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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How do you get yours?
Having a major dip in confidence, feeling very unattractive and I'm not sure how to get it back.
I've treated myself to some nice new lingerie/clothes/heel and still feel like a fat frump.
So what are your tips for boosting your confidence? How do you make yourself feel better? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you get yours?
Having a major dip in confidence, feeling very unattractive and I'm not sure how to get it back.
I've treated myself to some nice new lingerie/clothes/heel and still feel like a fat frump.
So what are your tips for boosting your confidence? How do you make yourself feel better?"
I personally think you look rather attractive....Ive also chatted to ya and it confirms it too.
Im very thankful to have someone like you on my friends list.
Being around positive people will help increase your confidence.
Negative people will run it down.
I love your Fat Frump curves x
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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I'm not sure others can help except to try and make you smile again.
When you find your smile, quite often the confidence comes back too.
But for what it's worth ladies, I've spoken to a lot of you enough to know you will find your smiles again.....just be patient and let someone help you look for it |
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I sometimes feel like that... so I kick myself in the butt and go for a run!
But also, as I've grown older I have learnt to accept that my mojo is allowed to go for a wee wander.
I let it be and it always comes back.
Fighting it can make it worse sometimes. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks everyone. I didn't start the post to get compliments but I do appreciate kind words from such delicious people...now why are you all so far away!!
I love the suggestion of getting dolled up and going out, haven't done that for ages and it reminded me it did always make me feel great! Put on my party shoes and dance like no ones watching sounds like a plan!
What a lovely bunch you all are!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Getting dressed up in your best dress put on a pair of killer heels and when you walk down the street just have a look back at the person that just passed you I'm sure they will |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you get yours?
Having a major dip in confidence, feeling very unattractive and I'm not sure how to get it back.
I've treated myself to some nice new lingerie/clothes/heel and still feel like a fat frump.
So what are your tips for boosting your confidence? How do you make yourself feel better?"
Genrrally go to the gum and work out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I sing myself this song#oh Lord it's hard to be humble ,when your perfect in every way,I can't wait to look in the mirror caused get better looking each dey# bonus point if you can name yet tune in 1 |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How do you get yours?
Having a major dip in confidence, feeling very unattractive and I'm not sure how to get it back.
I've treated myself to some nice new lingerie/clothes/heel and still feel like a fat frump.
So what are your tips for boosting your confidence? How do you make yourself feel better?
Genrrally go to the gum and work out"
That should be the gym |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Go on a date?
Haha chance would be a fine thing!
Why?"
I haven't had a proper date in 14 years 
To be fair I'm not putting myself out there for dating but I haven't been asked yet |
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I felt like that too last year, always felt sexy till I looked in the mirror x Turned 40 n decided to change my life x Started walking and doing different exercise classes, now I can run a 5k and changed my eating to a healthy shake and nutrition n a year on I have lost weight and feel healthier than I did in my 20's x Now feeling confident and determined to stay fit and happy with myself xx
Only takes 30 days to change a habit but u have choose 1 thing to change then do that daily till u have mentally added it to ur routine x Hope this helps xx ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Busty, ur stunning and a lovely personality to go along with it. U been putting others before urself lately(social organising) so bout time you thought of yourself. As others said, some you yime required! If u wanted a date im positive ud have no problems getting offers, heres the first if not had already?
Chin up and you soon b back to yourself xx
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"I felt like that too last year, always felt sexy till I looked in the mirror x Turned 40 n decided to change my life x Started walking and doing different exercise classes, now I can run a 5k and changed my eating to a healthy shake and nutrition n a year on I have lost weight and feel healthier than I did in my 20's x Now feeling confident and determined to stay fit and happy with myself xx
Only takes 30 days to change a habit but u have choose 1 thing to change then do that daily till u have mentally added it to ur routine x Hope this helps xx ?? "
Congratulations and well done....
I have managed to lose just under 2 and a half stone in the last 3 months. It took a big change in diet along with 3 gum sessions a week... went from a 36 inch waist to a 32.... made me feel great... then I went and bought some new clothes all slim fit haha and Calvin Klein underwear and although no one could see the underwear it made me feel alot better about myself... now that I've lost the weight I have just started gum sessions based on toning up... I will have a six pack haha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been feeling the same tbh not just a woman thing. Recently just tried to shake myself start the gym talk to new ppl and be more positive. Oh and u have lovely pics no need to feel down |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My view is if anyone puts you down or gives u a negative comment it's their fault not yours and they are just fuckwits
I don't have a chiselled body I don't look like Tom Hardy I don't have a 9 inch cock I look like Roy Chubby Browns secret love child but you know what / I love my body cause it's very cuddly
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Know what you mean
Fed up dragging myself out of the hole just now
Lost weight and getting fitter and still have nothing confidence. Us ladies are our own worst enemies x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ok personally looks size etc mean nothing, over the years I've met girls through friends, on first glance not found them attractive at all, but after a few weeks of getting to know them and finding out they were a beautiful person, started thinking wow you're quite hot, and on the same vane, first glance thought fuck you'd get it, then thought nah you're a shallow nasty selfish piece of work and found them quite ugly. Moral of the story, be happy in your own skin and fuck what anyone else thinks. |
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To be honest, I can't think of anything right now that boosts my confidence, but when younger and single I had a HUGE one courtesy of a girl I fancied when I was younger.
I always had a crush on her, but was too quiet and shy to say anything.
Fast forward 10 years and we were working at the same place. I was fixing her PC and she remembered who I was, and when she though she was out of earshot, I heard her telling a colleague that she had fancied me at school.
Was a HUGE Woo-Hoo and confidence boost for me.
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