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How offended (or not) would u be
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think I would be. Although I've been the second meet, and his performance was sub standard."
HELL NO !! I would never knowingly be the second meet ... |
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"I don't think I would be. Although I've been the second meet, and his performance was sub standard.
HELL NO !! I would never knowingly be the second meet ... "
I didn't know until he had arrived and was having to apologise for 'technical difficulties!' Then he came clean.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If u had a meet and then immediately afterwards ur meet looks for another meet?"
I don't think I would be offended, more annoyed that I didn't suss out what kinda player he was before I met him. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If u had a meet and then immediately afterwards ur meet looks for another meet?
I don't think I would be offended, more annoyed that I didn't suss out what kinda player he was before I met him. "
For me Id be more annoyed i hadnt destroyed him  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If u had a meet and then immediately afterwards ur meet looks for another meet?
I don't think I would be offended, more annoyed that I didn't suss out what kinda player he was before I met him.
For me Id be more annoyed i hadnt destroyed him "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That would be like going to a swingers party and getting annoyed because 5 minutes after bonking you the guy was bonking someone else, ok I'm exaggerating 20 minutes after bonking you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmm have to say I disagree with most here. I do fully understand the concept of swinging don't get me wrong but isn't it more traditionally done with couples and before the days of the internet at parties and such so for the most part yeah shag 5 people in one night at a party or a swingers clubs as that an environment.
I would argue that arranging a one to one meet for here has a slightly different etiquette. I would believe it's the man role to make the woman feel valued, (even for just sex) not necessarily deeply but to some level of degree and well in my opinion meeting someone right after says you don't value them at all and your basically insulting their character pretty heavily, no?
An OLD FB of mine once tried to get me to meet her after a sub standard guy left... I was FAR from impressed and never saw her again and I'm a guy not even a woman lol. |
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"That would be like going to a swingers party and getting annoyed because 5 minutes after bonking you the guy was bonking someone else, ok I'm exaggerating 20 minutes after bonking you "
Maybe the op likes to keep men at parties so they can bonk her again. *Less* than five minutes later  . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For me Id be more annoyed i hadnt destroyed him
Hehe . Now there's dedication to the erotic cause  ."
Well I pride myself in satisfaction. Otherwise ive not done my job. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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An OLD FB of mine once tried to get me to meet her after a sub standard guy left... I was FAR from impressed and never saw her again and I'm a guy not even a woman lol. "
That attitude of you'll do can be a little offensive regardless of gender. How to make someone feel valued eh? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My attitude can be offensive regardless of gender? I'm trying to balance the arguement and see it from both sides. I personally don't think it's nice for anyone. Difference between being a swinger and being single and enjoying adult company.
Well I learned years ago when I joined fab to never mention other woman you've met when you're meeting as they'll never see you again because they don't feel valued. Which is totally fair I was wrong. It's the little things that count, be polite, well mannered, show up on time, have a tidy clean house, buy the drinks, get the bill. Make her know you've made an effort and give a shit your about the sleep with her. Compliments etc. I'm kinda rambling but call me a gentleman I believe in the art of seduction, much better sex then hey, shag bye lol. A guy doing that to woman doesn't value himself or other people very much in my opinion and isn't someone I'd probably choose to socialise with as well it also screams desperate. Shag one woman properly, blow 7times if you need to and be happy lol |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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I've had two meets in one day! Neither knew of the other.
If I'd been at a club I would have had the same opportunity so I don't really see the problem. Only problem with the OP is that the guy couldn't perform.
That's really up to him and he could have made several excuses but chose to tell the truth.
Either meet him again or block and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Either meet him again or block and move on. "
Lol it hasnt happened to me... I was just asking opinions. I rarely meet here. Last one was over 6 months ago. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Either meet him again or block and move on.
Lol it hasnt happened to me... I was just asking opinions. I rarely meet here. Last one was over 6 months ago."
Where do you meet i would love to find out |
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Wondering if people are aware this is the reality for most men in swingers clubs. Literally finished doing the deed with someone, went to the lav to wash off lipstick, to walk back in the room and find her at it hammer and tongs with some guy. Yes not the greatest feeling in the world but isn't that the definition of swinger? Had to remind myself x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Wondering if people are aware this is the reality for most men in swingers clubs. Literally finished doing the deed with someone, went to the lav to wash off lipstick, to walk back in the room and find her at it hammer and tongs with some guy. Yes not the greatest feeling in the world but isn't that the definition of swinger? Had to remind myself x"
I wasn't talking about clubs though. I mean 1 to 1 meets. |
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"If u had a meet and then immediately afterwards ur meet looks for another meet?
I don't think I would be offended, more annoyed that I didn't suss out what kinda player he was before I met him.
For me Id be more annoyed i hadnt destroyed him "
I'm sure u would destroy me don't think I'd b looking for a meet for weeks after |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If u had a meet and then immediately afterwards ur meet looks for another meet?
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It would be none of my business what they do ..
As been already said ..this is what the site is for.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If u had a meet and then immediately afterwards ur meet looks for another meet?
I don't think I would be offended, more annoyed that I didn't suss out what kinda player he was before I met him.
For me Id be more annoyed i hadnt destroyed him "
naughty ha ha  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If u had a meet and then immediately afterwards ur meet looks for another meet?
I don't think I would be offended, more annoyed that I didn't suss out what kinda player he was before I met him.
For me Id be more annoyed i hadnt destroyed him
I'm sure u would destroy me don't think I'd b looking for a meet for weeks after"
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