"Should I name and shame them or keep them to myself and it's all females that have been wasting my time. They say they are going to meet then they go off the site for a few days. "
You can't name and shame!
Depends what you call wasting your time.
They say they are going to meet?? Or you made firm arrangements about meeting?
May be something in real life turned up?
May be they are put off by your couples profile that is not a 'couples' profile but a single female one?
Could be lots of things!
Frustrating but roll your eyes and move on!
May be turning your profile as a single female one might help.
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
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People change their minds. Real life happens and takes priority.
People are not obliged to explain themselves to strangers on the internet.
Being here does not give some entitlement to anything.
I often wonder if the people that post about "timewasters" are actually the cause of their problem.
Perhaps the other party felt they couldn't just say they changed their mind so it was easier to vanish?
I've chatted to people and then they change - as their expectations increased so did their person. I've not liked it and told them so and blocked.
That doesn't make me in the wrong.
Why would anyone on here take a path they aren't comfortable with?
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"People change their minds. Real life happens and takes priority.
People are not obliged to explain themselves to strangers on the internet.
Being here does not give some entitlement to anything.
I often wonder if the people that post about "timewasters" are actually the cause of their problem.
Perhaps the other party felt they couldn't just say they changed their mind so it was easier to vanish?
I've chatted to people and then they change - as their expectations increased so did their person. I've not liked it and told them so and blocked.
That doesn't make me in the wrong.
Why would anyone on here take a path they aren't comfortable with?
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all of this though mainly what is a timewaster for some it appears to be he/she is on a swingers site but aint shagged me timewaster. For myself never had my time wasted but my definition is a solid planned meet in place they dont or didnt show with no contact why they havent shown |
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Unless I've made a solid arrangement to meet and I turn up to nobody and no message of apology I will try to contact, if still no reply then my time was wasted and I move on
Hasn't happened on here in 10 years .....YET |
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I have to agree with Nawty Max.
In my opinion there are far too many of these half arsed couples profiles that are vague in the extreme.
If you are here as a couple wtf are his details??
Setting yourself up for a fall and having a good moan doesn't change that.
Good to see that it's not single men mucking you about though  |
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"Should I name and shame them or keep them to myself and it's all females that have been wasting my time. They say they are going to meet then they go off the site for a few days. "
How dare these ladies have real lives!! Surely they should be there to service the OP whenever he wants. Get a grip fella and don't name and shame. Just makes you look extremely bitter. |
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"Should I name and shame them or keep them to myself and it's all females that have been wasting my time. They say they are going to meet then they go off the site for a few days.
How dare these ladies have real lives!! Surely they should be there to service the OP whenever he wants. Get a grip fella and don't name and shame. Just makes you look extremely bitter."
Strawbs... The OP is a single female with a couple's profile  |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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You're a single girl, on a couples profile, but there's no info on the male half??
You say that you're not interested in guys, but your only shown veri is from.......a guy??!!
Is it any wonder that you're coming across what you describe as 'timewasters'!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Should I name and shame them or keep them to myself and it's all females that have been wasting my time. They say they are going to meet then they go off the site for a few days.
How dare these ladies have real lives!! Surely they should be there to service the OP whenever he wants. Get a grip fella and don't name and shame. Just makes you look extremely bitter.
Strawbs... The OP is a single female with a couple's profile "
Pmsl. That will teach me to not read OP's properly. Assumed it was a single male complaining. ...then again |
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We have not long joined fab again after a long lay off and have been taking it slow talking to some couples. The last night one of the couples asked to swap face pics, which we agreed to as they seemed genuine and we'd been messaging back and fourth for a few days. They sent first and it was a pic we recognised from a couple from our old account of a couple who were supposedly from a diffrent location and a younger age. We then asked them if they used to have a diffrent profile from a diffrent area and they replied " not sure". The amount of fakes on fab is terrible there is a whole Internet of porn out there and they choose to spend time trying to collect pics on fab.
Sorry for the rant, we are nice people honest  |
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I have never really got all this frustration and angst about so called "timewasters". If it turns out someone doesn't really want to meet or real life makes it impossible I could never be so far up my own bum as to not accept it.
As far as I know fab doesn't come with contractual obligations. Just jog along and find someone who will meet and if it happens repeatedly that you're let down, look at the type of people you chat to.
This attitude of "How bloody dare they.." gets my goat.  |
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"I have never really got all this frustration and angst about so called "timewasters". If it turns out someone doesn't really want to meet or real life makes it impossible I could never be so far up my own bum as to not accept it.
As far as I know fab doesn't come with contractual obligations. Just jog along and find someone who will meet and if it happens repeatedly that you're let down, look at the type of people you chat to.
This attitude of "How bloody dare they.." gets my goat. "
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By *yldstyleWoman
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"I have never really got all this frustration and angst about so called "timewasters". If it turns out someone doesn't really want to meet or real life makes it impossible I could never be so far up my own bum as to not accept it.
As far as I know fab doesn't come with contractual obligations. Just jog along and find someone who will meet and if it happens repeatedly that you're let down, look at the type of people you chat to.
This attitude of "How bloody dare they.." gets my goat. "
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