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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've not been on fab that long but I am quite enjoying it but I am curious about something. I see a few status updates and chat room conversations about guys behaviour on here and how bad it is and how fed up the lady's are of it and rightly so. Then there is me polite respectful, pleasant, funny and laid back but this dosent seem to be what people are looking for.
It's all a bit confusing so I thought I'd ask the masses for their opinion and comments both good and bad  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've not been on fab that long but I am quite enjoying it but I am curious about something. I see a few status updates and chat room conversations about guys behaviour on here and how bad it is and how fed up the lady's are of it and rightly so. Then there is me polite respectful, pleasant, funny and laid back but this dosent seem to be what people are looking for.
It's all a bit confusing so I thought I'd ask the masses for their opinion and comments both good and bad "
What makes you think that's NOT what ladies are looking for? If you're new I think maybe what your missing is that males outnumber women in the region of 10-25/1. It might just take time I'm afraid, hang on in there, I'm sure if you're genuine it will shine through.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see your point what I was wondering was is there a balance needed that I've just not found yet lol"
Nah just keep on trying. I do believe the idea that girls go for "bad boys" has merit. But then we grow up and become women, and we know better! So just keep on approaching women, where you match what they are looking for, and some day your star will shine I'm sure... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I see your point what I was wondering was is there a balance needed that I've just not found yet lol
Nah just keep on trying. I do believe the idea that girls go for "bad boys" has merit. But then we grow up and become women, and we know better! So just keep on approaching women, where you match what they are looking for, and some day your star will shine I'm sure..."
Aww thanks that's a lovely way to put it. I am having some success and I'm enjoying the site and the interaction with everyone I was just curious |
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6 weeks and 2 verifs 'meet in person' that's a good score lol
Not sure why you are confused?
Maybe some single guys will be along shortly to say how well jealous they are, and ask you how you did it   |
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"6 weeks and 2 verifs 'meet in person' that's a good score lol
Not sure why you are confused?
Maybe some single guys will be along shortly to say how well jealous they are, and ask you how you did it "
Haha see as I've got nothing to compare against I was thinking I was a slow burner lol but obviously not so thank You I will just keep plugging away |
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"6 weeks and 2 verifs 'meet in person' that's a good score lol
Not sure why you are confused?
Maybe some single guys will be along shortly to say how well jealous they are, and ask you how you did it
Haha see as I've got nothing to compare against I was thinking I was a slow burner lol but obviously not so thank You I will just keep plugging away "
Well if you are having trouble falling asleep may I suggest forum searching for 'what am I doing wrong' you will find a billion threads to browse through lol
Enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"6 weeks and 2 verifs 'meet in person' that's a good score lol
Not sure why you are confused?
Maybe some single guys will be along shortly to say how well jealous they are, and ask you how you did it
Haha see as I've got nothing to compare against I was thinking I was a slow burner lol but obviously not so thank You I will just keep plugging away
Well if you are having trouble falling asleep may I suggest forum searching for 'what am I doing wrong' you will find a billion threads to browse through lol
Enjoy "
Haha how did you guess |
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"6 weeks and 2 verifs 'meet in person' that's a good score lol
Not sure why you are confused?
Maybe some single guys will be along shortly to say how well jealous they are, and ask you how you did it
Haha see as I've got nothing to compare against I was thinking I was a slow burner lol but obviously not so thank You I will just keep plugging away
Well if you are having trouble falling asleep may I suggest forum searching for 'what am I doing wrong' you will find a billion threads to browse through lol
Enjoy
Haha how did you guess "
Am a man-reader... mind-reader I mean lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"6 weeks and 2 verifs 'meet in person' that's a good score lol
Not sure why you are confused?
Maybe some single guys will be along shortly to say how well jealous they are, and ask you how you did it
Haha see as I've got nothing to compare against I was thinking I was a slow burner lol but obviously not so thank You I will just keep plugging away
Well if you are having trouble falling asleep may I suggest forum searching for 'what am I doing wrong' you will find a billion threads to browse through lol
Enjoy
Haha how did you guess
Am a man-reader... mind-reader I mean lol "
Haha you must have had plenty practice or you are part Jedi |
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"6 weeks and 2 verifs 'meet in person' that's a good score lol
Not sure why you are confused?
Maybe some single guys will be along shortly to say how well jealous they are, and ask you how you did it
Haha see as I've got nothing to compare against I was thinking I was a slow burner lol but obviously not so thank You I will just keep plugging away
Well if you are having trouble falling asleep may I suggest forum searching for 'what am I doing wrong' you will find a billion threads to browse through lol
Enjoy
Haha how did you guess
Am a man-reader... mind-reader I mean lol
Haha you must have had plenty practice or you are part Jedi "
Haha... The force is with me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"6 weeks and 2 verifs 'meet in person' that's a good score lol
Not sure why you are confused?
Maybe some single guys will be along shortly to say how well jealous they are, and ask you how you did it
Haha see as I've got nothing to compare against I was thinking I was a slow burner lol but obviously not so thank You I will just keep plugging away
Well if you are having trouble falling asleep may I suggest forum searching for 'what am I doing wrong' you will find a billion threads to browse through lol
Enjoy
Haha how did you guess
Am a man-reader... mind-reader I mean lol
Haha you must have had plenty practice or you are part Jedi
Haha... The force is with me "
Now don't get me started on Star wars stuff I will be here all night I'm a bit of a sci-fi geek |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Posting in a stealthy white knight thread.
There's about 4000 thirsty guys to every women. Your always going to get bad apples. Being 'polite' and 'respectful' doesn't cut the mustard matey. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Posting in a stealthy white knight thread.
There's about 4000 thirsty guys to every women. Your always going to get bad apples. Being 'polite' and 'respectful' doesn't cut the mustard matey. "
Well that's your opinion
I am polite and respectful, I always will be. In the bedroom I have many variations though, all of which are there to please the woman I'm with and yes there are many guys to woman but I have to admit I always get offers.
We all like sex and sometimes kinky, rough, durty, intense sex at times but respect will always be there in my eyes. I suppose that's why I have some amazing, blow our minds fun with a meet
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Posting in a stealthy white knight thread.
There's about 4000 thirsty guys to every women. Your always going to get bad apples. Being 'polite' and 'respectful' doesn't cut the mustard matey.
Well that's your opinion
I am polite and respectful, I always will be. In the bedroom I have many variations though, all of which are there to please the woman I'm with and yes there are many guys to woman but I have to admit I always get offers.
We all like sex and sometimes kinky, rough, durty, intense sex at times but respect will always be there in my eyes. I suppose that's why I have some amazing, blow our minds fun with a meet
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Well peter I have seen you converse in the chat room and I have not seen any disrespect from you to anyone male or female so I concur
As for on here this is why I posted this thread to get the opinions of everyone because everyone has their own way of looking at things and I can make my mind up from the feedback |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Posting in a stealthy white knight thread.
There's about 4000 thirsty guys to every women. Your always going to get bad apples. Being 'polite' and 'respectful' doesn't cut the mustard matey.
Well that's your opinion
I am polite and respectful, I always will be. In the bedroom I have many variations though, all of which are there to please the woman I'm with and yes there are many guys to woman but I have to admit I always get offers.
We all like sex and sometimes kinky, rough, durty, intense sex at times but respect will always be there in my eyes. I suppose that's why I have some amazing, blow our minds fun with a meet
Well peter I have seen you converse in the chat room and I have not seen any disrespect from you to anyone male or female so I concur
As for on here this is why I posted this thread to get the opinions of everyone because everyone has their own way of looking at things and I can make my mind up from the feedback "
Thanks super for your kind comments, it's appreciated.
We are all different and I suppose it makes the world and makes fab. I will always treat people the same as they treat me. If I find someone being obnoxious or just not a nice person constantly then I just turn my back and walk away and make sure I have nothing to do with that person.
Life can be hard enough without getting crap on fab lolllllll |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Posting in a stealthy white knight thread.
There's about 4000 thirsty guys to every women. Your always going to get bad apples. Being 'polite' and 'respectful' doesn't cut the mustard matey.
Well that's your opinion
I am polite and respectful, I always will be. In the bedroom I have many variations though, all of which are there to please the woman I'm with and yes there are many guys to woman but I have to admit I always get offers.
We all like sex and sometimes kinky, rough, durty, intense sex at times but respect will always be there in my eyes. I suppose that's why I have some amazing, blow our minds fun with a meet
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Who cares about bedroom performance? 
OP made a comment on the conduct of some men on here while referring to his own virtuous behaviour. White knight behaviour if you ask me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Posting in a stealthy white knight thread.
There's about 4000 thirsty guys to every women. Your always going to get bad apples. Being 'polite' and 'respectful' doesn't cut the mustard matey.
Well that's your opinion
I am polite and respectful, I always will be. In the bedroom I have many variations though, all of which are there to please the woman I'm with and yes there are many guys to woman but I have to admit I always get offers.
We all like sex and sometimes kinky, rough, durty, intense sex at times but respect will always be there in my eyes. I suppose that's why I have some amazing, blow our minds fun with a meet
Who cares about bedroom performance?
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So you don't misunderstand and I'm replying now so that you know my reply from the guest reply was that 'being respectful' I will always be but in the bedroom is many different forms as he might have meant 'not being respectful in the bedroom'.
That's why that part was stated.
Yes to the Op post, he got my reply also with me stating that I am always respectful.
Remember one thing about every post. People might type things but mean it in a certain way but others will read it differently
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Posting in a stealthy white knight thread.
There's about 4000 thirsty guys to every women. Your always going to get bad apples. Being 'polite' and 'respectful' doesn't cut the mustard matey.
Well that's your opinion
I am polite and respectful, I always will be. In the bedroom I have many variations though, all of which are there to please the woman I'm with and yes there are many guys to woman but I have to admit I always get offers.
We all like sex and sometimes kinky, rough, durty, intense sex at times but respect will always be there in my eyes. I suppose that's why I have some amazing, blow our minds fun with a meet
Who cares about bedroom performance?
So you don't misunderstand and I'm replying now so that you know my reply from the guest reply was that 'being respectful' I will always be but in the bedroom is many different forms as he might have meant 'not being respectful in the bedroom'.
That's why that part was stated.
Yes to the Op post, he got my reply also with me stating that I am always respectful.
Remember one thing about every post. People might type things but mean it in a certain way but others will read it differently
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ffs that was hard to put across lollllllll
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Posting in a stealthy white knight thread.
There's about 4000 thirsty guys to every women. Your always going to get bad apples. Being 'polite' and 'respectful' doesn't cut the mustard matey.
Well that's your opinion
I am polite and respectful, I always will be. In the bedroom I have many variations though, all of which are there to please the woman I'm with and yes there are many guys to woman but I have to admit I always get offers.
We all like sex and sometimes kinky, rough, durty, intense sex at times but respect will always be there in my eyes. I suppose that's why I have some amazing, blow our minds fun with a meet
Who cares about bedroom performance?
So you don't misunderstand and I'm replying now so that you know my reply from the guest reply was that 'being respectful' I will always be but in the bedroom is many different forms as he might have meant 'not being respectful in the bedroom'.
That's why that part was stated.
Yes to the Op post, he got my reply also with me stating that I am always respectful.
Remember one thing about every post. People might type things but mean it in a certain way but others will read it differently
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The way I see it is That yes we all know what this site is and has to offer and why we are here but every single user on here is a person and just because the site is what it is dosent instantly mean you have to be an animal towards them.
Yes conversations can turn naughty and graphic but the respect still has to be there.
That's just my opinion though .  |
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I have to say you could do far far worse than use Horsey as your template for fab behaviour... I have known him for years and met him in the flesh too and everything he says about himself is true... I have never seen him disrespect anyone in chat or anywhere else- this is a key thing in life let alone fab...
Horsey ya kin put yer fiver in the post lolol CxXx |
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I think people forget that this is a public forum and everyone can express an opinion.
One does not always need to have a dig at another comment if one disagrees with it and when in particular is not the OP of the thread.
Jeezz!!! I had a great laugh with the OP last night and I was off topic for parts of my posts
Some guys posting on here should realise having a sense of humour 'does' help! Being grumpy or moaning on forum 'does not' 
Wooo off my chest!
Happy Monday everyone |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have to say you could do far far worse than use Horsey as your template for fab behaviour... I have known him for years and met him in the flesh too and everything he says about himself is true... I have never seen him disrespect anyone in chat or anywhere else- this is a key thing in life let alone fab...
Horsey ya kin put yer fiver in the post lolol CxXx "
Haha I totally agree he's a top bloke from what I've seen in chat. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think people forget that this is a public forum and everyone can express an opinion.
One does not always need to have a dig at another comment if one disagrees with it and when in particular is not the OP of the thread.
Jeezz!!! I had a great laugh with the OP last night and I was off topic for parts of my posts
Some guys posting on here should realise having a sense of humour 'does' help! Being grumpy or moaning on forum 'does not'
Wooo off my chest!
Happy Monday everyone "
Thank you and I'm very laid back and don't take offence easily. Like you I think everyone is entitled to their own opinion and this thread wasn't intended to have a go at anyone it was purely to ask people's opinions that have been here a lot longer than me |
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"I have to say you could do far far worse than use Horsey as your template for fab behaviour... I have known him for years and met him in the flesh too and everything he says about himself is true... I have never seen him disrespect anyone in chat or anywhere else- this is a key thing in life let alone fab...
Horsey ya kin put yer fiver in the post lolol CxXx
Haha I totally agree he's a top bloke from what I've seen in chat."
Hes sound, but frustatingly tempts me with his mammy, yet keeps her at arms length |
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"I think people forget that this is a public forum and everyone can express an opinion.
One does not always need to have a dig at another comment if one disagrees with it and when in particular is not the OP of the thread.
Jeezz!!! I had a great laugh with the OP last night and I was off topic for parts of my posts
Some guys posting on here should realise having a sense of humour 'does' help! Being grumpy or moaning on forum 'does not'
Wooo off my chest!
Happy Monday everyone
Thank you and I'm very laid back and don't take offence easily. Like you I think everyone is entitled to their own opinion and this thread wasn't intended to have a go at anyone it was purely to ask people's opinions that have been here a lot longer than me "
Oh I know! Was for the benefit of others reading |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think people forget that this is a public forum and everyone can express an opinion.
One does not always need to have a dig at another comment if one disagrees with it and when in particular is not the OP of the thread.
Jeezz!!! I had a great laugh with the OP last night and I was off topic for parts of my posts
Some guys posting on here should realise having a sense of humour 'does' help! Being grumpy or moaning on forum 'does not'
Wooo off my chest!
Happy Monday everyone
Thank you and I'm very laid back and don't take offence easily. Like you I think everyone is entitled to their own opinion and this thread wasn't intended to have a go at anyone it was purely to ask people's opinions that have been here a lot longer than me
Oh I know! Was for the benefit of others reading "
Maybe there should be a keyboard warrior or I take offence easily section on fab so they can leave the rest of us alone hehehe |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think people forget that this is a public forum and everyone can express an opinion.
One does not always need to have a dig at another comment if one disagrees with it and when in particular is not the OP of the thread.
Jeezz!!! I had a great laugh with the OP last night and I was off topic for parts of my posts
Some guys posting on here should realise having a sense of humour 'does' help! Being grumpy or moaning on forum 'does not'
Wooo off my chest!
Happy Monday everyone
Thank you and I'm very laid back and don't take offence easily. Like you I think everyone is entitled to their own opinion and this thread wasn't intended to have a go at anyone it was purely to ask people's opinions that have been here a lot longer than me
Oh I know! Was for the benefit of others reading
Maybe there should be a keyboard warrior or I take offence easily section on fab so they can leave the rest of us alone hehehe "
Honestly its fine, it was just one guy who took exception to the bedroom comment and thought that what my post was about but it wasn't. He picked me up wrong, I replied to show the way it was meant so hopefully it was understood.
We all type stuff with our vision on an idea and try to express it in a post but others read it differently.
On here you have to be very tolerant and deal with anything that comes your way. I always give people the benefit of the doubt, even if the girl says after two hours "Is it In Yet"
Let get back to the post and see what other opinions are on the OP's subject.
What was it again, awwww that's right, people and how they view what's the best way to treat others on fab. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Let get back to the post and see what other opinions are on the OP's subject.
I don't want to... nah!
I feel like growing arms and legs on this thread "
I'm open to let this post evolve hahaha it's alllliiiiivvvvveeeeeeeee |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"OP, attending socials can also be useful if you want to open up your circle"
I just missed out on the Dundee social because I couldn't get a swap off work but that will be my next move I think |
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