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A little question for the Scotland room
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I once was a holder of free swinging parties with ether of my partners so being well know as gen person. Why am I teared like a leper on this I may not be ever body cup of tea get back |
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Couldnt understand it really but im going to guess the question is.
Why am I treated like a leper now when I had partners lots wanted to know me now im single theres no intrest......its simple it was the partners that were wanted sad but true your now just a single guy in everyones eyes |
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"I once was a holder of free swinging parties with ether of my partners so being well know as gen person. Why am I teared like a leper on this I may not be ever body cup of tea get back "
Step away from the bottle, you're slurring with your fingers  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I once was a holder of free swinging parties with ether of my partners so being well know as gen person. Why am I teared like a leper on this I may not be ever body cup of tea get back "
I apologise for my slightly d*unken inability to string together a proper sentence.
What I was trying to say, is that in past years as part of a couple, we held a lot of parties which were both well attended and highly thought of.
As I am now a single male, I feel like I am treated like a leper.
I am still the same person, but just not part of a couple.
Can anyone shed any light on why this may be? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Couldnt understand it really but im going to guess the question is.
Why am I treated like a leper now when I had partners lots wanted to know me now im single theres no intrest......its simple it was the partners that were wanted sad but true your now just a single guy in everyones eyes"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've always said any single guys must find it hard on here especially going from a couple to a single male maybe attend a few socials get to know people again and mingle hope that helps
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Couldnt understand it really but im going to guess the question is.
Why am I treated like a leper now when I had partners lots wanted to know me now im single theres no intrest......its simple it was the partners that were wanted sad but true your now just a single guy in everyones eyes"
I think this might be your answer I'm afraid. |
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"I once was a holder of free swinging parties with ether of my partners so being well know as gen person. Why am I teared like a leper on this I may not be ever body cup of tea get back
I apologise for my slightly d*unken inability to string together a proper sentence.
What I was trying to say, is that in past years as part of a couple, we held a lot of parties which were both well attended and highly thought of.
As I am now a single male, I feel like I am treated like a leper.
I am still the same person, but just not part of a couple.
Can anyone shed any light on why this may be?"
Sorry I have to remove the plaster quickly but...
Perhaps she was the reason why people attended your parties
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"Couldnt understand it really but im going to guess the question is.
Why am I treated like a leper now when I had partners lots wanted to know me now im single theres no intrest......its simple it was the partners that were wanted sad but true your now just a single guy in everyones eyes"
Whoops sorry Kola missed your bit lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your pics are not just of you. I always find graphic pics off putting.
Holding parties does not make you Mr Popular all of a sudden. "
Yep I agree... Graphic pics very off-putting. Best stick to you alone or perhaps one other person |
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To be fair to the op its not his fault or problem have met this guy at various socials and hes a nice bloke.
the problem lies with the two faced nature of others. The op said himself nothings changed with him but he has been dropped like a hot spud.
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Your a single guy now, from being well thought of, to just being tolerated, ignored and as you say, treated like a Leper. Sorry mate, but that's your future on here, unless you find another willing partner. |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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OP as others have stated there are many people who use others for party invites and then when those dry up drop them like a sack of tatties!
With regards to other comments I know many many guys who do extremely well for themselves on here, they never moan on the forums their statuses are always positive and upbeat and that is probably why. Hundreds of people meet single blokes they just pick those men wisely. |
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"Couldnt understand it really but im going to guess the question is.
Why am I treated like a leper now when I had partners lots wanted to know me now im single theres no intrest......its simple it was the partners that were wanted sad but true your now just a single guy in everyones eyes"
spot on |
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I agree with Kola on this comment he made about meeting this guy I have met him at socials and found him to be very nice Just because he is now a single guy on here there is NO reason to treat him differently Heather s_ands back and waits for the bullets to be fired |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I agree with Kola on this comment he made about meeting this guy I have met him at socials and found him to be very nice Just because he is now a single guy on here there is NO reason to treat him differently Heather s_ands back and waits for the bullets to be fired "
Not sure he is being treated differently, just now being treated as a single male rather than a couple. I too have met him many years ago at a social and seemed a sound guy, I was at that time managing to get meets but now 5 years or so later just can't get any meets. My circumstances haven't changed but with age my desire ability obviously has |
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why don't you ditch these old pics from years ago and concentrate on making your profile about you now instead of moaning about how popular you used to be? I've been on here 9 years now and it's a very different place now, you need to keep your profile current and reinvent yourself instead of living in the past |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think of fab as a night out in the pub,and single ladies getting hit on all night by d*unken men (I'm guilt of the old dutch courage scenario) it very rarely works ,so make yourself shine be a gentleman until you know someone and then find out what works for both ,takes time and patience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a lot of good advice up there for all you single guys and the being a gent and shining through as a genuine person is one of them. It really is the numbers of men on here added to the dial a shag mentality that goes against a lot of men (not the good ones) Remember men out number ladies vastly and just because a woman is here to explore her sexuality doesn't mean she will shag anyone. A man will also be more successful if part of a couple, that's just fab fact.
Before anyone says it... yes I am aware women are not perfect on here too...
one could go on but it really HAS all been said before olol |
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