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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sometimes I've been on fab, just having a wander and found a few girls or cpls have blocked me and I know for a fact I have never contacted them. 
Well I was at a few big socials end of last year, (Glasgow and Dundee) and a Cpl of small ones and found some people coming up chatting to me, getting on but they didn't realise they originally blocked me.
Some found out after the social and then unblocked me as they found out what kinda person I really was. I don't hold any grudge if people block me as it's up to them and I feel that it's their loss.
What's your thoughts on being blocked, even if you don't know why  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was on previously if I saw someone had looked and I didn't like their profile or had seen stuff I didn't like in the forum I would block them without having had any contact.
Personal choice.
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"Sometimes I've been on fab, just having a wander and found a few girls or cpls have blocked me and I know for a fact I have never contacted them.
Well I was at a few big socials end of last year, (Glasgow and Dundee) and a Cpl of small ones and found some people coming up chatting to me, getting on but they didn't realise they originally blocked me.
Some found out after the social and then unblocked me as they found out what kinda person I really was. I don't hold any grudge if people block me as it's up to them and I feel that it's their loss.
What's your thoughts on being blocked, even if you don't know why "
Doesnt bother me one iota .
Im sure they have their reasons the same as I have my reasons for blocking too.
I can see where your coming from tho because if I look back at some Ive got no idea why I blocked but I dont block that often so there had to be a good reason for doing so
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When I was on previously if I saw someone had looked and I didn't like their profile or had seen stuff I didn't like in the forum I would block them without having had any contact.
Personal choice.
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Agreed, nothing wrong with that.
personally I don't block, I just don't bother if someone I think is not for me.
I'm meaning initial thoughts being blocked, especially when you don't know, can easily change as when they met you at a social gathering.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I noticed the other day a guy on here had blocked me. We haven't spoken or even interacted on the forums so I thought it was odd but each to their own. I did counterblock though, I dont like that he could look at me at anytime! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I noticed the other day a guy on here had blocked me. We haven't spoken or even interacted on the forums so I thought it was odd but each to their own. I did counterblock though, I dont like that he could look at me at anytime!"
Can understand you wanting to counter block but I don't react that way, I just think it over and then not bother as I know its their loss. I'm not one for drama or hassle so I chill out  |
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Ooh! Really doesn't bother me!
People's prerogative.
It is not 'their loss' or 'my loss' just one of those things I don't try to analyse at all!
I block if I don't like something I read on forum and think i have nothing in common with that person.
I block sometimes when I see some pics in updates because... i dont want to see them again!
Block...Etc etc etc...
Whatever my reasons for blocking each reason makes sense to me!
And I accepted the same if someone blocks me!
It saves everyone time! |
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No one likes rejection it is true...
Sometimes if you block someone it is either you do have a little argument with just person or just do not like their profile.
Whenever it happens better move on and focus on the people that you get on well rather than running after the Ines that avoids you...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm blocked more times than a quarterback in an American football team,but doesn't phase me one way or other horsey "
Was an accident Gas 
Unblocked ya now 
PS How are the ducks?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think its one of those things, might of been when you were a newbie or might of been that they had quick look and decided you were not for them so thought to narrow down there options, might of been u put up a status and they are local to you that annoyed them or they know you ,point is its their choice, it has happend to me other that a quick i wonder why it dose not bother me each to their own |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope dosnt bother Me if someone's blocked me
I'd say most blocks are because I'm a gobby chick in here lol
But that's me
So if someone's upset enough to block me we prob wouldn't get on anyway
So nobody loses really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i find it extremely odd that you know who's blocked you whilst sitting at a social, also if they unblock you when they find out what your really like why don't you just be the way you are all the time? Surely that would make things easier
Just saying... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i find it extremely odd that you know who's blocked you whilst sitting at a social, also if they unblock you when they find out what your really like why don't you just be the way you are all the time? Surely that would make things easier
Just saying..."
Sorry Kid, think you have looked at it the wrong way or I didn't express it they way I thought on the original post.
Sorry I have a good memory and usually at the big socials you know whos going cause they say so on the forum, so when you chat, names are exchanged and you remember.
I don't change for anyone, I am the same all the time. When being blocked, its people who blocked you who have never met or never been in contact as I have found and then when at a social and interaction it has changed.
One Cpl said they hadn't a clue why they originally blocked me loll
I never take offence as we all are old enough to make our own choices and decisions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Another thought was the profiles that have been banned but the profile pic, username, sent messages and forum posts remain. When you click on these it comes up as if they have blocked you, actually happened to one I reported for being fake last week, turns out its banned.
That possibly could describe the issue for some but obvs not the ones currently still using and going to socials. Maybe just glitches? |
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By *oney4uCouple
over a year ago
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"I noticed the other day a guy on here had blocked me. We haven't spoken or even interacted on the forums so I thought it was odd but each to their own. I did counterblock though, I dont like that he could look at me at anytime!"
They can't look at you if they have blocked you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I noticed the other day a guy on here had blocked me. We haven't spoken or even interacted on the forums so I thought it was odd but each to their own. I did counterblock though, I dont like that he could look at me at anytime!
They can't look at you if they have blocked you. "
Bunny means they can have a quick unblock look and then block again
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was blocked recently by a guy who took a comment completly wrong way which was very frustrating as I couldn't explain to him his misjudgement in my meaning.
also clicked on a few members here in the Scottish forum to see i am blocked and hardly speak here in forum so like op says, wonder why |
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"I was blocked recently by a guy who took a comment completly wrong way which was very frustrating as I couldn't explain to him his misjudgement in my meaning.
also clicked on a few members here in the Scottish forum to see i am blocked and hardly speak here in forum so like op says, wonder why "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I block geezers purely to clear up the 'who's near' feature. Simple as that."
Going slightly off topic, I don't know how you lot can get to grips with the mobile version. I just can't use it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've (mrs) blocked a few folk, but only because they wouldn't take no for an answer.
Saved my time and was less hassle.
But I wouldn't block anyone just because they weren't what we're looking for.
Generally a simple thanks but no thanks is all you need x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I noticed the other day a guy on here had blocked me. We haven't spoken or even interacted on the forums so I thought it was odd but each to their own. I did counterblock though, I dont like that he could look at me at anytime!"
If they block you, they can't look at your profile |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I noticed the other day a guy on here had blocked me. We haven't spoken or even interacted on the forums so I thought it was odd but each to their own. I did counterblock though, I dont like that he could look at me at anytime!
If they block you, they can't look at your profile "
yes true but I think she means what I stated above
"if they block you then they can have a quick unblock look and then block again" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So what, someone blocks you, either they have issues with what you have on your profile, or theyre just cunty maybe a bit of both. At the end of the day its no skin off your back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I read down the forum posts, rather than scrolling up or pressing back on my phone, I click on the last person to posts profile and navigate from there.
Surprised sometimes to see people we have never spoken to have blocked us but everyone is looking for different things and attracted to different people. We won't be to everyones liking
I thought that if u block someone you didn't see what they post on forums though???? |
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Couldnt care less whos blocked me and I block who I want also.99.9% of the time I wouldnt change it either. if I block its because I find them a wrongun and if they decided to unblock me because they seen me at a social then I would find them weak folk for blocking for no reason. |
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"Ooh! Really doesn't bother me!
People's prerogative.
It is not 'their loss' or 'my loss' just one of those things I don't try to analyse at all!
I block if I don't like something I read on forum and think i have nothing in common with that person.
I block sometimes when I see some pics in updates because... i dont want to see them again!
Block...Etc etc etc...
Whatever my reasons for blocking each reason makes sense to me!
And I accepted the same if someone blocks me!
It saves everyone time! "
I'm the same as Max, various reasons for blocking. I'll make a note of why I've blocked them though as I might forget! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm blocked more times than a quarterback in an American football team,but doesn't phase me one way or other horsey
Was an accident Gas
Unblocked ya now
PS How are the ducks?? "
Waiting for you to feed them Mrs Doyle ?? |
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"I have lots of people blocked for lots of different reasons I'll block if I don't like what I read on a status update or a forum comment don't think I'd be bothered who has me blocked "
Status update or comment, that fickle?
I'll consider myself blocked now. lol |
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"I have lots of people blocked for lots of different reasons I'll block if I don't like what I read on a status update or a forum comment don't think I'd be bothered who has me blocked
Status update or comment, that fickle?
I'll consider myself blocked now. lol"
Some of them are pretty graphic and gross. Or they're putting out their number for anyone to get in touch, therefore desperate and will shag anyone. Or they're constantly whining that they're having no luck here and the place is full of munters, because they've discovered it's not instashag.
None of these things are attractive and I don't wish to see it, so yes - block. |
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I got blocked once for replying to a post on here saying i was attending a social..
Ide had a quick peek through who was going, a few more had posted later on, so i had another quick peek through attendees..... and found i was now blocked by a couple that i wasnt earlier...
Id never, winked, fabbed pics or contacted them, had no intention of ever contacting them.... so it did strike me as funny that my attendance at a social offended someone so much they had to block me 
It didnt bother me i just blocked back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It used to bother me when people would block me, it was mostly women who I had never talked to in my puff lol but hey ho it happens.
But I block people for 3 reasons:
They upload gross pics I don't want to see on my updates page.
Forever slagging off people in their statuses.
Continually message after I sent them a 'thanks but no thanks' message. |
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Process of elimination for me mainly I guess. Saves you replying to messages from people you're not interested in (and there's a whole lot of those, so does take up quite a lot of time which I'd rather spend on people I might meet up with at some point). A username can be reason enough for me to block someone. And, as someone mentioned earlier, a status or something mentioned in a profile could make it obvious you're not compatible.
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"It used to bother me when people would block me, it was mostly women who I had never talked to in my puff lol but hey ho it happens.
But I block people for 3 reasons:
They upload gross pics I don't want to see on my updates page.
Forever slagging off people in their statuses.
Continually message after I sent them a 'thanks but no thanks' message."
yeah I stopped bothering about being blocked a long time ago. Even if we haven't spoken to them I just assume we're not what they're looking for and don't give it another thought |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It used to bother me when people would block me, it was mostly women who I had never talked to in my puff lol but hey ho it happens.
But I block people for 3 reasons:
They upload gross pics I don't want to see on my updates page.
Forever slagging off people in their statuses.
Continually message after I sent them a 'thanks but no thanks' message.
yeah I stopped bothering about being blocked a long time ago. Even if we haven't spoken to them I just assume we're not what they're looking for and don't give it another thought"
I've never thought about it either. But I'm having a blonde moment....how do people even know youve blocked them? |
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"It used to bother me when people would block me, it was mostly women who I had never talked to in my puff lol but hey ho it happens.
But I block people for 3 reasons:
They upload gross pics I don't want to see on my updates page.
Forever slagging off people in their statuses.
Continually message after I sent them a 'thanks but no thanks' message.
yeah I stopped bothering about being blocked a long time ago. Even if we haven't spoken to them I just assume we're not what they're looking for and don't give it another thought
I've never thought about it either. But I'm having a blonde moment....how do people even know youve blocked them? "
They'll know if they try to look at your profile, they'll get a blocked message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It used to bother me when people would block me, it was mostly women who I had never talked to in my puff lol but hey ho it happens.
But I block people for 3 reasons:
They upload gross pics I don't want to see on my updates page.
Forever slagging off people in their statuses.
Continually message after I sent them a 'thanks but no thanks' message.
yeah I stopped bothering about being blocked a long time ago. Even if we haven't spoken to them I just assume we're not what they're looking for and don't give it another thought
I've never thought about it either. But I'm having a blonde moment....how do people even know youve blocked them?
They'll know if they try to look at your profile, they'll get a blocked message "
Ah okay thanks! |
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"It used to bother me when people would block me, it was mostly women who I had never talked to in my puff lol but hey ho it happens.
But I block people for 3 reasons:
They upload gross pics I don't want to see on my updates page.
Forever slagging off people in their statuses.
Continually message after I sent them a 'thanks but no thanks' message.
yeah I stopped bothering about being blocked a long time ago. Even if we haven't spoken to them I just assume we're not what they're looking for and don't give it another thought
I've never thought about it either. But I'm having a blonde moment....how do people even know youve blocked them?
They'll know if they try to look at your profile, they'll get a blocked message
Ah okay thanks! "
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"Sometimes I've been on fab, just having a wander and found a few girls or cpls have blocked me and I know for a fact I have never contacted them.
Well I was at a few big socials end of last year, (Glasgow and Dundee) and a Cpl of small ones and found some people coming up chatting to me, getting on but they didn't realise they originally blocked me.
Some found out after the social and then unblocked me as they found out what kinda person I really was. I don't hold any grudge if people block me as it's up to them and I feel that it's their loss.
What's your thoughts on being blocked, even if you don't know why "
I block lots, but I haven't blocked you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love finding I've been blocked. Does wonders for my "bad girl" image! 
Haha, especially if you have no idea why as you've never spoken to them! "
They're the best ones to me. Lol. Result...fist pump!!! |
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"I love finding I've been blocked. Does wonders for my "bad girl" image!
Haha, especially if you have no idea why as you've never spoken to them!
They're the best ones to me. Lol. Result...fist pump!!! "
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By *haostimeMan
over a year ago
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It does happen a fair amount, far to many judgemental people about.
Recently I got blocked from a kik group for airing an opinion (granted it was an angry opinion) on something that recently happened to me in my own personal life, which may I add had nothing to do with fab. I was asked for my honest opinion on the incident, so gave an "honest" answer and got blocked. Makes me laugh really.
Tbh honest, it's not a big deal being off it now. Just let's me know what females to avoid on here , hahaha believe it or not the guys were a better laugh
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By *andACouple
over a year ago
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I'm the same as Max, various reasons for blocking. I'll make a note of why I've blocked them though as I might forget!"
Didn't realise you could make a note. I probably couldn't tell you why I've blocked most of the people on my list so that could be handy. |
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I'm the same as Max, various reasons for blocking. I'll make a note of why I've blocked them though as I might forget!
Didn't realise you could make a note. I probably couldn't tell you why I've blocked most of the people on my list so that could be handy."
Yeah you can still access the notes even if you've blocked someone or they've blocked you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm the same as Max, various reasons for blocking. I'll make a note of why I've blocked them though as I might forget!
Didn't realise you could make a note. I probably couldn't tell you why I've blocked most of the people on my list so that could be handy.
Yeah you can still access the notes even if you've blocked someone or they've blocked you "
if you forget to subscribe to fab then the notes disappear but good new, if your non supporting , say a month, when you become site supporter all pervious notes are still there
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Lol I was speaking to a single guy was interested in meeting aswell but been busy with kids this week so I can only assume because I haven't been on in three days that's why I blocked honestly makes me laugh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol I was speaking to a single guy was interested in meeting aswell but been busy with kids this week so I can only assume because I haven't been on in three days that's why I blocked honestly makes me laugh. "
sorry about that lol x I wish |
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Angel had been speaking to a single guy on here over the last week. Things where getting a bit naughty??. with a meet being on the cards very soon. She never answered his last or any of our messages for that matter, as little one has been ill since Sunday. She went in to answer tonight only to find out she has been blocked. Well his loss. She will just have to start her search all over again |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Angel had been speaking to a single guy on here over the last week. Things where getting a bit naughty??. with a meet being on the cards very soon. She never answered his last or any of our messages for that matter, as little one has been ill since Sunday. She went in to answer tonight only to find out she has been blocked. Well his loss. She will just have to start her search all over again "
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"Angel had been speaking to a single guy on here over the last week. Things where getting a bit naughty??. with a meet being on the cards very soon. She never answered his last or any of our messages for that matter, as little one has been ill since Sunday. She went in to answer tonight only to find out she has been blocked. Well his loss. She will just have to start her search all over again can I put my name down lol "
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I generally only block if...
Someone has been an utter prick,
Someone wont take no for an answer,
Their profile pics/text or status updates give me the heave,
Or i notice I'm blocked for whatever reason. I just block back then to stop them unblocking for a sneaky peek,
Or they're called Horsey |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Or someone utterly bursts my melon in chatroom ...
I cant remember what half my blocklist were blocked for, it doesnt help when they may have changed username since you blocked  "
Or someone utterly bursts my melon in chatroom ...
Is there any point in me checking if im blocked
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"Or someone utterly bursts my melon in chatroom ...
I cant remember what half my blocklist were blocked for, it doesnt help when they may have changed username since you blocked
Or someone utterly bursts my melon in chatroom ...
Is there any point in me checking if im blocked
Banana Rules"
Course yer no, how could i abuse you in chat if i block you?...
I enjoy that too much |
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"Or someone utterly bursts my melon in chatroom ...
I cant remember what half my blocklist were blocked for, it doesnt help when they may have changed username since you blocked "
If you're a site supporter you can still use the notes |
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By *r4tCouple
over a year ago
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doesn't bother me in slightest , half the time I probably wouldn't notice.
although there was on I found rather cheeky someone we hadn't spoke to or interacted with in in way had blocked me on my chat profile where its always just me chatting (usually when Lils on this one chatting) but still wated to sit an watch Lils cam....we found that little cheeky so blocked them too
but in general we just don't care lol life is too short to worry what or why other do things on here lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only block people who message me and annoy me or if they message and I realise they are local or may know me I block.
Don't know who has blocked me and don't care if they have as its their loss hehe xx
I would never block you though peter xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I block people all the time. For different reasons.
Dont like something they say
Dont like who they have been verified by (there is a psychotic bitch locally who causes no end of real life trouble)
Bare back pictures
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"I block people all the time. For different reasons.
Dont like something they say
Dont like who they have been verified by (there is a psychotic bitch locally who causes no end of real life trouble)
Bare back pictures
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Said local psycho isn't local to us but still blocked lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She is still causing riots locally including confronting a guy who met her and he wouldn't then follow through with sex when he was in the pub with his wife! |
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