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How would you feel?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

If you had a partner and you found out he/she was using this site to meet with members of the same sex, would you be less hurt than if it was to meet with the opposite sex?

I think I would be more accepting as physically/sexually I couldn't compete. Is this naive?

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman over a year ago

Lanarkshire

It's a deception no matter which sex he/she was sleeping with.

I'd be hurt regardless. It's difficult for me to trust someone who has lied to me.

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By *hav02Man over a year ago

Glasgow/London

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By *hav02Man over a year ago

Glasgow/London

One of my relationship rules is complete honesty and openness. So if she was on here, then I'd want her to tell me. Then we can enjoy meets together

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you had a partner and you found out he/she was using this site to meet with members of the same sex, would you be less hurt than if it was to meet with the opposite sex?

I think I would be more accepting as physically/sexually I couldn't compete. Is this naive?

I do have a partner on this site looking for partners of the same sex.

Personally I think its awesome

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

^^^^ that waa supposed to be a smiley face

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By *yldstyleWoman over a year ago

A world of my own

Suppose the question arises if I was on here without his knowledge what right would I have to feel hurt

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"^^^^ that waa supposed to be a smiley face

Lucky bugger

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Suppose the question arises if I was on here without his knowledge what right would I have to feel hurt"

I agree with this, caught red handed

My thoughts were more if I was to find out randomly. Would I prefer my man to be meeting men and not women?

I have too much time on my hands if this is what goes through my head

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By *ilveryFoxMan over a year ago

Midlothian

"If you had a partner and you found out he/she was using this site to meet with members of the same sex, would you be less hurt than if it was to meet with the opposite sex?

I think I would be more accepting as physically/sexually I couldn't compete. Is this naive?

Cheating is cheating in my eyes, if you knew about it and accepted it then fine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a deception no matter which sex he/she was sleeping with.

I'd be hurt regardless. It's difficult for me to trust someone who has lied to me."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's still cheating,

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