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By *eah OP Woman
over a year ago
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Hey everyone.... I play occasionally on here (hubby doesn't know and I have my reasons why so I'm not here to get verbally assassinated ok) but I'm curious as to how couples get into swinging, how do you broach it etc or did you meet as swingers already ? I don't mean to be nosey and it is for genuine reasons I ask xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The way I look at it each to there own no one on here has a right to judge anyone else life's about living and having fun enjoy and do what ever makes you happy x |
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My first relationship was with a woman but I also fancied men... Fast forward a couple of years I moved to Helensburgh for a summer job and had my first 3some with a girl I worked with and her husband, I was about 19.
My next relationship was with mr prude so had a few vanilla years then ended up in a relationship where we were actively swinging can't really remember how we started.
When hubby and I first got together he knew I was bi and we sort of skirted around the subject until a friend of mine told me about fab, I mentioned it to John n we made an account, that was 5/6 years ago
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We were together for a long time and with only each other, then into the usual pre sex dirty talk he slipped in a comment about how he'd love to see me with another guy. I jokingly said "suits me" as I wasn't sure he was serious. Turns out he was and here we are, lucky me  |
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We were at it outdoors and someone walked by, neither of us stopped and just kept going for it. The guy kept hanging around watching and ended up about 20 yards away wanking behind a tree. it clearly turned us both on but neither of us had the courage to say anything. After a few awkward days of us both thinking should We approach the subject or pretend it didn't happen he eventually asked and we looked into the nearest dogging spot and went along. Been hooked since and things have progressed further and further |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We met in a swingers clubs. Never expected to fall in love but we did. Neither of us wanted to stop swinging or playing so we actively do it as a couple. X |
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We met through our hobby. She had fantasies of bdsm, sex with more than one person and with women. She signed us up 2 days after she turned 18. That's 23 months ago. I had little in the way of objections. I had had sex with a previous girlfriend infront of strangers and in a club. |
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We started seeing each other 5 years ago. I was quite vanilla and inexperienced, he'd had loads of experience. He took me dogging, we joined Fab then we went to the Aberdeen club, and haven't looked back since |
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"I sometimes sit and think I wonder what hubby would think if I ever suggested it to him lol .. I know what the answer would be though  "
Tell him you had a dream about him having sex with another woman and it was really hot, judge his reaction to that and maybe take it from their? Just trying to think what I would do in your situation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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With us it came from an argument we were having due to a friend I worked with shit stirring.
During the argument Mrs blurted out "why didn't you just ask me a threesome, I've always wanted to sleep with a girl". Turns out said shit stirrer said I was in a bad mood with her because I couldn't get a mff which never happened.
Took best part of ten years and a few failed attempts but after our first mff the girl we were with told us about cjs so we decided to give it a try, we both enjoyed it and decided from there to take things further. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I sometimes sit and think I wonder what hubby would think if I ever suggested it to him lol .. I know what the answer would be though "
You don't know until you ask.
I suggested it one night while we were both under the influence. It was mentioned another few times, again alcohol related, but then we spoke about it properly and in depth while under no influence and decided to give it a go.
I honestly never thought he'd go for it, but he's actually taken to it easier than I have x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Started for us with mrs on a night out.She pulled a guy didnt get home till after 4 am.When i quizzed her she admitted she had met a guy and gone with him.Although angry i was very turned on and fucked her hard.Next morning we fucked again and i asked her to describe what she done its sinxe grown to swinging and both of us having fb's. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We spoke about our fantasy 1 night and within a week we had joined a site lol
Took us a few months of chatting to folk on it before we actually met tho
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"I sometimes sit and think I wonder what hubby would think if I ever suggested it to him lol .. I know what the answer would be though
Tell him you had a dream about him having sex with another woman and it was really hot, judge his reaction to that and maybe take it from their? Just trying to think what I would do in your situation. "
This is a good suggestion.
My friend has always been interested in trying what C and I do, but her husband wouldn't be interested. She is his fantasy, and he married her so he has all he wants, which in a way is quite sweet |
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We met on a kink website, my girl wanted to be blindfolded and gang banged. I offered to chaperone, watch out for her, ensure everyone used protection and responded to her safe word should she use it.
We met a few times, became play partners and soon fell in love.
Thw gang bang hasn't happened yet though x |
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"I sometimes sit and think I wonder what hubby would think if I ever suggested it to him lol .. I know what the answer would be though "
a resounding no? which is pretty much what my wife said when i suggest anything that would involve other people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've just got in touch with a girl i was at school with, she just moved back up here. She was chatting to me telling me that she was very naughty and that i'd be shocked by her etc and that she was bi, little does she know about me on fab, she even asked if i'd be too scared to have 3sums with her. Anticipate she might want to start a couples profile if we start a relationship. |
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OP, brave post.
You have your reasons, and we all do, I'm not here to bash.
If your hubby did suddenly want more, is that what you would really want, or are you happy keeping 'vanilla' home life separate from the exciting world of Fab?
I'm assuming a lot here, so apologies if I'm reading this wrong.
I'd PM you, but outside your filters.
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"I sometimes sit and think I wonder what hubby would think if I ever suggested it to him lol .. I know what the answer would be though "
It's fair to say am sure Mr S thought the same before he broached the topic four years ago with me. We have had some fun times since. You never know what someone's reaction to something is going to be until you start talking.
Good luck whatever you decide
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I sometimes sit and think I wonder what hubby would think if I ever suggested it to him lol .. I know what the answer would be though
Tell him you had a dream about him having sex with another woman and it was really hot, judge his reaction to that and maybe take it from their? Just trying to think what I would do in your situation.
This is a good suggestion.
My friend has always been interested in trying what C and I do, but her husband wouldn't be interested. She is his fantasy, and he married her so he has all he wants, which in a way is quite sweet "
Awwww that's soooo sweet. X |
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We met on fab while both married too different people, he was on site with his ex wife I was on my own (while hubby in relationship with his xbox).
Had a few meets and decided too take the jump, nearly 3years later still going strong!
Life's too short too be with people who don't make you happy.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well because Mrs is a BBW she didn't think anyone else would find her attractive. I managed to talk her into letting me take some pics of her and let me create a profile on another website, although it wasn't a swingers website.
I started reading the compliments she was receiving from guys and couples. I then asked if she had ever thought of swinging or having a 3sum. She said she had and then asked her if she'd give it a go. We have now been on and off since 2010. |
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Really interesting comments,we have spoke about it but wife is not happy with me having sex with another female,where I think watching her with another man would be great,so on here without he knowledge as I'm looking for some nsa fun,no drama or hassle |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My Wife as she was then, got me a 40th birthday present of another girl in our bed, it was an amazing night, and the first I knew of my ex ever being bi, but I loved it, and from then on we experimented more and more. Big shame we are not together anymore, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I sometimes sit and think I wonder what hubby would think if I ever suggested it to him lol .. I know what the answer would be though "
Shame I am out of your age range as I would love to chat with you, if you care to chat, please mail me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The way I look at it each to there own no one on here has a right to judge anyone else life's about living and having fun enjoy and do what ever makes you happy x "
Absolutely ridiculous, everyone has right to judge and have an opinion, maybe not air it on social media though.
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By (user no longer on site)
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We both met in cjs 4 years ago... got together and made a profile strictly to keep up with social side while we developed our relationship.. its only been since last summer that we felt it was time to include others, having the chat was very easy as both met through the lifestyle.
If had been ex husband i wouldnt be here to tell the tale lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always wondered about my ex, think she would have been up for it but i didn't know what to say to get the subject in the open.
She used to love sucking my finger while she rode me and occassionally I'd use a buttons plug on her arse while i fucked her pussy. Not sure how I'd feel seeing someone I'm in a relationship with sucking another mans cock or being fucked though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We met through Fab also we play only as couple we go Cjs when we can but meet up through week work allowing us everyone has a story and no-one should judge anyone end of day we all here for same thing and we all have things we don't share all consenting adults |
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I told him I was Bi, he said he liked that... We had some FF fun with him watching, and nothing more. We had more FF fun with him being involved, I liked seeing him with a woman... He said he'd be turned on by watching me with another guy, and boom! #Swingers!  |
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