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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Anyone on here ever had one been caught or still having fun?
I Imagine theres always that thrill of getting caught especially when its 2 people both married. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone on here ever had one been caught or still having fun?
I Imagine theres always that thrill of getting caught especially when its 2 people both married."
 Oh chance would be a fine thing.  |
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"Anyone on here ever had one been caught or still having fun?
I Imagine theres always that thrill of getting caught especially when its 2 people both married."
Too much respect for my husband and for myself to cheat . He deserves to be with someone who respects wonderful man he is and Id refuse to stay with any who think's that ill tolerate their lies and dishonesty. Once a relationship looses trust then time to call it a day .
As for the thrill of getting caught ... what's thrilling about a disgruntled partner turning up on your doorstep or calling you ??
Where's the thrill in destroying a person's life and family??
I'll get my thrills with out the dramas and lies . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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why would anyone need to cheat when they are on here ? unless you mean married and their partner doesn't know about here.If there is a thrill about getting caught and ruining a relationship then there is something wrong with their heads.I'm more than happy to be here with my partner.If one chose not to be here anymore then we would both leave.There is far more to life than just this. |
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"Anyone on here ever had one been caught or still having fun?
I Imagine theres always that thrill of getting caught especially when its 2 people both married."
cant grasp why it would be a thrill being caught 
Surly no one whos cheating wants to be caught as that would put an instant stop to their affair and cause no end of hurt for all unvolved 
Im sure many of the cheaters however will do as much as possible not to be found out
Altho I do know many take risks that maybe they shouldnt all for a bit of fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think those on fab those who are either married or in a relationship must have trust and be open and honest about wants and needs and of course boundaries of both people who are involved and both must be comfortable with this or its never gonna work I know a few couples I look at and this wow they are so strong so in love I think that must be the case for a couple on the swinging scene as for cheating and getting caught it might be a thrill for some but heartbreaking for the other person if found out I personally wouldn't want to hurt someone that way especially if it's someone you love x |
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"Anyone on here ever had one been caught or still having fun?
I Imagine theres always that thrill of getting caught especially when its 2 people both married."
Hmmm! The thrill of being caught and ruining a family's life (maybe 2 families) and breaking kids hearts 
Hmmm fun fun  |
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What happens when a partner decides to stop swinging, meeting others on here?
Would the other follow suit, or having tasted the forbidden fruit, would they continue to meet behind the other's back.  |
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Glitter - when I first joined the site I was married and my husband wasn't aware at the time I thought that was the best option as I didn't want to hurt him. I realised that it wasn't fair and it wasn't for me and decided to end my marriage a few months later.
I meet grump on here and we have hooked up for past 2 years on and off. We tried a relationship and it didn't work out as we both expected different things and didn't see it the same.
We decided to try again 7 months ago and so far it has been good. However we have no longer been swinging and I decided I didn't want to meet anymore I'm happy with just him. He is however still meeting and we sat down and made rules together and it seems to be working.
I think that it's whatever works for the individuals. Xx |
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When C and I met he was married. I was fully aware of that and we were honest on our profile that was the case. He's getting divorced now (not because of me) but at no time did I ever do anything to jeopardise his marriage or get a kick out of it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would stop.This has always been about us and no one else.Its about seeing each other being fulfilled.I actually get my kick watching her anyway.If she stopped it wouldn't be hard for me to stop but she enjoys it as well.In time things might change as you never know what direction life takes you.for now we are just enjoying it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bored wifies do it better ! Lol they know exactly what they need.. Well lets face it.. If you aint gettin what you need at home you go lookin !!!! Its human nature... Man or woman.. We all the same |
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"Bored wifies do it better ! Lol they know exactly what they need.. Well lets face it.. If you aint gettin what you need at home you go lookin !!!! Its human nature... Man or woman.. We all the same "
some are just greedy and getting it at home too tho |
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I can get that there's a thrill from being caught if you're say having outdoor sex with your partner, but if someone gets a thrill from the risk of being caught having an affair (without your partner's knowledge or consent), then I think they are cruel and heartless.
There are those that have affairs without their partner's knowledge simply because they are not getting that intimacy at home - not necessarily for the thrill of getting caught.
In fact, they'll go to every length to make sure they aren't caught.
I also get the viewpoint that regardless, it's disrespectful to the innocent party. |
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"I have sex with others with my hubby's full knowledge
No affairs here "
Oldie, Just being nosey, do you have an open consent, or does he know about every meet?
Do you give him the same latitude?
Just curious.
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
A world of my own |
There's a big difference between sex and an affair. For most this place is about nsa.
An affair would imply feelings and an emotional attachment.
From my experience there's nothing thrilling about that in the end. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sex yes, I've never understood why you would have a affair? Surely if your in a unhappy relationship then move on! Life's to short to be stressing yourself out living two lives n lies  |
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This is not all about sex for me, I really enjoy the banter, flirting, meeting new friends. I also think that having a complimentary message gives you a wee boost and certainly helps my self esteem.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think those on fab those who are either married or in a relationship must have trust and be open and honest about wants and needs and of course boundaries of both people who are involved and both must be comfortable with this or its never gonna work I know a few couples I look at and this wow they are so strong so in love I think that must be the case for a couple on the swinging scene as for cheating and getting caught it might be a thrill for some but heartbreaking for the other person if found out I personally wouldn't want to hurt someone that way especially if it's someone you love x "
what she said lol |
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Thrill of discovery? More like Terrified.
So why do it? Perhaps for a level of intimacy that has been lost over the years.
To feel desired again in a way that seems missing currently.
To fill a physical void in an otherwise happy relationship.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The lies some attached people tell just to get sex is ridiculous. How can there partner's not know when they are spending all day on sites like this.
I dont think there can be a thrill in being a deceitful person 24-7 just to get laid. Whatever floats ur boat tho but karma is a bitch. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The lies some attached people tell just to get sex is ridiculous. How can there partner's not know when they are spending all day on sites like this.
I dont think there can be a thrill in being a deceitful person 24-7 just to get laid. Whatever floats ur boat tho but karma is a bitch. "
Just to fill you in not all are here just looking for sex ..yep shoot the cheaters but everyone is on here for their own reasons including yourself i presume ..but to say for all its just sex thats not always the case ..many reasons ppl stray |
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By *andACouple
over a year ago
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"Bored wifies do it better ! Lol they know exactly what they need.. Well lets face it.. If you aint gettin what you need at home you go lookin !!!! Its human nature... Man or woman.. We all the same some are just greedy and getting it at home too tho
Cake and eat it lol.. yep
Cany whack it lol lucky bassas lol  not for the poor unsuspecting partners
Well like a say.. If they cany step up to the plate.. Someone else will..
I read this and thought it must be some daft young boy writing it....how wrong I was "
Same, thought it was some young dafty |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bored wifies do it better ! Lol they know exactly what they need.. Well lets face it.. If you aint gettin what you need at home you go lookin !!!! Its human nature... Man or woman.. We all the same some are just greedy and getting it at home too tho
Cake and eat it lol.. yep
Cany whack it lol lucky bassas lol not for the poor unsuspecting partners
Well like a say.. If they cany step up to the plate.. Someone else will..
I read this and thought it must be some daft young boy writing it....how wrong I was
Same, thought it was some young dafty"
Change the tune ffs.. Nae cunts dafty !!! K.. End of !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am not here to offend or upset anyone. And believe me when I say I love my wife and family. But I’m here looking for a descreet sexual affair with a woman. The thought of getting caught though is terrifying. But I cannot help the fact that after 15 years married I want to kiss and feel another woman’s nakedness against mine. Sorry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have a great sex life but came on here looking to try something different ( more for me than Mr Doggy as I'm curious about being with another woman). Even if the sex fizzled out or was no longer satisfying, I have too much respect and love for him to completely fuck him over like that. As the guilt would crucify me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I actually like meeting attached guys. No strings fucking is what this is about for me. I like being single and there is no chance of crossed wires and expectation that isn’t there as they are already taken, I’m just borrowing them for a few hours xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone on here ever had one been caught or still having fun?
I Imagine theres always that thrill of getting caught especially when its 2 people both married."
I have kissed, flirted and went further with more than one married female but drew the line at one night, no chasing after and no further meets no matter how tempting it can be
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whether male or female, loss of a partner is heart breaking when you love them, regardless if its due to affair or other loss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I was married or had a girl friend I would never cheat on them .the only way to.probably success is have or meet your future wife or partner in here and join them |
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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago
outside your bedroom window ;-) |
"There's a big difference between sex and an affair. For most this place is about nsa.
An affair would imply feelings and an emotional attachment.
From my experience there's nothing thrilling about that in the end. "
Im with you on that |
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Sometimes easy for a fling to turn into an affair ?? from my own perspective I'm on here for something I'm missing out on and experience tells me I'm not alone! No matter what your original intentions frequent intimate contact with the same person eventually leads to an emotional attachment of some kind it's human nature! Reading through the other posts I can see both sides there are the ones who swing as a couple or are aware and complicit withe their partner swinging, imho they are the lucky ones but it's not right to condemn others who are married or attached and playing without their partners knowledge as has we all here for different reasons and respect should be mutual ?? |
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"Sometimes easy for a fling to turn into an affair ?? from my own perspective I'm on here for something I'm missing out on and experience tells me I'm not alone! No matter what your original intentions frequent intimate contact with the same person eventually leads to an emotional attachment of some kind it's human nature! Reading through the other posts I can see both sides there are the ones who swing as a couple or are aware and complicit withe their partner swinging, imho they are the lucky ones but it's not right to condemn others who are married or attached and playing without their partners knowledge as has we all here for different reasons and respect should be mutual ??"
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"Bored wifies do it better ! Lol they know exactly what they need.. Well lets face it.. If you aint gettin what you need at home you go lookin !!!! Its human nature... Man or woman.. We all the same some are just greedy and getting it at home too tho
Cake and eat it lol.. yep
Cany whack it lol lucky bassas lol not for the poor unsuspecting partners
Well like a say.. If they cany step up to the plate.. Someone else will.. this is a mentality I just dont get maybefor yourself its about a kneetrembler behind the bins for partners it needs more. The bravado talk of "if ya cany get it at hame I can supply it as im all man" is nonsense. In somes eyes this type of person would be seen as a twat."
Well said kola totally agree. |
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"Sometimes easy for a fling to turn into an affair ?? from my own perspective I'm on here for something I'm missing out on and experience tells me I'm not alone! No matter what your original intentions frequent intimate contact with the same person eventually leads to an emotional attachment of some kind it's human nature! Reading through the other posts I can see both sides there are the ones who swing as a couple or are aware and complicit withe their partner swinging, imho they are the lucky ones but it's not right to condemn others who are married or attached and playing without their partners knowledge as has we all here for different reasons and respect should be mutual ??"
no offence but who are you to say it's not right to condem shitty people doing shitty things to people they are supposed to respect and look out for.granted, condem is a bit strong but we all judge others for different things weather we are aware of it or not.
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With greatest respect different people are here for different reasons and some will view others situations with a degree of contempt or discust whilst outsiders may well view the swinging scene in general as a no no. No one apart from the individual involved knows their reasons or background for being here married attached single whatever after all it's a swinging site not a help group can't understand why some find it easy to condemn others after all we all know the story bout the first stone. Easy here to select who you play with or don't as case may be and of course there is always that facility to hide your profile or block as you so wish |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was "the other woman" in an affair 25 years ago and would never want to be one again sorry. I had become very very attached to him before he disclosed his marital status. Then he announced they had an open marriage.
His wife found us together when she came home early and was distraught. Totally devastated. I was also incredibly hurt and upset. So I made a rule it would not happen again. |
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"I was "the other woman" in an affair 25 years ago and would never want to be one again sorry. I had become very very attached to him before he disclosed his marital status. Then he announced they had an open marriage.
His wife found us together when she came home early and was distraught. Totally devastated. I was also incredibly hurt and upset. So I made a rule it would not happen again. "
Very understandable.
One reason that I always reveal my marital situation very early on in any chat.
Sometimes I get blocked, other times I get a so what! |
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"With greatest respect different people are here for different reasons and some will view others situations with a degree of contempt or discust whilst outsiders may well view the swinging scene in general as a no no. No one apart from the individual involved knows their reasons or background for being here married attached single whatever after all it's a swinging site not a help group can't understand why some find it easy to condemn others after all we all know the story bout the first stone. Easy here to select who you play with or don't as case may be and of course there is always that facility to hide your profile or block as you so wish "
why do married guys always compare themselves tottally screwing over the person they are supposed to look out for with people who don't like swinging as it makes zero sense lol.nice to see you are honast about it though but sadly you are in the minority. |
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"I was "the other woman" in an affair 25 years ago and would never want to be one again sorry. I had become very very attached to him before he disclosed his marital status. Then he announced they had an open marriage.
His wife found us together when she came home early and was distraught. Totally devastated. I was also incredibly hurt and upset. So I made a rule it would not happen again.
Very understandable.
One reason that I always reveal my marital situation very early on in any chat.
Sometimes I get blocked, other times I get a so what! "
that's nice of you to care about the feelings of a stranger.shame you don't treat your Mrs the same. |
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"I was "the other woman" in an affair 25 years ago and would never want to be one again sorry. I had become very very attached to him before he disclosed his marital status. Then he announced they had an open marriage.
His wife found us together when she came home early and was distraught. Totally devastated. I was also incredibly hurt and upset. So I made a rule it would not happen again.
Very understandable.
One reason that I always reveal my marital situation very early on in any chat.
Sometimes I get blocked, other times I get a so what! that's nice of you to care about the feelings of a stranger.shame you don't treat your Mrs the same."
I do care about her feelings, hence I do not tell her about here. |
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"I was "the other woman" in an affair 25 years ago and would never want to be one again sorry. I had become very very attached to him before he disclosed his marital status. Then he announced they had an open marriage.
His wife found us together when she came home early and was distraught. Totally devastated. I was also incredibly hurt and upset. So I made a rule it would not happen again.
Very understandable.
One reason that I always reveal my marital situation very early on in any chat.
Sometimes I get blocked, other times I get a so what! that's nice of you to care about the feelings of a stranger.shame you don't treat your Mrs the same.
I do care about her feelings, hence I do not tell her about here. "
really lol . |
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"I was "the other woman" in an affair 25 years ago and would never want to be one again sorry. I had become very very attached to him before he disclosed his marital status. Then he announced they had an open marriage.
His wife found us together when she came home early and was distraught. Totally devastated. I was also incredibly hurt and upset. So I made a rule it would not happen again.
Very understandable.
One reason that I always reveal my marital situation very early on in any chat.
Sometimes I get blocked, other times I get a so what! that's nice of you to care about the feelings of a stranger.shame you don't treat your Mrs the same.
I do care about her feelings, hence I do not tell her about here. really lol ."
Yes, I am a very caring and considerant cheat. |
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