am not attracted to men as such either, its just that when turned on, i quite like a cock. The thought of lying cuddling a man though really does nothing for me!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love bi guy play, for me it feels very uninhibited, but each to their own. I'm glad there's someone for everyone out there in fab land "
Totally agree with you bi guy play is great fun but get that it's not for everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm 1 of those chicks that won't play with bi guys
Why?
Because I don't want to.
It's that's simple
I'm really tired of bi guys bleating on about why some chicks won't meet them.
Concentrate on who does want to meet you...and don't give a toss who dosnt?"
some bi guys are more effeminate looking than many females on here, especially when it comes to legs and bottoms |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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(Nessarosa writing)
Oh my, how we all build our own safe and secure reality.
I can not mention how many "straight" guys have messaged us saying they are bisexual but don't want to put it on thier profile.
Hee hee....and the funny bit. They have been verified by couples that will NOT meet bi guys.
So as much honesty that is practiced on fab.... believe what you want if it makes you feel secure.
I would rather not put people in boxes. We discuss with them what they like and dislike in a meet.
Do I prefer bisexual....yes because they are not scared to touch or limit what they will or wont do.(same applies to females and TVs)
Preference yes...
by the way... I (Nessa) like anal with the right guy, I know he will use a condom and hope he washes before he goes and plays with someone else. Hee hee
Xxx
Nessarosa
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm 1 of those chicks that won't play with bi guys
Why?
Because I don't want to.
It's that's simple
I'm really tired of bi guys bleating on about why some chicks won't meet them.
Concentrate on who does want to meet you...and don't give a toss who dosnt?
some bi guys are more effeminate looking than many females on here, especially when it comes to legs and bottoms"
erm...I never said they weren't?
Me myself and I...like a guy to look like a guy when I'm having sex with them
Just my preference |
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"I'm 1 of those chicks that won't play with bi guys
Why?
Because I don't want to.
It's that's simple
I'm really tired of bi guys bleating on about why some chicks won't meet them.
Concentrate on who does want to meet you...and don't give a toss who dosnt?
some bi guys are more effeminate looking than many females on here, especially when it comes to legs and bottomserm...I never said they weren't?
Me myself and I...like a guy to look like a guy when I'm having sex with them
Just my preference "
I'm with you on this one Goody! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm 1 of those chicks that won't play with bi guys
Why?
Because I don't want to.
It's that's simple
I'm really tired of bi guys bleating on about why some chicks won't meet them.
Concentrate on who does want to meet you...and don't give a toss who dosnt?
some bi guys are more effeminate looking than many females on here, especially when it comes to legs and bottomserm...I never said they weren't?
Me myself and I...like a guy to look like a guy when I'm having sex with them
Just my preference "
lol
how do you know a guy is bi, if he doesn't come out and tell you
and ofcourse there is the saying "when you sleep with a person, you may be sleeping with all previous partners too"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Iv no control over what I don't know?
Could say the same about those who don't play with married or attached men...but they actually are?
All I can say is MY m preference is not to play with bi guys
Because...I don't want too.
It's really that simple |
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I'm a bi guy that loves playing when the guy's wife / partner is present.
I am generally only orally bi 1 on 1 with guys but love it all when with a couple.
Making out with a guy in front of a woman is horny for me.
I appreciate its not everyone's thing but then again neither are other forms of sex - its all preference.
No all i need is a yummy lady that wants to be with some bi guys !! |
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"surely its up to a person to have the freedom of choice whether or not to play with a bi or be bi whatever, I have never knowingly played with a bi guy only cos dont like the thought of sucking a cock which has been up a mans bum where the waste comes out my choice but same as everyone else's but i thought most fab fems love a bi guy lol"
I am 100% straight but I had to laugh at this as u won't incase his cock has been up a man's arse can I ask the 1st question that sprung to my mind and that is would u suck a man's cock that's been up a ladies arse? |
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If a woman doesn't want to meet with bi guys then do what us straight guys have to do. Suck it up (pardon the pun) and move on.
Feels as if some are being castigated on here for not being open minded enough to accept bi guys into their bed.
It either does nothing for them or the idea of a couple guys together is a complete turn off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a woman doesn't want to meet with bi guys then do what us straight guys have to do. Suck it up (pardon the pun) and move on.
Feels as if some are being castigated on here for not being open minded enough to accept bi guys into their bed.
It either does nothing for them or the idea of a couple guys together is a complete turn off. "
Perhaps why some guys have 2 profiles
fab Is like a box of chocolates, you never know what your gonna get |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mate you literally said it was "equivalent" to :-/
As best I can tell here you're somehow effectively saying "I'm not saying it's the same, in just saying it's not different". |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Those who want to be offended often are offended must remember to tell my lbgt friends im a bigot and hater of all diversity.......or ask them to read it for a laugh  "
That's fair enough, you can never be in the wrong if you don't believe in the existance of objective offensiveness.
I do love the 'how can I be anti-LGBT, I have loads of LGBT friends agument" |
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"Those who want to be offended often are offended must remember to tell my lbgt friends im a bigot and hater of all diversity.......or ask them to read it for a laugh
That's fair enough, you can never be in the wrong if you don't believe in the existance of objective offensiveness.
I do love the 'how can I be anti-LGBT, I have loads of LGBT friends agument" "
Mmm. The old "Some of my best friends are black/asian/women",etc, argument
I doubt he'll have many if he likens their sexuality to b.estiality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This post has seriously took a turn for the worst..like most post on here
I can see where kola is coming from
Its all about personal preferences and why we chose them
Some like bi guys some don't
That really should be the end of it |
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for me it's a bit like this ....I was born with a brain and through life I have made choices and made opinions all by myself ....if I dint want to meet certain people I just don't do it and I have never felt the need to justify my choices...the day I need to start justifying myself then it's the day I leave this lifestyle completely and to me I am a unique individual that satisfy my own needs. If people have a problem with me or my choices it says more about them than it does myself....everything is just taken way too seriously on here and everyone seems to be in a bandwagon these days.....them and us attitude.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't play with bi guys it's not our thing. Simples.
But the amount of men on here in couples that change there profile to straight when they see is is unreal.
So If they are prepared to lie about that then what else.
We respect honesty.
Like we don't have single mails on our profile but they still message.
When I was single on here I respected what a profile said and if I didn't match in any way I wouldn't message.
It personal choice and no one has I right to question that in my opinion,
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have no issue with anyones' choices, just with people who feel the need to be offensive about LGBT. Normally, it would be live and let live, but the pig comment crossed a line. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The fab world has gone nuts ,,,if your bi and can't accept a lady, couple or man does not want to play with you it is not a god given right to play the sexual discrimation card...im straight but won't sleep with married attached women,,,does that make discriminatory,,,,no it means I have the free will to let my mind decide who ,what,or however I choose to enjoy my sex life |
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"The fab world has gone nuts ,,,if your bi and can't accept a lady, couple or man does not want to play with you it is not a god given right to play the sexual discrimation card...im straight but won't sleep with married attached women,,,does that make discriminatory,,,,no it means I have the free will to let my mind decide who ,what,or however I choose to enjoy my sex life "
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Bi and gay men are still in the higher risk category of carrying a disease. Did anyone see the recent documentary on tv about gay men who now deliberately cath hiv; and indulge in what's called chem sex. My partnercalso won't do anal yet again higher risk than straight sex more chance of bleeding. For us it's about lowering risk. Just like if someone looks like a drug user we say no way. But they may use their own clean needle or just snort/ inhale yet again another higher risk group.all swinging carries risk we prefer married/attached men to single why because we think with a partner they will be more careful. Everyone has different ideas but you can't argue with stats and as I said it's about lowering risk.  |
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"surely its up to a person to have the freedom of choice whether or not to play with a bi or be bi whatever, I have never knowingly played with a bi guy only cos dont like the thought of sucking a cock which has been up a mans bum where the waste comes out my choice but same as everyone else's but i thought most fab fems love a bi guy lol"
but what about all the straight guys that have had their cocks up a woman's bum lol.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really this is still dragging on??
Play nice people
Meet who wants to meet you and leave who dosnt alone?  "
Don't think anyone is arguing against that point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have a straight female friend on here who regularly plays with herself, alone, whilst watching male bi porn... I asked her if that was a fantasy she wanted to experience for real, she said firmly "absolutely not!"... Trying to understand what's inside a womans mind is like trying drill to the moon. Ladies, just tell us in plain language what you want and we will, generally, do it... this rule doesn't apply to cleaning up, putting the bins out or remembering important dates in the calender! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a straight female friend on here who regularly plays with herself, alone, whilst watching male bi porn... I asked her if that was a fantasy she wanted to experience for real, she said firmly "absolutely not!"... Trying to understand what's inside a womans mind is like trying drill to the moon. Ladies, just tell us in plain language what you want and we will, generally, do it... this rule doesn't apply to cleaning up, putting the bins out or remembering important dates in the calender! lol"
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over a year ago
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"Single straight women who won't meet single bi men. Or single straight men who won't meet single bi women are either prejudiced or ignorant and it is entirely their right to be so. "
Eeeek that's a pretty offensive comment you've made there.   |
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"Single straight women who won't meet single bi men. Or single straight men who won't meet single bi women are either prejudiced or ignorant and it is entirely their right to be so.
Eeeek that's a pretty offensive comment you've made there. "
Totally stand by it. What do you call discriminating against a feature that is 100% irrelevant to your particular coupling? |
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"Single straight women who won't meet single bi men. Or single straight men who won't meet single bi women are either prejudiced or ignorant and it is entirely their right to be so.
Eeeek that's a pretty offensive comment you've made there. "
Totally stand by it. What do you call discriminating against a feature that is 100% irrelevant to your particular coupling? |
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"Single straight women who won't meet single bi men. Or single straight men who won't meet single bi women are either prejudiced or ignorant and it is entirely their right to be so.
Eeeek that's a pretty offensive comment you've made there.
Totally stand by it. What do you call discriminating against a feature that is 100% irrelevant to your particular coupling? "
People have preferences, in fact everyone on this planet has some sort of preference to whatever it may be (even yourself). But to say that someone is predudice or ignorant because of it is ludicrous |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Why do bi guys get soooo hung up on who won't meet them rather than who will?
Chip n shoulder spring to mind
Calling someone ignorant because they won't meet you isn't really the right thing to do?
But hey ho...as Iv said numerous times...
That's YOUR choice |
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"Single straight women who won't meet single bi men. Or single straight men who won't meet single bi women are either prejudiced or ignorant and it is entirely their right to be so.
Eeeek that's a pretty offensive comment you've made there.
Totally stand by it. What do you call discriminating against a feature that is 100% irrelevant to your particular coupling?
People have preferences, in fact everyone on this planet has some sort of preference to whatever it may be (even yourself). But to say that someone is predudice or ignorant because of it is ludicrous "
Preferences are based on looks, attitude, politics, personality.
Prejudice is based on basing your preference on something completely irrelevant and indistinct.
And for the record I'm not a bi man I'm a bi woman. |
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"Single straight women who won't meet single bi men. Or single straight men who won't meet single bi women are either prejudiced or ignorant and it is entirely their right to be so.
Eeeek that's a pretty offensive comment you've made there.
Totally stand by it. What do you call discriminating against a feature that is 100% irrelevant to your particular coupling?
People have preferences, in fact everyone on this planet has some sort of preference to whatever it may be (even yourself). But to say that someone is predudice or ignorant because of it is ludicrous
Preferences are based on looks, attitude, politics, personality.
Prejudice is based on basing your preference on something completely irrelevant and indistinct.
And for the record I'm not a bi man I'm a bi woman. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Who just happens to have a bi partner?
Lol
Whatever anyone's reasons for not meeting a certain person its their choice
No one has the right to tell anyone their right or wrong..or ignorant |
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"Who just happens to have a bi partner?
Lol
Whatever anyone's reasons for not meeting a certain person its their choice
No one has the right to tell anyone their right or wrong..or ignorant "
Some people choose to stand up in the face of discrimination and prejudice. Some stand back and claim free speech or nny rights. No one has the right to tell you who you can and can't meet. But not once have you made a coherent argument about choosing not to meet bi singles in hetero situations.
Certainly you have the right to continue to be ignorant (at best) but until you at least attempt to re educate me then i can do no more.
Let me ask the question out right, what do you find distasteful about bisexual potential partners? |
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The thought of 2 men or 2 women does nothing for me
Simple.. as for TVs or slim or ample men as of guys with spots or no teeth...
Seriously it's a preference...I honestly don't know how your not getting that...so you don't have any preferences??? So you just meet anyone to have sex with...??
Preference and discrimination are totally diffrent things? |
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"The thought of 2 men or 2 women does nothing for me
Simple.. as for TVs or slim or ample men as of guys with spots or no teeth...
Seriously it's a preference...I honestly don't know how your not getting that...so you don't have any preferences??? So you just meet anyone to have sex with...??
Preference and discrimination are totally diffrent things?"
I don't think you understand. Two people of the same sex don't do it for you? Fantastic. That's lovely. Do you always need to be turned on by the thoughts of your current partners past exploits? |
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"The thought of 2 men or 2 women does nothing for me
Simple.. as for TVs or slim or ample men as of guys with spots or no teeth...
Seriously it's a preference...I honestly don't know how your not getting that...so you don't have any preferences??? So you just meet anyone to have sex with...??
Preference and discrimination are totally diffrent things?
I don't think you understand. Two people of the same sex don't do it for you? Fantastic. That's lovely. Do you always need to be turned on by the thoughts of your current partners past exploits? "
So at the end of the day we all have preferences. So I can't see how anyone not wanting to meet a bi male is any different from your profile stating you want to meet bi partners it's your choice. Not one person is saying that being bi is wrong or anything like that not one person is discriminating against anyone it's their personal choice. Exactly the same as it is your personal choice to have on your profile that you probably won't meet straight people. Are you trying to say that you are discriminating against straight people for being straight cause you want to meet bi people.  |
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"The thought of 2 men or 2 women does nothing for me
Simple.. as for TVs or slim or ample men as of guys with spots or no teeth...
Seriously it's a preference...I honestly don't know how your not getting that...so you don't have any preferences??? So you just meet anyone to have sex with...??
Preference and discrimination are totally diffrent things?
I don't think you understand. Two people of the same sex don't do it for you? Fantastic. That's lovely. Do you always need to be turned on by the thoughts of your current partners past exploits?
So at the end of the day we all have preferences. So I can't see how anyone not wanting to meet a bi male is any different from your profile stating you want to meet bi partners it's your choice. Not one person is saying that being bi is wrong or anything like that not one person is discriminating against anyone it's their personal choice. Exactly the same as it is your personal choice to have on your profile that you probably won't meet straight people. Are you trying to say that you are discriminating against straight people for being straight cause you want to meet bi people. "
It's not at all the same. We're mainly looking for bi people because we are both bi and that fits in with our dynamic.
What would be the same would be if either of us were looking for solo play and refused to meet males or females if they were straight.
Because in a one on one situation it doesn't matter.
Is it really that complicated? |
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"The thought of 2 men or 2 women does nothing for me
Simple.. as for TVs or slim or ample men as of guys with spots or no teeth...
Seriously it's a preference...I honestly don't know how your not getting that...so you don't have any preferences??? So you just meet anyone to have sex with...??
Preference and discrimination are totally diffrent things?
I don't think you understand. Two people of the same sex don't do it for you? Fantastic. That's lovely. Do you always need to be turned on by the thoughts of your current partners past exploits?
So at the end of the day we all have preferences. So I can't see how anyone not wanting to meet a bi male is any different from your profile stating you want to meet bi partners it's your choice. Not one person is saying that being bi is wrong or anything like that not one person is discriminating against anyone it's their personal choice. Exactly the same as it is your personal choice to have on your profile that you probably won't meet straight people. Are you trying to say that you are discriminating against straight people for being straight cause you want to meet bi people.
It's not at all the same. We're mainly looking for bi people because we are both bi and that fits in with our dynamic.
What would be the same would be if either of us were looking for solo play and refused to meet males or females if they were straight.
Because in a one on one situation it doesn't matter.
Is it really that complicated? "
It is my choice who I meet with or who I dont end of. It's not discriminating against anyone it's choice. If I was discriminating then so would all of fab including yourself seeing as it is their choice who they meet age range sex even size or colour. Discrimination comes in mant forms and prople should br careful throeing words around. It's preference the same as your preferences on your profile |
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"The thought of 2 men or 2 women does nothing for me
Simple.. as for TVs or slim or ample men as of guys with spots or no teeth...
Seriously it's a preference...I honestly don't know how your not getting that...so you don't have any preferences??? So you just meet anyone to have sex with...??
Preference and discrimination are totally diffrent things?
I don't think you understand. Two people of the same sex don't do it for you? Fantastic. That's lovely. Do you always need to be turned on by the thoughts of your current partners past exploits?
So at the end of the day we all have preferences. So I can't see how anyone not wanting to meet a bi male is any different from your profile stating you want to meet bi partners it's your choice. Not one person is saying that being bi is wrong or anything like that not one person is discriminating against anyone it's their personal choice. Exactly the same as it is your personal choice to have on your profile that you probably won't meet straight people. Are you trying to say that you are discriminating against straight people for being straight cause you want to meet bi people.
It's not at all the same. We're mainly looking for bi people because we are both bi and that fits in with our dynamic.
What would be the same would be if either of us were looking for solo play and refused to meet males or females if they were straight.
Because in a one on one situation it doesn't matter.
Is it really that complicated?
It is my choice who I meet with or who I dont end of. It's not discriminating against anyone it's choice. If I was discriminating then so would all of fab including yourself seeing as it is their choice who they meet age range sex even size or colour. Discrimination comes in mant forms and prople should br careful throeing words around. It's preference the same as your preferences on your profile"
Thank you for completely disregarding my point. Just like everyone else. If as a single female, you disregard bi sexual men for one on one meets, where their bisexuality is nothing but an irrelevance then they are being either discriminatory or ignorant. As is their choice.
No one has come forward with any explanation other than they just don't like bi people. |
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The way I see it, it is my body, my sexual life and I do whatever I want with it! I don't have to justify what I do or with whom am doing it with!
If someone wants to give me a negative label! That is their prerogative!
Why is a label always negative and aimed at putting down people?? and not constructive or positive!
Rhetorical questions
Have a good Saturday night everyone whatever your preference |
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"The way I see it, it is my body, my sexual life and I do whatever I want with it! I don't have to justify what I do or with whom am doing it with!
If someone wants to give me a negative label! That is their prerogative!
Why is a label always negative and aimed at putting down people?? and not constructive or positive!
Rhetorical questions
Have a good Saturday night everyone whatever your preference "
Here here I will meet who I want and it has for nothing to do with anyone other than me and it will stay that way. |
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"The thought of 2 men or 2 women does nothing for me
Simple.. as for TVs or slim or ample men as of guys with spots or no teeth...
Seriously it's a preference...I honestly don't know how your not getting that...so you don't have any preferences??? So you just meet anyone to have sex with...??
Preference and discrimination are totally diffrent things?
I don't think you understand. Two people of the same sex don't do it for you? Fantastic. That's lovely. Do you always need to be turned on by the thoughts of your current partners past exploits?
So at the end of the day we all have preferences. So I can't see how anyone not wanting to meet a bi male is any different from your profile stating you want to meet bi partners it's your choice. Not one person is saying that being bi is wrong or anything like that not one person is discriminating against anyone it's their personal choice. Exactly the same as it is your personal choice to have on your profile that you probably won't meet straight people. Are you trying to say that you are discriminating against straight people for being straight cause you want to meet bi people.
It's not at all the same. We're mainly looking for bi people because we are both bi and that fits in with our dynamic.
What would be the same would be if either of us were looking for solo play and refused to meet males or females if they were straight.
Because in a one on one situation it doesn't matter.
Is it really that complicated?
It is my choice who I meet with or who I dont end of. It's not discriminating against anyone it's choice. If I was discriminating then so would all of fab including yourself seeing as it is their choice who they meet age range sex even size or colour. Discrimination comes in mant forms and prople should br careful throeing words around. It's preference the same as your preferences on your profile
Thank you for completely disregarding my point. Just like everyone else. If as a single female, you disregard bi sexual men for one on one meets, where their bisexuality is nothing but an irrelevance then they are being either discriminatory or ignorant. As is their choice.
No one has come forward with any explanation other than they just don't like bi people. "
Come off the high horse lol you read on here regularly that people won't meet with you if you have met with so and so, same idea. Maybe the thought of a man being with another man is just to much of a turn off for someone and it's something they couldn't get out their head.
Constantly in this country we are being told we are discriminating because we don't think the same as others. For me it actually shows your intolerance to accept some people have preferences |
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"Why do bi guys get soooo hung up on who won't meet them rather than who will?
Chip n shoulder spring to mind
Calling someone ignorant because they won't meet you isn't really the right thing to do?
But hey ho...as Iv said numerous times...
That's YOUR choice "
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"Single straight women who won't meet single bi men. Or single straight men who won't meet single bi women are either prejudiced or ignorant and it is entirely their right to be so. "
I woukd say Bi people with your attitude are the ones who are perhaps ignorant for not accepting that not everyone likes shitty sticks and the increased risks it may carry. What about people who don't like anal, scat, or any other sexual fetish are they ignorant, everyone on here will have differing kinks, being accepting of that is tbe eay to go. |
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"Single straight women who won't meet single bi men. Or single straight men who won't meet single bi women are either prejudiced or ignorant and it is entirely their right to be so.
I woukd say Bi people with your attitude are the ones who are perhaps ignorant for not accepting that not everyone likes shitty sticks and the increased risks it may carry. What about people who don't like anal, scat, or any other sexual fetish are they ignorant, everyone on here will have differing kinks, being accepting of that is tbe eay to go. "
I'd say you struggle with reading comprehension.
Sexuality is not a kink or a fetish. Do you understand that?
Of course some people don't want to meet bi guys, that's fair enough. And not one person here has contradicted that.
But it's when bisexuality is called a kink, a fetish or compaired to beastality that I feel the need to engage on the forum.
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Found an equal amount of interest since I "came out" and changed my profile to bi. Lost some interest from some and gained others...hesitated over it for ages as like the OP I gauged that many say "no bi guys" but just take the leap...opens up other doors |
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My thought's on bi males is everyone to there own but my choice is not to meet bi males no harm ment or intended its just my choice as it is for other men and woman to make there own choices in life some Like some don't |
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