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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why is it so difficult to actually get a reply from someone when you genuinely send a message to someone that takes a bit of your fancy. - you send a message and don't get a reply ?
Is it just me???? |
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It's best to take it as their no interested and move on.
I try to reply to every message thats more than a couple of words even if its just no thanks but I understand why some people don't. Not everyone takes rejection well and will respond with abusive messages or demand to know why, and I get why people don't want to deal with that.
Also some people main single women and couples get alot of messages and reading eplying to everyone takes time. They prefer to contact people who interest them first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's best to take it as their no interested and move on.
I try to reply to every message thats more than a couple of words even if its just no thanks but I understand why some people don't. Not everyone takes rejection well and will respond with abusive messages or demand to know why, and I get why people don't want to deal with that.
Also some people main single women and couples get alot of messages and reading eplying to everyone takes time. They prefer to contact people who interest them first. "
This 
It's an oft covered topic. The site states quite clearly that a non response is a no polite no thanks. Women can get dozens and dozens of messages and saying no thanks to lots of then takes time (we all have lives eh) AND can then incur further ping pong messages like " can we chat anyway" "ok, well what are you up to" "are you having fun here then" etc etc ... simple thing to do is keep trying other folk and move on as has been said.
Oh, often the person mailing has obviously NOT read the profile either... not always but often. |
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