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Trouble looking for what your after
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all, apologies new to the forum. I've been on this on and off for a few month... Only thing I'm really struggling with is one me being picky and two just not finding what I'm looking for. Can anyone give me any advice on finding exactly what your after?l which sounds total cliche but what I mean is do you just say then and there in the chat this is what I want and just be honest with the first liner? Granted the girls must get overloaded with messages so can't be all forward etc. Tips hints and feedback all welcome. |
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Time , patience and just keep plodding along it will happen in time if it's for you.
If you like clubs try cj's etc
If you like meeting socially try the various nights out , quiz nights , parties etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Put what you're after in your profile?"
Agreed
Also remember some of the things you might be after others might not have tried so it might intrigue them or chase them away. people have interests on their profile but as I have found some don't add interests that they really want to try so it all about exploring finding people who interest/stimulate you and then see if they are into similar interests.
There's no rush on here
Good luck and may the force be with you in your struggle with darkness |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just keep trying m8 u might get lucky but a lot of ladies on here are quite choosey which defeats the purpose of the site . "
Explain please....defeats the purpose? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey hey hey maybe I put it wrong... When I mean trouble looking for what I'm after I'm not really short on offer wise ' don't mean to sound cocky or big headed' don't take that the wrong way.. like what I mean is I'm actually struggling to find what I'm into as in type wise.. I can't say not into big girls over 40 and be that brutal surely?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey hey hey maybe I put it wrong... When I mean trouble looking for what I'm after I'm not really short on offer wise ' don't mean to sound cocky or big headed' don't take that the wrong way.. like what I mean is I'm actually struggling to find what I'm into as in type wise.. I can't say not into big girls over 40 and be that brutal surely?? "
You can be truthful politely truthful
And if honest about what you like then you aren't wasting anyone's time |
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"Hey hey hey maybe I put it wrong... When I mean trouble looking for what I'm after I'm not really short on offer wise ' don't mean to sound cocky or big headed' don't take that the wrong way.. like what I mean is I'm actually struggling to find what I'm into as in type wise.. I can't say not into big girls over 40 and be that brutal surely?? " its your preference and people preferences need to be respected |
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By *edzyWoman
over a year ago
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"Hey hey hey maybe I put it wrong... When I mean trouble looking for what I'm after I'm not really short on offer wise ' don't mean to sound cocky or big headed' don't take that the wrong way.. like what I mean is I'm actually struggling to find what I'm into as in type wise.. I can't say not into big girls over 40 and be that brutal surely?? "
I am completely not your type lol - I'd rather you were clear - but to be honest I don't look for such a big age gap anyway. Why not attend the socials or clubs? That way you will be able to select based on age and body type in person? |
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"Hey hey hey maybe I put it wrong... When I mean trouble looking for what I'm after I'm not really short on offer wise ' don't mean to sound cocky or big headed' don't take that the wrong way.. like what I mean is I'm actually struggling to find what I'm into as in type wise.. I can't say not into big girls over 40 and be that brutal surely?? "
Oh dear! I am... Not your type lol
Am not big, am not small and am well over 40
But hey! You're not my type either you're under 36! Nah nah
It's a preference. Nothing wrong with that. We are all on here for what we are looking for.
One can be honest and direct without being rude.
Save everyone time if you're direct on your profile.
Good luck |
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I agree with the above.
We have the profile age range set, but that is because we host parties. My playing age range is actually smaller than that so I have written it on the profile.
My single profile just has the profile age range,but says what I'm looking for within the profile.
You can say what you're looking for in a polite way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey hey hey maybe I put it wrong... When I mean trouble looking for what I'm after I'm not really short on offer wise ' don't mean to sound cocky or big headed' don't take that the wrong way.. like what I mean is I'm actually struggling to find what I'm into as in type wise.. I can't say not into big girls over 40 and be that brutal surely??
Oh dear! I am... Not your type lol
Am not big, am not small and am well over 40
But hey! You're not my type either you're under 36! Nah nah
It's a preference. Nothing wrong with that. We are all on here for what we are looking for.
One can be honest and direct without being rude.
Save everyone time if you're direct on your profile.
Good luck "
You don't look over 40 though.
Agree with this |
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"Just keep trying m8 u might get lucky but a lot of ladies on here are quite choosey which defeats the purpose of the site . "
why does people being choosy defeat the purpose of the site?
what do you think the purpose of the site is? |
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"Just keep trying m8 u might get lucky but a lot of ladies on here are quite choosey which defeats the purpose of the site . "
i know ladies ffs the purpose is surely to get fucked and feel grateful for it . god forbid you should feel the need to be attracted to your suitors and certainly never consider you may need to enjoy the experince or cum !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey hey hey maybe I put it wrong... When I mean trouble looking for what I'm after I'm not really short on offer wise ' don't mean to sound cocky or big headed' don't take that the wrong way.. like what I mean is I'm actually struggling to find what I'm into as in type wise.. I can't say not into big girls over 40 and be that brutal surely?? "
Bit more info on your profile should help. Also have your settings adjusted, if you don't want women over 40 then set age range to that as currently says 18-99
Bit more info on your interests too.
As others have mentioned club nights such as CJ's are good as you can meet/see people in person and decide from there!
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just keep trying m8 u might get lucky but a lot of ladies on here are quite choosey which defeats the purpose of the site .
i know ladies ffs the purpose is surely to get fucked and feel grateful for it . god forbid you should feel the need to be attracted to your suitors and certainly never consider you may need to enjoy the experince or cum !! "
I knew I was getting it wrong somewhere
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"Just keep trying m8 u might get lucky but a lot of ladies on here are quite choosey which defeats the purpose of the site .
i know ladies ffs the purpose is surely to get fucked and feel grateful for it . god forbid you should feel the need to be attracted to your suitors and certainly never consider you may need to enjoy the experince or cum !!
I knew I was getting it wrong somewhere
Thanks Bearded "
dont thank me . thank casanova up above for pointing it all out |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just keep trying m8 u might get lucky but a lot of ladies on here are quite choosey which defeats the purpose of the site .
i know ladies ffs the purpose is surely to get fucked and feel grateful for it . god forbid you should feel the need to be attracted to your suitors and certainly never consider you may need to enjoy the experince or cum !!
I knew I was getting it wrong somewhere
Thanks Bearded
dont thank me . thank casanova up above for pointing it all out "
But you were so much more eloquent in your explanation |
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"Just keep trying m8 u might get lucky but a lot of ladies on here are quite choosey which defeats the purpose of the site .
i know ladies ffs the purpose is surely to get fucked and feel grateful for it . god forbid you should feel the need to be attracted to your suitors and certainly never consider you may need to enjoy the experince or cum !!
I knew I was getting it wrong somewhere
Thanks Bearded
dont thank me . thank casanova up above for pointing it all out
But you were so much more eloquent in your explanation "
lol
honestly it must be one of the best posts ive seen for completley cock blocking yourself |
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I like your style and what you are saying is good and I believe you will get more women like this, at least you are selective, I don't get any cocky vibe from the post all he is saying is I have not found what I want, in a world full of unselective guys , guys like you are important. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah your profile is there's to sell you ! Use it make yourself stand out
This
Or try Russian
Or in your case Luxembourgish "
Battenburgish for Furry surely |
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"Hey hey hey maybe I put it wrong... When I mean trouble looking for what I'm after I'm not really short on offer wise ' don't mean to sound cocky or big headed' don't take that the wrong way.. like what I mean is I'm actually struggling to find what I'm into as in type wise.. I can't say not into big girls over 40 and be that brutal surely?? "
You either ignore or send a I'm sorry you're not quite what I'm looking for at the moment.
I can show you several examples I've been sent. Usually very polite and in no way brutal at all.
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