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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im also shy but to thicken the plot i don't talk vulgar or come across rude but yet i still dont seem to get anywhere ??
Maybe being a gentleman just isnt the way!!
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There's a good book written a few years back that covers all aspects of this topic, Susan Cain - Quiet:The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking.
Definitely worth a read for the quiet and shy as well as the screaming extroverts  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's a good book written a few years back that covers all aspects of this topic, Susan Cain - Quiet:The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking.
Definitely worth a read for the quiet and shy as well as the screaming extroverts "
I've always been meaning to pick up a copy. It does such being shy at times 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is fab an you need a thick skin, as it doesn't matter what you are someone will always find fault, wether your shy or outgoing if your curvy or thin if your on cam or won't cam.....there will always Be someone to find fault.....an those ppl my friend...those are the real IDIOTS  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Used to be incredibly shy. Honestly! Missed out on a lot in life because of it.
Happy to say, I'm over it now but it can indeed be a huge drawback but not something to be criticised for. I'm sure everyone except the very most confident of people have suffered in one way or another at one time.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think some are just too quick to judge. I have had many things thought about me. Who cares though, there are a few that treat others well and it is those people we should invite to be part of our lives. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I must afree with what others have said here; just cause you're quiet does not make you an idiot.
I tend to be VERY shy/quiet/introverted around folk I've never met before but once I vet to know them, they cant get me to shut up lol  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Its just that in real life sometimes others think I to shy and when I meet then from fab I don't seam to give the guys wot they really like yes I like quickies ect but don't seam to get much responses from them after the deed has been done |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its just that in real life sometimes others think I to shy and when I meet then from fab I don't seam to give the guys wot they really like yes I like quickies ect but don't seam to get much responses from them after the deed has been done "
I wouldn't necessarily say that has anything to do with you! Aren't the guys who are just looking for a quickie the hit it and quit it sort anyway? Pardon the crude phrase lol  |
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"Its just that in real life sometimes others think I to shy and when I meet then from fab I don't seam to give the guys wot they really like yes I like quickies ect but don't seam to get much responses from them after the deed has been done "
For a lot of people on fab thats the beauty just sex with nothing afterwards so maybe make it clear on your profile that your not looking for one off meets but friendships to enhance the sex  |
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Alternatively some of those guys might quite like to come back round again, but are maybe waiting for some indication or signal from you. Trying not to be pushy. If you're very shy they might mistake lack of contact for lack of interest. |
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"Alternatively some of those guys might quite like to come back round again, but are maybe waiting for some indication or signal from you. Trying not to be pushy. If you're very shy they might mistake lack of contact for lack of interest."
very valid points too |
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By *rowleyMan
over a year ago
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"Alternatively some of those guys might quite like to come back round again, but are maybe waiting for some indication or signal from you. Trying not to be pushy. If you're very shy they might mistake lack of contact for lack of interest."
Valid points.
It's a two way street. |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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"Its just that in real life sometimes others think I to shy and when I meet then from fab I don't seam to give the guys wot they really like yes I like quickies ect but don't seam to get much responses from them after the deed has been done "
What kind of response are you looking for? You state in your profile you only do quickies lift skirt etc . ... the blokes you are meeting clearly want the same! It's a sex site not a dating site. Good Luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it you get classed as a idiot if you are very shy and quiet "
I always tell first that am.shy n quiet if they dint like it their loss. Shy n quiet are best ones |
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