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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is there anyone interested in interracial house parties? I tried attending cj but I was the only black and wasn't comfortable... are there females interested in black men in Glasgow at all? |
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"Is there anyone interested in interracial house parties? I tried attending cj but I was the only black and wasn't comfortable... are there females interested in black men in Glasgow at all? "
why were you not comfortable...... because your skins a diffrent colour im sorry to say this but that is yourself placing the emphisis theretry just being a person and not concentrate on colour or creed.
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"Is there anyone interested in interracial house parties? I tried attending cj but I was the only black and wasn't comfortable... are there females interested in black men in Glasgow at all? why were you not comfortable...... because your skins a diffrent colour im sorry to say this but that is yourself placing the emphisis theretry just being a person and not concentrate on colour or creed."
why ask a question then not wait for the answer before you jump to conclutions ?
Op its a shame you felt uncomfortable at cjs but as you saud there are women into black guys so if having your own parties to host this makes you more comfortable then go for it  ...good luck |
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"Is there anyone interested in interracial house parties? I tried attending cj but I was the only black and wasn't comfortable... are there females interested in black men in Glasgow at all? "
Why were you not comfortable??
I have been to Cjs and been the only black girl there! And to socials too!
So what!?
Personally, more to me than my skin colour.
Bit of an issue in Scotland if you have a problem being the 'only black' person somewhere!
May be the scene down South would be more to your liking.
And I don't see the connection with the interracial house party and the way you felt at Cjs.
Good luck though OP  |
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"Is there anyone interested in interracial house parties? I tried attending cj but I was the only black and wasn't comfortable... are there females interested in black men in Glasgow at all? "
I'm a bit surprised that Cj's made you feel that way.
To be honest most people who go to cjs' for the first Cpl of times I suspect would be nervous and excited and some people I know have been too shy or quite to chat to others, so maybe you felt this way, not sure but I apologise if it was the colour of your skin that made you feel isolated.
If this is true, which I doubt, then I aint gonna go cause I don't wanna be feeling awkward as the only intelligent guy there 
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I meant it as no one should feel awkward for the colour of their skin, its not right and I get a feeling he was just nervous or shy.
If someone made a nasty comment to him at cjs or a condescending look, I hope it was reported to Cjs and I hope they would then act on it
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Seems my post is being taken out of context.
1. I wasn't comfortable there doesn't mean I am implying the people there are mean. It's just me (maybe because it was my first time, maybe I need to work on confidence and all)
2. I feel maybe if I attend smaller group (say a house party) It would give me confidence for something bigger. Again this is just me.
No need attacking me on this one... not helping.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"...not sure but I apologise if it was the colour of your skin that made you feel isolated.
Sorry for being awkward Peter but I don't understand your apology "
Well... That's awkward   |
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"...not sure but I apologise if it was the colour of your skin that made you feel isolated.
Sorry for being awkward Peter but I don't understand your apology
Well... That's awkward "
It's a forum to... discuss and debate! 
And Peter can handle me |
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"Seems my post is being taken out of context.
1. I wasn't comfortable there doesn't mean I am implying the people there are mean. It's just me (maybe because it was my first time, maybe I need to work on confidence and all)
2. I feel maybe if I attend smaller group (say a house party) It would give me confidence for something bigger. Again this is just me.
No need attacking me on this one... not helping.
Thank you all "
so it was all down to you feeling just uncomfortable and nothing to do with the colour of your skin ? |
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"Seems my post is being taken out of context.
1. I wasn't comfortable there doesn't mean I am implying the people there are mean. It's just me (maybe because it was my first time, maybe I need to work on confidence and all)
2. I feel maybe if I attend smaller group (say a house party) It would give me confidence for something bigger. Again this is just me.
No need attacking me on this one... not helping.
Thank you all "
Like I said no attack it's a forum to discuss and debate.
And the above comments have prompted you to actually clarify what was in your mind.
May be try attending Social which would help your confidence as they are just drinks amongst like minded people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"...not sure but I apologise if it was the colour of your skin that made you feel isolated.
Sorry for being awkward Peter but I don't understand your apology
Well... That's awkward
It's a forum to... discuss and debate!
And Peter can handle me "
and them some
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"...not sure but I apologise if it was the colour of your skin that made you feel isolated.
Sorry for being awkward Peter but I don't understand your apology
Well... That's awkward
It's a forum to... discuss and debate!
And Peter can handle me
and them some
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"Is there anyone interested in interracial house parties? I tried attending cj but I was the only black and wasn't comfortable... are there females interested in black men in Glasgow at all? why were you not comfortable...... because your skins a diffrent colour im sorry to say this but that is yourself placing the emphisis theretry just being a person and not concentrate on colour or creed.why ask a question then not wait for the answer before you jump to conclutions ?
Op its a shame you felt uncomfortable at cjs but as you saud there are women into black guys so if having your own parties to host this makes you more comfortable then go for it ...good luck "
the question was partially answered with the op stating "the only black" I guessed at the real reason nothing to do with colour.
The problem is when the op placed colour into the equation which infers is to do with colour. Op its not to get at you why I posted I was highlighting how there can be percieved discrimination when there is none present |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seems my post is being taken out of context.
1. I wasn't comfortable there doesn't mean I am implying the people there are mean. It's just me (maybe because it was my first time, maybe I need to work on confidence and all)
2. I feel maybe if I attend smaller group (say a house party) It would give me confidence for something bigger. Again this is just me.
No need attacking me on this one... not helping.
Thank you all "
Well said Tom ...
I do agree that your post has been taken out of context.
Good Luck
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yea I am working on that. I am new to Glasgow so not many friends as such but I will reach out to as many on the site. Thanks very much."
Get yourself along to one of the socials.
Its a great way to meet new people and during and after the social, people will contact you if they are interested in taking anything further. |
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"Yea. You know any socials here in Glasgow or peharps how I can find one ?"
you will find socials listed on the forums. there is a Dundee one, there is an Aberdeen one this weekend and I'm sure there's a Glasgow one soon. if interested in going just put name on the forum of your interest and the organisers will contact you.
People don't play at the socials, they just meet, chat, drink n have a right good laugh, some go back to hotels and have fun and some just head home. The socials are a good laugh and great way to meet similarly like minded people.
good luck op |
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"Yea. You know any socials here in Glasgow or peharps how I can find one ?"
NawtyMissD has a drinks night I think middle of May if my memory is good.
You can search for the thread it's on the forum. |
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"Yea. You know any socials here in Glasgow or peharps how I can find one ?
NawtyMissD has a drinks night I think middle of May if my memory is good.
You can search for the thread it's on the forum."
Thanks max its full now but will bump the post for the op to add his name to reserve list if he wants |
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"Yea. You know any socials here in Glasgow or peharps how I can find one ?
NawtyMissD has a drinks night I think middle of May if my memory is good.
You can search for the thread it's on the forum.Thanks max its full now but will bump the post for the op to add his name to reserve list if he wants "
Cool
Hopefully I can make the next one |
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"Yea. You know any socials here in Glasgow or peharps how I can find one ?
NawtyMissD has a drinks night I think middle of May if my memory is good.
You can search for the thread it's on the forum.Thanks max its full now but will bump the post for the op to add his name to reserve list if he wants
Cool
Hopefully I can make the next one "
you'd be more than welcome |
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