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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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(Lee writing)
Nessarosa and I were curios.
Have you told any of you non-swinging friends that you are in the lifestyle/erotic photography/dogging ect???
We have told 2 of Nessarosa's close friends and 2 couples from photography gatherings/friends.
All were understanding, curious and non judgemental. (I think we are lucky)
Thoughts? experience? who could you?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah told a couple of friends it's nothing to be a shamed about  "
Wow, thanks.
Some of our friends have suspicions...and the one couple thought so but said it was none of their business.
They are really good friends.
Cheers
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"(Lee writing)
Nessarosa and I were curios.
Have you told any of you non-swinging friends that you are in the lifestyle/erotic photography/dogging ect???
We have told 2 of Nessarosa's close friends and 2 couples from photography gatherings/friends.
All were understanding, curious and non judgemental. (I think we are lucky)
Thoughts? experience? who could you?
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yes my best friend knows and when I told her she wasnt the least bit surprised not sure why  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My mum knows. My brother knows. All my friends know lol. This is nothing I am ashamed of. It is part of who I am. Not one of them has passed a negative judgement. They are curious to ask about it. Yeah some can't get their head around it but certainly don't treat me or us any differently. Actually I have had people being more open with me because they know that I won't judge them xxx |
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I didn't for a long time as I didn't want fab involved in my every day life. I eventually decided to confide in my 4 closest friends mainly as I hated lying to them and it was always awkward if I was attending nights out as they would ask who I was out with etc.
I finally decided I had to tell them when I officially got with grump as we had a lot of history and as none of my friends were aware of fab they didn't like him as they thought he was a player and a bawbag. None he's just one of the group and although 3 of them have told me they don't approve but as long as I am happy in this lifestyle they will support me I feel so much better now
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Quite a few of our friends know. I'm not too fussed really, at the end of the day it's our life and if someone didn't want to be friends with us because we're swingers then they're not the sort of person we'd want in our lives anyway! |
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By *oney4uCouple
over a year ago
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"(Lee writing)
Nessarosa and I were curios.
Have you told any of you non-swinging friends that you are in the lifestyle/erotic photography/dogging ect???
We have told 2 of Nessarosa's close friends and 2 couples from photography gatherings/friends.
All were understanding, curious and non judgemental. (I think we are lucky)
Thoughts? experience? who could you?
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Most of my friends know that I meet girls but not specifically swinging but I would tell them if they asked. |
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"Quite a few of our friends know. I'm not too fussed really, at the end of the day it's our life and if someone didn't want to be friends with us because we're swingers then they're not the sort of person we'd want in our lives anyway! "
This. My friends all know, no one has been judgemental and know they can talk to me about anything as I'm so open  |
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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago
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"(Lee writing)
Nessarosa and I were curios.
Have you told any of you non-swinging friends that you are in the lifestyle/erotic photography/dogging ect???
We have told 2 of Nessarosa's close friends and 2 couples from photography gatherings/friends.
All were understanding, curious and non judgemental. (I think we are lucky)
Thoughts? experience? who could you?
yes my best friend knows and when I told her she wasnt the least bit surprised not sure why "
Lmfao x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My sister and my daughter know. Neither were surprised.
My daughter knows and is totally cool about it n for me no one else opinion matters
K x"
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Yeah I've told alot of my friends, git d*unk a couple of weeks back and told a half my work mates tgat I had taken a weekend off to go to CJs at the end of the month.
Think couple were surprised but none were judgemental.
Couple of friends have been curious not enough to join but think its a matter of time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I work with a close team of similarly aged women and one man. After some d*unken games of never have I ever and trying to explain certain things I came clean about my swinging lifestyle.
Turned out a colleague is on another Fetish website and ones ex in laws ran the swinging club up here! There's no judgement and not as many questions as I expected!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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(Lee)
We have to say thank you again for all the different perspectives on this subject.
Its amazing to see, if you read both pros and cons in each persons story.
thank you
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I, Mrs, told my 2 best friends last year on a night away.
They both had loads of questions, looked at our profile, had more questions, but don't care as long as we're happy and being safe.
A few other friends know as well and are keen to maybe dabble themselves.
It's not something I'm ashamed of, but it's not something I'm willing to tell to just anyone x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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select people...
I have the hottest ex workmate, that I'm dying to introduce on the scene...I know she'd love cj's, esp dungeoun etc...she knows my pics arent what she sees on facebook etc..I think she is worried about my intent(obviously it was and is there), but ffs...this woman is utterly gorgeous with a very moviestar(1940's) look |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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(Nessarosa writing)
Coincidentally, after work tonight some good friends(who are on another site and do naughty/ fetish photography) are coming over for drinks.
We will probably tell them tonight and hint at getting some photos taken by them at a later date.
Not sure how this will go.... but probably good subject for drinks.
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