"My ex and also mother of my child contacted me this morning offering me 1 last time, no strings attached sex.
What should I do?
The catch is, she wants to stay the night  "
how long have you been apart?
Just be careful its not a trap or you could soon have 2 children lol |
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"My ex and also mother of my child contacted me this morning offering me 1 last time, no strings attached sex.
What should I do?
The catch is, she wants to stay the night how long have you been apart?
Just be careful its not a trap or you could soon have 2 children lol"
We split October last year and have kept on terms for my kids sake
We have slept together since we split up but now for a while so this is completely out of the blue |
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"I have no idea why folk want to live out their lives through cyberland.......you are the person being asked decide yourself."
I will decide for myself!
I'm askin for advice as I'm sure there's many a man been in my position |
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"My ex and also mother of my child contacted me this morning offering me 1 last time, no strings attached sex.
What should I do?
The catch is, she wants to stay the night "
Change to a couples profile quickly and see if you can get a MFF 
Or I'd say no she's an ex for a reason . |
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"My ex and also mother of my child contacted me this morning offering me 1 last time, no strings attached sex.
What should I do?
The catch is, she wants to stay the night how long have you been apart?
Just be careful its not a trap or you could soon have 2 children lol
We split October last year and have kept on terms for my kids sake
We have slept together since we split up but now for a while so this is completely out of the blue"
well if uve already slept with her since parting im sure you will do again only you can decide  |
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"My ex and also mother of my child contacted me this morning offering me 1 last time, no strings attached sex.
What should I do?
The catch is, she wants to stay the night
Change to a couples profile quickly and see if you can get a MFF
Or I'd say no she's an ex for a reason ."
I would love her to join me on fab
I wouldn't know how to go about asking her without offending though lol |
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"My ex and also mother of my child contacted me this morning offering me 1 last time, no strings attached sex.
What should I do?
The catch is, she wants to stay the night how long have you been apart?
Just be careful its not a trap or you could soon have 2 children lol
We split October last year and have kept on terms for my kids sake
We have slept together since we split up but now for a while so this is completely out of the bluewell if uve already slept with her since parting im sure you will do again only you can decide "
It's been a while though and we are supposed to be moving on |
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"To be blunt, I'm sure there's good reason you both split up... If that reasoning still stands, then stay separate.... Otherwise you should get back together  "
I don't want to be with her and I'm not sure how her feelings stand......... But the sex is great and I'm a weak man lol |
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Is a quick leg over with her worth the potential drama and additional child maintenance if she fell pregnant ??
Personally I'd steer well clear of the situation as prefer a stress free life . Be there as a father to your child but draw a firm line in the sand between you and your EX .Time to think with the big brain . |
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"Is a quick leg over with her worth the potential drama and additional child maintenance if she fell pregnant ??
Personally I'd steer well clear of the situation as prefer a stress free life . Be there as a father to your child but draw a firm line in the sand between you and your EX .Time to think with the big brain ."
What your saying is exactly what I've been thinkin all afternoon.
Although my little brain keeps telling me to wrap up then get her to fuck lol |
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Woah.
Woman's sneaky tricks alert.
She probably Deffo wants to get back with you... i can just imagine her laid there after "oh isn't it a shame it's the last time ever... hold me...."
Just go round and ask her what it's all about first.
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Iv been lookin at all your advice, some mixed reactions from the blokes but all the ladies seem to agree on stayin away.
Nobody knows a female better than a female so on that evidence I will be having a wank  |
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I would just say yous need to be carefull. Hookinh up after splitting up normally ends up with one person getting g attached again and arguments happening because yous both want different things. If there's kids then you don't want her becoming mad and not letting you see them |
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"I would just say yous need to be carefull. Hookinh up after splitting up normally ends up with one person getting g attached again and arguments happening because yous both want different things. If there's kids then you don't want her becoming mad and not letting you see them"
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"Iv been lookin at all your advice, some mixed reactions from the blokes but all the ladies seem to agree on stayin away.
Nobody knows a female better than a female so on that evidence I will be having a wank "
You really shouldn't need to have it pointed out to you tbh |
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"Iv been lookin at all your advice, some mixed reactions from the blokes but all the ladies seem to agree on stayin away.
Nobody knows a female better than a female so on that evidence I will be having a wank
You really shouldn't need to have it pointed out to you tbh"
As I stated before, I'm a weak man |
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Pm me her number I'll meet her and explain to her, how you can't keep meeting her, am sure she will understand. Hehe and if she is a good girl I'll see she is well looked after too.  |
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An ex is an ex for a reason. I personally think she's not moving on if she's allowing you to have sex with her and all that becomes is jail bait when you meet someone and she gets jealous and she messages your new bow with the juicy gossip. Seen it many times and it always ends in disaster. I'd say politely message back and decline and explain a friendship with her is more important than sex as kids are involved x |
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"Have a wank and make sure you are thinking with a clear head.
I'd say no and im sure aftrr you deal with yourself, you'll think the same!"
I would say this is probably the most brutally honest and well put answer ! |
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stay away, stay well away. ive been burned with an ex due to the sex being that good, just got even messier
as good as it was, its always better in your head |
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"Pump her.dump her and get her a taxi after she's made your supper lol"
yeh, and listen to her shout R*PE with the evidence inside her
either make up and get back together, or break up permanent
there are kids on the sideline. |
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"Pump her.dump her and get her a taxi after she's made your supper lol
yeh, and listen to her shout R*PE with the evidence inside her
either make up and get back together, or break up permanent
there are kids on the sideline. "
What evidence ??there's also a whole thread dedicated to this poor mans dilemma |
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"My ex and also mother of my child contacted me this morning offering me 1 last time, no strings attached sex.
What should I do?
The catch is, she wants to stay the night "
that's fkd up...Wiiiiiide berth |
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Although my little brain keeps telling me to wrap up then get her to fuck lol"
Given you said you managed to be on good terms up til now for the sake of the kid you already have I think this is the worst comment on the full thread and it was made by the OP .
You already know you cant "get her to fuck" you have a kid together this is something you cant just walk away from
Why would you risk that good relationship you have now and the stable environment it provides for your child just to get your end away ... seriously disappointing |
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"Have a wank and make sure you are thinking with a clear head.
I'd say no and im sure aftrr you deal with yourself, you'll think the same!
I would say this is probably the most brutally honest and well put answer !"
Haha cheers buddy |
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If you've any intention of getting back together, then fine. If not, then leave well alone, or it will come back to bite you in the ass. Remember, you have a kid and if you fuck your ex about, then ..... |
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She came to mine at 6pm
We got our kid settled in his bed for the night then we fucked on the couch for the rest of the night.
We also fucked this morning and she left at 9am.
She has been textin me most of the with a kind of pals act on the go |
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"She came to mine at 6pm
We got our kid settled in his bed for the night then we fucked on the couch for the rest of the night.
We also fucked this morning and she left at 9am.
She has been textin me most of the with a kind of pals act on the go"
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"She came to mine at 6pm
We got our kid settled in his bed for the night then we fucked on the couch for the rest of the night.
We also fucked this morning and she left at 9am.
She has been textin me most of the with a kind of pals act on the go
Temptation was too much for me
(sigh) "
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"Why do people bother asking for advice when they have already picked the stupid option?
Is it to try validate their actions? "
I was asking for advice because I had full intentions of taking all advice on board, which I did.
I had no intensions of entertaining my ex last night until I received a couple intreguing texts from her |
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Put it this way, if you want to put her right off just show her this post.
She'll call you all the twats under the sun and never trouble you for sex again....
Strap on a pair |
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"Why do people bother asking for advice when they have already picked the stupid option?
Is it to try validate their actions?
I was asking for advice because I had full intentions of taking all advice on board, which I did.
I had no intensions of entertaining my ex last night until I received a couple intreguing texts from her "
90% of the advice said dont touch it with a barge pole and you did thr opposite ... makes no difference to our lives your only kidding yourself on
Lets hope you are more mature about the aftermath than the "intriguing texts" for your kids sake |
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"I'm stuck what to do.
Sex with her is amazing but I can't help thinking there's an evil twist to her plan lol"
she's a big girl, she asked you for sex . Go bang her senseless but I'd either double bag or jump off at the bridge. Just in case |
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"She came to mine at 6pm
We got our kid settled in his bed for the night then we fucked on the couch for the rest of the night.
We also fucked this morning and she left at 9am.
She has been textin me most of the with a kind of pals act on the go"
cue the oops ...our kids getting a wee brother/sister soon
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So the point of this thread was what, bragging? Tbh all you've really achieved here is to add yourself to people's no list.
But as long as you got your end away who cares about the consequences, right?
Next time perhaps just keep these things to yourself. |
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