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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We have not been to any party's or cjs before.we are now thinking of trying one of these but not sure which would b best to try first.we want to make friends as well as have fun but not sure which would be the best one to feel at ease and more comfortable for first timers |
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If it's between the 2 I'd suggest cjs... plenty of social areas if you don't want to play. Although there is no pressure to play at parties it's usually a smaller group of people which could possibly put you off or make you feel awkward if everyone else is getting naked n you've decided you don't want to
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"If it's between the 2 I'd suggest cjs... plenty of social areas if you don't want to play. Although there is no pressure to play at parties it's usually a smaller group of people which could possibly put you off or make you feel awkward if everyone else is getting naked n you've decided you don't want to
K x"
Thanx.im quite nervous at making this step but we want to socialise more |
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"If it's between the 2 I'd suggest cjs... plenty of social areas if you don't want to play. Although there is no pressure to play at parties it's usually a smaller group of people which could possibly put you off or make you feel awkward if everyone else is getting naked n you've decided you don't want to
K x
Thanx.im quite nervous at making this step but we want to socialise more "
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"If it's between the 2 I'd suggest cjs... plenty of social areas if you don't want to play. Although there is no pressure to play at parties it's usually a smaller group of people which could possibly put you off or make you feel awkward if everyone else is getting naked n you've decided you don't want to
K x
Thanx.im quite nervous at making this step but we want to socialise more "
Don't get me wrong parties can be great, but if you're not feeling it it could be awkward whereas at a club you can socialise if that's what you want to do. There are a few socials on the forums just now which is also a great way to meet people rather than a club
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
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Pretty much newbies here too samanddave 
Went on holiday to try our first clubs, had a fantastic time so....
It's not for a bit yet but signed up for a fab social
and then going to try CJ's for the first time on the same weekend
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Defo cjs
I went the first couple of times myself. Never felt so safe in an environment. I can't rate the place highly enough. Parties we don't do for a variety of reasons one of which just too much going on. We prefer more intimate playing environments with a bit more control.
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"If it's between the 2 I'd suggest cjs... plenty of social areas if you don't want to play. Although there is no pressure to play at parties it's usually a smaller group of people which could possibly put you off or make you feel awkward if everyone else is getting naked n you've decided you don't want to
K x"
Thanx.what is the dress code for cjs.and do u if there's certain nites which would b better for us.sry for asking so many questions lol.sam x |
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"If it's between the 2 I'd suggest cjs... plenty of social areas if you don't want to play. Although there is no pressure to play at parties it's usually a smaller group of people which could possibly put you off or make you feel awkward if everyone else is getting naked n you've decided you don't want to
K x
Thanx.what is the dress code for cjs.and do u if there's certain nites which would b better for us.sry for asking so many questions lol.sam x"
Most people just dress for a night out, some bring something to change into. The nights depends on what you're looking for, personally we prefer the couples and single females nights as we find them more relaxed. There's also fun for all where everyone is welcome and then you have tv and admirers party as well as the greedy girl. Feel free to pm
K x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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After reading your profile a couple and single female night might suit you but I always think it's the best night to try when it's your first time going. This Saturday there is a kink night so if you were looking to experiment more there are a few demonstrations as well as some lovely people going along. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Pretty much newbies here too samanddave
Went on holiday to try our first clubs, had a fantastic time so....
It's not for a bit yet but signed up for a fab social
and then going to try CJ's for the first time on the same weekend
I think I would b more at ease if we had a social with a couple and then go to cjs with some people we have already met.x
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We would suggest cjs as there is no pressure to play at all. You can just go and socialise x"
Think we r going to try cjs.im a bit nervous even thinking about it lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's easier to walk away in cj's than it is at a house party if you don't fancy people and there's no chemistry....it's awkward at parties when you don't like everyone and it's a group thing."
That's true never thought of that.thank u x |
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"We would suggest cjs as there is no pressure to play at all. You can just go and socialise x
Think we r going to try cjs.im a bit nervous even thinking about it lol "
You could organise to meet some people that are going along beforehand for some drinks, there is usually a forum post up and you'll see from that who's going
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Defo cjs
I went the first couple of times myself. Never felt so safe in an environment. I can't rate the place highly enough. Parties we don't do for a variety of reasons one of which just too much going on. We prefer more intimate playing environments with a bit more control.
That sounds more like wot we r looking for.think parties u would feel more pressured to play x
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If it's between the 2 I'd suggest cjs... plenty of social areas if you don't want to play. Although there is no pressure to play at parties it's usually a smaller group of people which could possibly put you off or make you feel awkward if everyone else is getting naked n you've decided you don't want to
K x
Thank u.just wasn't sure wot to wear know how ur mind runs away with u lol. Defo time to do some socialising and meet new friends as well x
Thanx.what is the dress code for cjs.and do u if there's certain nites which would b better for us.sry for asking so many questions lol.sam x
Most people just dress for a night out, some bring something to change into. The nights depends on what you're looking for, personally we prefer the couples and single females nights as we find them more relaxed. There's also fun for all where everyone is welcome and then you have tv and admirers party as well as the greedy girl. Feel free to pm
K x"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We would suggest cjs as there is no pressure to play at all. You can just go and socialise x
Think we r going to try cjs.im a bit nervous even thinking about it lol
You could organise to meet some people that are going along beforehand for some drinks, there is usually a forum post up and you'll see from that who's going
That's even better then.so do they meet somewhere else and have drinks and a chat? I like the sound of that.this cjs is sounding better and better lol.sam x
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We would suggest cjs as there is no pressure to play at all. You can just go and socialise x
Think we r going to try cjs.im a bit nervous even thinking about it lol "
Everyone is nervous the first time but there are some really great folk that go to cj's you will definitely enjoy it totally no pressured environment! Enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would advise a social/drinks night first.
Get to know a few people and then go along to cjs or a party with them and you'll feel more comfortable "
Think that's a great idea.then I would feel a bit better going in with someone we already have seen and spoke to.sam x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We would suggest cjs as there is no pressure to play at all. You can just go and socialise x
Think we r going to try cjs.im a bit nervous even thinking about it lol
Everyone is nervous the first time but there are some really great folk that go to cj's you will definitely enjoy it totally no pressured environment! Enjoy "
Thank u.i will just remember that in my head,everyone here has had a first time visit.x |
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