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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman  over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Yep believe it or not im feeling a bit nervous about next weeks drinks social lol

Anyone got any tips to eleviate the nerves for me & others who are also a bit nervous ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Chardonnay???

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman  over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Chardonnay??? "
oh il be taking that yes but still be nervous I think lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Chardonnay??? oh il be taking that yes but still be nervous I think lol xx"

Have to say I've never been nervous on a meet... I know lots think you should be... maybe am deid inside...

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman  over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Chardonnay??? oh il be taking that yes but still be nervous I think lol xx

Have to say I've never been nervous on a meet... I know lots think you should be... maybe am deid inside... "

Im not either as Ive met the person before and once things get steamy any little bit of nerves just go .

Hmmmm maybe some afternoon delights might help

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Chardonnay??? oh il be taking that yes but still be nervous I think lol xx

Have to say I've never been nervous on a meet... I know lots think you should be... maybe am deid inside... Im not either as Ive met the person before and once things get steamy any little bit of nerves just go .

Hmmmm maybe some afternoon delights might help "

Gofurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrit

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman  over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Chardonnay??? oh il be taking that yes but still be nervous I think lol xx

Have to say I've never been nervous on a meet... I know lots think you should be... maybe am deid inside... Im not either as Ive met the person before and once things get steamy any little bit of nerves just go .

Hmmmm maybe some afternoon delights might help

Gofurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrit "

lol I might

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By *UNKIEMan  over a year ago

south east

I remember being nervous many many years ago going to socials then the nerves vanished as i eventually got to know just about everyone at them ..but im back to having those nerves once again after being out the social scene for sooo long im like a newbie once again sooooo many mew faces i have no idea who they are lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman  over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I remember being nervous many many years ago going to socials then the nerves vanished as i eventually got to know just about everyone at them ..but im back to having those nerves once again after being out the social scene for sooo long im like a newbie once again sooooo many mew faces i have no idea who they are lol "
Thats how im feeling not done anything in ages ekkkkk

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By *ugs and JunkCouple  over a year ago

Bellshill

Maybe try chatting on here to a few people who are going, that way you get to know them a bit first

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't get nervous, well it never shows but I do get excited.

Recently I had a couple of socials, wee house parties, one with three couples and one with four couples and I was the only single guy there. I wasn't nervous, just felt a little awkward as some of the couples never met me before and wondered what the feck I was doing there, after ten minutes of chatting think the got the jist

lollll

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By *oney4uCouple  over a year ago

Glasgow

I still get nervous but I just take a deep breath and put my brave face on.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't get nervous, well it never shows but I do get excited.

Recently I had a couple of socials, wee house parties, one with three couples and one with four couples and I was the only single guy there. I wasn't nervous, just felt a little awkward as some of the couples never met me before and wondered what the feck I was doing there, after ten minutes of chatting think the got the jist

lollll "

That's an important definition actually... nervous and excited can go hand in hand but are not necessarily the same thing... trees get me excited... sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't get nervous, well it never shows but I do get excited.

Recently I had a couple of socials, wee house parties, one with three couples and one with four couples and I was the only single guy there. I wasn't nervous, just felt a little awkward as some of the couples never met me before and wondered what the feck I was doing there, after ten minutes of chatting think the got the jist

lollll

That's an important definition actually... nervous and excited can go hand in hand but are not necessarily the same thing... trees get me excited... sometimes "

lollllllll @ treesssssssss

pmsllllllllllllllll

not seen a girl grip a tree really hard with her fingers, in a long, long time

lollllllllllllllllll

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't get nervous, well it never shows but I do get excited.

Recently I had a couple of socials, wee house parties, one with three couples and one with four couples and I was the only single guy there. I wasn't nervous, just felt a little awkward as some of the couples never met me before and wondered what the feck I was doing there, after ten minutes of chatting think the got the jist

lollll

That's an important definition actually... nervous and excited can go hand in hand but are not necessarily the same thing... trees get me excited... sometimes

lollllllll @ treesssssssss

pmsllllllllllllllll

not seen a girl grip a tree really hard with her fingers, in a long, long time

lollllllllllllllllll"

Glad you twigged that one or I'd have been barking mad... (I'll get my coat lolol) xXx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman  over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Maybe try chatting on here to a few people who are going, that way you get to know them a bit first "
will do

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No tips but I get nervous excited too, can only be a good thing though?!

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By *andsCouple  over a year ago

Edin

You have done socials for years and years, why nervous this time? X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Know how you feel but they're just people like you and me. So chill and enjoy yourself..

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman  over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"You have done socials for years and years, why nervous this time? X"
just circumstances in my private life and not socialised in a while Im sure Il be fine lol

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By *andsCouple  over a year ago

Edin


"You have done socials for years and years, why nervous this time? Xjust circumstances in my private life and not socialised in a while Im sure Il be fine lol"

You will be the life and soul I'm sure xx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman  over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"You have done socials for years and years, why nervous this time? Xjust circumstances in my private life and not socialised in a while Im sure Il be fine lol

You will be the life and soul I'm sure xx"

Il try

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By *owboy BebopMan  over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm sure a gin & tonic will cure this !

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By *awty MaxWoman  over a year ago

Edinburgh

Take a deep breath... Be yourself Nawty and enjoy!

I am sure you will be fine and everyone will have a fab time.

Have fun xx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman  over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I'm sure a gin & tonic will cure this ! "
yuckkkk lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman  over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Take a deep breath... Be yourself Nawty and enjoy!

I am sure you will be fine and everyone will have a fab time.

Have fun xx "

I will thanks Max xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Would usually say picture them all naked but in this scene don't Haha it could lead to trouble I think nerves are a good thing it means your excited and that is not a bad thing get your glam on ,have a prosecco and be fabulous xx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman  over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Would usually say picture them all naked but in this scene don't Haha it could lead to trouble I think nerves are a good thing it means your excited and that is not a bad thing get your glam on ,have a prosecco and be fabulous xx "
thank you Cherub xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Would usually say picture them all naked but in this scene don't Haha it could lead to trouble I think nerves are a good thing it means your excited and that is not a bad thing get your glam on ,have a prosecco and be fabulous xx thank you Cherub xx"

Just think how nervous I am that night in a room full of horny women poor cherub lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman  over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Would usually say picture them all naked but in this scene don't Haha it could lead to trouble I think nerves are a good thing it means your excited and that is not a bad thing get your glam on ,have a prosecco and be fabulous xx thank you Cherub xx

Just think how nervous I am that night in a room full of horny women poor cherub lol "

lol enjoy maybe I need to fill my room full of men

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Would usually say picture them all naked but in this scene don't Haha it could lead to trouble I think nerves are a good thing it means your excited and that is not a bad thing get your glam on ,have a prosecco and be fabulous xx thank you Cherub xx

Just think how nervous I am that night in a room full of horny women poor cherub lol lol enjoy maybe I need to fill my room full of men "

Lol enjoy Mrs xxx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I feel your pain. My nerves don't go until I start chatting so I suppose my advice would be to get chatting asap.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman  over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I feel your pain. My nerves don't go until I start chatting so I suppose my advice would be to get chatting asap. "
okay drink chardonnay & chat loads think I can manage that lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I feel your pain. My nerves don't go until I start chatting so I suppose my advice would be to get chatting asap. okay drink chardonnay & chat loads think I can manage that lol "

And don't picture them naked lol xx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman  over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I feel your pain. My nerves don't go until I start chatting so I suppose my advice would be to get chatting asap. okay drink chardonnay & chat loads think I can manage that lol

And don't picture them naked lol xx "

okay lol

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By *UNKIEMan  over a year ago

south east


"I feel your pain. My nerves don't go until I start chatting so I suppose my advice would be to get chatting asap. okay drink chardonnay & chat loads think I can manage that lol

And don't picture them naked lol xx "

It worked for my nerves

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman  over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I feel your pain. My nerves don't go until I start chatting so I suppose my advice would be to get chatting asap. okay drink chardonnay & chat loads think I can manage that lol

And don't picture them naked lol xx

It worked for my nerves "

lol why am I not surprised

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By *UNKIEMan  over a year ago

south east


"I feel your pain. My nerves don't go until I start chatting so I suppose my advice would be to get chatting asap. okay drink chardonnay & chat loads think I can manage that lol

And don't picture them naked lol xx

It worked for my nerves lol why am I not surprised "

I thought that was the whole point of socials

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By *atureMale321Man  over a year ago

Moray

Only ever been to one , its harder when you don't know anyone , twice as hard when your naturally shy !

So not sure I can help in the advice stakes

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By *ndykayMan  over a year ago

Falkirk

I get nervous too but once I'm there I find it soon goes and I have a great time. I get to meet up with old friends, meet people I've chatted to on fab but never met, and of course meet new people too.

I've also been lucky enough to help newbies with their stresses and nervousness.

A reassuring hand to hold (mostly metaphorically) always helps. Especially from someone as daft as me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We're both nervous too as never done this type of social & especially whn dont think we know anyone going but excited too x

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