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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I just wonder if fab swingers is becoming more like a Facebook scene. Lots of people chatting, even going to socials ...which we do also. But.... I read so many profiles saying not meeting or we will find you..... thoughts? G x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Know what you mean, but seeing as I'm not really meeting at the moment I suppose I should be talking about myself. I don't mind why people are on here I'll chat to just about anyone, but there's a fair old bit of hostility around, too, which is very off-putting. Not to mention downright stupidity. The number of profiles that say they're looking for X or Y then have profiles from that kind of member blocked is quite stunning. Usually combined with "Are there no real people on here?", "Why can I not get any replies?", "Stuff this" and then "User no longer on site." messsages.  mao |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just wonder if fab swingers is becoming more like a Facebook scene. Lots of people chatting, even going to socials ...which we do also. But.... I read so many profiles saying not meeting or we will find you..... thoughts? G x"
Where's the problem with this? People are here for all sorts of reasons and have no obligation to fulfill the requirements/ fantasies of any other members. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i think there are many reasons for this . for me i like he social aspect of swinging its not all about the sex , so im happy to chat with whoever about almost anything . as for no meetng just now etc etc folk have lives outside of swnging and i respect that its their decision maybe they having a tough time and will return to meeting when they better , or maybe they just want to wait a while , whatever the reason its their choice . so for me its not like facebook but rather like a sexually charged community without any expectations of sex . hope that makes sense  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seen a thread similar to this and i dont find the site anything like facebook.
People are here for all sorts of reasons and also have reasons for meeting anyone who asks , or meeting just with friends they have made , or not meeting.
I also have not meeting on my profile but dont feel the need to explain to the huffed element why i am not meeting. We all need to learn to respect others decisions and not get bogged down with what we think are negatives.
Just my humble opinion as always. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well we fully admit to not doing meets. We were both on here as singles and have recently got together as a REAL couple and concentrating on our own relationship. However, saying that we still have many friends on fab and very much enjoy the social side and as being a member of fab is a requirement to going to socials, invites to parties etc we feel justufied to be here.
Just my opinion. xxx |
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By *adgeeMan
over a year ago
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"I just wonder if fab swingers is becoming more like a Facebook scene. Lots of people chatting, even going to socials ...which we do also. But.... I read so many profiles saying not meeting or we will find you..... thoughts? G x"
 Fewer fakes on Facebook  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think too many people expect everyone to be able to meet them straight away - I honestly havent had any time for even a coffee meet never mind much else over the last few weeks and some people are just sooo impatient - as mentioned a little respect for the fact that we have lives outside of fab would go a long way
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i think face book is dagerous. i found out my ex was cheating on me by facebook,3 years down the drain and just found out a supposed single guy from here who ive been seeing alot of and swore hes single is on facebook and is actually engaged and with a different name.hence why i dont trust or post on facebook or the likes now"
u heard about the hearts player oops former player
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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think over the years I have seen that on most profiles at one time or another:
whether family illness, bereavement, exams, work pressures, school holidays, & diva strops.
Can't think of anyone actually who hasn't  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just wonder if fab swingers is becoming more like a Facebook scene. Lots of people chatting, even going to socials ...which we do also. But.... I read so many profiles saying not meeting or we will find you..... thoughts? G x"
you have been poked
click to poke back  |
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