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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I prefer a larger frame on both men and women.
However I can't stand the attitude I get often in messages which rip into slimmer frames in an effort to prove they're attracted to larger women.
Please boys and girls drop the "real" label when discussing shape and size  |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
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I'm a bigger girl and not overly comfortable with it so usually go for bigger men. Very slim men tend to make my insecurity worse. I also love taller and broad men so when they wrap my arms round me I feel protected. I'm not some weak feeble type when I say that. I just enjoy it. |
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"I'm a bigger girl and not overly comfortable with it so usually go for bigger men. Very slim men tend to make my insecurity worse. I also love taller and broad men so when they wrap my arms round me I feel protected. I'm not some weak feeble type when I say that. I just enjoy it. "
I know what you mean! I'm the same! |
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"I'm a bigger girl and not overly comfortable with it so usually go for bigger men. Very slim men tend to make my insecurity worse. I also love taller and broad men so when they wrap my arms round me I feel protected. I'm not some weak feeble type when I say that. I just enjoy it. "
Exactly this for me too! My Mr is 6ft 4 and ex rugby player. Best spooner ever  |
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By *igD262Man
over a year ago
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"I'm a bigger girl and not overly comfortable with it so usually go for bigger men. Very slim men tend to make my insecurity worse. I also love taller and broad men so when they wrap my arms round me I feel protected. I'm not some weak feeble type when I say that. I just enjoy it. "
hi there my lovely friend just had to say I look at your profile there and you look very sexy lady |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Personally I prefer a larger frame on both men and women.
However I can't stand the attitude I get often in messages which rip into slimmer frames in an effort to prove they're attracted to larger women.
Please boys and girls drop the "real" label when discussing shape and size "
Any kind of label is a poor show. I do agree with you on that one for sure.
We are not in any need of being classified and tagged. |
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"Personally I prefer a larger frame on both men and women.
However I can't stand the attitude I get often in messages which rip into slimmer frames in an effort to prove they're attracted to larger women.
Please boys and girls drop the "real" label when discussing shape and size "
"real" is a state of mind there are plentyunreal personalitys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not sure what is classed as a larger lady but I would probably put myself in that category.
I'm not fussed on size, but I find men with 'soft' bodies a turn off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't say I have a thing about a larger lady. In some ways that objectifies them which I'm not sure is what many want. I'd say Being large, curvy or slim has little bearing onwwhether I'll meet anyone. It's all about the connection, no that can take time to explain. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So many liars and bullshitters on this site.
No one wants fat or overly curvy. That's just the truth. But loads of guys will say they don't mind it just to get laid. They might say they like curves but there wank bank wont be full of images of fat women.
Women are the same. They don't fantasise over larger guys. I wouldn't be a hypocrite and say I did.
And as for some people who are a bit bigger making demands of there meet requirements and insisting on ripped athletic guys with loads of stamina, that's just laughable. But can be gotten away with on here as guys will fuck anything.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So many liars and bullshitters on this site.
No one wants fat or overly curvy. That's just the truth. But loads of guys will say they don't mind it just to get laid. They might say they like curves but there wank bank wont be full of images of fat women.
Women are the same. They don't fantasise over larger guys. I wouldn't be a hypocrite and say I did.
And as for some people who are a bit bigger making demands of there meet requirements and insisting on ripped athletic guys with loads of stamina, that's just laughable. But can be gotten away with on here as guys will fuck anything.
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Really?  Im genuinely sorry to read that.
Think this is may be true for some but I'd say not for most. Fab isn't a marriage contract to be entered into...its an nsa, swingers, casual sex site. I think you'll find there's far more openness by most than what you may be led to believe. |
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"So many liars and bullshitters on this site.
No one wants fat or overly curvy. That's just the truth. But loads of guys will say they don't mind it just to get laid. They might say they like curves but there wank bank wont be full of images of fat women.
Women are the same. They don't fantasise over larger guys. I wouldn't be a hypocrite and say I did.
And as for some people who are a bit bigger making demands of there meet requirements and insisting on ripped athletic guys with loads of stamina, that's just laughable. But can be gotten away with on here as guys will fuck anything.
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Then I'm a liar!
What a load of crap. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ideally I prefer women who keep themselves reasonably fit without being too skinny however "bigger" women can and do catch my eye from time to time and chat to me is really important and can be the difference between me being interested or not.
I'm genuinely more interested in someone with great chat over someone with crap chat regardless of body type.
Also guys won't shag anything and I think anyone who suggests this is very bitter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ideally I prefer women who keep themselves reasonably fit without being too skinny however "bigger" women can and do catch my eye from time to time and chat to me is really important and can be the difference between me being interested or not.
I'm genuinely more interested in someone with great chat over someone with crap chat regardless of body type.
Also guys won't shag anything and I think anyone who suggests this is very bitter."
Of course they will.
Dozens and dozens of offers to fuck every day and my profile is hidden and no one can see what I look like. But you think guys wouldnt fuck anything?
Its such bullshit. Especially guys on here saying they don't mind larger ladys. All just lies so it makes them look good on the forum. |
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"So many liars and bullshitters on this site.
No one wants fat or overly curvy. That's just the truth. But loads of guys will say they don't mind it just to get laid. They might say they like curves but there wank bank wont be full of images of fat women.
Women are the same. They don't fantasise over larger guys. I wouldn't be a hypocrite and say I did.
And as for some people who are a bit bigger making demands of there meet requirements and insisting on ripped athletic guys with loads of stamina, that's just laughable. But can be gotten away with on here as guys will fuck anything.
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no its not the truth but its your belief!
As a bigger girl I can honestly say I think Im savy enough to know if someone is meeting me just for a shag or meeting me because they geuinly like me and are attracted to me  |
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By *he ODBMan
over a year ago
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I'd rather overweight than underweight . Genuinely like curvy women up to a point. Same with gym bunny types, too thins a put off . I'd depends on how the person looks really or maybe I'm just a perv. Love the Lil tiny asses with thigh gaps just as much as the big asses that wiggle and jiggle. It's all good  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ideally I prefer women who keep themselves reasonably fit without being too skinny however "bigger" women can and do catch my eye from time to time and chat to me is really important and can be the difference between me being interested or not.
I'm genuinely more interested in someone with great chat over someone with crap chat regardless of body type.
Also guys won't shag anything and I think anyone who suggests this is very bitter.
Of course they will.
Dozens and dozens of offers to fuck every day and my profile is hidden and no one can see what I look like. But you think guys wouldnt fuck anything?
Its such bullshit. Especially guys on here saying they don't mind larger ladys. All just lies so it makes them look good on the forum. "
I've Noticed that your comments on a lot of threads could be seen as slightly rude to the point of trolling to almost ridiculous but that's my opinion and we are all allowed to have them. Me I'm not a larger lady.... I'm massive and it's not something I'm proud or ashamed of it's just who I am. I'm a confident person and have a very outgoing extrovert personality that got me meets and attention (male and female) as a single female and now with my partner and not just on this site but in the big bad l outside fab!!! His taste in females is of curvy and larger women and his porn taste shows that too. I think tarring everyone with the same brush obnoxious tbh
End of the day it's all about aesthetics someone catches your eye and the personality seals the deal. Why feel the need to judge people for that is beyond me
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ideally I prefer women who keep themselves reasonably fit without being too skinny however "bigger" women can and do catch my eye from time to time and chat to me is really important and can be the difference between me being interested or not.
I'm genuinely more interested in someone with great chat over someone with crap chat regardless of body type.
Also guys won't shag anything and I think anyone who suggests this is very bitter.
Of course they will.
Dozens and dozens of offers to fuck every day and my profile is hidden and no one can see what I look like. But you think guys wouldnt fuck anything?
Its such bullshit. Especially guys on here saying they don't mind larger ladys. All just lies so it makes them look good on the forum.
I've Noticed that your comments on a lot of threads could be seen as slightly rude to the point of trolling to almost ridiculous but that's my opinion and we are all allowed to have them. Me I'm not a larger lady.... I'm massive and it's not something I'm proud or ashamed of it's just who I am. I'm a confident person and have a very outgoing extrovert personality that got me meets and attention (male and female) as a single female and now with my partner and not just on this site but in the big bad l outside fab!!! His taste in females is of curvy and larger women and his porn taste shows that too. I think tarring everyone with the same brush obnoxious tbh
End of the day it's all about aesthetics someone catches your eye and the personality seals the deal. Why feel the need to judge people for that is beyond me
Musicmaid x"
1 similarity between men and women...judge them and most respond in a smile manner.... closed the door. |
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As a gentleman with........ahem.....a fuller figure  Im aware of being judged by some. (Doesn't bother me in the slightest)
The reality is that the human form comes in many guises. Im sure that on any given day I can find something attractive in every shape. However, the only real caveat is that if you don't have a personality then the spark won't be there for me. You could have the body of a super model but have the charisma of a stale turd.
All part of the human condition is that we dont all seek the same things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ideally I prefer women who keep themselves reasonably fit without being too skinny however "bigger" women can and do catch my eye from time to time and chat to me is really important and can be the difference between me being interested or not.
I'm genuinely more interested in someone with great chat over someone with crap chat regardless of body type.
Also guys won't shag anything and I think anyone who suggests this is very bitter.
Of course they will.
Dozens and dozens of offers to fuck every day and my profile is hidden and no one can see what I look like. But you think guys wouldnt fuck anything?
Its such bullshit. Especially guys on here saying they don't mind larger ladys. All just lies so it makes them look good on the forum. "
well I do like larger girls a woman with curves is sexy and hot, one things for sure who's the idiots messaging to fuck you with such a shit attitude not every guy would fuck anything personality goes a long way xx |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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Not all of the slimmer girls on here have always been like that. I know of several who have worked hard and lost stones.
Don't judge a book by its cover. Some may struggle to maintain their weight, others have health issues.
We all have preferences on who we play with and that's a personal choice. No one is here to be used and abused just because of the way they look. Neither are they here to have their self esteem and confidence shredded by people who hide behind hidden profiles who obviously have the perfect body.
I have wonderful Fab friends of all shapes and sizes and it's their personality and character that keeps us friends. Maybe a few other talents too
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not all of the slimmer girls on here have always been like that. I know of several who have worked hard and lost stones.
Don't judge a book by its cover. Some may struggle to maintain their weight, others have health issues.
We all have preferences on who we play with and that's a personal choice. No one is here to be used and abused just because of the way they look. Neither are they here to have their self esteem and confidence shredded by people who hide behind hidden profiles who obviously have the perfect body.
I have wonderful Fab friends of all shapes and sizes and it's their personality and character that keeps us friends. Maybe a few other talents too
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Well said that lady |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If no man wants a fat girl then why is bbw porn such a big business (excuse the pun).
But I'm glad you're able to speak for every man on Fab, and beyond.
I know the difference between someone bullshitting to get my knickers off, (which I guess is all you get) and the few men who genuinely find larger women attractive.
And I as a woman also find larger women a turn on. I like big bums and soft chubby bellies. That's what I am attracted to, and that's what my female wank bank is made of, women like Lucy Vixen. |
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"So many liars and bullshitters on this site.
No one wants fat or overly curvy. That's just the truth. But loads of guys will say they don't mind it just to get laid. They might say they like curves but there wank bank wont be full of images of fat women.
Women are the same. They don't fantasise over larger guys. I wouldn't be a hypocrite and say I did.
And as for some people who are a bit bigger making demands of there meet requirements and insisting on ripped athletic guys with loads of stamina, that's just laughable. But can be gotten away with on here as guys will fuck anything.
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im one fussy bastard and physically cant fuck someone i am not attracted to .
many can which is fair enough but your generalisation is pish . sorry |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
"So many liars and bullshitters on this site.
No one wants fat or overly curvy. That's just the truth. But loads of guys will say they don't mind it just to get laid. They might say they like curves but there wank bank wont be full of images of fat women.
Women are the same. They don't fantasise over larger guys. I wouldn't be a hypocrite and say I did.
And as for some people who are a bit bigger making demands of there meet requirements and insisting on ripped athletic guys with loads of stamina, that's just laughable. But can be gotten away with on here as guys will fuck anything.
im one fussy bastard and physically cant fuck someone i am not attracted to .
many can which is fair enough but your generalisation is pish . sorry "
I definitely need a connection too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So many liars and bullshitters on this site.
No one wants fat or overly curvy. That's just the truth. But loads of guys will say they don't mind it just to get laid. They might say they like curves but there wank bank wont be full of images of fat women.
Women are the same. They don't fantasise over larger guys. I wouldn't be a hypocrite and say I did.
And as for some people who are a bit bigger making demands of there meet requirements and insisting on ripped athletic guys with loads of stamina, that's just laughable. But can be gotten away with on here as guys will fuck anything.
im one fussy bastard and physically cant fuck someone i am not attracted to .
many can which is fair enough but your generalisation is pish . sorry
I definitely need a connection too. "
Me too and a extension if the plug is too far away only joking it's not all about the power tools lol
Musicmaid x |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
"So many liars and bullshitters on this site.
No one wants fat or overly curvy. That's just the truth. But loads of guys will say they don't mind it just to get laid. They might say they like curves but there wank bank wont be full of images of fat women.
Women are the same. They don't fantasise over larger guys. I wouldn't be a hypocrite and say I did.
And as for some people who are a bit bigger making demands of there meet requirements and insisting on ripped athletic guys with loads of stamina, that's just laughable. But can be gotten away with on here as guys will fuck anything.
im one fussy bastard and physically cant fuck someone i am not attracted to .
many can which is fair enough but your generalisation is pish . sorry
I definitely need a connection too.
Me too and a extension if the plug is too far away only joking it's not all about the power tools lol
Musicmaid x"
I'll bring the extension. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Saucer of milk for someone a few comments back. Meeeeiow. Fat or thin tall or short, if you have zero character or personality i wouldn't be interested, it's as simple as that.
And although i seldom go through prolonged periods of celibacy i can categorically say i would not shag " the crack of dawn, if i got up early enough"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer a girl with a curvier figure to one who is too thin. I don't think that has anything to do with me being a bigger guy/rugby player type (play prop) but I've just had the experience of them being both more physically attractive and also happier with a good personality. Each to their own at the end of the day. |
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I'm a big guy classed as maybe fat but I couldn't care less about height weight all that shit means nothing it's about chemistry!!! Iv been out with a few so called bigger girls and they have much more to offer in the way of personality demeanor and confidence which means far more to me than a wee stick who thinks she's all that. No ones perfect remember that |
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I have seen the term , too thin, what is too thin? I haven't seen anyone on here with what appears as an eating disorder where the lady looks like she needs help. So what are you all referring too? To let you know calling people too thin is just as bad as calling people too fat! Except they get called BBw ! Strange! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We honestly couldn't care less, each to their own.
We just wish that people would not describe themselves as "curvy" when overweight and "athletic" when not in any sort of athletic shape whatsoever! Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"6'1 and near 20 stone . think i can be classed as a larger fella "
You look kinda like Gerard Butler from the bits I can see.
I like big strong guys, rugby player type. He likes smaller girls, but its its the person not the size necessarily for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"6'1 and near 20 stone . think i can be classed as a larger fella
You look kinda like Gerard Butler from the bits I can see.
I like big strong guys, rugby player type. He likes smaller girls, but its its the person not the size necessarily for us."
Rugby player here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We honestly couldn't care less, each to their own.
We just wish that people would not describe themselves as "curvy" when overweight and "athletic" when not in any sort of athletic shape whatsoever! Lol."
There isnt anything between curvy and large though ... im definitely overweight but i dont think i have crossed into large yet (maybe i am kidding myself on  )
I think the problem with some of the eatlier comments both positive and negative are the sweeping generalisations
Absolutely there are people who will fuck anything on here ... but you cant say that about all men
Absolutely there are people who find bbw attactive ... but that doesnt mean all men who contact these women are genuinely attracted
There are people who would maybe have more generic "classicly attractive" porn (sorry cant think of a better way to word it) but that doesnt mean they are automatically a liar to say they also like bigger women - alot of the time porn is about a fantasy ... just because you watch gang bang porn wouldnt mean you are not turned on by one on one sex
Not only can different people like different things ... the same person can like different things too and like others have said there might not be an initial visual attraction to photos but at a social with proper interaction your thoughts on someone could be different ...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im a bigger woman but im not a fan of bigger guys .
Prefer rugby build or avarage guys "
I'm very much a bigger girl, but I prefer lean, or muscles on a gym bunny.I know it is sizest , but saying that it's not a deal breaker. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love to look at guys with ripped bodies, but wouldn't be comfy sleeping with one anymore cause I'm fat.
I have in the past but been very self conscious about the whole thing! Don't go with fat guys either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey just a thought. And I may seem a little biased here.
But chubby guys? A nae or yeh?
Larger girls? A nope or yip?
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I really couldnt care less what size a woman is...
Personality will always be the attraction for me
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's definitely a bias on here in favour of the larger ladies,not for me though I can be attracted to lasses that are slightly overweight if I think they have a pretty face n are secure enough to be confident in their own skin.
Being sexy is down to more than just looks.
What isn't attractive though is knocking slimmer ladies by referring to them as skinny bags of bones and all this "I'm a real woman" shite....implying that slimmer lasses somehow aren't 'real'....though I think the guys are even more guilty of that! not cool!
I think the guys that genuinely adore fuller figures will give compliments without knocking other body types......n the ones that do are just blowing smoke up your arse in the hopes of getting their hole!
I might be wrong though,that's just my take on it.
I think if you have to put down others to make you feel better about yourself it just shows how insecure you really are.
But anyway,that's me done my serious n sensible post for the day......so I can go back to being a smart arsed bawbag as usual! |
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"There's definitely a bias on here in favour of the larger ladies,not for me though I can be attracted to lasses that are slightly overweight if I think they have a pretty face n are secure enough to be confident in their own skin.
Being sexy is down to more than just looks.
What isn't attractive though is knocking slimmer ladies by referring to them as skinny bags of bones and all this "I'm a real woman" shite....implying that slimmer lasses somehow aren't 'real'....though I think the guys are even more guilty of that! not cool!
I think the guys that genuinely adore fuller figures will give compliments without knocking other body types......n the ones that do are just blowing smoke up your arse in the hopes of getting their hole!
I might be wrong though,that's just my take on it.
I think if you have to put down others to make you feel better about yourself it just shows how insecure you really are.
But anyway,that's me done my serious n sensible post for the day......so I can go back to being a smart arsed bawbag as usual! "
Well Said .. |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
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"There's definitely a bias on here in favour of the larger ladies,not for me though I can be attracted to lasses that are slightly overweight if I think they have a pretty face n are secure enough to be confident in their own skin.
Being sexy is down to more than just looks.
What isn't attractive though is knocking slimmer ladies by referring to them as skinny bags of bones and all this "I'm a real woman" shite....implying that slimmer lasses somehow aren't 'real'....though I think the guys are even more guilty of that! not cool!
I think the guys that genuinely adore fuller figures will give compliments without knocking other body types......n the ones that do are just blowing smoke up your arse in the hopes of getting their hole!
I might be wrong though,that's just my take on it.
I think if you have to put down others to make you feel better about yourself it just shows how insecure you really are.
But anyway,that's me done my serious n sensible post for the day......so I can go back to being a smart arsed bawbag as usual! "
. Well said Fanny features xx |
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"There's definitely a bias on here in favour of the larger ladies,not for me though I can be attracted to lasses that are slightly overweight if I think they have a pretty face n are secure enough to be confident in their own skin.
Being sexy is down to more than just looks.
What isn't attractive though is knocking slimmer ladies by referring to them as skinny bags of bones and all this "I'm a real woman" shite....implying that slimmer lasses somehow aren't 'real'....though I think the guys are even more guilty of that! not cool!
I think the guys that genuinely adore fuller figures will give compliments without knocking other body types......n the ones that do are just blowing smoke up your arse in the hopes of getting their hole!
I might be wrong though,that's just my take on it.
I think if you have to put down others to make you feel better about yourself it just shows how insecure you really are.
But anyway,that's me done my serious n sensible post for the day......so I can go back to being a smart arsed bawbag as usual! "
Bravo!!!!
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"There's definitely a bias on here in favour of the larger ladies,not for me though I can be attracted to lasses that are slightly overweight if I think they have a pretty face n are secure enough to be confident in their own skin.
Being sexy is down to more than just looks.
What isn't attractive though is knocking slimmer ladies by referring to them as skinny bags of bones and all this "I'm a real woman" shite....implying that slimmer lasses somehow aren't 'real'....though I think the guys are even more guilty of that! not cool!
I think the guys that genuinely adore fuller figures will give compliments without knocking other body types......n the ones that do are just blowing smoke up your arse in the hopes of getting their hole!
I might be wrong though,that's just my take on it.
I think if you have to put down others to make you feel better about yourself it just shows how insecure you really are.
But anyway,that's me done my serious n sensible post for the day......so I can go back to being a smart arsed bawbag as usual! "
Hit the nail on the head! There are so many people praising one thing by putting down another.
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"There's definitely a bias on here in favour of the larger ladies,not for me though I can be attracted to lasses that are slightly overweight if I think they have a pretty face n are secure enough to be confident in their own skin.
Being sexy is down to more than just looks.
What isn't attractive though is knocking slimmer ladies by referring to them as skinny bags of bones and all this "I'm a real woman" shite....implying that slimmer lasses somehow aren't 'real'....though I think the guys are even more guilty of that! not cool!
I think the guys that genuinely adore fuller figures will give compliments without knocking other body types......n the ones that do are just blowing smoke up your arse in the hopes of getting their hole!
I might be wrong though,that's just my take on it.
I think if you have to put down others to make you feel better about yourself it just shows how insecure you really are.
But anyway,that's me done my serious n sensible post for the day......so I can go back to being a smart arsed bawbag as usual! . Well said Fanny features xx "
Aww cheers ya mad bint
See I'm not just a crazy bastard n can actually be sensible at times......if only I could apply that sensible outlook to my own life as well as on daft Internet forums! xx |
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"I have a whole lot more to offer than any bland stick thin girly..
Please do enlighten us as to what more you have to offer... "
Am really really biting my tongue here!  |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
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"I have a whole lot more to offer than any bland stick thin girly..
Please do enlighten us as to what more you have to offer...
Am really really biting my tongue here! "
So am I... all seven stone of blandness is biting!! x |
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"I have a whole lot more to offer than any bland stick thin girly..
Please do enlighten us as to what more you have to offer...
Am really really biting my tongue here!
So am I... all seven stone of blandness is biting!! x"
I tried really hard not to say anything and now you have im so ready for this. Team skinny is ready for war |
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By (user no longer on site)
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". Ain't worth meeting.. I have a whole lot more to offer than any bland stick thin girly..
Not sure why there was the need for that comment. It doesn't come accross well."
That's true it doesn't come across well. I have no idea how to remove it .. |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
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Here goes nothing.... I'm a 7 stone bland skinny bint. Not through choice but through health problems, however I can still bring as much to the "party" as a larger lady.
However, one thing I do have is a sense of decorum and decency and would never dream of slating another person because of their weight/size, etc. You don't know a person's background or what they have gone through and to rubbish people because of their size is simply wrong!! |
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"Hey just a thought. And I may seem a little biased here.
But chubby guys? A nae or yeh?
Larger girls? A nope or yip?
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Depends on the person. Been with some magnificent 'larger' (not my choice of phrase) - and also met some fannies who are or agricultural build too who do nothing for me.
Chatted to a couple online for a few weeks before an organised social and the banter was great. Met them in person, heads so far up their own arses I needed to give them a loan of my hair to pull it back out again. Did nothing for me.
Similarly, met a girl at a party, who was fantastic. Amazing kisser and from then a few proper meets and it flowed very well - in all senses of the word.
So, really does depend on the person: personality.
Same goes for 'thin' folk too. Obviously. |
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I didn't intend on rubbishing anyone ,regarding size. For the bland comment came out not as intended. My point being was I'm just as worthwhile meeting as any skinny girl.. It was a dig at a comment about "fuck a fat girl, she's always grateful" so if I could remove comment I would . I have asked admin to remove it . |
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"I have a whole lot more to offer than any bland stick thin girly..
Please do enlighten us as to what more you have to offer...
Am really really biting my tongue here!
So am I... all seven stone of blandness is biting!! x"
Ya fat bastard x |
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"I have a whole lot more to offer than any bland stick thin girly..
Please do enlighten us as to what more you have to offer...
Am really really biting my tongue here!
So am I... all seven stone of blandness is biting!! x
Ya fat bastard x"
Who me x |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
Livingston |
"I have a whole lot more to offer than any bland stick thin girly..
Please do enlighten us as to what more you have to offer...
Am really really biting my tongue here!
So am I... all seven stone of blandness is biting!! x
Ya fat bastard xWho me x"
No, he meant me. He can't handle the fact I can do a flying harness better than he can...
Thank you for your last post btw. |
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"I didn't intend on rubbishing anyone ,regarding size. For the bland comment came out not as intended. My point being was I'm just as worthwhile meeting as any skinny girl.. It was a dig at a comment about "fuck a fat girl, she's always grateful" so if I could remove comment I would . I have asked admin to remove it ."
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"I have a whole lot more to offer than any bland stick thin girly..
Please do enlighten us as to what more you have to offer...
Am really really biting my tongue here!
So am I... all seven stone of blandness is biting!! x
I tried really hard not to say anything and now you have im so ready for this. Team skinny is ready for war "
Got yer sharp spikey heels on?! |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
Livingston |
"I have a whole lot more to offer than any bland stick thin girly..
Please do enlighten us as to what more you have to offer...
Am really really biting my tongue here!
So am I... all seven stone of blandness is biting!! x
I tried really hard not to say anything and now you have im so ready for this. Team skinny is ready for war
Got yer sharp spikey heels on?! "
War is over, give peace a chance. (wtf am I quoting John Lennon)...  |
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"I have a whole lot more to offer than any bland stick thin girly..
Please do enlighten us as to what more you have to offer...
Am really really biting my tongue here!
So am I... all seven stone of blandness is biting!! x
I tried really hard not to say anything and now you have im so ready for this. Team skinny is ready for war
Got yer sharp spikey heels on?!
War is over, give peace a chance. (wtf am I quoting John Lennon)... "
God damn,no good,Birkenstock n tye dye wearing,draft tearing,tree huggin,beatnik sucking,long hair loving HIPPEEEEEEE
Only kidding I like hippies
Peace n love y'all |
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"I have a whole lot more to offer than any bland stick thin girly..
Please do enlighten us as to what more you have to offer...
Am really really biting my tongue here!
So am I... all seven stone of blandness is biting!! x
Ya fat bastard xWho me x
No, he meant me. He can't handle the fact I can do a flying harness better than he can...
Thank you for your last post btw. "
I would love to do a flying harness, but sadly it would resemble a flying zeppelin.. |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
Livingston |
"I have a whole lot more to offer than any bland stick thin girly..
Please do enlighten us as to what more you have to offer...
Am really really biting my tongue here!
So am I... all seven stone of blandness is biting!! x
Ya fat bastard xWho me x
No, he meant me. He can't handle the fact I can do a flying harness better than he can...
Thank you for your last post btw. I would love to do a flying harness, but sadly it would resemble a flying zeppelin.."
Think it was more me wearing the harness and launching myself off the sofa.... |
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"I have a whole lot more to offer than any bland stick thin girly..
Please do enlighten us as to what more you have to offer...
Am really really biting my tongue here!
So am I... all seven stone of blandness is biting!! x
Ya fat bastard xWho me x
No, he meant me. He can't handle the fact I can do a flying harness better than he can...
Thank you for your last post btw. I would love to do a flying harness, but sadly it would resemble a flying zeppelin..
Think it was more me wearing the harness and launching myself off the sofa.... "
My maw says you're a bad influence! x |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
Livingston |
"I have a whole lot more to offer than any bland stick thin girly..
Please do enlighten us as to what more you have to offer...
Am really really biting my tongue here!
So am I... all seven stone of blandness is biting!! x
Ya fat bastard xWho me x
No, he meant me. He can't handle the fact I can do a flying harness better than he can...
Thank you for your last post btw. I would love to do a flying harness, but sadly it would resemble a flying zeppelin..
Think it was more me wearing the harness and launching myself off the sofa....
My maw says you're a bad influence! x"
I still have your mum's phone number, so can it gobby!! x |
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"I have a whole lot more to offer than any bland stick thin girly..
Please do enlighten us as to what more you have to offer...
Am really really biting my tongue here!
So am I... all seven stone of blandness is biting!! x
Ya fat bastard xWho me x
No, he meant me. He can't handle the fact I can do a flying harness better than he can...
Thank you for your last post btw. I would love to do a flying harness, but sadly it would resemble a flying zeppelin..
Think it was more me wearing the harness and launching myself off the sofa....
My maw says you're a bad influence! x
I still have your mum's phone number, so can it gobby!! x "
*Zips gobby gob!*  x |
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"That war wasnt worth me getting my helmet on for 
But im much happier being part of a love in.
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Weyheyyyy peace n lurrrrrve bunny,peace n lurrrrrve is the way forward
It's a pity the rest of the world doesn't seem to agree with our way of thinking! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We could start a revolution?
so you are revolting? (think about it)
Revolting in my pants
Yep.. it certainly is x "
It's no that bad....I turned them inside out the day before yesterday ffs |
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By *illnatMan
over a year ago
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This is probably cliche central but....
We're human.
All different shapes and sizes.
We can't choose cock size or tit size it's what we are born with.
Don't judge a book by its cover.
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"I have been an average guy ever since some fantastic oxford study says women have sex on an average 4x week. I dont think so "
I would have it at least once a day if the opprotunity arose.
Not into bigger guys myself as reminds me of sex with my ex husband. I'm fluffy but confident so do appreciate a fit man who can keep up. Mr is 6'2" with mad spooning skills and has so far resisted my efforts to fatten him up. Lol. |
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"We honestly couldn't care less, each to their own.
We just wish that people would not describe themselves as "curvy" when overweight and "athletic" when not in any sort of athletic shape whatsoever! Lol.
There isnt anything between curvy and large though ... im definitely overweight but i dont think i have crossed into large yet (maybe i am kidding myself on )
I think the problem with some of the eatlier comments both positive and negative are the sweeping generalisations
Absolutely there are people who will fuck anything on here ... but you cant say that about all men
Absolutely there are people who find bbw attactive ... but that doesnt mean all men who contact these women are genuinely attracted
There are people who would maybe have more generic "classicly attractive" porn (sorry cant think of a better way to word it) but that doesnt mean they are automatically a liar to say they also like bigger women - alot of the time porn is about a fantasy ... just because you watch gang bang porn wouldnt mean you are not turned on by one on one sex
Not only can different people like different things ... the same person can like different things too and like others have said there might not be an initial visual attraction to photos but at a social with proper interaction your thoughts on someone could be different ...
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Male here I do like larger ladies but it's personality that I go for if I can have a laugh and a joke with someone do have that connection we always say each to their own i used to goto the gym all the time but not so much now and if that's what people are in to then upto them |
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Fucking hell thats a read up there ha
Two good points made above, the lad Brucelee78 absolutely hits in on the head whilst a female account which I think it just here to troll does make an acceptable point (out of badness) in that some guys will fuck anything. This is true, some will but not all.
The problem with this thread is some are generalising people under labels.
Oh someone has mentioned Lucy Vixen, she is immense.
Fat, athletic, curvy or thin, it doesn't matter. Everyone's tastes are different. It's 2017, all shapes and sizes are acceptable but being a nasty cunt to others who are different from you isn't |
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"Fucking hell thats a read up there ha
Two good points made above, the lad Brucelee78 absolutely hits in on the head whilst a female account which I think it just here to troll does make an acceptable point (out of badness) in that some guys will fuck anything. This is true, some will but not all.
The problem with this thread is some are generalising people under labels.
Oh someone has mentioned Lucy Vixen, she is immense.
Fat, athletic, curvy or thin, it doesn't matter. Everyone's tastes are different. It's 2017, all shapes and sizes are acceptable but being a nasty cunt to others who are different from you isn't "
Well Said ...
You wont read anything better than this Today
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"Fucking hell thats a read up there ha
Two good points made above, the lad Brucelee78 absolutely hits in on the head whilst a female account which I think it just here to troll does make an acceptable point (out of badness) in that some guys will fuck anything. This is true, some will but not all.
The problem with this thread is some are generalising people under labels.
Oh someone has mentioned Lucy Vixen, she is immense.
Fat, athletic, curvy or thin, it doesn't matter. Everyone's tastes are different. It's 2017, all shapes and sizes are acceptable but being a nasty cunt to others who are different from you isn't "
spot on |
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"Fucking hell thats a read up there ha
Two good points made above, the lad Brucelee78 absolutely hits in on the head whilst a female account which I think it just here to troll does make an acceptable point (out of badness) in that some guys will fuck anything. This is true, some will but not all.
The problem with this thread is some are generalising people under labels.
Oh someone has mentioned Lucy Vixen, she is immense.
Fat, athletic, curvy or thin, it doesn't matter. Everyone's tastes are different. It's 2017, all shapes and sizes are acceptable but being a nasty cunt to others who are different from you isn't "
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"Do i come across as a troll "
This was posted by Girlinlingerie who I haven't ever spoken to, hope to God she hasn't left incase she's thought it was aimed at her as it genuinely wasn't. Iv genuinely worried about this for the past few hours
Happy easter all, stay off the chocolate you chubby gits (I swear to god that's a joke, Iv smashed through 2 M&S ones today ) |
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I saw this and im gutted I didn't say anything to reassure her not to take it personally now
Unfortunately kid it does look like she's took your comment personally |
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"I saw this and im gutted I didn't say anything to reassure her not to take it personally now
Unfortunately kid it does look like she's took your comment personally "
Exactly what I think too, can't see where she's said anything though that would make anyone think that, especially on other threads where she seems really nice.
I would just flat out name the one that's just bloody awful but admins ban you for that (previous experience oops)
Hopefully she takes a look and sees it wasn't the way she's unfortunately read it. |
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"I saw this and im gutted I didn't say anything to reassure her not to take it personally now
Unfortunately kid it does look like she's took your comment personally
Exactly what I think too, can't see where she's said anything though that would make anyone think that, especially on other threads where she seems really nice.
I would just flat out name the one that's just bloody awful but admins ban you for that (previous experience oops)
Hopefully she takes a look and sees it wasn't the way she's unfortunately read it. "
I noticed her comment too but actually thought it was in jest so feel bad now too. Just an unfortunate misinterpretation...I twigged your meaning. |
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"It's possible that she's left for a different reason altogether, and the timing is just bad in relation to this thread.
We all know who you were talking about. "
Yep, you! I was talking about you, you two seem like trouble!! (Joking, well not about the trouble bit ) |
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"It's possible that she's left for a different reason altogether, and the timing is just bad in relation to this thread.
We all know who you were talking about.
Yep, you! I was talking about you, you two seem like trouble!! (Joking, well not about the trouble bit )"
Oh, I'm definitely trouble |
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