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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hard work ? Not really , humphing heavy things about all day is hard work .
The way i see it , first impressions are important whether its with a message or face to face . Some find clubs/bars 'easier' with body language , smiles , expressions etc . Others might not be as confident in that environment so being able to communicate without being nervous or tongue tied is 'easier' for them .
Personally i think its not so different , if your dull or unimaginative or just plain crude its not likely to be endearing , after all we all just like to add some fun to our lives dont we ?
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I guess the fact alcohol is less like to come in to play here where as at a club or pub people are drinking and having a fun time which in line drops any ihabitions and makes people do things they wouldnt normaly do ie take people home for random shags .
Most women and couples (not all )are here looking for frindship with people they can become swingers with too where as most(not all)men are just looking for a shag nothing more nothing less so totaly diffrent from a club/pub enviroment . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Did you expect it to be easy because it is a swingers site.
You get out what you put in and can be worth it in the end."
'You get out what you put in' pardon the pun lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Used to be a member of another site for years and if anywhere in what you had on in your profile or said in chat gave off the impression you were dissilusioned with the scene or the site,it automatically put folks off.
The forums are peppered with "why is it" "why cant i", "what do you have to do" and credit to all who take the time out to offer up little pointers,its what makes this site fab. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Interesting stuff. Just shows how careful you need to be with text. It is so easily misinterpreted
Just for a bit more Sunday fun (and please don't be offended)
How many people here met (better not say pulled) in a club or bar  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hard work ? Not really , humphing heavy things about all day is hard work .
The way i see it , first impressions are important whether its with a message or face to face . Some find clubs/bars 'easier' with body language , smiles , expressions etc . Others might not be as confident in that environment so being able to communicate without being nervous or tongue tied is 'easier' for them .
Personally i think its not so different , if your dull or unimaginative or just plain crude its not likely to be endearing , after all we all just like to add some fun to our lives dont we ?
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spot on |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Going to make this my last post.
I do take my time to read profiles and write interesting messages ( well u think so )
But it's amazing how often people delete or appear to ignore when a simple no thanks or no Ta ( even less typing ha ha ) would do
Anyway off to see if Andy m is on yet
Have safe fun one and all
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