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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I've been in and out of this lifestyle for a while And still finding and embracing new things I like.
I wouldn't say I'm the most attractive person in the world but I certainly look after myself and take pride in my appearance. I like to dress well and smell nice all the time but I'm just not to everyone's tatse.
I see so many absolutely beautifully people on here (Bunnyhop being one) and I wondered do they only meet with exceptional people too?
I've met with all different kinds of people and I love the variety and don't et me wrong sometimes this 6/10 manages to punch above his weight and meet with a lovely 10/10
So I guess what I'm trying to say is how would someone like me court and exceptionally good looking lady like Bunnyhop?
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I hate this whole rating people out of 10!!
Sexual attraction is such an individual thing, one persons 10 is another persons 1 and vice versa.
I'm a 10 in my hubbys eyes but I could be a 4 in someone else's, that doesn't bother me, I just continue to be myself and things tend to work out lol!!
Just concentrate on being yourself and I'm sure you'll meet someone nice!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hate this whole rating people out of 10!!
Sexual attraction is such an individual thing, one persons 10 is another persons 1 and vice versa.
I'm a 10 in my hubbys eyes but I could be a 4 in someone else's, that doesn't bother me, I just continue to be myself and things tend to work out lol!!
Just concentrate on being yourself and I'm sure you'll meet someone nice! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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man o man
just be yourself, if you take care of yourself, your appearance and everything else then it is a start, so whoever you meet will hopefully get a good first impression.
Every female is inundated with thousands of messages from people who don't even fit what they are looking for and they also get tons of what they are looking for but many messages get deleted.
If the 'hotties' out there see you at a social or party, then think of it, you have more chance of interesting them rather than a message.
I have been not what some couples and fems were looking for, outside their age range or for whatever reason, and a few of them got chatting to me at socials / parties and they wanted to arrange a meet after.
Every profile and I mean every profile you look at and read, gives you an impression, whether good or bed or ok. So when you actually meet those people in any environment, outside life, swing party or social then your views may change.
All I'm meaning after this long winded message, people are just people, nothing more so just continue to be you and if others find you then I'm sure they will take notice if your an OK guy.
Can I just state, I look after myself appearance, smell nice and very fit, quirky, out fur a laugh (and shocker - a brain), but everyone I've been with, (chat and fun) has been a pure hottie in my eyes and I'm well beneath everyone of them in looks, personality n patter
So here to everyone of you people on fab, your all hotties, except me, I'm just Mr Average
keep enjoying fab Mr OP
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the advice guys. I don't think I articulated my post well enough. I was trying to make it a bit light hearted when I rates myself, I thought a social
Might be best for meeting exceptional people as I'm finding out I'm
Not the best with messages.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for the advice guys. I don't think I articulated my post well enough. I was trying to make it a bit light hearted when I rates myself, I thought a social
Might be best for meeting exceptional people as I'm finding out I'm
Not the best with messages.
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Its ok, A Post can be the same as reading a profile, we all get different impressions lolllll
The more you get out there, socials and parties, the more people will see you and after chatting, watching they might wanna take things further, that's one of my views but only from experience, and it works lolllllllllll
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im a 40 something balding beardy overweight single lad . certainly not to everyones taste but what this place has shown me is to take any preconcieved ideas you may have about someone and throw them out the window . speak to people and you may just be surprised at the reaction .
treat everyone with a bit of respect regardless and be yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As the song goes....
If everybody looked the same, we'd get tired of looking at each other!
Also i doubt your public declaration of lust/infatuation for one user will have the ladies of fab flocking to you.
On the plus side...i guess we're all someone out theres 10/10 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As the song goes....
If everybody looked the same, we'd get tired of looking at each other!
Also i doubt your public declaration of lust/infatuation for one user will have the ladies of fab flocking to you.
On the plus side...i guess we're all someone out theres 10/10 "
Yeah I guess your right, there are lots of beautiful woman on here, bunny has just been one I've seen a lot of recently in the forums ect and she really bought my eye. As I'm sure she has done with many other guys and girls on here.
So much to get right on here, I wonder how people manage to do it so fluently |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for the advice guys. I don't think I articulated my post well enough. I was trying to make it a bit light hearted when I rates myself, I thought a social
Might be best for meeting exceptional people as I'm finding out I'm
Not the best with messages.
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Whenever I get a message I check the profile first looking for an idea of their personality and while I like pics I look at them more to see how they portray themselves rather than the actual body. I wouldnt reply to anyone with just dick pics as id assume thats what theyre all about. I look for someone who has taken time to present themselves well. Silhouettes make me wonder what theyre hiding or if they'll make effort with me if they cant even spend time on a profile?
So many people on here talk about leagues or ratings out of 10 which is bullshit to most. Would you want to be with someone who didnt deem you worthy anyway?
There was a thread recently about who people would want to meet from their hotlist. We all know I was named a fair few times but all but one of those people had never even winked me nevermind send a message! Im a nice friendly girl and I accept people for who they are not what they look like, I wish people would do the same with me and not assume I am or think myself to be any better.
The pics on show are cleverly taken to tease and took effort. You might not say the same if you saw the hundreds of duff ones Ive discarded.
Join in on chat and forums and let your personality shine. There's very few people can catch attention in one message when girls get hundreds every week.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"im a 40 something balding beardy overweight single lad . certainly not to everyones taste but what this place has shown me is to take any preconcieved ideas you may have about someone and throw them out the window . speak to people and you may just be surprised at the reaction .
treat everyone with a bit of respect regardless and be yourself "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As the song goes....
If everybody looked the same, we'd get tired of looking at each other!
Also i doubt your public declaration of lust/infatuation for one user will have the ladies of fab flocking to you.
On the plus side...i guess we're all someone out theres 10/10
Yeah I guess your right, there are lots of beautiful woman on here, bunny has just been one I've seen a lot of recently in the forums ect and she really bought my eye. As I'm sure she has done with many other guys and girls on here.
So much to get right on here, I wonder how people manage to do it so fluently "
I didnt buy it it was free  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As the song goes....
If everybody looked the same, we'd get tired of looking at each other!
Also i doubt your public declaration of lust/infatuation for one user will have the ladies of fab flocking to you.
On the plus side...i guess we're all someone out theres 10/10
Yeah I guess your right, there are lots of beautiful woman on here, bunny has just been one I've seen a lot of recently in the forums ect and she really bought my eye. As I'm sure she has done with many other guys and girls on here.
So much to get right on here, I wonder how people manage to do it so fluently "
"Also i doubt your public declaration of lust/infatuation for one user will have the ladies of fab flocking to you."
I don't think he meant it publically that way as I'm sure he was putting Bunny as an example of females whom draw his attention, (trying to help the guy out here).
Bunny is a lovely person who loves a good chat on fab. So just treat everyone the same with respect and dignity as I'm sure you do, then you will have a great time on fab
Lets always look for the good points on fab and have a great time on fabswingers |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As the song goes....
If everybody looked the same, we'd get tired of looking at each other!
Also i doubt your public declaration of lust/infatuation for one user will have the ladies of fab flocking to you.
On the plus side...i guess we're all someone out theres 10/10
Yeah I guess your right, there are lots of beautiful woman on here, bunny has just been one I've seen a lot of recently in the forums ect and she really bought my eye. As I'm sure she has done with many other guys and girls on here.
So much to get right on here, I wonder how people manage to do it so fluently
I didnt buy it it was free "
 more proof I am terrible at messaging. Especially with fat fingers and an Iphone. You caught my eye, not bought it lol
No need for you to buy anything, I'm a big fan  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As the song goes....
If everybody looked the same, we'd get tired of looking at each other!
Also i doubt your public declaration of lust/infatuation for one user will have the ladies of fab flocking to you.
On the plus side...i guess we're all someone out theres 10/10
Yeah I guess your right, there are lots of beautiful woman on here, bunny has just been one I've seen a lot of recently in the forums ect and she really bought my eye. As I'm sure she has done with many other guys and girls on here.
So much to get right on here, I wonder how people manage to do it so fluently
"Also i doubt your public declaration of lust/infatuation for one user will have the ladies of fab flocking to you."
I don't think he meant it publically that way as I'm sure he was putting Bunny as an example of females whom draw his attention, (trying to help the guy out here).
Bunny is a lovely person who loves a good chat on fab. So just treat everyone the same with respect and dignity as I'm sure you do, then you will have a great time on fab
Lets always look for the good points on fab and have a great time on fabswingers "
Hmmm well it's got them talking so i think his plan has worked.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As the song goes....
If everybody looked the same, we'd get tired of looking at each other!
Also i doubt your public declaration of lust/infatuation for one user will have the ladies of fab flocking to you.
On the plus side...i guess we're all someone out theres 10/10
Yeah I guess your right, there are lots of beautiful woman on here, bunny has just been one I've seen a lot of recently in the forums ect and she really bought my eye. As I'm sure she has done with many other guys and girls on here.
So much to get right on here, I wonder how people manage to do it so fluently
"Also i doubt your public declaration of lust/infatuation for one user will have the ladies of fab flocking to you."
I don't think he meant it publically that way as I'm sure he was putting Bunny as an example of females whom draw his attention, (trying to help the guy out here).
Bunny is a lovely person who loves a good chat on fab. So just treat everyone the same with respect and dignity as I'm sure you do, then you will have a great time on fab
Lets always look for the good points on fab and have a great time on fabswingers
Hmmm well it's got them talking so i think his plan has worked.
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Don't think that was his plan but that's what forum posts are for, get people involved and chatting, either serious, tongue in cheek or pure funny
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As the song goes....
If everybody looked the same, we'd get tired of looking at each other!
Also i doubt your public declaration of lust/infatuation for one user will have the ladies of fab flocking to you.
On the plus side...i guess we're all someone out theres 10/10
Yeah I guess your right, there are lots of beautiful woman on here, bunny has just been one I've seen a lot of recently in the forums ect and she really bought my eye. As I'm sure she has done with many other guys and girls on here.
So much to get right on here, I wonder how people manage to do it so fluently
"Also i doubt your public declaration of lust/infatuation for one user will have the ladies of fab flocking to you."
I don't think he meant it publically that way as I'm sure he was putting Bunny as an example of females whom draw his attention, (trying to help the guy out here).
Bunny is a lovely person who loves a good chat on fab. So just treat everyone the same with respect and dignity as I'm sure you do, then you will have a great time on fab
Lets always look for the good points on fab and have a great time on fabswingers "
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"im a 40 something balding beardy overweight single lad . certainly not to everyones taste but what this place has shown me is to take any preconcieved ideas you may have about someone and throw them out the window . speak to people and you may just be surprised at the reaction .
treat everyone with a bit of respect regardless and be yourself
Id do you "
i would let ye !! but only if your a good girl |
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By *rowleyMan
over a year ago
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I like to treat people how I like to be treated (and I'm not talking about in the bedroom)
I'm always open to chatting with people on here, no matter what they are like.
Yes, I do sometimes judge a book by it's cover, but then remember how that makes me feel when it happens to me so I try not to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"im a 40 something balding beardy overweight single lad . certainly not to everyones taste but what this place has shown me is to take any preconcieved ideas you may have about someone and throw them out the window . speak to people and you may just be surprised at the reaction .
treat everyone with a bit of respect regardless and be yourself
Id do you
i would let ye !! but only if your a good girl "
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"Sometimes I do feel I am out of someone's league, but I take a change occasionally. You never know what might happen."
You should value yourself more. For the people who aren't interested there will always be others for whom you're perfect |
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"Sometimes I do feel I am out of someone's league, but I take a change occasionally. You never know what might happen."
I will never be out of anyone's league, NEVER
and no way am I considered a hottie |
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By *rowleyMan
over a year ago
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"Sometimes I do feel I am out of someone's league, but I take a change occasionally. You never know what might happen.
You should value yourself more. For the people who aren't interested there will always be others for whom you're perfect "
I'm my own worst enemy.
It comes from years of rejections but it's something I'm trying to work through. |
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By *rowleyMan
over a year ago
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"Sometimes I do feel I am out of someone's league, but I take a change occasionally. You never know what might happen.
I will never be out of anyone's league, NEVER
and no way am I considered a hottie "
As I said, after years of rejection when I was younger it just built up to the point of "why bother"
I am working through it now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sometimes I do feel I am out of someone's league, but I take a change occasionally. You never know what might happen.
I will never be out of anyone's league, NEVER
and no way am I considered a hottie
As I said, after years of rejection when I was younger it just built up to the point of "why bother"
I am working through it now."
You can have shitty time son here as well as amazing times , its the same as everyday life.
it great to be surrounded by lovely people and everyone is considered a hottie by someone.
We are all beautiful and stunning in our own way and we are all hotties
but fuck me, do I look amazing, Stuning body, Sexy lips, banter and laughter to go with it (forget that last bit, its was just me dreaming)
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By *rowleyMan
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"Sometimes I do feel I am out of someone's league, but I take a change occasionally. You never know what might happen.
I will never be out of anyone's league, NEVER
and no way am I considered a hottie
As I said, after years of rejection when I was younger it just built up to the point of "why bother"
I am working through it now.
You can have shitty time son here as well as amazing times , its the same as everyday life.
it great to be surrounded by lovely people and everyone is considered a hottie by someone.
We are all beautiful and stunning in our own way and we are all hotties
but fuck me, do I look amazing, Stuning body, Sexy lips, banter and laughter to go with it (forget that last bit, its was just me dreaming)
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I'm aiming to have a good time here and made some changes to my life to help with that.
I'm slowly coming out of my shell and finding there are some great people on here.
I have a body like a temple.
You know, one of those run down, falling apart ones in the Amazon forest used for human sacrifices years ago and no one visits anymore  |
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"So I've been in and out of this lifestyle for a while And still finding and embracing new things I like.
I wouldn't say I'm the most attractive person in the world but I certainly look after myself and take pride in my appearance. I like to dress well and smell nice all the time but I'm just not to everyone's tatse.
I see so many absolutely beautifully people on here (Bunnyhop being one) and I wondered do they only meet with exceptional people too?
I've met with all different kinds of people and I love the variety and don't et me wrong sometimes this 6/10 manages to punch above his weight and meet with a lovely 10/10
So I guess what I'm trying to say is how would someone like me court and exceptionally good looking lady like Bunnyhop?
All serious and funny ideas welcome "
whats exceptional in your eyes might not be exceptional to others & vice versa .
You say you've met in your eyes a 10/10 so how did you manage that ?
Was it maybe mutual attraction and nothing to do with either of you being 10/10 just a thought there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As the song goes....
If everybody looked the same, we'd get tired of looking at each other!
Also i doubt your public declaration of lust/infatuation for one user will have the ladies of fab flocking to you.
On the plus side...i guess we're all someone out theres 10/10 "
Great response x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yip
Sorta have to agree with Tands on this
The use of a certain fab ladys name is a tad off putting to me...
As I totally agree with what your saying about her lol
Sometimes less is more
Lol
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