Most definitely not alone.
A 10 males to 1 female ratio was mentioned to me, and don't know where couples fit in that!
Attending social's key I'm told, although they often over subscribed with single male's! |
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"Most definitely not alone.
A 10 males to 1 female ratio was mentioned to me, and don't know where couples fit in that!
Attending social's key I'm told, although they often over subscribed with single male's!"
PS..it's the varifcation's you would get from social,that helps! |
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"Finding it hard to meet/chat or find someone interested in Aberdeen
What more could I be doing
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Are you offering to take people on a tour of the city?  |
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"Finding it hard to meet/chat or find someone interested in Aberdeen
What more could I be doing
Are you offering to take people on a tour of the city? "
What do you mean by that haha
I'm struggling to find people who want to chat/meet for social or want fun so I'm no help |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"Most definitely not alone.
A 10 males to 1 female ratio was mentioned to me, and don't know where couples fit in that!
Attending social's key I'm told, although they often over subscribed with single male's!
PS..it's the varifcation's you would get from social,that helps!"
It's not just the veris from a social...it's actually meeting people at the social from the area and chatting with them face to face. It makes it easier to make friends and to get to know people  |
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I have found Aberdeen/shire a very difficult place to her meets, had 1 in the years I have been here, Dundee and further south is a bit easier think they are more open minded further south you head |
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There are men in Aberdeen who do well for meets and many that don't. Those who do aren't exactly six packed adonis like..it's often how you approach it. Attitudes and expectations need to be adjusted.
Quite often men (and not just local ones) forego reading profiles so waste their time messaging people they'll never get a meet with. Therefore increasing the amounts of rejections.
Aberdeen is a village, and it's true that in bigger cities there are a higher ratio of swingers which increases your chances of meeting.
And I agree that attending socials is a great place to start. Personally I know a local man who attended the one last October and within a month after met 3 local women for fun! |
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"There are men in Aberdeen who do well for meets and many that don't. Those who do aren't exactly six packed adonis like..it's often how you approach it. Attitudes and expectations need to be adjusted.
Quite often men (and not just local ones) forego reading profiles so waste their time messaging people they'll never get a meet with. Therefore increasing the amounts of rejections.
Aberdeen is a village, and it's true that in bigger cities there are a higher ratio of swingers which increases your chances of meeting.
And I agree that attending socials is a great place to start. Personally I know a local man who attended the one last October and within a month after met 3 local women for fun!"
Totally agree. Particularly with Aberdeen basically being a village, as were so small, think there's almost like a fear lol due to everyone knowing everyone in some form or another (be it work, school days, social circle etc). And just the sheer numbers, just do a search guys out number females by a mile. Not moaning just an observation. |
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I never had a problem meeting in Aberdeen, when I was meeting. In fact, it was probly one of my happiest 'hunting grounds'!! 
However, it has one distinction, it was the place where I had my one and only 'no show'!  |
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Have to say that Aberdeen was a very good place for me in my younger days for finding meets in a vanilla setting
Both when i lived in Cruden Bay and then travelling up and down from Glasgow to go offshore
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"There are men in Aberdeen who do well for meets and many that don't. Those who do aren't exactly six packed adonis like..it's often how you approach it. Attitudes and expectations need to be adjusted.
Quite often men (and not just local ones) forego reading profiles so waste their time messaging people they'll never get a meet with. Therefore increasing the amounts of rejections.
Aberdeen is a village, and it's true that in bigger cities there are a higher ratio of swingers which increases your chances of meeting.
And I agree that attending socials is a great place to start. Personally I know a local man who attended the one last October and within a month after met 3 local women for fun!"
So any plans for another social anytime soon? |
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"There are men in Aberdeen who do well for meets and many that don't. Those who do aren't exactly six packed adonis like..it's often how you approach it. Attitudes and expectations need to be adjusted.
Quite often men (and not just local ones) forego reading profiles so waste their time messaging people they'll never get a meet with. Therefore increasing the amounts of rejections.
Aberdeen is a village, and it's true that in bigger cities there are a higher ratio of swingers which increases your chances of meeting.
And I agree that attending socials is a great place to start. Personally I know a local man who attended the one last October and within a month after met 3 local women for fun!So any plans for another social anytime soon?"
Not at the moment, I'm too busy to organise anything myself at the moment.
But that's not to say someone else can't organise one, it's pretty simple to do.
We really need a couple of people organising regular ones just as there is down south |
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"I never had a problem meeting in Aberdeen, when I was meeting. In fact, it was probly one of my happiest 'hunting grounds'!!
However, it has one distinction, it was the place where I had my one and only 'no show'! "
It's Aiberdeen Bothy, no the Serengeti!!  |
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"I never had a problem meeting in Aberdeen, when I was meeting. In fact, it was probly one of my happiest 'hunting grounds'!!
However, it has one distinction, it was the place where I had my one and only 'no show'!
It's Aiberdeen Bothy, no the Serengeti!! "
Can just imagine him in safari suit stalking his prey |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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"I never had a problem meeting in Aberdeen, when I was meeting. In fact, it was probly one of my happiest 'hunting grounds'!!
However, it has one distinction, it was the place where I had my one and only 'no show'!
It's Aiberdeen Bothy, no the Serengeti!!
Can just imagine him in safari suit stalking his prey "
Oh very droll you pair, is it laugh at Bothy night???  |
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"I never had a problem meeting in Aberdeen, when I was meeting. In fact, it was probly one of my happiest 'hunting grounds'!!
However, it has one distinction, it was the place where I had my one and only 'no show'!
It's Aiberdeen Bothy, no the Serengeti!!
Can just imagine him in safari suit stalking his prey "
Brown knee length socks...sandals.. handlebar moustache and a monocle |
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"I never had a problem meeting in Aberdeen, when I was meeting. In fact, it was probly one of my happiest 'hunting grounds'!!
However, it has one distinction, it was the place where I had my one and only 'no show'!
It's Aiberdeen Bothy, no the Serengeti!!
Can just imagine him in safari suit stalking his prey
Brown knee length socks...sandals.. handlebar moustache and a monocle "
With suitable headwear too |
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"I never had a problem meeting in Aberdeen, when I was meeting. In fact, it was probly one of my happiest 'hunting grounds'!!
However, it has one distinction, it was the place where I had my one and only 'no show'!
It's Aiberdeen Bothy, no the Serengeti!!
Can just imagine him in safari suit stalking his prey
Brown knee length socks...sandals.. handlebar moustache and a monocle
With suitable headwear too "
Got to be a pith helmet |
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"Oh very droll you pair, is it laugh at Bothy night???
Yep... Wee pet!! xxx
I'll wee pet you, you're supposed to be no weel. More like malingering!  "
Excuse me, George of the Jungle, I'm proper no weel. With knobs on! I'm sure it's a reaction to that tranquilliser dart I got stung with up north!   |
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"Oh very droll you pair, is it laugh at Bothy night???
Yep... Wee pet!! xxx
I'll wee pet you, you're supposed to be no weel. More like malingering!
Excuse me, George of the Jungle, I'm proper no weel. With knobs on! I'm sure it's a reaction to that tranquilliser dart I got stung with up north! "
In your BFA?? |
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"Oh very droll you pair, is it laugh at Bothy night???
Yep... Wee pet!! xxx
I'll wee pet you, you're supposed to be no weel. More like malingering!
Excuse me, George of the Jungle, I'm proper no weel. With knobs on! I'm sure it's a reaction to that tranquilliser dart I got stung with up north!
In your BFA?? "
Beautiful foof area ? |
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"Oh very droll you pair, is it laugh at Bothy night???
Yep... Wee pet!! xxx
I'll wee pet you, you're supposed to be no weel. More like malingering!
Excuse me, George of the Jungle, I'm proper no weel. With knobs on! I'm sure it's a reaction to that tranquilliser dart I got stung with up north!
In your BFA??
Beautiful foof area ? "
Nice try Steph. I think Mr Charm means "Big Fat Arse"!!! |
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By *wiftieeMan
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"Oh very droll you pair, is it laugh at Bothy night???
Yep... Wee pet!! xxx
I'll wee pet you, you're supposed to be no weel. More like malingering!
Excuse me, George of the Jungle, I'm proper no weel. With knobs on! I'm sure it's a reaction to that tranquilliser dart I got stung with up north!
In your BFA??
Beautiful foof area ?
Nice try Steph. I think Mr Charm means "Big Fat Arse"!!! "
Mr Charm? I think I like that ! |
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"Oh very droll you pair, is it laugh at Bothy night???
Yep... Wee pet!! xxx
I'll wee pet you, you're supposed to be no weel. More like malingering!
Excuse me, George of the Jungle, I'm proper no weel. With knobs on! I'm sure it's a reaction to that tranquilliser dart I got stung with up north!
In your BFA??
Beautiful foof area ?
Nice try Steph. I think Mr Charm means "Big Fat Arse"!!!
Mr Charm? I think I like that ! "
Yer to auld to be Prince Charming |
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"Plenty of life in the auld dog yet, thank you!! 
Woof!!!!
More than can be said for you!!
True! I need the kiss of life. Any offers????
NOPE!! "
I'll remember that!!!!
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"Plenty of life in the auld dog yet, thank you!!
Woof!!!!
More than can be said for you!!
True! I need the kiss of life. Any offers???? "
Kiss versus norovirus ? Difficult choice . It'll take 48 hrs till I get there with the kiss |
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I don't really think it's about location, ofcourse the ratios of those willing to meet guys and such like will alter slightly from city to city but I genuinely think you get out of fab what you put into it.
I love Aberdeen, love my life in the city.
Adventure is out there!!! (I stole this from up) |
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"I don't really think it's about location, ofcourse the ratios of those willing to meet guys and such like will alter slightly from city to city but I genuinely think you get out of fab what you put into it.
I love Aberdeen, love my life in the city.
Adventure is out there!!! (I stole this from up)"
Amen to that!  |
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