We enjoy taking pics and videos for our own enjoyment, and give copies to anyone else in them. We don't show them to anyone else, but understand we can't control what others do with them. That is a risk we take. |
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"Following on from the video post.
How much trust do have with the people you are meeting when taking videos & photos during meets ?
Or is it a stricly no videos or cams during meets for you?"
I wouldnt have any interest in photos/videos.
There are more important things to be focusing on ..
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By *hav02Man
over a year ago
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I've taken the odd photo, but faceless....
As far as I'm concerned, if photography is taking place, it's purely for intent of sharing  .... I'm still skeptical about meeting at other people's homes in case of hidden cams  |
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"Following on from the video post.
How much trust do have with the people you are meeting when taking videos & photos during meets ?
Or is it a stricly no videos or cams during meets for you?"
I'm naturally pretty careful about images of me. So, despite me having a bit of an exhibitionist streak, there aren't many. I also tend to get very caught up by doing (lots and lots of doing  ), rather than recording.
I have trusted a few people enough in the past to take pictures, and I'm sure I will again. I have to have quite a lot of trust in them to consent though. |
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I state I like to take pics on my profile
But only ever with my phone
Wouldn't dream of taking anyone's face pic ...my hubby's not interested in what they look like only what we are doing  |
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"We enjoy taking pics and videos for our own enjoyment, and give copies to anyone else in them. We don't show them to anyone else, but understand we can't control what others do with them. That is a risk we take."
hope those you give the copies too are trustworthy |
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"Following on from the video post.
How much trust do have with the people you are meeting when taking videos & photos during meets ?
Or is it a stricly no videos or cams during meets for you?
I wouldnt have any interest in photos/videos.
There are more important things to be focusing on ..
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Agreed but sometimes it adds to the fun |
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"I've taken the odd photo, but faceless....
As far as I'm concerned, if photography is taking place, it's purely for intent of sharing .... I'm still skeptical about meeting at other people's homes in case of hidden cams "
I guess this can & does happen |
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"Following on from the video post.
How much trust do have with the people you are meeting when taking videos & photos during meets ?
Or is it a stricly no videos or cams during meets for you?
I'm naturally pretty careful about images of me. So, despite me having a bit of an exhibitionist streak, there aren't many. I also tend to get very caught up by doing (lots and lots of doing ), rather than recording.
I have trusted a few people enough in the past to take pictures, and I'm sure I will again. I have to have quite a lot of trust in them to consent though."
Always best to have the trust but we all know when things turn sour anything can happen |
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"I state I like to take pics on my profile
But only ever with my phone
Wouldn't dream of taking anyone's face pic ...my hubby's not interested in what they look like only what we are doing "
funnily enough its always my phone I take pics on too |
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By *hav02Man
over a year ago
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"I've taken the odd photo, but faceless....
As far as I'm concerned, if photography is taking place, it's purely for intent of sharing .... I'm still skeptical about meeting at other people's homes in case of hidden cams I guess this can & does happen "
Tattoos are an identity giveaway too. Luckily I've got none..
I'm sure I've spotted a few fabbers in town when the weather was good, purely because of their arm/neck tattoos...  |
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Only one man I'd trust with pics and videos and I don't think I need to say who that is!
Been stung in the past...by a regular poster on this forum actually! Trusting people and thinking your friendship counts for something is a trap a lot of us fall into. I would advocate caution and also say be as good a friend as you wish others to be to you. |
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any pictures and videos we have took during meets have been with approval.
we have let the people know where and how they will be used and have been met with total agreement. if anybody says no we dont take any, simple.
having see pictures on here where you know people involved didnt have a clue they were been taken it has made us wary though.
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"Only one man I'd trust with pics and videos and I don't think I need to say who that is!
Been stung in the past...by a regular poster on this forum actually! Trusting people and thinking your friendship counts for something is a trap a lot of us fall into. I would advocate caution and also say be as good a friend as you wish others to be to you. "
Not nice that this has happend to you and I guess thats what this post is all about .
Its fine & dandy doing pics when your friends but when fall outs happen and people look for revenge it can be pretty horendous for those involved |
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"any pictures and videos we have took during meets have been with approval.
we have let the people know where and how they will be used and have been met with total agreement. if anybody says no we dont take any, simple.
having see pictures on here where you know people involved didnt have a clue they were been taken it has made us wary though.
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Always best to be wary |
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Once let a girl I had met a few times on here video our meet. Didn't feel hundred percent relaxed and kind of made things seem a bit contrived. She said it was for her husband to watch and they would delete it soon afterwards. Still makes me feel uncomfortable not knowing for sure if it was deleted or not even though I do trust them. Not something I would ever do again |
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We do allow pics but only with people that we know & trust very well. Faces are always cut out & any tattoos blurred out too. If we wanted to use any pics taken for on fab then consent is always asked from anyone else in the pic first!
Mrs xx |
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"Once let a girl I had met a few times on here video our meet. Didn't feel hundred percent relaxed and kind of made things seem a bit contrived. She said it was for her husband to watch and they would delete it soon afterwards. Still makes me feel uncomfortable not knowing for sure if it was deleted or not even though I do trust them. Not something I would ever do again"
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"We do allow pics but only with people that we know & trust very well. Faces are always cut out & any tattoos blurred out too. If we wanted to use any pics taken for on fab then consent is always asked from anyone else in the pic first!
Mrs xx"
As it should be |
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"We do allow pics but only with people that we know & trust very well. Faces are always cut out & any tattoos blurred out too. If we wanted to use any pics taken for on fab then consent is always asked from anyone else in the pic first!
Mrs xxAs it should be "
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I have taken pics and vids however I only do it for
a) It is private to enhance the fun and deleted thereafter
b) Lady/couple are using it for Private use and I 100% trust. them
c) Lady wishes solo pics or vids for her own private use
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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Have taken plenty pics on 1 on 1 meets at the request of the fem (of her for her profile or collection)but have always taken them on her camera or phone that way she can control what happens with the pics |
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"We enjoy taking pics and videos for our own enjoyment, and give copies to anyone else in them. We don't show them to anyone else, but understand we can't control what others do with them. That is a risk we take.
hope those you give the copies too are trustworthy "
I try not to include faces, and I don't do it with everyone, to my knowledge no one has done anything with them |
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"I have taken pics and vids however I only do it for
a) It is private to enhance the fun and deleted thereafter
b) Lady/couple are using it for Private use and I 100% trust. them
c) Lady wishes solo pics or vids for her own private use
or to show hubby "
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"We enjoy taking pics and videos for our own enjoyment, and give copies to anyone else in them. We don't show them to anyone else, but understand we can't control what others do with them. That is a risk we take.
hope those you give the copies too are trustworthy
I try not to include faces, and I don't do it with everyone, to my knowledge no one has done anything with them "
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We never had a problem till recently ,my phone is full of images of others though most cropped and edited in secure folder and would never let them get in the wrong hands and our true friends have trusted me with these ,i now think seriously about who i can trust ,such a shame others cant be so trust worthy and not just with photos  |
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"We never had a problem till recently ,my phone is full of images of others though most cropped and edited in secure folder and would never let them get in the wrong hands and our true friends have trusted me with these ,i now think seriously about who i can trust ,such a shame others cant be so trust worthy and not just with photos "
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"Following on from the video post.
How much trust do have with the people you are meeting when taking videos & photos during meets ?
Or is it a stricly no videos or cams during meets for you?"
It's a huge big no no from me |
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"Following on from the video post.
How much trust do have with the people you are meeting when taking videos & photos during meets ?
Or is it a stricly no videos or cams during meets for you?
It's a huge big no no from me "
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By *andACouple
over a year ago
glasgow |
We always have pics (and the occasional video) from our meets. You can never totally eliminate any risk but you can reduce them. It's why we prefer to meet couples who are in a relationship rather than fb couples. |
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I think some put too much onus on trust when playing this game & are quick to turn it personal. If everyone is mature enough to play the swinging pic or video game then all the better. 
It's a really sad day when others resort to tit for tat when their selfish noses have been put out of place. Remember we're all just potential play mates & have life's outwith fab, or maybe not for some |
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"I think some put too much onus on trust when playing this game & are quick to turn it personal. If everyone is mature enough to play the swinging pic or video game then all the better.
It's a really sad day when others resort to tit for tat when their selfish noses have been put out of place. Remember we're all just potential play mates & have life's outwith fab, or maybe not for some"
Totally agree |
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By *andACouple
over a year ago
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"I think some put too much onus on trust when playing this game & are quick to turn it personal. If everyone is mature enough to play the swinging pic or video game then all the better.
It's a really sad day when others resort to tit for tat when their selfish noses have been put out of place. Remember we're all just potential play mates & have life's outwith fab, or maybe not for some"
This is a strangely worded reply to the OP's question. I'm assuming it's aimed at someone on the thread you've had an issue with? |
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It's just a very general observation, we've encountered situations where grown adults have resorted to child's play when not getting their own way, wether it be about picture or video taking or swinging in general. No finger pointing in the comment, a very generalisation of our own experiences. |
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