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Swinging site or bitch fest?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Been quite a few posts recently slagging people off or reporting they have been slagged off publicly.
How about we all just remember why we are here? To have fun.
You wont like everyone. Everyone wont like you. Just be polite and move on.
Anyway who has naughty plans this weekend?
Lets lighten the tone a bit xx |
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"Been quite a few posts recently slagging people off or reporting they have been slagged off publicly.
How about we all just remember why we are here? To have fun.
You wont like everyone. Everyone wont like you. Just be polite and move on.
Anyway who has naughty plans this weekend?
Lets lighten the tone a bit xx"
I am afraid to say that not everyone is on here to have fun/for fun!
But hey ho!
I am! 
And it's a mega footy duty weekend for me. I moan but I secretly love it lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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With the arguing, you just shake your head and learn who to avoid but still a good read loll
Always here fur Chat, Banter, Laughs and heaven forbids - Naughty Fun
woohoooo partyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
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Yes it gets rather tiresome. I find when the forum starts getting too bitchy I just avoid it for a few days.
I'm heading to a ladies night on Saturday and a couple of socials over the weekend that will hopefully restore my faith in single guys! Too many timewasters recently  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"With the arguing, you just shake your head and learn who to avoid but still a good read loll
Always here fur Chat, Banter, Laughs and heaven forbids - Naughty Fun
woohoooo partyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
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Actually when you think about some of the crap on here with the arguing and also the people who are timewasters, assholes and egits it is actually good to meet a couple of people from fab at a wee social just to chill and have a right good laugh
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's all good keep the banter flowing "
Agreed. Banter is great. Slating some people have been getting/dishing out isnt.
As much as this is swinging and we are all pretty open minded. We are still people. Treat others how you would expect to be treated yourself  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Treat others how you would expect to be treated yourself "
Agreed, except when it comes to ANAL
Honest, Just cause I love it doesn't mean I'm gonna receive it as well, (treating the same way, ouff)
not sure if that was part of the post but feck it
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By (user no longer on site)
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The ones that cause the drama soon find themselves out of favour with the rest of the swinging community.
In the short time I've been around I've came across a few, best give them swerve and let them get on with shooting themselves in the foot.
Got a night away this sat and a visit from a old flame |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The ones that cause the drama soon find themselves out of favour with the rest of the swinging community.
In the short time I've been around I've came across a few, best give them swerve and let them get on with shooting themselves in the foot.
Got a night away this sat and a visit from a old flame "
That is so true !
there have been a few couples and single guys and single girls that I know a lot of people avoid because of their antics on here
so sad and its all their own fault showing their true colours |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" Treat others how you would expect to be treated yourself
Agreed, except when it comes to ANAL
Honest, Just cause I love it doesn't mean I'm gonna receive it as well, (treating the same way, ouff)
not sure if that was part of the post but feck it
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How do you know if you have never tried |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Treat others how you would expect to be treated yourself
Agreed, except when it comes to ANAL
Honest, Just cause I love it doesn't mean I'm gonna receive it as well, (treating the same way, ouff)
not sure if that was part of the post but feck it
How do you know if you have never tried "
Hey been There, Done That, Worn The T-Shirt until it became my pyjama top
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I totally agree. I have had a few bitchy remarks and knockbacks from members on here..A few comments which were personal and commented on my pictures in a negative hurtful way. It has now made me very wary of getting involved in groups/socials etc sadly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Been on fab for the best part of a decade, as both a genuine couple and a genuine single guy.
As a mature single guy I can feel like a pariah at times but some of the nonsense directed at my ex made me understand why that might be.
There are Eejits everywhere, not just on fab or online. |
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"Yeah and all totally unnecessary. All of the bitchiness has been from people I have never even met! "
Don't worry about it Tracey! I think a few people have got the t-shirt too in their Fab wardrobe! I just roll my eyes and let them to it, I have left the playground a long time ago! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah and all totally unnecessary. All of the bitchiness has been from people I have never even met!
Don't worry about it Tracey! I think a few people have got the t-shirt too in their Fab wardrobe! I just roll my eyes and let them to it, I have left the playground a long time ago!"
Well you are probably right. I was a bit taken aback by it and offended by a few of the personal remarks which came out of the blue! I don't dwell on it much now. I am actually very easy to chat to in my other life!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I just laugh about it all now I'm used to it tired off it think we forget this is a fantasy world not real life and love it when people block you without even messaging or talking to them just makes me the better person too be honest it's all ment to be fun and laughs on here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I just laugh about it all now I'm used to it tired off it think we forget this is a fantasy world not real life and love it when people block you without even messaging or talking to them just makes me the better person too be honest it's all ment to be fun and laughs on here "
Shug. This was partly for you. I hate all that crap. Genuinely good people just out to have fun and dicks tryimg to stop it.
Good guys like yourself end up getting a bad name.
Get up to the club when we are there next bud. Queen wants a dp |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just laugh about it all now I'm used to it tired off it think we forget this is a fantasy world not real life and love it when people block you without even messaging or talking to them just makes me the better person too be honest it's all ment to be fun and laughs on here
Shug. This was partly for you. I hate all that crap. Genuinely good people just out to have fun and dicks tryimg to stop it.
Good guys like yourself end up getting a bad name.
Get up to the club when we are there next bud. Queen wants a dp "
I will definitely get up as soon as mate and thank you for all of my friends support, yous 2 are absolutely one of the most genuine and amazing couples I have had the pleasure of meeting. hopefully will be up in the next few weeks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just laugh about it all now I'm used to it tired off it think we forget this is a fantasy world not real life and love it when people block you without even messaging or talking to them just makes me the better person too be honest it's all ment to be fun and laughs on here "
Have had that too. I normally block them too though and just move on. I accept that people can block for a wide variety of reasons so don't look into it tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I find you get a slapped wrist for the smallest offence: IE offering an opinion and it's all a bit sad and predictable really ....
Hence I'm less likely to offer my opinion.
But that's just my opinion... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This does seem to be the place for instance dislikes turning into slanging matches turning into full blown vendettas that end up in forum carnage. Very sad really.
Then there are those with huge persecution complexes who think it's "all about them" when it truly isn't and opinions are merely being expressed.
Glad I'm so stable...and normal.   
(I heard that at the back...You!!!!!)
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just laugh about it all now I'm used to it tired off it think we forget this is a fantasy world not real life and love it when people block you without even messaging or talking to them just makes me the better person too be honest it's all ment to be fun and laughs on here
Have had that too. I normally block them too though and just move on. I accept that people can block for a wide variety of reasons so don't look into it tbh"
yeah totally I never look in to it been blocked with a few people even on this forum but hey there lose not mine |
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"I just laugh about it all now I'm used to it tired off it think we forget this is a fantasy world not real life and love it when people block you without even messaging or talking to them just makes me the better person too be honest it's all ment to be fun and laughs on here
Have had that too. I normally block them too though and just move on. I accept that people can block for a wide variety of reasons so don't look into it tbhyeah totally I never look in to it been blocked with a few people even on this forum but hey there lose not mine "
Been blocked by people I have never chatted to or met! I don't even think or see it as their loss!
I see it as their prerogative. Doesn't change who I am, I still have nothing against them!
It's life, you can't have everyone in your pocket |
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"I find you get a slapped wrist for the smallest offence: IE offering an opinion and it's all a bit sad and predictable really ....
Hence I'm less likely to offer my opinion.
But that's just my opinion... "
Don't let a wee slap on the wrist stop you!
Many forget that a 'Forum' is a medium where ideas and various _iews on a particular issue can be exchanged.
Lives and forums would be boring if we were all in agreement!
Saying that, one does not need to be rude to give an opinion!
My opinion anyway |
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Or at least frowned upon 
